Stupid shit in Medellin

[JustTK]

Those mfs who frequent El Centro to experience the culture and not for the hookers, why don't you travel to Somalia then? .

Africa is my fave continent. But Somalia presents a language problem to me. I have to stick to those countries where English can get me understood.

[JjBee62]

This sub-forum is supposed to be about Stupid Stuff in Medellin. Example 1) This restaurant I know that leaves their condiments out at night and do not put in the refrigerator at night or ever. Example 2) I told a street girl that is she comes to Botero tomorrow that I wanted to be with her again. She asked for taxi money.

But instead guys write novels about why the other guy is stupid and we should all care for some reason. This has nothing to do with Medellin or what happens in Medellin.

I have never see so many guys trying to beat the hell out of a dead horse over and over and over again. Then do it again weeks or months later. The only positive thing I can say is at least you guys are not quitters.

Nope. This thread was created to move the bickering out of the Medellin thread. Same thing with the Stupid Shit in Bogota thread.

[LoveItHere69]

You did notice the name of the forum, yes? .

This sub-forum is supposed to be about Stupid Stuff in Medellin. Example 1) This restaurant I know that leaves their condiments out at night and do not put in the refrigerator at night or ever. Example 2) I told a street girl that is she comes to Botero tomorrow that I wanted to be with her again. She asked for taxi money.

But instead guys write novels about why the other guy is stupid and we should all care for some reason. This has nothing to do with Medellin or what happens in Medellin.

I have never see so many guys trying to beat the hell out of a dead horse over and over and over again. Then do it again weeks or months later. The only positive thing I can say is at least you guys are not quitters.

[Gabacho]

What would you suggest? Should we call a vote to have admins ban a couple guys?

I think the "stupid shit in medellíand" forum is serving its purpose. It's a place to keep all this shit so it doesn't flood the real medellin forum. This is exactly what it was created for.

[Villainy]

I came across the current back and forth a couple of weeks ago, and when I checked back in this morning, I saw it was still going on.

You did notice the name of the forum, yes? You were expecting an intellectual discussion of the bio-diversity in Colombia by region?

Assuming you are at least semi-literate you would probably recognize this paraphrase: Abandon all hope of normalcy, ye who enter here.

[Anthony2023]

I came across the current back and forth a couple of weeks ago, and when I checked back in this morning, I saw it was still going on.

What would you suggest? Should we call a vote to have admins ban a couple guys?

[Iguana Six]

I came across the current back and forth a couple of weeks ago, and when I checked back in this morning, I saw it was still going on.

[JjBee62]

It doesn't matter where he met her or what she did for living before. What matters is what happens after. Is the relationship exclusive and genuine? Do they see themselves together in 5 years, 10 years, or for the rest of their lives? And it is totally fine for a man to take care of his girlfriend, wife, or his family, don't you think? You probably won't understand, because you fuck your $35 hookers, whom your call "girlfriends". BTW, what's up with this trend of calling hookers "girlfriends"? Some of you guys are being delusional, they are not your girlfriends, take the money or any benefits they got from you out of the equation and see how long this "relationship" will last. Don't tell me BS about dating or a genuine relationship with a girl who could be your granddaughter, I'm not buying it.

It doesn't matter whether or not you buy it, and not only because you're irrelevant. I've got some time to explain it. I'll start with Elvis.

Elvis has a woman who is around 20 years younger than him, maybe more. He's convinced that she loves him, so convinced he's talking about marrying her and taking on the responsibility of raising her daughter. As long as he's convinced that she loves him, that his relationship is real, then he has a relationship. It doesn't matter if she's just using him, or if she secretly is disgusted by him. As long as she keeps him convinced of her love, it's all sunshine and rainbows.

Elvis's only mistake is trying to convince everyone of the perfection of his woman and his relationship. If he spent half the time on her as he spends trying to convince himself everyone is jealous of him, it would last forever.

