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[Want More]

On Mawgan report. One thing I forgot to mention in my vetting process, anyone who doesn't have a clear head photo it out. It is a sure sign of GPS and problems coming your way soon. Same if she makes you work for her photos.

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Someone needs to put up a How-to snag a Indian SB on this board. LOL.

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Hi Wantmore,

I have been a great fan of you. Been reading the forum for a while and started Sugaring. Lovely suggestion. It's sometimes great and sometimes not worth. As said by our fellows, there are women who think they are princess who is not worth looking at. I have tried few Pakis, a middle eastern and CIS. They are all great. Will keep posting reports soon.

Wow!

I didn't realise that there were more than 5 people reading this. I am pretty excited about it.

Yeah, lots of princesses.

Paki is pretty rare but it seems everyone other than me has had some Desi stashed away. LOL!

[FunAtDxb]

Hi Wantmore,

I have been a great fan of you. Been reading the forum for a while and started Sugaring. Lovely suggestion. It's sometimes great and sometimes not worth. As said by our fellows, there are women who think they are princess who is not worth looking at. I have tried few Pakis, a middle eastern and CIS. They are all great. Will keep posting reports soon.

In other news, my long standing SB Coco is going away for around a month. So I am back on the lookout for another suitable match. After 1 day of work, have a shortlist of one European who has recently moved to uae for a hotel job and a North African Arab and a pretty exotic mix. These are younger than my usual age range but whatsapp has been really great. From Sunday onwards have a meeting every other day.

Will keep all you gents updated.

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In other news, my long standing SB Coco is going away for around a month. So I am back on the lookout for another suitable match. After 1 day of work, have a shortlist of one European who has recently moved to uae for a hotel job and a North African Arab and a pretty exotic mix. These are younger than my usual age range but whatsapp has been really great. From Sunday onwards have a meeting every other day.

Will keep all you gents updated.

[Want More]

Promised a few ideas, so here goes.

I am not going to fly someone in I've never met before for a first time. I'm unlikely to be able to spend more than a couple of days together easily, so f

Anyone with 'I know my worth / I'm a princess' etc etc, I avoid; similarly any ridiculous levels of gifts,may get less of a deal in return as she will feel cheated.

Anyone with no photos or only one, no matter how nice, I'll avoid

I typically check the photos against tineye or google reverse image search and google the phone number; picked up I was chatting to a girl from MR 18 months ago that way and I saved myself to cost of dinner before I banged her anyway.

We all know why we are here, but if she's too overt too quickly about sex then that for me is a no-go, I. E. A price ppm for 2 hours good time

I do tend to filter out anyone looking for platonic / monogamous relationships and select in FWB, NSA etc, but not usually all of them at once.

Ideal first date would be a quick coffee or lunch close to work during the week or a late breakfast / early light lunch on a weekend, (not a Dubai brunch) for those sufficiently flirty and who I think I can take home easily for desert. For dinner dates, I always avoid the high end restaurants; too many people

What a superb report. Absolutely perfect Pointer and a must read for everyone who uses SA.

I agree with the stuff about Princess, know my worth and will also add 'don't waste me time' crowd to this mix. Platonic is out of course. Am too horny to hold hands only.

Great tip on checking the photos and the numbers. I have not done it but will add this to my vetting method.

I am so glad that you follow the discreet restaurants and lunch method also. It works perfectly well.

Thanks man for sharing your secrets with us. Can we pursuade King Alex and Oil Rich to share their secrets with us also please.

[Mawgan]

Promised a few ideas, so here goes.

Its easier to say what I would avoid than what I follow up. Firstly, (particularly now), anyone not currently in Dubai. In the past I have started negotiations with a couple of girls that are based elsewhere, but I'm not going to fly someone in I've never met before for a first time. I'm unlikely to be able to spend more than a couple of days together easily, so for me that's just not economical. Investigated the idea of travelgirls and another agency I can't now remember, but I don't see the ROI.

Anyone with 'I know my worth / I'm a princess' etc etc, I avoid; similarly any ridiculous levels of gifts, (best way to describe in my experience) I'm not going to negotiate down or if I do, I may get less of a deal in return as she will feel cheated. I personally hate pouty / duckface looks and so that's a non-starter. Anyone with no photos or only one, no matter how nice, I'll avoid. I don't mind professional shots, but I'd much prefer to see a real one as a selfie. I typically check the photos against tineye or google reverse image search and google the phone number; picked up I was chatting to a girl from MR 18 months ago that way and I saved myself to cost of dinner before I banged her anyway. I tend to only initiate conversations with girls I could see myself dating and I have a lower age limit of about 25, which is pushing it a bit in fairness these days. We all know why we are here, but if she's too overt too quickly about sex then that for me is a no-go, I. E. A price ppm for 2 hours good time sex at my place in her first message. Hey, I'm not that easy. I do tend to filter out anyone looking for platonic / monogamous relationships and select in FWB, NSA etc, but not usually all of them at once.

