Stupid shit in Medellin

[Nounce]

LOL. What the fuck. You must be off your rocker or meds. I never said any government shit about Covid. The only thing I ever said was what was done while I was in Thailand and how it worked out there because I actually lived it.

LOL, MrE. I was also talking about what I actually experienced in person where there is 0 case. Besides, what government?

[JjBee62]

What should one be scared of? What is so dangerous about meeting up for a beer that the hairs on your neck go up? Care to elaborate on your non personal experience? I've met 7 people from this board, they were from all different walks of life. I had a better time with some than others, but I don't think any of them were particularly dangerous.

At a guess I've met 30-40 people from this board, including an admin. With some we clicked, with some we didn't. Even the guys I've bickered with, and the couple of guys who suggested committing acts of violence against me, I have no problems with meeting.

[JjBee62]

I don't condone anyone falsifying medical documentation. Those who do are either cheap, lazy, or think they have COVID, but don't care about anyone else. I know what a PCR test looks like. I had one in September for that trip. Glad someone can go to a CVS some place without an appointment. And glad it came back so quickly. But there is no guarantee. My CVS says 2-3 business days. Other places say 3-5 business days.

My CVS, last I checked said 7-10 days or longer.

[JjBee62]

Unfortunately this post is spot on. It's been a problem on this site and others like it for too many years. It is the reason I don't fuck with guys I don't know. Every time I read a "if anyone wants to meet up for a beer let me know" post the hairs go up on the back of my neck. I hope I am unreasonable and paranoid about this but I know from experience (not personal experience luckily) that there is cause for caution.

Taken out of context, this post is spot on. Taken in context it's complete bullshit.

The context is:

Should we, as mongers, be protecting mongers who commit serious and violent crimes while mongering?

I'm never going to dig into someone's Facebook page, connect to their real social media and tell their friends and family what he's doing in Colombia. Even the guys who stress "just turned 18" so often that you know they're fishing in illegal waters, don't concern me. It may be wrong, but it's consensual. They know the risks.

However, the source of the post you agree wholeheartedly with, seems to be saying we need to protect guys who are committing violent crimes within our community.

I refuse to agree to that "code. " I refuse to accept that anyone who would agree to that "code" is a man worthy of anything except for my disdain.

So let's apply the "bro code" to the situation in question, then give your reaction.

Allegedly a monger beat up a hooker and put her in the hospital. It was rumored the monger had been arrested. I now doubt that information. I was doubting whether a hooker had been beaten up until now. Based upon Judd's post, it seems likely the beating occurred.

So here's your "bro code" test:

A hooker you know well sends you pictures. She's bruised and bloody. She says she's in the hospital and sends more pictures. You're probably assuming she's about to ask for money. Instead she tells you a gringo did it to her. She sends you his info, including Facebook profile.

What's your "bro code" ruling on that situation? Do you:

A. Do nothing. It's none of your business.

Be. Warn your other regulars about the guy.

See. Tell the girl to go to the police.

The. Defend the guy.

E. Something else?

[Paulie97]

LOL. What the fuck. You must be off your rocker or meds. I never said any government shit about Covid. The only thing I ever said was what was done while I was in Thailand and how it worked out there because I actually lived it.

Which fully refuted all the nonsense from Fox News talking heads and Trump's quacks that Elvis so doggedly was selling here. Certain public health measures, with proper implementation and compliance, work. End of story. Now back to the regular scheduling programming. Elvis, Western Union, and looking for love.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1MnU6p3sGSw

[JjBee62]

Here's the moral of the story. The first rule of Fight Club. DON'T TALK ABOUT FIGHT CLUB! Anyone who discloses personal information about any of the members on this board especially to chicas is a degenerate. You deserve to have your ass kicked, and you will be banned by Jackson or whoever moderates this board now.

2nd point. This should serve as a reminder to everyone who reads this forum. There's a very small percentage of people on boards like this, who don't understand the Gentlemen's Agreement we have pertaining to the first rule. Be mindful of the info you provide when you meet your next wingman in MDE. We have a lot of Professionals, Retired Military, and Married Dudes on this board. We need to ensure their sick perverted tales of debauchery go no further than the paint stripped walls from which they occurred.

It's Bros before Hoes Fellas. If you can't get on board with this, get the Fuck Out!

You're going to need to either get on with the kicking of my ass, or the forcing me out. Whichever is more appealing to you. Let me know your decision so I know how long and how hard to laugh.

If you show up in Medellin, or anywhere else and you commit one of the following crimes, you aren't anyone's "bro. " You're just a turd that's long overdue to be flushed. These are some of the crimes:

Murder, rape, assault and battery, attempted murder, sexual abuse of a minor, rape of a minor, sexual assault and robbery.

Sorry if you feel I should have your back if any of these things are why you go to Medellin. If you're doing these types of things you gave up any claim to any "gentleman's agreement. " Gentlemen don't do those things.

