Stupid shit in Medellin

[Knowledge]

I'm going to make a big bowl of popcorn and watch the rebuttals from guys who really believe the seeking lore. This should be good, even though Mr. E spoiled some of the fun with this response.

Bullshit. Everyone knows there are beauty queens and models on Seeking who are only looking for love. I know that Seeking means Seeking Love. Why are you trying to lie and say it means Seeking Suckers?

[ElPostino]

Seeking is a big ripoff. I tried it for a Month, most of them wasted my time, blah blah for days only when I tried to arrange something they back away, one came and she was a twisted ugly old rag who was a former street prostitute, another I met, she was average but ok looking and she said she is not sex for a hire but want real Sugar / baby / Daddy relationship although I made it clear to her what I wanted and she agreed.

If you have money to throw away then get one of these who want thousands per month only for you to be with them few times. If you are trying to find sex for pay as you go, do not use this site.

So true! I see same listed in seekibng also in tinder, facebook and parque lleras. Saw some in Parque lleras who work in casas. It is totally waste of time. I am sure there are one or two lucky one but mostly garbage.

[Mr Enternational]

Seekingarrangement is the only site I know, you pay more than $100/ M US and the women don't. What you get is liars, overweight old milfs, ugly twisted former pros or expensive as shiit young women who are no better looking than what you get in a club.

Seeking is a big ripoff. I tried it for a Month, most of them wasted my time, blah blah for days only when I tried to arrange something they back away, one came and she was a twisted ugly old rag who was a former street prostitute,

Bullshit. Everyone knows there are beauty queens and models on Seeking who are only looking for love. I know that Seeking means Seeking Love. Why are you trying to lie and say it means Seeking Suckers?

[Gabacho]

Seekingarrangement is the only site I know, you pay more than $100/ M US and the women don't. What you get is liars, overweight old milfs, ugly twisted former pros or expensive as shiit young women who are no better looking than what you get in a club. Not only you pay a hefty monthly fee but you expose yourself, real photo for the world to see that you are trying to be a sugar daddy. The effort and time it consumes searching and chatting will blow your mind.

Seeking is a big ripoff. I tried it for a Month, most of them wasted my time, blah blah for days only when I tried to arrange something they back away, one came and she was a twisted ugly old rag who was a former street prostitute, another I met, she was average but ok looking and she said she is not sex for a hire but want real Sugar / baby / Daddy relationship although I made it clear to her what I wanted and she agreed.

If you have money to throw away then get one of these who want thousands per month only for you to be with them few times. If you are trying to find sex for pay as you go, do not use this site.

Yea I always figured it was probably bullshit. I've gotten tons of women from Facebook then have them introduce me to their friends and then friends of those friends and so on and that seems to work really well for me and I don't have to pay any fucking fees at all.

[Zenduka1]

I've never used seeking before (atleast not yet) so forgive my ignorance, I thought both parties ha e to pay.

As far as wanting as many women as possible, I was in a marriage type relationship for like 7 years right off the bar when I was younger and I felt like I wasted my best years when I could have been out exploring instead being tied down to just one woman. Then after her another one for 3 years LOL. So now I just want to test drive and move on. I guess I'm trying to make up for lost time idk. But to each his own.

I e had a cpl chicas here in Medellin that I genuinely liked being with. Like Reimarby, the one I took on the santa marta trip back in 2021 but I realized that it was all just a show she was putting in for me to keep me fucking her and giving her money instead of broadening my horizons, so I stopped seeing her and moved on.

For me it's better not to get emotional or worry about if a chica likes me or not because I don't want to be with just one I want to keep test driving.

Seekingarrangement is the only site I know, you pay more than $100/ M US and the women don't. What you get is liars, overweight old milfs, ugly twisted former pros or expensive as shiit young women who are no better looking than what you get in a club. Not only you pay a hefty monthly fee but you expose yourself, real photo for the world to see that you are trying to be a sugar daddy. The effort and time it consumes searching and chatting will blow your mind.

Seeking is a big ripoff. I tried it for a Month, most of them wasted my time, blah blah for days only when I tried to arrange something they back away, one came and she was a twisted ugly old rag who was a former street prostitute, another I met, she was average but ok looking and she said she is not sex for a hire but want real Sugar / baby / Daddy relationship although I made it clear to her what I wanted and she agreed.

If you have money to throw away then get one of these who want thousands per month only for you to be with them few times. If you are trying to find sex for pay as you go, do not use this site.

[Guerinto]

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[Villainy]

How long had they been dead, and was this before or after the embalming process?

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[Gabacho]

I have met women who fucked me without a price.

