Stupid shit in Medellin

[Paulie97]

If I'm honest I have to admit Exito cashiers are as slow as molasses. .

I missed JJBee's novel / filibuster from early this month, scanned over it and will make a few comments.

Let's revisit the timeline, shall we?

Without a doubt, to recent events, late last month that represent a long pattern you persistently avoid talking about while trying to drown it out with novels. It's a lot more relevant than Whatsapp banter from 6 years ago about a cashier then a Venezuelan hooker, that I eventually fucked as she showed up in the lineup in Affie. But yea we have all observed it. The evidence is all over this thread and the main Medellin thread. You love flame wars, have been at it for years here, and especially trolling newbs while pretending that you are so smart, competent, and superior. Attacks on you are fair game. I've served you up some, and none of that justifies publishing information regarding a drugging that you agreed to keep in confidence. That is a major douche move, and others here have said the same. You also do yourself no favors mocking anyone for getting drugged. That could happen to anyone, as all one has to do is lower their guard for a moment. Also, back in 2017 we weren't so cognizant of these crimes. In my case it was a one off event.

Also what was shared about you wasn't in confidence, but all volunteered by you. It's reported here to demonstrate that you aren't the brain and bigshot that you claim to be. Yes you failed to finish college, failed at multiple marriages, the same at multiple careers, habitually had your pocket picked in Medellin by strippers and hookers, with the crescendo in the same city, as you at nearly 60 years of age were left stranded without money after running a camera for a webcam model, all after bending over and allowing yourself to be gipped week after week for a total of a year's pay. That's all your admission. And yes, you in our meetings wouldn't shut up about how webcamming was the future, and how you were on the verge of securing your fortune. But in the aftermath with great leaps of cognitive dissonance, claim you knew all along that it was a "long shot" and "at least I got an apartment for free. " You had a room whatever, but you have a lot of explaining to do, thus the novels.

And last but not least, if there's a 21 year girl in your life you most certainly are sending money. We all know this. You can lie and say you aren't, but no one believes you. Which goes back to your favorite kind of evidence, anecdotes, personal stories that can't be verified. Convenient huh? Go on and on, "I, me, my" write something so long, anecdotal, and boring that few will bother reading it, then crawl back in your corner and claim victory. Now type up another novel, that I may or may not pay attention to.

Happy New Year one and all. Make it a great 2024, and stay safe out there.

[Elvis 2008]

Seekingarrangement is the only site I know, you pay more than $100/ M US and the women don't. What you get is liars, overweight old milfs, ugly twisted former pros or expensive as shiit young women who are no better looking than what you get in a club. Not only you pay a hefty monthly fee but you expose yourself, real photo for the world to see that you are trying to be a sugar daddy. The effort and time it consumes searching and chatting will blow your mind.

It seems like the Medellin moron cult is aching for a fight, and your post has pumped them up. They are going to disappointed. For the record, I never paid more than a hundred a month nor did I ever post a photo.

Seeking is a big ripoff. I tried it for a Month, most of them wasted my time, blah blah for days only when I tried to arrange something they back away, one came and she was a twisted ugly old rag who was a former street prostitute, another I met, she was average but ok looking and she said she is not sex for a hire but want real Sugar / baby / Daddy relationship although I made it clear to her what I wanted and she agreed.
If you have money to throw away then get one of these who want thousands per month only for you to be with them few times. If you are trying to find sex for pay as you go, do not use this site.

I think you posted you have not been to Colombia Zendunka, and I never met any woman asking for that much in Colombia.

I was last on seeking in the USA in 2018. Over 3 months, I had 3 dates. Thankfully, two of them panned out but the number of scammers went through the roof. Seeking was awesome in 2009, good in 2013, and flat out sucked in 2018.

In Mexico, I used it in 2019. I got a dozen numbers, had 4 dates, and got one long term prospect. If someone told me seeking was not worth it then, I would not have argued with them.

Then the pandemic / scamdemic hit. I read all I could about Covid and got to see cases myself. The vaccine worked well early on and I got the injection as soon as I could. I did not get the second injection because I read there was no proof it was really needed. Then the authorities required you to have it to travel and I got the second shot. I took common sense precautions, had no issues, and I enjoyed dirt cheap travel and lodging.