As for "fight club" this ain't no homoerotic group where we all get together to beat on each other in order to satisfy our desires for homosexual contact. It's mongering. "Fight club" rules don't apply when every day we are interacting with women who have not agreed to be beaten up.

Fucking working girls in Colombia isn't sick and perverted. Anyone who is regularly visiting Colombia, everyone already suspects they're fucking working girls. Shit, my 80 year old Uncle, a retired preacher asked me about the women in Colombia. Nobody believes we're going to Colombia for coffee and empanadas.

Beating the shit out of working girls is sick and perverted. You could be one of my shipmates, you could be my doctor or you could be my brother, it doesn't matter. If you're going around beating up women, you're not my "bro", you're not even a man. You get no protection or sympathy from me.

Based upon this post and your earlier post, it certainly seems as if the alleged perpetrator actually does enjoy beating up women, but hasn't been arrested for it. Yet. It also appears you feel beating up women is behavior which falls under the "bro code."

Sorry, but that's not a code that's acceptable to me.

[Mr Enternational]

These guys like to gather in a group and think that they are wise and that making a group decision makes them feel comfort. A lot of the guys here (Mr. E, JJBee, Paulie, and Nounce) were all constantly parroting the government line about Covid. I took a different stance and everything I posted about it was right and everything they posted was dead wrong. Instead of admitting it, these clowns have felt inferior and tried to knock me down any chance they can because they feel stupid,

LOL. What the fuck. You must be off your rocker or meds. I never said any government shit about Covid. The only thing I ever said was what was done while I was in Thailand and how it worked out there because I actually lived it.

I am no epidemiologist, health professional, chemist, or none of that shit. You are only going to catch me talking about stuff I know about. I know about hoes and street shit. I know about different cultures. Diseases I know nothing about, so I say nothing about it. And if I did then I would not come on a site about fucking chicks to have an in-depth discussion on it, the same way I would not go on the CDC site and make an in-depth post about fucking chicks in Colombia.

[JjBee62]

Simplier said than done given some of the Fayboo tales that other board members have posted.

Like everything else, it's as easy or as difficult as you make it. How many times have you seen guys make a complete mess of things in El Centro? Heck, there's guys who manage to make casa visits a pain in the ass.

Facebook is no different. If you keep focused on your goal, it's pretty easy. If you get sidetracked by the drama you can get lost. I've done both.

[Sangnyc21]

Sang, if you want agreement from the guys here, you are going to get it. You will get a bunch of attaboys and verbal high 5's for posting what is the common theme around here.

These guys like to gather in a group and think that they are wise and that making a group decision makes them feel comfort. A lot of the guys here (Mr. E, JJBee, Paulie, and Nounce) were all constantly parroting the government line about Covid. I took a different stance and everything I posted about it was right and everything they posted was dead wrong. Instead of admitting it, these clowns have felt inferior and tried to knock me down any chance they can because they feel stupid, and they should feel stupid. The notion that governments were going to do anything to "cure" a cold virus was moronic. Governments always take credit for something good and points fingers when something goes wrong.

I had a two year engagement to a Venezuelan woman and if you listen to these idiots, the conclusion was not to get emotionally involved with a woman and not to expect loyalty with them unless you are with them every day. The other parts were that she did not love you but loved your money, she wanted to hang around her novio not you, and when she said you were a good lover, she was lying.

And the seemingly worst did happen. I found a social media page with a male model on it and it had a setting with the phrase #love on it, and the guys here had a field day with this. We break up, and it was humiliating that she showed the world this guy and not me. Still I got these mixed messages from her. She did not admit to being with this guy and was ashamed when I found out. She then said that she would always love me but she was sad because she ruined what we had. Her sister swore to me that this girl would never introduce me to her parents and then run around on me, that I followed her on social media videos. She communicated with me some afterwards but after a while it was me sending her an email, and she would respond with one of her videos.

Over the next few months, despite all she tried to show, every single impressive item that she showed in her videos was something that I had bought her. On top of that, there were no romantic videos of her and this guy. In fact, all the videos I saw showed the exact opposite. I sent her an email and say, "I do not think you were romantic with this guy. " The next day, she shows a video of them together at her parents house, and they are not like a couple but brother and sister. The irony is that her parents are staring daggers into this guy. I think her sister told the parents about this guy. In the end, I realize that she made the biggest mistake of her life, and I got lucky not being with her. Person after person told me, "You dodged a bullet. ".

So when the common thread on this forum is breached, that Colombian women really want to hang out with their novios, it appeared to be true, but it is not. There is peer pressure on the women to be with a Colombian. The best analogy I can make is a black woman being with a white guy like 20 years ago. Any black woman who did that back then had to tune out the image that was that she was fucking the small dicked white guy for money, and it took a strong woman to do that. Every young hot Colombian girl with an American guy has to face that image.