Do you grasp that? As long as 2 people are each willing to put forth the effort to convince each other that they are happy together, they have a relationship. Whenever 1 or both stop putting forth the effort it crumbles and falls apart. That's the only significant thing.

If a girl young enough to be my granddaughter (in a world where a childless man can have a granddaughter) continues to convince me that she enjoys my company and is eager to be with me, while I convince her that I'm satisfied with her company, then it works.

That's all that matters. Nothing I do, nothing she does, requires your approval.

[Elvis 2008]

Here's the problem when you just get your information from Paulie, it's almost guaranteed to be 100% wrong.

That is lie #1.

Technically you never said your old lady's daughter was a 10.

And you are admitting lie #2.

You really shouldn't make sexual comparisons between a 14 year old girl and her mother.

Saying a woman is tall and slim like her mother has nothing to do with sex. Lie #3.

She was sophisticated enough to attend the Oscar's every year

Tickets to the Oscars are $750 apiece. That has zero to do with being sophisticated. Lie #4.

Shortly before I met her she was Personal Assistant to one of the elitest of the elite A-List actors. Then her boss caught her dipping into his cocaine.

On what planet is a lying, law breaking, disgraced, cocaine snorting, fired personal assistant peon fit to be first lady of a country? Lie #5.

If you can only measure your value in dollars, you have no value..

You claimed I was making $5000 a month. Lie #6. Then you made value based judgments on salary. Lie #7.

If There are no "estrato 4" or "estrato 6" girls. Paulie or you made some comment about my girl being from Manrique or Bello and I pointed out that she lived within an estrato 4 sector of Envigado.

This one gets a double point bonus. You make a statement and then lie about it in the next paragraph. That is 8 and 9.

If TI'm not limited to 2 dimensional thinking. I recognize that sex is just a biological function.

Lie #10. Sex has huge emotional and societal implications.

If Of course, someone like you with debilitating insecurity issues, could never fuck in front of 50 people, or kick back

That is lie #11. I do not have insecurity issues and do not get off like you do on getting attention. If you are married and care more about how you look fucking someone on stage than your wife's physical and emotional needs, you have no clue what the duties of a husband are.

and chat with the guys while their 4 wives are busy giving your girl a birthday present (1 eating her, 1 on each breast and 1 making out with her while she fingered 2 of them). People in the swinger lifestyle laugh at people having vanilla sex. You talk about having a harem, but freak out over any of them knowing you had other women? Shit, my wife would go to the bathroom at a swingers club and come out with someone for me to fuck. I'd come home for work and she would tell me she found a unicorn and asked if she could invite her over (to swingers, a unicorn is a single, bisexual woman).

Lie #13 is this whole fucked up think you call "marriage". I am shocked, shocked it did not last. / sarc.

We do this because there are a few people, like yourself, who insists on altering reality to fit their tiny view of the world. I call her "girlfriend", which should be sufficient. What you call her is up to you..

Lie #14 is you have a girlfriend.

You made $30,000 last year and when you were working you made $5,000 per month?

$5000 a month is what I said my woman will make when she comes to the USA. That you did not understand that just means you are stupid not lying. Saying I make $5000 a month is a lie but I already counted it.

I am going to call my making $30,000 a lie because you are trying to say that is all I had. To make $30,000 in the market, you have to put money, usually much more to work. Again, it is possible that you are so stupid and have never invested in the market in your life, but I am going to give you a break and call you a liar instead of stupid. So that is lie #15.

I'm not intimidated by women, regardless of their position, wealth, class, or power.

Sorry, you already said the photos of the women I post are meant to intimidate. Lie #16.

Her beauty is meaningless.

Lie #17. No explanation needed.

Unless you want to live as a submissive, a slave to a woman, it's the woman who has to be worthy of you. As you said elsewhere, when she's pregnant and shortly after giving birth, she's mostly helpless.

Lie #18. You are confusing the courtship phase and commitment phase of relationships.

I can't stand guys doing better than me? Nobody is doing better than me. And I'm not doing better than anyone else.

Lie #19. This is bullshit that makes no sense in an attempt to be profound.

