Can't Finish In Condoms Lately. Any Advice?

[Crazy Jim Wood]

If you are able to ejaculate in a condom with one woman, you probably have no physical problem but instead have an emotional issue. The various strategies you use may seem to deal with a physical problem, however, they are more likely strategies that help you overcome an emotional problem. I think emotional problems that stop a man from ejaculating are very common, and if you have not had sex for a while, your physical needs may push the emotional problem aside. Completing the act more quickly is also a good idea. I did not notice if you specifically mentioned it, but taking a break, even like 5 minutes of doing nothing sexual and talking with the provider explain to her your issue hypothesize about events in your life that might be distracting you. In other words there are events in your non-mongering life that distract you from mongering. This may be the answer: you are sexually satisfied! Is it possible to enjoy intimacy with a woman without ejaculating? Yes! Although of course it is not as much fun, and even paid dates will often take a man's failure to ejaculate as an insult. Look on another bright side, this could be a chance to same some $$$ if you are not finishing with the expensive ladies. For me, like you, I find the company of milfs easier, less pressure. They are also more used to men not always completing the sex act in the traditional fashion by ejaculating than a young hard body. I do tend to think though that the Viagra and the brand of condom etc are not really a huge issue, it is some emotional preoccupation, and discussing it with the lady may help you feel better and complete your mission. I would emphasize that taking a break of a few minutes from sexual activity, perhaps discussing the problem with the lady, at least for me, works better than having the provider keep trying to get me hard while I fret about my condition. You may also enjoy things like mutual masturbation etc if you don't like the condom and you feel like the condom is causing a problem. You will probably feel more satisfaction from ejaculating together with the provider, even if not inside her vagina, than you would not finishing even though you are inside her. Good luck.

So with the steps above implemented, I visited one nice MILF SP and to my pleasant surprise, everything worked fine. I saw her again 2 weeks later and again I managed to finish with the Skyn condoms. However, I kept both sessions rather simple with just two different positions (missionary and doggie).

For my third visit with this same SP 2 weeks later, I tried to ween myself off the generic Viagra and suffered a setback. I did get hard with her BBBJ but when she was fiddling around with getting the Skyn condom out of the wrapper (since its wrapper is a bit touch to open), I lost my erection and never recovered during the session.

[Eszpresszo]

Try SAGAMI Condoms if you have an average size. They are made from polyurethane. Warning though, once you get used to them you will never be able to use latex again. I like to put some heaving moisturizer cream on before I slip them on. Be careful pulling out when you finish.

A good option and if you don't mind shopping on Ebay, you can find the thin Sagami 0. 02 version in a size large, which is right for an average westerner. Amazon has decent choices, but Ebay has even more because you can order from Japan and Hong Kong. And no it doesn't take that long to get to you. Every Japanese seller I've dealt with on Ebay was good at shipping quickly and Japan Post standard air mail is quick. Take it up a notch and go for the Okamoto 0. 01.

Those Skyn condoms you mentioned don't come close in terms of sensitivity of thinness. I even did a test run using various thin US brand condoms against various Japanese condoms (using my hand of course, I don't know how I would get a WG to help me in a scientific manner. When its convenient, I squirt a bit of lube into the tip of the condom before I roll it on. This improves the sensation, but won't cause the condom to slip off if you don't lube your entire dick first. A little bit of lube in the tip lets the condom slide around the most sensitive part of your cock and in theory reduces the chance of breakage (though that is hard to do with the new, non-latex Japanese condoms).

[XMen2099]

I can never finish with straight condom sex. I need some type of BB oral play beforehand. At some point jerking off gets more appealing.

Have had the same problem. When I finish sex with condom I am only able to come once in an hour but finishing sex by jerking off make me able to come more than once in a session.

[BigBuddy69]

In my case I stop masturbating at least one week before my trips to Germany, two weeks being the longest I did and I cut my consumption of porn. For the rest of the time I use some fleshlight to masturbate, not always in the same position (I used to be able to come only with the girl on top and it mimics the way that I used to wank, my cock pointing up) and I try to come as quickly as possible. I try to use some cheap condom to masturbate so when I use a skyn elite condom with a girl, I appreciate the extra sensitivity.

