Sugar Life

[Kaauh]

I like your style DP. This has also worked well for me too (in the past). P / T FL or just wannabe SB's are invariably the most fun girls to fuck. They aren't jaded about sex in the least and are genuinely happy to fuck a guy whole takes a little care of them and makes their life easier. Finding the younger and highly fuckable Pinays can be a challenge though. I struck gold in AUH three or four years back with a 24 yr old Pinay who was working as an admin for a PRO company and needed some extra cash. See red hair girl below. She is half Filipina and half Japanese and looked sensational.

Such a shame I can't manage a SD arrangement with my personal commitments, the redhead looks sensational. Good on you mate.

[Clam Hunter]

I always look for new in town when searching on seeking. And start conversations. Move to Tel or Whatsapp.

Recently had 2 pinays! Newly landed. They are more in to getting them around, supporting them moving to small shared places etc. But overall, when it comes to the deed, they are really thankful and did the job really well.

Last year picked up 3 KK chics on holiday here mid 20's, I think I was the first and only one they met. Agreed 5 reds per day, and had all 3 back to back. It was lot of fun.

When it comes to SA, its luck, and how you deal with them. There are still lot of GPS out there and many scammers. For example, there is a network of ebony scam around Sport City area. Be careful of those.

I like your style DP. This has also worked well for me too (in the past). P / T FL or just wannabe SB's are invariably the most fun girls to fuck. They aren't jaded about sex in the least and are genuinely happy to fuck a guy whole takes a little care of them and makes their life easier. Finding the younger and highly fuckable Pinays can be a challenge though. I struck gold in AUH three or four years back with a 24 yr old Pinay who was working as an admin for a PRO company and needed some extra cash. See red hair girl below. She is half Filipina and half Japanese and looked sensational. I helped her change jobs and she still messages me today for meet ups. No question of money being required to change hands, just genuinely grateful that I assisted in a life changing move for her. In any event I always give her something (for her family). She needs an SD in AUH at the moment.

If only I could find something similar in DXB. I have become more forward of late and recently just handed this gorgeous, tiny 22-23 yr old Pinay my business card and asked her to message me and 'go for coffee'. No reply as yet but she was just too hot to pass by. Tried SA a year or so ago and had little joy TBH.

I have messaged a lovely late twenties Pinay (who has just returned from a visit home) where the Pinay bar scene in DXB now exists. On the right of the picture below. I met her in Ratsky and we fucked a couple of times and then again later with her friend for a weekend hotel / pool retreat. Sensational. These girls are looking for an SD at the moment.

[Joe Karnavic]

I always look for new in town when searching on seeking. And start conversations. Move to Tel or Whatsapp.
Recently had 2 pinays! Newly landed. They are more in to getting them around, supporting them moving to small shared places etc. But overall, when it comes to the deed, they are really thankful and did the job really well.
When it comes to SA, its luck, and how you deal with them. There are still lot of GPS out there and many scammers. For example, there is a network of ebony scam around Sport City area. Be careful of those.

Good to know that you found Pinays on SA. In olden days places like Ratsky was full of Filis. Some of them were very nice. Sad to see that Ratsky is taken over by Viets. I like Viets but they are more businesslike. Pinays on other hand are more friendly. Great in bed and can hold good conversation. Only thing you need to manage is their constant demand of small money. Wicked Roger was master when it comes to Pinays. I remember we went together to Ratsky and had some lovely bunch around us. WR had contacts with girls in Filipino bands. They will only come to you if WR puts in the word.

Now all of the Ratsky crowd has gone somewhere. You will find them on social media like Tinder SA etc. But difficult to find them in any clubs. Many of WR's friends when they travel ask me about Pinays and I have no contact to give them. I think I need to go on Pinay hunt again. Need to look at Manila 21 or such bars in Rigga and create a pool of Fili talent. Any contribution from the forum is welcome LOL. You can send PM. It will be only shared with known seniors and contributors if they have Fili etch.

[DonPatrick]

I always look for new in town when searching on seeking. And start conversations. Move to Tel or Whatsapp.

