Medellin Chit Chat Thread

[CowboyCheeba]

Hey guys first time going to MDE and CTG and have been reading a lot, but still had some curiosities.

I have read some guys post about these IG girls, and known models that usually ask 800 K to 1 million COP to see them.

Basically what's the best approach to find such girls? And has anybody had direct experience like this?

I'm willing to go quality over quantity so I want to make sure I know the possibilities.

Also how is mileroticos vs going to La Islas or Fase Dos -- I've tried to get some facebook activity going, but honestly so many profiles seems fake, not sure if that's the best route.

I whatsapped through a couple listings on mileroticos and was provided a simple menu of what's on the table. 320 K for "domicilio" which I assume is at my hotel.

Thanks for any help and feel free to inbox me!

[Gabacho]

TTM, I was trying to send you a private message but it says your inbox is full, so I'm going to copy and paste the message here in hopes that you see it LOL:

I know this is probably a long shot, but would you happen to be the same tall dude with gray hair that I met a couple times on separate occasions a year or two apart while having breakfast at the little hole in the wall breakfast place in Tijuana on Calle 4 ta and Revolution?

I know it's probably not you, but I've been wondering. I forget the guy's name but he always use to tell me about Colombia and Medellin and how it was so much better than Mexico LOL. This was like in 2016-17 ish while I was living in Tijuana before I started coming to Colombia.

Anyways if it's not you, my apologies.

I'm currently in Bogota but I'm going to head out either tonight or early tomorrow to check out the street meat in Pereira and then back home to Medellin.

Gabacho.

[TjBrazil]

New Life used to be one of the go to places but for quite a while now those guys of a certain persuasion that travel in groups of 5 and more think it is a place to hang out and drink for hours and talking loud and laugh like hyenas while everyone else just wants to come and get laid.

These guys seem to know how to ruin a good thing anywhere.

Ask Walmart Walgreens cvs and all the other places that have to close now because of their retail theft.

[SubCmdr]

If a girl is going to the salon and asks you what color you want for her nails, that is respect! And mutual respect is the base of all quality relationships.

[MongerHunger]

New Life used to be one of the go to places but for quite a while now those guys of a certain persuasion that travel in groups of 5 and more think it is a place to hang out and drink for hours and talking loud and laugh like hyenas while everyone else just wants to come and get laid.

These guys seem to know how to ruin a good thing anywhere.

Never had that problem at New Life and hope to never encounter that.

[Rover2]

It's daytime hoar house serving alcohol and catering mainly to gringos not a church.

I do mind though when the loud Bros stay in my building and make a lot of noise late at night, having damn loud conversations in the hallways. Yes, we now all now you are from Miami and you are from Las Vegas and you don't give a fuck and how great it was in la Isla last night. But bro, normal people fucking live here. Keep it on the down low, bro. Even the dogs are asleep now bro. And chill the fuck out bro. We're all happy you finally fucked bro, but bro, was that really a reason to wake everyone up on Tuesday night, bro. Dafuk yall even doing here anyways, it's long fucking way from Poblado, bros. Are the prices there to damn high bro? Dang. Bro.

Yes it is always the same sh-t conversation all day long "how dangerous their hood is". Why they think anyone gives a sh-t or why they feel compelled to announce it to the world all day everyday will remain one of lifes mysteries.

You don't have to be their for hours to know they are because every time you go they are there.

It gets tiring real quick for both customers and chicas having to ask them to repeat their names because the hyenas are talking and laughing so loud.

Chicas are now complaining about it because every time they line up and present themselves these dudes think they are there because they want to talk to them.

Incredible.

[JohnnieCash]

Let me ask you a question JC: Have you ever complained to anyone that can actually do something about the problems you outline here? Like call the police? Report them to your landlord? Report them to building security? Confront them directly like a real man? Since they are your brothers even if you don't get along with your family you should be able to talk to them. LOL!

I don't have those sorts of problems in the building I stay in when I am in Medellin near any of the many apartments I have available to me. Maybe I am just operating on a higher level even though I am new to Medellin?

Right, like I'm going to crawl out of my bed in the middle of the night, light up the place, dress up, and go out to get into arguments with bunch of obnoxious drunks. No thanks, good luck getting back to sleep after that. Sleep is my priority. After they informed everyone about their achievements and how great they are I was able to get back to my slumber anyway.

I'm sure if I was pissed enough it would provide a good motivation to do all that, but all arguments I have at my place is a broom stick at this point anyway.