[Kuni042]

This website is quite expensive. In Germany, I get 60 sildenafil (aka "viagra") pills (the 50 MG version) for a bit less than 50 Euro. OF course generica. But there is NO need to buy the branded ones, as they contain the same molecule structure.

Here the proof: https://www.medizinfuchs.de/preisver...-10794768.html.

Canadian company, northwestpharmacy.com.

[PainAlplz]

I seem to have a recurrent issue lately where I can't finish in condoms. It was only the last few girls this happened but I did take a few months break just before that. I can get into a few different positions with a girl but then when I can't finish, I'll start to lose hardness. I always tell the girl that it's okay even if I cannot seem to finish though.

I'm hoping that some of you have who experienced this and maybe conquered this same issue or any of the SPs here who might offer some expert opinions might help with some advice.

Try Testjack 200 or similar male enhancement herbal product. There's a lot of BS products so do your homework. I took it for 6 months because my little buddy would quickly loose interest if the sex didn't have really good chemistry which is often the case with pros and my SO. I took one pill a day even though they recommend 2-3 a day. On the third day I noticed I was more easily excited. More sexual thoughts, checked out women much more often etc. This resulted in me getting much more excited during foreplay and gave a strong start out of the gate. Testojack didn't put lead in my pencil like Viagra, it just made me overall more hungry and more stimulated by normalcy. It helped my recovery time a little bit. Zero side effects and never thought about it until I realized I was still fantasizing about a cute passer by 2 hours later. I stopped taking it regularly because I found myself distracted. I now only take it during mongering trips with half a 5 MG pill of DHEA which gives me a boost. I'm 50/50 on Viagra because of headaches but it sure puts me at full mast.

[Artisttyp]

Try SAGAMI Condoms if you have an average size. They are made from polyurethane. Warning though, once you get used to them you will never be able to use latex again. I like to put some heaving moisturizer cream on before I slip them on. Be careful pulling out when you finish. They have a tendency yo get lodged up the vaginal canal.

Purchased on Amazon.

I can never finish with straight condom sex. I need some type of BB oral play beforehand. At some point jerking off gets more appealing.

[Jimmy Boy 99]

Snip. One thing I do have to figure out is where to get more generic Viagra when I run out. I live in Canada and won't be traveling anytime soon. If anyone has ideas, please advise. Snip.

Canadian company, northwestpharmacy.com.

[Exoticspirit]

For the benefit of others who might be suffering from the same issues I did (not being able to finish in condoms and / or loss of erections), I thought that I would report on my progress. Since the last messages, I decided to make some drastic changes which implemented many of the suggestions some of you kindly offered.

These were the things I did and my comments;.

1) Stopped masturbating entirely. This was pretty easy since I saw a bigger goal but I have to admit it is something I do miss when in between SP sessions.

2) Bought Lifestyle Skyn Elite condoms which are the thinnest ones in that line. I would bring these to sessions and made sure SPs okayed this in advance or I will not book them.

3) Took 1/3 of 100 MG tablet of generic Viagra I bought during holiday in St Maarten before the big hurricanes destroyed that island.

4) Decided on seeing just 1-2 MILF SPs instead of bouncing from new girl to new girl.

So with the steps above implemented, I visited one nice MILF SP and to my pleasant surprise, everything worked fine. I saw her again 2 weeks later and again I managed to finish with the Skyn condoms. However, I kept both sessions rather simple with just two different positions (missionary and doggie).

For my third visit with this same SP 2 weeks later, I tried to ween myself off the generic Viagra and suffered a setback. I did get hard with her BBBJ but when she was fiddling around with getting the Skyn condom out of the wrapper (since its wrapper is a bit touch to open), I lost my erection and never recovered during the session.

So lesson learned from that setback was that I should tell the SP to get the Skyn condom wrapper opened before our fun even starts so we don't waste time fiddling with it. I also learned that it might have been premature for me to take myself off the Viagra entirely.

Before repeating with this same SP, I decided to try another MILF SP less than a week later just because I was eager to try again and this SP was working closer to my location.