Recently had 2 pinays! Newly landed. They are more in to getting them around, supporting them moving to small shared places etc. But overall, when it comes to the deed, they are really thankful and did the job really well.

Keeping one as regular and she was okay for longterm and is okay to be on pill. We both did STI check and agreed to go raw going forward.

Damage: 500 PPM, meet few times a week and monthly cap is set to 4 K I like it this way.

Most Asians who working here and looking for SD, if you can match up their monthly pay on day job with allowances, they do a great job. I sometimes had her over every day, and she was very happy.

Last year picked up 3 KK chics on holiday here mid 20's, I think I was the first and only one they met. Agreed 5 reds per day, and had all 3 back to back. It was lot of fun.

When it comes to SA, its luck, and how you deal with them. There are still lot of GPS out there and many scammers. For example, there is a network of ebony scam around Sport City area. Be careful of those.

[Rakshas]

Hey guys so this is my first post on the arrangement section. I will try to post as much information on my experience as possible. I do need advice from more experienced people in this game as I am in a bit of predicament. Anyway got on seeking beginning of this year and I meet this gorgeous Brazilian girl. We negotiate on 2000 ppm. We have a great night together and in my drunken state I start telling her I want a real relationship and I don't want to pay for dates etc. She says she is a good girl and wants the same thing. I don't really believe her bla bla. Anyway I message her a couple of days later to meet up she respond saying she knows she said she would meet for free but wants paid dates she said she would meet for less money just wants to be taken care of as she has no income. I told her I am under no illusions here. On our second date she tells me how she came to dubai. She met a guy through a mutual friend in Dubai. They talked for a bit before he flew her out here and out her up in an apartment. (nice luxurious place in Marina) he gave her 30000 aed a month spending money but she broke up with him after 8 months when he disappeared on her and she found it he was married. He still pays for her place as she thinks he is scared she will tell his wife. I knew she is out of my budget so I planned to ghost her after this meeting. We part ways and she texts me asking me to go to Rome with her the next day. She has to leave to renew her visa and booked the cheapest ticket. I obviously decline I can't just pack up and leave on a days notice. Anyway while on her trip she messages me asking to pay her visa guy cash as he doesn't take card. I choose to ignore the message. After two weeks she messages me again say she is back in dubai and asking how I am. I respond to her telling her I don't want a paid relationship I am relatively young (early 30's) looking for a real relationship so I don't think it will work out between us. She doesn't respond. A couple days later I am having a few drinks and get in the mood for a late night fun. I send her a message at 12:00 am asking if she is up and wants to go for a drink. She instantly responds saying she is so happy I messaged. We go for a drink and then she takes me back to my place where we have unprotected sex (stupid I know) . I leave early without waking her as I have an early morning meeting. She however messages pretty angry for not waking her and demands the pill and an std test. I am happy to oblige as this will help me relax on two fronts. We go out and get the tests done. Both negative thanks god. We go for dinner after tons of pda etc. I have work in the morning so drop her off at her place despite her begging me to come up. She messages me saying she really likes. The next day she does a complete 180 saying how she really likes me and has enjoyed our time together but she has to end things as she needs a paid relationship as she no source income. She doesn't want to see men behind my back so doesn't think it will work out with us. She really is sorry. Which I respond "No worries and all the best". She again says sorry and that's that. She messages me the next day saying Hello,. I say Hello,. She asks if there is anyway I can look after her as she doesn't want to see other men just me. I think for a second and say okay I can offer 10000 aed a month. She agrees instantly. Fast forward 10-15 days we spend literally every night together. Sometimes at my place sometimes at hers (paid for by her ex). She cleans my apartment and cooks for me. Though there is a gap of two days where I am busy so I don't spend time with her. She is showing me her photos and I see that she was at ce la vie night club on one of the days. I lose my shit with her saying I am having unprotected sex with you everyday you better not be hooking up with anyone on the side. She swears she isn't. Saying the she is invited often to clubs by this lifestyle group where girls get free food and drinks. Party groups but I am assuming these groups work by bring pretty girls to guys paying for a fun night. I tell her I don't tolerate that shit. If she wants to go to the clubs without me she can't be with me. She swears she won't go. Though her going and not telling me certainly did bring up a red flag. She says stuff like wants to marry and she is definitely a 9 out of 10. Extremely attractive. I stay at her place and I see all the bags and stuff her ex gave her. In fact she gave me 2000 dollars sunglasses that her ex had given her saying they are too masculine. I have made it clear to her that I am not as rich as the ex and even if I become that rich I do not plan to spend my money so frivolously. Yet, she seems happy to be with me. As long as there is a promise for the future. I am confused? Have any people more experienced with these types of relationships had experience with things turning real. I give her so little compared to her previous relationship. Yet she seems to like me. Do girls do this hook you. I am worried I might be part of some long con here. Advice if people have been similar situations where things seem to be turning into real feelings. Or should I just be smart and bail on this whole situation. Sorry for the grammar and lack of proof reading. Just typed this on my phone.