When I go out to eat, I am eating for me. I'm not looking at what everyone else is eating and wondering if they are eating better. When I get in my car, it's just my car. Nobody else's car is on my mind. I don't care if someone has a better car. I don't care if someone has better clothes, lives in a better place.

When I'm with a woman it's the same thing.

This is the same one as women do not intimidate me. Sorry, you already admitted that other people's women intimidate you and now you are saying you do not care again. Lie #20.

Whether your woman is so beautiful she'd give Michelangelo an erection, or she's a typical middle aged Colombian woman doesn't matter.

Repeat lie of beauty does not matter. #21.

If you remember, you posted some pictures of girls in your harem. The first was attractive, by Colombian standards, nothing spectacular. She was (if I remember correctly) wearing a one piece bathing suit and had a sash like a beauty contestant. The picture was standing in dirt with what looked like a bar in the background. I believe you claimed she was a Miss Colombia runner-up.

We will go with faulty memory versus lie. She was not a member of my harem. She was Miss Cartagena. The pageant was in El Centro and her name was in lights in one of the photos, and I never said she was a great beauty, but anyone with a title like that is going to be sought after.

The second photo showed 2 girls facing a beach. Not a world class beach, the type of beach poor Mexicans and Colombians go to.

Rate on that hotel now is $444 a night. Again, I will go with stupid versus lie. I got it at a great discount during Covid when you were scared shitless in your mom's basement.

There are only a few people on ISG claiming they are getting better girls than everyone else.

Lie #22. No explanation needed.

3 posts, 22 lies, and two dumb as shit comments. And I am the one insecure? Your posts just prove you are a stupid, lying narcissist.

There are only a few people on ISG claiming they are getting better girls than everyone else. and I'm not one of them.

I am tempted to say this is the ONLY example of a true statement you wrote but IMO it is just fake humility in an attempt to bullshit.

[Elvis 2008]

I think the problem is you and some that share your view associate money spent and wealth with the women, and being able to date these women seem to make you superior. Guys like that raving about how much they spent, how hot the girls are but the reports always lack substance.

Sorry, Nounce, I did not know who was pursuing her for months after I met her. What was shocking to me was how many not so attractive women were pursued by men of wealth, fame, and power. It was actually a friend who said "Every decent looking woman has been pursued by a famous athlete. ".

IFrom my point of view, I think it is shallow. If you look at the top 10 billionaires, do most of them date or marry the most beautiful women?.

I do not know or care. What I think is you have the image of billionaires getting whomever they want. I have seen the opposite. I have been stunned at how underconfident some are.

Why do you keep disparaging the centro hookers?

I am not. I am disparaging the men who are trying to equate them with hotties who are GF / wife material. I said on average sexually speaking the Santa Fe / El Centro type were better sexually than the seeking types. Of course, if a seeking type was lousy in bed, I would not repeat.

About buying drinks. You will never see me buying drinks for the 10 that everybody wants to buy drink for because I have no interest to be like everybody.

Then the only 10 you are going to meet is a hooker who would fuck anyone for money, and I think you are taking this too literally. When I say everyone wants to buy her a drink, what I mean is guys are coming onto her day and night. How do you sell yourself such that she thinks of you as a worthy suitor? Saying you do not care is bullshit Nounce. Every guy in the world wants a 10 who thinks they are the shit. Your saying you do not want to compete is just fear based on rejection that probably stems from a previous painful relationship. Go ahead and get pissed at me, but I know what I am talking about.

Money can buy you looks; it can buy great sex. What it cannot buy is true desire; that comes from personality and later character. Of course, women are going to be attracted to confident men, and be desirable towards them. Thing about confidence is whether or not that confidence truly reflects ability and character and when you have guys like JJBee and Viliany, eventually the women are going to see their confidence is based on narcissism and dump them.

What you do not get about narcissists is their confidence game. With fellow men, they try to get them to feel as they are in some special, misunderstood group, and it is attractive. Who does not want to feel part of a special group? Thing is once you get sucked in they have you, and you will do anything to prove you belong to their special group, and you obviously have been sucked in by guys like these two and their language.