Ideal first date would be a quick coffee or lunch close to work during the week or a late breakfast / early light lunch on a weekend, (not a Dubai brunch) for those sufficiently flirty and who I think I can take home easily for desert. For dinner dates, I always avoid the high end restaurants; too many people I may know asking awkward questions as that's more for client entertaining. Mid week is generally better than weekends for the same reason I avoid the top end restaurants. I do fine dining, but having had the experience of one potential who turned up looking like a hooker, I reserve those sorts of dates for someone I've met before or am pretty comfortable will be classy, elegant and subtle, (at least until doors are closed). I don't have any specific type; I know its a cliche, but a degree of chemistry is important; if we can't communicate socially, its going to not last long.

[Mawgan]

Promised a few ideas, so here goes.

Its easier to say what I would avoid than what I follow up. Firstly, (particularly now), anyone not currently in Dubai. In the past I have started negotiations with a couple of girls that are based elsewhere, but I'm not going to fly someone in I've never met before for a first time. I'm unlikely to be able to spend more than a couple of days together easily, so for me that's just not economical. Investigated the idea of travelgirls and another agency I can't now remember, but I don't see the ROI.

Anyone with 'I know my worth / I'm a princess' etc etc, I avoid; similarly any ridiculous levels of gifts, (best way to describe in my experience) I'm not going to negotiate down or if I do, I may get less of a deal in return as she will feel cheated. I personally hate pouty / duckface looks and so that's a non-starter. Anyone with no photos or only one, no matter how nice, I'll avoid. I don't mind professional shots, but I'd much prefer to see a real one as a selfie. I typically check the photos against tineye or google reverse image search and google the phone number; picked up I was chatting to a girl from MR 18 months ago that way and I saved myself to cost of dinner before I banged her anyway. I tend to only initiate conversations with girls I could see myself dating and I have a lower age limit of about 25, which is pushing it a bit in fairness these days. We all know why we are here, but if she's too overt too quickly about sex then that for me is a no-go, I. E. A price ppm for 2 hours good time sex at my place in her first message. Hey, I'm not that easy. I do tend to filter out anyone looking for platonic / monogamous relationships and select in FWB, NSA etc, but not usually all of them at once.

Ideal first date would be a quick coffee or lunch close to work during the week or a late breakfast / early light lunch on a weekend, (not a Dubai brunch) for those sufficiently flirty and who I think I can take home easily for desert. For dinner dates, I always avoid the high end restaurants; too many people I may know asking awkward questions as that's more for client entertaining. Mid week is generally better than weekends for the same reason I avoid the top end restaurants. I do fine dining, but having had the experience of one potential who turned up looking like a hooker, I reserve those sorts of dates for someone I've met before or am pretty comfortable will be classy, elegant and subtle, (at least until doors are closed). I don't have any specific type; I know its a cliché, but a degree of chemistry is important; if we can't communicate socially, its going to not last long.

[Want More]

Good tips, I don't know what gave you the impression that I am stressing it's just that I like to do my homework and this is useful information for all of us who did not venture in this scene yet. Worse comes to worse, there's still an AMP with a gem a 20rr minutes ride away ready to release all. That stress. LOL. Thanks also to Steve for his view, kind of very similar on my view on the matter.

Stay safe.

Dude, don't take it that way just a figure of speech. Let the pretty girl have a dinner with us, if she does want to come to bed plenty of others will take care of Jonny boy. 😂.

[Plush Tiger]

Don't stress about this man. Even if she eats and drink your dime, big deal. These girls hardly eat anything anyways. Worst case you enjoyed the meal and had to call Russian Angels.
My intention is always to have us in the room before 4 if all works well.

Good tips, I don't know what gave you the impression that I am stressing it's just that I like to do my homework and this is useful information for all of us who did not venture in this scene yet. Worse comes to worse, there's still an AMP with a gem a 20 minutes ride away ready to release all. That stress. LOL. Thanks also to Steve for his view, kind of very similar on my view on the matter.

Stay safe.