Bro, hope you will accept this piece of advice from an old timer who's been at p4 p for over 30 years. Loneliness, great sex and a hottie who is out of your league are easy pitfalls into first becoming a sugar daddy and second falling in love with a WG. Especially for someone as young as you maybe with not a lot of experience in this hobby. Most of us can separate Love and Sex in our normal life but a real relationship requires Trust, then Love and Sex go together. Your walking out on her at the first sign of trouble was your brain telling you to protect yourself. But your genitals pushed you back to her. IMO you're already too deep and you must choose. You can stay with her but, not just to be contrary, relationships with WGs rarely work. The fact that she offers sex / companionship for money is itself a red flag. It will only last as long as you support her. Even if she does like you she will still look for comfort if you cannot provide (enough) for her (the club outing?) and you will be in a worse position than now. A 'normal' woman who will share your ups and downs and be a true companion is hard to find but when you find her (and she doesn't have to be a 10) you'll find that the happiness, the Love and the Sex are a lot more rewarding. You are probably asking yourself why I'm writing this. I p4 p'd in my mid 20's to mid 30's (trophy hunting, 9's and 10's when I'm barely a 6) and then I met a wonderful woman who gave me everything I needed. Still I couldn't shake off the younger 9's and 10's that I'd p4 p on my travels. This led to the breakdown of my relationship. I now p4 p for Sex more regularly again but I'm still looking for Love and not with a WG because the two don't go well together.

[Mdacoltpk100]

Sorry for the grammar and lack of proof reading. Just typed this on my phone.

No easy way out bruh, as the song goes, when you're in a love with a beautiful woman, you know its hard.

You have no idea whether or not she is playing you, and she may even really like you to some extent. Its not mutually exclusive.

She has to survive in a very expensive city though, and you cannot change that reality.

You want to test her love, stop $$ transactions. Will let you know how she really feels. Let's say she still continues seeing you. Where does it lead? What do you want.

On the other hand she says no money no honey. That's clearer. Pay for play as you like and don't fall in love with the merchandise.

Good luck.

[Snow1998]

Yet she seems to like me. Do girls do this hook you. I am worried I might be part of some long con here. Advice if people have been similar situations where things seem to be turning into real feelings. Or should I just be smart and bail on this whole situation.

Seems to like you, isn't very assuring is it? The possibility of a long con will always be just that, a possibility until you let it be a reality. She could play you with a pregnancy as you don't seem to take precautions of that. You talk of bailing, but you have done that twice already but gone back. That's like a famous author who once said To stop smoking is the easiest thing in world I've done it many times!

So as a few have suggested you first need to figure yourself and what you want. If you can't have that then you leave. But the heart starts to play a bigger role the longer you keep going and that's when the possibility of a con becomes a reality as well. There are happy stories to these as well with WGs having found husbands and settling down. Be ready to cut your losses and break free if things start to go sour but then don't go back.