But it thank my lucky starts they moved out right after that and it's back to normal since. Never been a problem with other airbb residents that stayed in the building somehow. Although they haven't probably been a sex tourists party types (got to start my own 'no sex tourists welcome' poster campaign in the building I guess LOL). But if it would be a repeated pattern of interruption of my sleep then you can bet your ass I'd try to do something about it, since I really really (really) hate not getting my sleep, whole damn day ruined.

As for all the 'bros' in my previous post I was paraphrasing how they talked to eachother.

And to think I held the front door open one of them to help move in his bags, we chatted a bit and he seemed cool and didn't even 'bro'd' me much. Must be a group situation that changes all that. Well next time I'll try to hold the door shut.

[SubCmdr]

It's daytime hoar house serving alcohol and catering mainly to gringos not a church.

I do mind though when the loud Bros stay in my building and make a lot of noise late at night, having damn loud conversations in the hallways. Yes, we now all now you are from Miami and you are from Las Vegas and you don't give a fuck and how great it was in la Isla last night. But bro, normal people fucking live here. Keep it on the down low, bro. Even the dogs are asleep now bro. And chill the fuck out bro. We're all happy you finally fucked bro, but bro, was that really a reason to wake everyone up on Tuesday night, bro. Dafuk yall even doing here anyways, it's long fucking way from Poblado, bros. Are the prices there to damn high bro? Dang. Bro.

Let me ask you a question JC: Have you ever complained to anyone that can actually do something about the problems you outline here? Like call the police? Report them to your landlord? Report them to building security? Confront them directly like a real man? Since they are your brothers even if you don't get along with your family you should be able to talk to them. LOL!

I don't have those sorts of problems in the building I stay in when I am in Medellin near any of the many apartments I have available to me. Maybe I am just operating on a higher level even though I am new to Medellin?

[JohnnieCash]

New Life used to be one of the go to places but for quite a while now those guys of a certain persuasion that travel in groups of 5 and more think it is a place to hang out and drink for hours and talking loud and laugh like hyenas while everyone else just wants to come and get laid.

These guys seem to know how to ruin a good thing anywhere.

It's daytime hoar house serving alcohol and catering mainly to gringos not a church.

I do mind though when the loud Bros stay in my building and make a lot of noise late at night, having damn loud conversations in the hallways. Yes, we now all now you are from Miami and you are from Las Vegas and you don't give a fuck and how great it was in la Isla last night. But bro, normal people fucking live here. Keep it on the down low, bro. Even the dogs are asleep now bro. And chill the fuck out bro. We're all happy you finally fucked bro, but bro, was that really a reason to wake everyone up on Tuesday night, bro. Dafuk yall even doing here anyways, it's long fucking way from Poblado, bros. Are the prices there to damn high bro? Dang. Bro.

[JjBee62]

New Life used to be one of the go to places but for quite a while now those guys of a certain persuasion that travel in groups of 5 and more think it is a place to hang out and drink for hours and talking loud and laugh like hyenas while everyone else just wants to come and get laid.

These guys seem to know how to ruin a good thing anywhere.

Can you elaborate? Is this something special kind of code? Why are you hanging out for hours at New Life to verify that "guys of a certain persuasion" are hanging out there for hours? What does "of a certain persuasion" even mean? And if you're just there to get laid, why do you care what other people are doing in the waiting area? Go in, get a lineup, pick a girl and go get laid.

New Life, along with most of the better known casas have long been places where you were likely to encounter noisy foreigners. Many of the regular casa visitors avoid New Life because it seems to be the goto for the newbies.

[Rover2]

New Life used to be one of the go to places but for quite a while now those guys of a certain persuasion that travel in groups of 5 and more think it is a place to hang out and drink for hours and talking loud and laugh like hyenas while everyone else just wants to come and get laid.

These guys seem to know how to ruin a good thing anywhere.

[SubCmdr]

Marriage: the relationship sanctioned by every society in the world. Involves the man giving money to the girl (with a few exceptions). I live in the reality of the real world. Not a fantasy world. And I will just leave it at that. Lastly, I do not care how anyone posting on this board get their girls. But money is involved. You can count on it!

Let's say I take a girl on vacation. I pay for the entire vacation. We have sex during the vacation. Was that free sex? Or was that paid sex? Enquiring minds want to know.