[Joe Karnavic]

Clearly tailored recommendations for the region are found here but a lot of your general questions are better answered on the lively Seeking Arrangements forum found here:
http://www.internationalsexguide.nl/...658&viewfull=1#post2533658.
I just posted a guide for Newbies also that you may find useful.

Great to see you Steve. Thanks for sharing your experience for all of us. Hope your adventures continue as before except maybe you are unable to travel to your favorite Latina pussyland. Our Japanese beauty keeps in touch from Okinawa. I can never thank you enough Steve for guiding me to choose the best one. It was memorable.

[Want More]

Clearly tailored recommendations for the region are found here but a lot of your general questions are better answered on the lively Seeking Arrangements forum found here:

http://www.internationalsexguide.nl/...658&viewfull=1#post2533658.

I just posted a guide for Newbies also that you may find useful.

Very good note for Newbie Steve!

[Steve 9696]

My main concern as I said was that I thought if offer to pay by the hour or meet, it might end up in offending her, as she many would say they are not WG / P4P kind of providers and then you risk paying a few reds and a dinner and go home alone (LOL). There's an ambiguous part where sex is expected but not guaranteed. How do you spot those who just come get paid for their time, get wined and dined to kiss you goodbye when the clock strikes twelve. Where I spend my twenties it the "friends without benefits" phenomenon was well known and you had all this beautiful creatures who would spend their time catching hapless suckers who would invite them to shows, restaurants etc. Without scoring. And I imagine the same happens with some SB hence my questions.

Clearly tailored recommendations for the region are found here but a lot of your general questions are better answered on the lively Seeking Arrangements forum found here:

http://www.internationalsexguide.nl/...658&viewfull=1#post2533658.

I just posted a guide for Newbies also that you may find useful.

[Want More]

My main concern as I said was that I thought if offer to pay by the hour or meet, it might end up in offending her, as she many would say they are not WG / P4P kind of providers and then you risk paying a few reds and a dinner and go home alone (LOL). There's an ambiguous part where sex is expected but not guaranteed. How do you spot those who just come get paid for their time, get wined and dined to kiss you goodbye when the clock strikes twelve. Where I spend my twenties it the "friends without benefits" phenomenon was well known and you had all this beautiful creatures who would spend their time catching hapless suckers who would invite them to shows, restaurants etc. Without scoring. And I imagine the same happens with some SB hence my questions.

Don't stress about this man. Even if she eats and drink your dime, big deal. These girls hardly eat anything anyways. Worst case you enjoyed the meal and had to call Russian Angels.

I have had a few meets where the girl was so boring / on the phone / just arrogant that I could not wait to get out of there. I got accused of wasting her time, scamming her to enjoy her company for a meal. It gets even worse when I tell them the real reason in the politess possible way that she is just far too boring or she was always on her phone and I didn't enjoy her company in the least bit.

I never pay her anything for the first lunch meet (ex taxi and stuff) and the allowance is already agreed on whatsapp. Last thing I want to do when I am horny is to negotiate, all I want to do is get into those sweet panties. I have never understood why a girl would want an allowance for the first meet and greet. That meeting is to see whether an arrangement can be set up in the first place.

My intention is always to have us in the room before 4 if all works well.

One caveat on my comments. Given my inclination for sticking to the same SB for months on end, my experience is not as extensive in the first meeting dynamics compared to those who look at this as a one time deal. In Coco case, we have not discussed amounts at all for a very long time. By last negotiation on price was month ago when I was setting up a week visit for a client which I have written about.

[Plush Tiger]

Gosh, I have never thought at this level of detail. You are way over thinking this. It's not a complex deal which requires so much thought. I have a certain number in mind and that's what I got with. If it works for her than great, else we move on. I do not negotiate. For the first few meets will pay that number divided by 4 but mostly after the second meeting just pay her the entire monthly amount. Don't have specific hours in mind ever. Mostly it ends up as weekly meetings, some of those are overnight. With Corona, overnight has become more of a norm.

My main concern as I said was that I thought if offer to pay by the hour or meet, it might end up in offending her, as she many would say they are not WG / P4P kind of providers and then you risk paying a few reds and a dinner and go home alone (LOL). There's an ambiguous part where sex is expected but not guaranteed. How do you spot those who just come get paid for their time, get wined and dined to kiss you goodbye when the clock strikes twelve. Where I spend my twenties it the "friends without benefits" phenomenon was well known and you had all this beautiful creatures who would spend their time catching hapless suckers who would invite them to shows, restaurants etc. Without scoring. And I imagine the same happens with some SB hence my questions.