[PopamRaj]

My only advice would be for you to figure out what you want from this? Are you looking for a free fuck or are you ok to commit to something long term with her if you are sure she is committed to you.

In the past I've been in a couple of situations where it was clear that the girl was committed to be exclusive I find out that I am not. So figure that out first.

Wise words from JJ -

Yet, she seems happy to be with me. As long as there is a promise for the future .

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This really is the crux of it. What exactly is the future you have in mind? Are you looking to get married to her or are you just looking for a loose friend-with-benefits arrangement? Or just fuck-mate for a few weeks or months? Or something else? Unless you figure that out you're letting her dictate the flow of the situation and the outcomes and that is not a good thing for you. So, get out by yourself, pick a strong cup of coffee and try and figure this out in your head. Whichever future outcome you pick will decide how to play this. And yes, there is always a danger of a long con. That's the nature of this beast.

[Virgin40]

Hey guys so this is my first post on the arrangement section. Sorry for the grammar and lack of proof reading. Just typed this on my phone.

Clarity is the key word here. You need to know what you want from this arrangement. That solves 90% of the problem even if you don't know what the girl wants or if she is exclusive or otherwise.

Without the clarity, every expectation from both will keep adding layers to the problem.

Just my $0. 02 .

Cheers.

[JyinJapan]

Hey guys so this is my first post

Or should I just be smart and bail on this whole situation. Sorry for the grammar and lack of proof reading. Just typed this on my phone.

My only advice would be for you to figure out what you want from this? Are you looking for a free fuck or are you ok to commit to something long term with her if you are sure she is committed to you.

In the past I've been in a couple of situations where it was clear that the girl was committed to be exclusive I find out that I am not. So figure that out first.

[Shaun12]

Hey guys so this is my first post on the arrangement section. I will try to post as much information on my experience as possible. I do need advice from more experienced people in this game as I am in a bit of predicament. Anyway got on seeking beginning of this year and I meet this gorgeous Brazilian girl. We negotiate on 2000 ppm. We have a great night together and in my drunken state I start telling her I want a real relationship and I don't want to pay for dates etc. She says she is a good girl and wants the same thing. I don't really believe her bla bla. Anyway I message her a couple of days later to meet up she respond saying she knows she said she would meet for free but wants paid dates she said she would meet for less money just wants to be taken care of as she has no income. I told her I am under no illusions here. On our second date she tells me how she came to dubai. She met a guy through a mutual friend in Dubai. They talked for a bit before he flew her out here and out her up in an apartment. (nice luxurious place in Marina) he gave her 30000 aed a month spending money but she broke up with him after 8 months when he disappeared on her and she found it he was married. He still pays for her place as she thinks he is scared she will tell his wife. I knew she is out of my budget so I planned to ghost her after this meeting. We part ways and she texts me asking me to go to Rome with her the next day. She has to leave to renew her visa and booked the cheapest ticket. I obviously decline I can't just pack up and leave on a days notice. Anyway while on her trip she messages me asking to pay her visa guy cash as he doesn't take card. I choose to ignore the message. After two weeks she messages me again say she is back in dubai and asking how I am. I respond to her telling her I don't want a paid relationship I am relatively young (early 30's) looking for a real relationship so I don't think it will work out between us. She doesn't respond. A couple days later I am having a few drinks and get in the mood for a late night fun. I send her a message at 12:00 am asking if she is up and wants to go for a drink. She instantly responds saying she is so happy I messaged. We go for a drink and then she takes me back to my place where we have unprotected sex (stupid I know) . I leave early without waking her as I have an early morning meeting. She however messages pretty angry for not waking her and demands the pill and an std test. I am happy to oblige as this will help me relax on two fronts. We go out and get the tests done. Both negative thanks god. We go for dinner after tons of pda etc. I have work in the morning so drop her off at her place despite her begging me to come up. She messages me saying she really likes. The next day she does a complete 180 saying how she really likes me and has enjoyed our time together but she has to end things as she needs a paid relationship as she no source income. She doesn't want to see men behind my back so doesn't think it will work out with us. She really is sorry. Which I respond "No worries and all the best". She again says sorry and that's that. She messages me the next day saying Hello,. I say Hello,. She asks if there is anyway I can look after her as she doesn't want to see other men just me. I think for a second and say okay I can offer 10000 aed a month. She agrees instantly. Fast forward 10-15 days we spend literally every night together. Sometimes at my place sometimes at hers (paid for by her ex). She cleans my apartment and cooks for me. Though there is a gap of two days where I am busy so I don't spend time with her. She is showing me her photos and I see that she was at ce la vie night club on one of the days. I lose my shit with her saying I am having unprotected sex with you everyday you better not be hooking up with anyone on the side. She swears she isn't. Saying the she is invited often to clubs by this lifestyle group where girls get free food and drinks. Party groups but I am assuming these groups work by bring pretty girls to guys paying for a fun night. I tell her I don't tolerate that shit. If she wants to go to the clubs without me she can't be with me. She swears she won't go. Though her going and not telling me certainly did bring up a red flag. She says stuff like wants to marry and she is definitely a 9 out of 10. Extremely attractive. I stay at her place and I see all the bags and stuff her ex gave her. In fact she gave me 2000 dollars sunglasses that her ex had given her saying they are too masculine. I have made it clear to her that I am not as rich as the ex and even if I become that rich I do not plan to spend my money so frivolously. Yet, she seems happy to be with me. As long as there is a promise for the future. I am confused? Have any people more experienced with these types of relationships had experience with things turning real. I give her so little compared to her previous relationship. Yet she seems to like me. Do girls do this hook you. I am worried I might be part of some long con here. Advice if people have been similar situations where things seem to be turning into real feelings. Or should I just be smart and bail on this whole situation. Sorry for the grammar and lack of proof reading. Just typed this on my phone.