The one good thing about the mentally ill like these two is their lack of originality. What is their shaming technique? People in the group are laughing at you. JJbee just used it. We swingers are laughing at you guys and your vanilla sex lives. Is that is what is going on? Or are swingers hiding their lifestyles, married people fucking everything that moves, from society?

My confidence and hold on reality means the narcissistic jedi mind tricks do not work. The same goes with Miami Boy but not you. JJBee comes forward with the most disgusting marriage I have ever heard of and then tries to redefine what a GF is and you swallow it whole.

[JjBee62]

That is not by choice, Mr. Truck Driver.

I didn't say billionaires, but all of my hotter American sugar babies have been pursued by rich people and famous athletes. If a woman is a 10, she is going to be hit on by most everyone. Duh. It is just a question of the company she is with at the time.

You are just confirming how ugly the women you see are. A 10 gets hit on by everyone. It is obvious you have never been around one.

If I am the insecure one, why do you keep lying? There was no ultimatum. She was given a job in a town where it would be hard for me to see her, and she was depressed about it. I asked her how much her job was paying and covered her salary. Paying her was my idea, and this was six months after we started dating..

You got one thing right. I've never been with a woman who intimidated me. I'm not intimidated by women, regardless of their position, wealth, class, or power.

You think a woman is intimidating because she's beautiful? That's pathetic. She's just a woman. Her beauty is meaningless. If she relies upon it to get through life, she's no better than the one-legged man begging for change on the street. She's hopping through life on a crutch, looking for charity.

Unless you want to live as a submissive, a slave to a woman, it's the woman who has to be worthy of you. As you said elsewhere, when she's pregnant and shortly after giving birth, she's mostly helpless. If she's not worthy of being sheltered, protected and cared for, she's on her own.

As I said, I know my own value.

You keep calling everyone a narcissist. I don't think you know what it means. Or you do know but you're following the first rule of the narcissist club: "I'm not a narcissist, you're a narcissist. ".

I can't stand guys doing better than me? Nobody is doing better than me. And I'm not doing better than anyone else. This is a concept that clearly defines who is a narcissist.

When I go out to eat, I am eating for me. I'm not looking at what everyone else is eating and wondering if they are eating better. When I get in my car, it's just my car. Nobody else's car is on my mind. I don't care if someone has a better car. I don't care if someone has better clothes, lives in a better place.

When I'm with a woman it's the same thing. She only needs to be attractive to me. I'm not looking around to see if someone else has a better looking girl. Whether your woman is so beautiful she'd give Michelangelo an erection, or she's a typical middle aged Colombian woman doesn't matter. I'm not fucking her, have no desire to fuck her and don't care who is fucking her.

We went through this a few months ago when, put of the blue you accused me of claiming I was superior to everyone. You constantly accuse everyone of being arrogant. You make up ridiculous stories about everyone believing in a land of virgins and every day exaggerate more and more about your girl.

If you remember, you posted some pictures of girls in your harem. The first was attractive, by Colombian standards, nothing spectacular. She was (if I remember correctly) wearing a one piece bathing suit and had a sash like a beauty contestant. The picture was standing in dirt with what looked like a bar in the background. I believe you claimed she was a Miss Colombia runner-up. Strange that they hold the Miss Colombia competition in a dirt lot outside a cheap bar.

The second photo showed 2 girls facing a beach. Not a world class beach, the type of beach poor Mexicans and Colombians go to. The picture was taken from a distance behind the girls. Quite obviously it was taken without their knowledge. The girl on the right looked to have a good body, but the girl on the left was curvy, not fat, just big hips, big thighs. You claimed they were both your girls and that the curvy one had 0% body fat. Remember that one? I challenged you to show a real picture of them, taken with their knowledge and you stopped posting pictures.

There are only a few people on ISG claiming they are getting better girls than everyone else and I'm not one of them.