At this fourth session but with a different MILF SP, I went back on 1/3 tablet generic Viagra and fortunately this girl was okay with me bringing my own condom and agreed to get it opened in advance of the fun. After her BBBJ getting me hard, she slipped on the Skyn pretty quickly. I decided on just missionary and the session was a success in terms of finishing in the condom.

So looks like I'm back on track with my progress and plan to return to the first SP one more time this month before the holidays. But I've come to realize that I might have to be dependent on the Viagra for a bit.

I'll plan to continue with my strategy with all the steps above with the first SP since I do like her a bit more than the second one. Maybe after 1-2 more successes with this one, I'll do some limited venturing to try 1-2 other SPs but using the same steps after the New Year.

One thing I do have to figure out is where to get more generic Viagra when I run out. I live in Canada and won't be traveling anytime soon. If anyone has ideas, please advise.

I hope others who have the same issues will benefit from my experiences so far. Again thanks to everyone who contributed to this thread so far.

[Zorp 001]

I think not masturbating for a couple of days before a hookup should help you the most. But yes, as the other guys mentioned, you should try to find a condom that works for you. And your point about sticking to a couple of girls that give good service is also valid. At least until you start exploring again.

[Exoticspirit]

First of all you are jaded, you have had sex with tons of hot girls and it is not as easy to get excited. Stop masturbating and watching porn at least 2 - 3 days before hand. And put in more effort and you will be able to come.

It is always hard for me to come, I can go hard doggy style for 30 - 40 minutes without coming easily. So I think I now what I am talking about, stop masturbating and watching porn for some time beforehand and you should be okay.

Good advice. Although there are some suggestions of actually masterbating with a condom just to get use to them, I think perhaps it's better just to quit the self pleasuring cold turkey and see how my next session with a girl goes. As for porn, I really don't watch since I find them all the same and boring.

[YippieKayay]

I have had this problem before. Then my first time in Brazil I was coming left and right. I think you need to change things up a little maybe and see if that helps.

The other advice on health is good as well. As for condoms you certainly want to find the kind that fit you best.

[Exoticspirit]

Your symptoms are also indication of prostate problems.

Good point. I am going through PSA blood tests every six months and so far so good (negative).

[Exoticspirit]

It is probably not the condom. You may have some thing that is bothering you, such as a relationship or stress at work or some other problem that weighs on your mind. Think honestly about what is bothering you. You may even try to discuss it with the girl you are fucking. Especially if you have some performance problem. Not being able to cum is a type of performance problem. Even if she is a prostitute. Even saying something like, "I am sorry it is taking too long, can we take a break, this guy at work is pissing me off and I can't stop thinking about it" or maybe you don't want to discuss a problem with a girlfriend you might say "I am sorry it is taking too long, can we take a break, I had an argument with a friend and I can't stop thinking about it. " I do not recommend discussing in great detail you may become upset and even more distracted. But the simple act of apologizing to the working girl for taking too long and telling her that something is bothering you makes you feel better. You may find that after even a very brief confession to her that you are bothered by something, you will again be able to concentrate on fucking and the performance problem will go away.

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Yes I'm going to tell the SPs in advance because I have had cases where they rolled their eyes or just became annoyed that they did not make me come. I really don't need that type of attitude and that's why I figure I should find the more caring ones and just retain them for awhile until the comfort level builds up.

[Delta Indigo]

I seem to have a recurrent issue lately where I can't finish in condoms. It was only the last few girls this happened but I did take a few months break just before that. I can get into a few different positions with a girl but then when I can't finish, I'll start to lose hardness. I always tell the girl that it's okay even if I cannot seem to finish though.

I'm hoping that some of you have who experienced this and maybe conquered this same issue or any of the SPs here who might offer some expert opinions might help with some advice.

First of all you are jaded, you have had sex with tons of hot girls and it is not as easy to get excited. Stop masturbating and watching porn at least 2 - 3 days before hand. And put in more effort and you will be able to come.

It is always hard for me to come, I can go hard doggy style for 30 - 40 minutes without coming easily. So I think I now what I am talking about, stop masturbating and watching porn for some time beforehand and you should be okay.