Did these women rim job your ass without a price too? Or did you have to pay for that?

[Huacho]

I have met women who fucked me without a price.

How long had they been dead, and was this before or after the embalming process?

[Elvis 2008]

Also if the women don't have to pay then what is to stop someone from making a fake account with fake pictures, fake ID, etc. To lure in unsuspecting men to be scoped and robbed or even kidnapped and killed like the Hmong dude a cpl weeks ago?

You can report women who are scammers or suspected ones on the site. If you show proof of their actions, the site will take their profile down.

The real issue though is on the guy and screening the woman. If I was particularly smitten with a woman's photos, there were times I would ditch my screening techniques, and that is when they were issues. If someone were a teacher, I would say tell me about your lesson plans. If an actress, tell me about what your last job was ETC. It would not take long to tell if the women were full of shit or not.

And my preference was always to meet them in a hotel where there were cameras all around. It was not 100% safe but it was safer than going to Santa Fe or Centro.

As far as seeing fewer and better women, I get you, but there is a difference between many of the women off of seeking and the hookers / strippers ETC. They both want money, but many of the seeking women did not want the feeling of being a hooker. If a woman meets a guy in a bar and fucks him and does not ask for money, she is not a hooker. The idea is seeking is the same thing but the man is helping the woman out. You may see that is the same as a woman selling herself for sex, but many women feel differently fucking a sugar daddy over a john.

And the opposite is the guy wanting to believe he is helping a woman out versus paying for sex. You can see Mr. E needling me on this subject. You ARE paying for sex. You ARE paying women to like you. He thinks he is always right, but the thing is I am asking myself those same questions about the women. And just as you had the experience when a woman turned out to be all about the money, I have met several of the same. In fact, I would be hard pressed to say I have met a stripper / hooker / cam girl who was not like that.

Still, I have met many women on seeking I have met who are not just all about the money, and the guys who have used the site have seen the same thing. It is not just you can get said women from seeking. It is just the easiest place for someone visiting to do it that I know of.

[Gabacho]

The women do not have to pay Gabacho. The women can pay a small fee so that their ads are on the top of the searches, but that is it.

Also if the women don't have to pay then what is to stop someone from making a fake account with fake pictures, fake ID, etc. To lure in unsuspecting men to be scoped and robbed or even kidnapped and killed like the Hmong dude a cpl weeks ago?

[Gabacho]

The women do not have to pay Gabacho. The women can pay a small fee so that their ads are on the top of the searches, but that is it.

I think you are missing the greater point. She wanted to prove her value as a quality companion. I have little doubt that this one would have done literally whatever I wanted sexually. She was also the type that did charity work and was a giver. So yeah, I knew that if we were in a relationship for a while, she would want me to give back to her, but I do not think she did. She was in the happier ever after fairy tale mode.

The downside is that she was naive about relationships and put me on a pedestal, and I did not want to be around once I came off. IOW, she liked me too much without knowing me that well, and she was in school. I was going to have to be there for her when the realism of a relationship and the work place hit her, and the reality of the law is cold and hard. That naivete is the downside of relationships with the 18 to 23 ish range women IMO.

Thing is the women in Colombia remind me of people I used to hire. With white collar people, they responded great to incentives. Blue collar folks took that as license to steal, so I had to learn that to get the best out of them was to kick their ass if they did not do the work. So I get your attitude about I don't give a fuck about them because that was the way I was with blue collar types. If you do not do the job, I will find someone who will. The hookers / strippers / centro gals think kindness is weakness. Long term for them is tomorrow.

But many white collars in Colombia do not make that much. One of the first women I met was in Barranquilla. She was a 9, great in bed, nice, ambitious, and she was working at a bank making $300 a month. She looked like a younger Thandiwe Newton. If I were there, I would be like, "Hey, why don't you go part time and I will cover your salary. You can see me versus going to work, and I am a lot more fun. " That is where the woman liking you and trusting you pays off. If she likes you, then you are banging a smoking hot classy intelligent woman two or three times a week as much as you want for $150 a month. I don't get the fucking as many women as you can. Why would you want 20 hookers who are just in it for the money over two or three women who are better looking and better in bed and like you and actually want to please you?

Of course, the ultimate reason for the girl to like you is you fuck them for free. If a woman brought up price, then I would talk about it, but I have met women who fucked me without a price. I just used seeking to meet them but if I were there and could network, I would have not had needed it. I cannot tell you how many times I have had to tell guys not to mention price in Colombia.

I've never used seeking before (atleast not yet) so forgive my ignorance, I thought both parties ha e to pay.