[Nounce]

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If I am the insecure one, why do you keep lying? There was no ultimatum. She was given a job in a town where it would be hard for me to see her, and she was depressed about it. I asked her how much her job was paying and covered her salary. Paying her was my idea, and this was six months after we started dating.

And you were making fun of my phrase of being worthy of a woman. Well, yeah, what guy is going to be insecure with the glue sniffer centro rats you see? OTOH, you got a woman who stops traffic and appears to be nuts about you, and it is natural to ask, "Uh, why are you interested in me?" because such a woman so often has secondary motives.....

I think the problem is you and some that share your view associate money spent and wealth with the women, and being able to date these women seem to make you superior. Guys like that raving about how much they spent, how hot the girls are but the reports always lack substance. From my point of view, I think it is shallow. If you look at the top 10 billionaires, do most of them date or marry the most beautiful women? Why do you keep disparaging the centro hookers? At least they hold a job and trying to make a living. Does that mean something to you? Does it mean a hooker that charges USD200 deserves more respect than a hooker that charges US $10?

About buying drinks. You will never see me buying drinks for the 10 that everybody wants to buy drink for because I have no interest to be like everybody.

The elites that I know have a job waiting for them by the time they graduate from college. When someone is from an elite family, that person would not have problem getting a job simply from family connection.

[Huacho]

I'm still waiting for pussy whipped simping Elvis to come up with where I ever talked about a girl friend or any dental issues. But that got me thinking about about dental issues and an argie hooker who had a removable upper plate. I knew her for a couple of years and one night she left the bathroom door open and I saw her brushing the plate. She saw me seeing and it was kind of an "okay so now you know this" moment. In the instant, I knew and she knew what it meant: I would eventually ask her to take out the plate for better blow jobs. I waited a gentlemanly length of time, three or four sessions more, and brought it up. No. Saw her for a few more years, never did get it. But my point is, don't underrate toothless hookers. They have their advantages.

[Mr Enternational]

Don't tell me BS about dating or a genuine relationship with a girl who could be your granddaughter, I'm not buying it.

LOL. I am 50 and my grandkids are 5, so that definitely is not me. I am not a guy that seeks out barely legal chicks. I meet people that I like and that like me, and not because they fit within a certain age range. But I am not a guy trying to date Madonna or Cher; I don't care how much money they have.

[Mr Enternational]

You probably won't understand, because you fuck your $35 hookers, whom your call "girlfriends". BTW, what's up with this trend of calling hookers "girlfriends"? Some of you guys are being delusional, they are not your girlfriends, take the money or any benefits they got from you out of the equation and see how long this "relationship" will last.

You must have the wrong person. I have never referred to anyone that I give money to as a girlfriend, and I especially would not do it if I was paying her rent every month. I have always said on this forum that if you want to know how someone really feels about you then show up without money. I can do that with a girlfriend. A hooker is performing a service that I pay for. I can say with 100% certainty that I have never had a girlfriend that wanted me for money, because I have never given money to girlfriends.

The other night a barber chick met up with me when I was having dinner. The next day in our chat it came out that her idea of boyfriend was someone that gives money. So that is to say that when I run out of money, then I run out of girlfriend. Her dumb ass is going to tell me that is why I do not have a woman, because I am not coming off of any money. Well bih I have plenty of women that I do not have to give money to. As a matter of fact I just came from an island vacation with one an hour before she met up with me. Her blind ass can not see that she does not have a boyfriend because evidently she is having a hard time finding an Elvis to pay her rent every month. I guess that shit is easier said than done.

For me variety is the spice of life. Being so, I am not going to give the same chick $500 per month for her to be my "girlfriend" when I can pay a different chick $35 every 2 days to fuck. But that is just me.

P.S. There is a hooker in my bed right now that insisted to come over for free. I did not want company so I told her I did not have any money. But she insisted she wanted to come sleep over. Delusional broad thinking I do not have anyone because I will not give money. I pay chicks because I want to, not because I have to.