I do not think this guy was a novio. I think he was a guy who saw a hot chick that he could use to sell his product in a pyramid scheme ripoff known as IML. He made it out to be like they had this vetting process for her to be picked which is like a Madoff type scam, and it would not surprise me if she banged him to help her cause.

So this was the novio's scam. "You do not need the money of Elvis. You can make it yourself. " Needless to say, it did not work out. After a while, she had no problem saying she did not have a boyfriend and was in love just one time. It was an invitation to win her back, but I did not want her back.

Guys like to think when they are always rational when they make a decision, but all the time, I see that they are not. When you say all these women want to be with their novios, that is loser speak because you are applying a rule to a bunch of people you do not know. So why are you saying that? It makes you feel better. You got burned by a woman and instead of learning from it and getting back in the game, you denounce all women.

The same thing is going on with the women saying you are a good lover. Truth is that I was with my Mexican lawyer SB, and I was having a hard time getting it up, and she was trying, and she gave up and said, "Baby, it is just not happening today. " Every fucking guy here believes that. Why? Because they want to.

The next day we have sex and she has three orgasms. How many guys here believe that? One in a hundred at best. That is what pussies these guys are. It bothers me them so much it might be true, they will seek solace with each other and convince them it is not true and I am an idiot for believing it. And I was there!

When Paulie, the arrogant blowhard, said that a woman faked an orgasm with me, he showed the world how insecure he was. He is so threatened by me he has to make stuff up. That woman was a cold snob by the way and was not interested in impressing me at all. She was more the type to ***** if she did not have an orgasm then compliment you on giving her one.

And when you say you are not looking for an emotional connection, this is more bullshit you are saying to make yourself feel good.

From Psychology Today, In the Introduction, they describe an encounter where a venture capitalist, who attended one of Levitt's lectures one day, had a "date" with a $300-an-hour prostitute later in the same evening. The venture capitalist notices a copy of Freakonomics in the prostitute's apartment, and mentions that he had just attended a lecture by one of the authors of the book, in an attempt to impress the prostitute. Levitt and Dubner note: "The male instinct to impress the female is apparently strong even when the sex is already bought and paid for. ".

End of link.

In fact, the desire to impress women is so important it even has a three letter abbreviation, IOP or illusion of passion, but even that is hedging. Any guy who thinks that he can get a working girl off has to be under her illusion. "I am not stupid enough to believe this working girl got off with me. ".

Truth be told, I call these guys idiots but they really are not. "That is why more intelligent men are more likely to recognize and comprehend prostitution, and to have sex with prostitutes. ".

And you are even more intelligent if you can hold off on paying sex prison prices and go to Colombia.

But the next stage is admitting that you are trying to impress these women and you like it when they are impressed but only if you are doing something impressive. If you feel like being impressive is fake, then you say that you are not trying to impress these women.

When a guy said that I was paying women to like me, it was obvious to me that he was speaking from failed experience. Quite frankly, nothing turns a woman off more than a man shoving money down her throat. If you are a control freak, you can addict a woman to your money and own her, and the smart women know that and resist it.

When you said hot women are better off doing degrading acts so they could get ahead financially, there is something to be said about the fact that so few do. The reason the best women stay hot is that they engage in not just financially but emotionally healthy activities.

The Queen could go to a bar and have a hundred men by her a drink. If she does that, she will be an alcoholic. She has to pick out the one or two guys who buy her a drink that will really help her. A guy can look at buying the drink as being a loser if he gets nowhere and say "I should have spent the money on a working girl", or he can be honest and ask himself if he wasted money on a sponge or if he needs to get better at sealing the deal.

With a working girl, ALL that matters is money. With a woman and especially the best women, money is just part of it.

The debate about value is as old as time. The question about a steak at Denny's versus one at Morton's misses the point. I have had both, and they are both mass produced. What I want is a woman who I have helped put through cooking school making me a personal meal. How do you know if I guy is telling the truth about THAT experience? If he says sometimes, the steak blows Morton's away but sometimes it is worse than Denny's, you know he is honest.

So on my trip out of seven women, two are not better than Morton's and never will be. With them, it is "I am cooking you a steak, what else do you want?

One was a little worse than Morton's but thought she deserved to be paid way more than Morton's so I axed her.

Two had the potential to be as good or better than Morton's but were not so I am not going to let them go.

One was as good as Morton's, and one blew Morton's the fuck out of the water as she always does, and she is the one I spent five days with.

So why not lock her up right? Because I do not want one source of steaks. LOL.

Morton's is about as good as you can mass produced. The question is how do you get better than Morton's and for less? That requires a lot of time and money up front, but in the long run, it is actually cheaper.