[Want More]

Bro, your rule # 2 is pure gold. It works every time. Never make penis-related decisions when your penis is full. Otherwise it would take over your brain and do the thinking instead.

Yeah full balls are worse than beer goggles when making decisions. I had super hot attorney opposite the table once and just fucking kept my mouth shut the whole meeting and let others do the talking. I would have done something stupid just because I had a hard-on for her. Never saw her again though.

[VonderJohn]

So I have been using the site for the past few months. A combination of boredom with the same Coco Fifo stuff, plus curiosity and a life long habit to fuck up a good thing which I got going was the reasons for being back.

Would like to summarize my thoughts and hope that folks find them useful.

1. Rule no 1 is still true as always "There are far more broke good looking girls than guys willing to pay for their pussy". Always remember this is like a train service, if you let one go there is always another one coming in a little while.

2. If you ever get an insane urge to be with a woman, my suggestion is always to jerk off and then see her in a light of empty balls..

Bro, your rule # 2 is pure gold. It works every time. Never make penis-related decisions when your penis is full. Otherwise it would take over your brain and do the thinking instead.

[VonderJohn]

So I have been using the site for the past few months. A combination of boredom with the same Coco Fifo stuff, plus curiosity and a life long habit to fuck up a good thing which I got going was the reasons for being back.

Would like to summarize my thoughts and hope that folks find them useful.

1. Rule no 1 is still true as always "There are far more broke good looking girls than guys willing to pay for their pussy". Always remember this is like a train service, if you let one go there is always another one coming in a little while.

2. If you ever get an insane urge to be with a woman, my suggestion is always to jerk off and then see her in a light of empty balls..

Bro, your tip # 2 is pure gold. It works every time. Never make penis-related decisions when your penis is full. Otherwise it would take over your brain and do the thinking instead.

[ManWithMotive]

Was that 2 K for both or 2 K each? Also, a total of 6 rounds in 6 hours? Dude tell me your secret; I mean I thought I was a horny old git, but the max I have hit is 4 rounds in an entire night.

2 K for both mate. Apart from finishing couple of wines and talabat costing 2. 5 in total approximately. I wish I could do 6 rounds in 6 hours, perhaps 20 years back I could have tried that.