As far as wanting as many women as possible, I was in a marriage type relationship for like 7 years right off the bar when I was younger and I felt like I wasted my best years when I could have been out exploring instead being tied down to just one woman. Then after her another one for 3 years LOL. So now I just want to test drive and move on. I guess I'm trying to make up for lost time idk. But to each his own.

I e had a cpl chicas here in Medellin that I genuinely liked being with. Like Reimarby, the one I took on the santa marta trip back in 2021 but I realized that it was all just a show she was putting in for me to keep me fucking her and giving her money instead of broadening my horizons, so I stopped seeing her and moved on.

For me it's better not to get emotional or worry about if a chica likes me or not because I don't want to be with just one I want to keep test driving.

[Elvis 2008]

How about the flip side. Tell the woman that you can longer see her, but you will still send her money. Think she will mind losing out on you the same way you claim she should not accept you without the money?

I know you think she would be happier with money over companionship. The truth is you could not be more wrong.

If she had a job where she could work, and I quit mine, and we spent every night together, that would be heaven for her.

I guess you have never had a woman determined to be a good partner.

It is funny for me to be getting used to this, but when a couple has luggage, it is customary for the man to carry the heavier load. Not her. She carries everything and if she cannot do it on her own, she makes her daughter carry what is left. She won't let me carry the luggage. That is symbolic of who she wants to be in our relationship.

You seem hell bent to believe she is all about the money even though you have never met her. What does that say about you?

[Elvis 2008]

I'm not calling you a liar, Elvis. I'm not sure what her motivation or intentions were, but at some point I'm sure she would have expected some kind of financial support in exchange for her company. Maybe it was in fact the long con she was attempting to go for. You mention that you found her on Seeking Arrangements, correct? Doesn't that site require a monthly membership fee to be able to use it? You're honestly telling me that she pays a fee every month to use Seeking but she isn't seeking anything financially from it? Sounds like she would be losing money if that were the case.

The women do not have to pay Gabacho. The women can pay a small fee so that their ads are on the top of the searches, but that is it.

I'm not sure what her motivation or intentions were, but at some point I'm sure she would have expected some kind of financial support in exchange for her company.

I think you are missing the greater point. She wanted to prove her value as a quality companion. I have little doubt that this one would have done literally whatever I wanted sexually. She was also the type that did charity work and was a giver. So yeah, I knew that if we were in a relationship for a while, she would want me to give back to her, but I do not think she did. She was in the happier ever after fairy tale mode.

The downside is that she was naive about relationships and put me on a pedestal, and I did not want to be around once I came off. IOW, she liked me too much without knowing me that well, and she was in school. I was going to have to be there for her when the realism of a relationship and the work place hit her, and the reality of the law is cold and hard. That naivete is the downside of relationships with the 18 to 23 ish range women IMO.

Thing is the women in Colombia remind me of people I used to hire. With white collar people, they responded great to incentives. Blue collar folks took that as license to steal, so I had to learn that to get the best out of them was to kick their ass if they did not do the work. So I get your attitude about I don't give a fuck about them because that was the way I was with blue collar types. If you do not do the job, I will find someone who will. The hookers / strippers / centro gals think kindness is weakness. Long term for them is tomorrow.

But many white collars in Colombia do not make that much. One of the first women I met was in Barranquilla. She was a 9, great in bed, nice, ambitious, and she was working at a bank making $300 a month. She looked like a younger Thandiwe Newton. If I were there, I would be like, "Hey, why don't you go part time and I will cover your salary. You can see me versus going to work, and I am a lot more fun. " That is where the woman liking you and trusting you pays off. If she likes you, then you are banging a smoking hot classy intelligent woman two or three times a week as much as you want for $150 a month. I don't get the fucking as many women as you can. Why would you want 20 hookers who are just in it for the money over two or three women who are better looking and better in bed and like you and actually want to please you?

Of course, the ultimate reason for the girl to like you is you fuck them for free. If a woman brought up price, then I would talk about it, but I have met women who fucked me without a price. I just used seeking to meet them but if I were there and could network, I would have not had needed it. I cannot tell you how many times I have had to tell guys not to mention price in Colombia.

[MiamiBoy1]

I'm not calling you a liar, Elvis. I'm not sure what her motivation or intentions were, but at some point I'm sure she would have expected some kind of financial support in exchange for her company. Maybe it was in fact the long con she was attempting to go for. You mention that you found her on Seeking Arrangements, correct? Doesn't that site require a monthly membership fee to be able to use it? You're honestly telling me that she pays a fee every month to use Seeking but she isn't seeking anything financially from it? Sounds like she would be losing money if that were the case.

Seeking is free for women.