[SubCmdr]

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[SubCmdr]

But it leaves me thinking that these distinctions between pro and non-pro, and girlfriend versus whatever are all unique and all relative and yes, most of these girls need money for their kids and lives, but also some of them are truly liberated women and if you think about it not that different than mongers. They have rejected the monogamous role of faithful wife in the house, and will graze in the pastures of having lovers or contributors that help them on their way, but these people do not in any way own them. I guess I have called that "pro" but perhaps I should have clarified that it is not a negative necessarily.

I am in 100% agreement with you on this. I have had this exact discussion with many girls. And they say the exact same thing. They don't want to be owned. In my experiences all relationships last only as long as both people get up and say yes. The moment one person says no, the relationship ends. Girls in the 20's still have hope. As they approach 25 -27 they start getting desperate to find their mate (as defined by the society they are in). After that they are washed up. They have tried for the approved societal relationships and failed to achieve them. Or they didn't last. Now they are being practical. That is why I ask girls I am interested in what their objectives are. I have just as much right as they do to reject them if they are not looking for the same type of relationship I am.

[Villainy]

Fair responses and I appreciate them. I am in my low 70's. I am fit, been told I am attractive, I communicate reasonably well in Spanish, and I am single. Divorced. I have been in a relationship where I don't doubt that the gal liked me, and certainly there was sexual chemistry for both of us. But she was not really interested in a future together other than one that looked a lot like a ho-customer relationship. So it was a bit hard for me to figure it out. I was ready to make her the one and only and help her along the way for a while, but I realized I was basically just a client, albeit an important one financially for a time. I don't particularly regret having helped her along the way as the money part is transient and I can't take it with me, and in a way I don't think she really set out to rip me off. She never really made any future suggestions nor would she even respond to hints that I might like a future together. I just think she was in a position where she saw she could only lose my support by telling me that she was not really keen on a future together, and she was also not keen on losing her support of other patrons and customers. And I can't really blame her for that. Anyway. I'll be fine.

But it leaves me thinking that these distinctions between pro and non-pro, and girlfriend versus whatever are all unique and all relative and yes, most of these girls need money for their kids and lives, but also some of them are truly liberated women and if you think about it not that different than mongers. They have rejected the monogamous role of faithful wife in the house, and will graze in the pastures of having lovers or contributors that help them on their way, but these people do not in any way own them. I guess I have called that "pro" but perhaps I should have clarified that it is not a negative necessarily.

Allow me to share a few other insights. First of all the woman you were "dating" was worried about losing the support of other patrons and customers. So, I think we can safely say she is a "pro" (a woman who makes her living renting her body") as opposed to a semi-pro who is far more selective and has a job or other support (possibly family) and only sees men she either likes or is attracted to and does this to augment her income. A non-pro is a little more nebulous. She might have friends who are semi-pros and she is emboldened to try it herself. She doesn't know what to do or how to do it or any of that. A good portion of the time she sees a man as a good provider, and a good person and she is interested in dating him. Sure she would like his help from time to time when she needs it but that is kind of normal in society. The fact that he might be older isn't really that important. After all her cousin Maria Camila (there are at least 500,000 Maria Camilas) married a widower who was 40 years older than her and they are happy together. (he is Colombian BTW).

I have a friend who lives here. He is mid-70's in decent shape and not exactly a Sean Connery look alike. He started dating Colombian women but chose women who were in their late 30's and 40's. He found that a number of these women are still very attractive (in other words they took care of themselves) and culturally they are the forgotten ones. Women who hit 30 are kind of supposed to be married or permanently off the market. Since Colombian men like their women young and beautiful these women aren't getting a lot of attention and my friend was scoring up more dates than he could handle. He found a woman in her late 40's and they have been together over 2 years now. She works and they are together most evenings and weekends. Might not be what you were thinking of for yourself but just a thought that bears consideration.

One other tidbit. Colombian women (especially paisas) are disinclined to tell you "NO" if you ask something that they don't really want to be involved with. The standard responses are: (A) Just ignore the question / offer and maybe he will forget it too. (B) Say "Yes" to be agreeable but she won't follow through at all and will stall or resist if you bring it up again.

Saying "NO" is by far the rarest response in the situation I mentioned. She would have to have a strong personality or be very confident in her 'grip' on your friendship (manhood jajaja). It just isn't their custom to respond negatively to a request.

Oddly enough, she absolutely will NOT see it the same way in the other direction. If you tell her you will do something she will verbally beat the living sh*t out of you if you don't live up to your promise.

I hope those insights are either of value or at least interesting.