In summary, most men play checkers and follow societal rules and get little value. Guys who see pros are playing chess. Guys who go abroad are playing 3-the chess. I am playing 5-the chess and to get to my level, you have to strip away the next levels of stereotypical bullshit to get there.

Elvis there's something you're misunderstanding. I am not looking to make an emotional connection with these girls means prepagos or hookers.

I'm not ashamed to say if the right girl who was a normal girl came along I'm sure I'the be open to something emotional and physical.

Also those girls that I personally would wife up are almost impossible for a gringo to get. It would take a lot of work.

And I can tell you right now if more women were open to "degrading" acts in the bedroom especially the hot non pro ones I would definitely consider locking one up.

You stay doing whatever makes you happy. I use to get grilled on this board cause I would pay 2-300 USD for some women at Gustos or Lidos in Bogota.

But at the end of the day everyone does their own thing and learns along the way.

I'll still pay 2-300 usd for the right chick because I'm only thinking about the night. And what I want.

I state mere facts that I have learned through my 12 trips in the last 2. 5 years in Colombia.

It seems to me you're looking for love. And if you are I'm not here to knock you. But many have taken that road before it ends in the same result. Of course you're going to want to think you're different and you can change the outcome cause you're special.

How's it working out for you so far? LOL.

[Surfer500]

Laureles is casa and private apartment heavens. Being a cheapy charlie and into fitness I chose to walk rather than take a cab. Never once felt threaten. From la 70 to la 80 into LOS colores, estadio area. By the way remember those locations. Guess what, often I wore shorts, a hat, white shoes LOL. Members don't recommend LOL. I did not walk around at night time though. Then I suggest a cab cause its so damn cheap. Centro is not my cup of tea. But really its just an ordinary busy central business district. Whats noticeable is the grimey and disgusting prostitutes mixed up with the harden hookers forced into prostituting or there because of drugs and desperation. Walking there occasionally in day time is not bad but I don't see it as a go to spot. I am actually shocked by guys who glow about the area. Having said this I do want to check out the strip clubs in centro just to say I experienced it. Medellin is cupcake city to me. Sweet and safe..

Blakman you never cease to amaze me, almost sounds as though your afraid of your own shadow, LOL, especially the part about not going out at night in Laureles, or did you mean to say El Centro.

And what is the difference between a grimey and disgusting prostitute and a hardened hooker, aren't they one and the same? And why are you so shocked that some guys glow about El Centro, lots of guys thrive on it.

Up until the Pandemic it was my playground, kind of like a gigantic candy / ice cream shop with so many different flavors to sample. Yes, there are lots of hardened grimey Chicas there, but there's also lots of nice Chicas buried in all the rubble to be mined.

And being the Cheap Charlie you claim to be, and how cheap it can be to get laid in El Centro, I'm surprised your not all over it like fly's on shit.

However I know this is isn't your cup of tea, and wearing your shorts, hat, and white shoes is how you like to roll, but there are others who roll differently than you, with no way being the right way.

[Mr Enternational]

Every time I read a "if anyone wants to meet up for a beer let me know" post the hairs go up on the back of my neck. I hope I am unreasonable and paranoid about this but I know from experience (not personal experience luckily) that there is cause for caution.

Definitely unreasonable and paranoid. I have met and hung out with so many guys from this site that I have lost count. Many have even become good friends.

[Mr Enternational]

Great report over in the Stupid Shit section by a new poster that has boots on the ground. I think Admin saw where the guy said rant in the first paragraph and just threw it over in that section.

Against better judgement I picked a prepagos from mileroticos just to get my feet wet. Ad said 80 k special for that week but once she realized I'm not hispanic she said that was for last week and the current rate was 100 k.

[Mr Enternational]

I don't condone anyone falsifying medical documentation. Those who do are either cheap, lazy, or think they have COVID, but don't care about anyone else. I know what a PCR test looks like. I had one in September for that trip.

So what does it say about someone who knows exactly what test to get, but decides to get a different one because they "did not want to deal with the drama of having a COVID test that was sent out to a lab"?

I do not have Covid and I can actually get a PCR test for free. I am definitely not lazy. Well I am lazy, but not lazy enough not to be able to drive 8 minutes to the CVS closest to my house that gives the test. Now that those 3 options for excuses are exhausted, where does that leave me?

[Kazeu]

Unfortunately this post is spot on. It's been a problem on this site and others like it for too many years. It is the reason I don't fuck with guys I don't know. Every time I read a "if anyone wants to meet up for a beer let me know" post the hairs go up on the back of my neck. I hope I am unreasonable and paranoid about this but I know from experience (not personal experience luckily) that there is cause for caution.

What should one be scared of? What is so dangerous about meeting up for a beer that the hairs on your neck go up? Care to elaborate on your non personal experience? I've met 7 people from this board, they were from all different walks of life. I had a better time with some than others, but I don't think any of them were particularly dangerous.

[Gringo Trooper]

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