So in the Medelln moron cult, there were some guys who got fake vaccine cards. There was one guy who was so sick he was in a hospital right before going to Colombia, decided he did not have Covid symptoms, went to Colombia, spread it to God knows how many people, and when he tried to return to the USA had to isolate himself after testing positive. There was yet another moron who locked himself in his basement for 2 years and said if he got sick, he would die in his house versus going to a hospital. All this time the morons were lecturing others on how smart they were about Covid. You cannot make this stuff up.

I had also used seeking in Colombia prior to the scamdemic in 2019. I got like 30 responses, got a dozen or so dates, and found a handful of keepers. I would have said it was good then not great, but I would have recommended guys use it.

Then the scamdemic hits. In Mexico, I am getting dozens of responses. More importantly, now I am getting women who are stunning and had to quit work. This was a gold rush like I have never seen before. Prior to the scamdemic, the top girl I met was maybe an 8, but post Covid, I literally met about a half dozen of the 9-10 types. Mexico never shut down or had a travel ban.

On the other hand, Colombia did. All but essential workers were laid off and the women who could no longer work were hard up for cash, and they were banned from leaving their homes for most of the day. They had nothing to do but watch TV and be on line. The response I was getting were unreal, the mother of all gold rushes. I stopped at close to 200 and had to rank them on an Excel spreadsheet. Seriously. Once the travel ban ended, I had an epic run.

And I told the forum everything I was doing in real time, and one guy did like me. The rest of the Medellin moron cult just sat on their hands and balked. I can say now. If you were not on seeking then, you were a fucking idiot, and these guys were not on seeking. That is why your post has made them feel so good.

Shortly after the travel ban ended, I hooked up with my gal and have not used the site since. So if you are saying seeking sucks these days in the USA and Tijuana, then yeah, I would agree with you. My guess is it would be decent in the rest of Mexico and okay in Colombia, but I could not swear to it.

[Knowledge]

If I'm honest I have to admit Exito cashiers are as slow as molasses. .

Detective Paulie of the ISG Paulice force is out there making deductions. Unfortunately, you're deducting from zero.

Let's revisit the timeline, shall we?

April 2017 I arrived in Medellin. Sometime early July of the same year I received a PM from Paulie97. The gist of the message was that you enjoyed reading my posts, were in Medellin and would like to meet me. At that time, I had no idea who you were because you never posted. We met at a little bar in Laureles, drank beer, talked and eventually went to your favorite casa. I don't know the name because I never had the urge to return. It was the least impressive casa I visited in Medellin. However, I did pick a girl and she performed to my satisfaction. You picked a girl and it turned out there was an odor issue. We left, you expressed a desire to return, I headed to the Metro and went home.

Within a day or so you wanted to hang out with me again, this time in Parque Lleras. I was meeting with another person from ISG, who was also meeting someone else. After a drink, you and I went to Jenson's Bar, drank beer and stayed late. So far, so good. Shortly thereafter was the first sign not all was right in the mind of Paulie. It seems you were stuck waiting in line at Exito. You spent a lot of time complaining about the incompetence of Colombians. My response was that it was something you should expect. Cashiers in Colombia move slow under the best circumstances. At which point you began attacking me, nothing too serious, but it was obvious you only wanted someone to justify your victim status.

Then the real trouble began. You had told me about a Venezuelan girl who hung out near your hotel with a bunch of street rats. She was your target and you spent a fair amount of money trying to get her to fuck you, all to no avail. In a true sign of desperation, you decided to buy pizza for her and her friends, hoping your generosity would win her over. Not only did your ploy fail, it ultimately led you right here, taking out your frustration with your failure on me. None of the Venezuelan street rats thanked you for the free pizza. When you messaged me the next day about the grave injustice, I asked what you expected. First thing, if you give a gift expecting something in return, it's not a gift. If you expect something in return, you should express your terms in advance. Every monger knows that.

My failure to sympathize with the terrible injustice of a bunch of borderline criminals failing to thank you for cheap pizza opened the floodgates. You proceeded to rant and insult me for the next few hours. What did I do? I offered to take you around Medellin, to spend a day getting you away from the constant diet of beer, viagra and cheap hookers, all on my dime. Am I lying? After you spent hours attacking me, my response was to help you, at my expense, to get away from the stress which was obviously affecting your judgement. Your response to my offer? "Fuck you. ".

Fast forward, probably to September. You returned to Medellin and sought me out. You actually came to Parque Lleras for the sole purpose of finding me. I was ready to go home, and agreed to meet you the following day, when you told me about being drugged and robbed. You wanted me to post about it, without revealing your name, which I did. Let that sink in for a bit. After your worst experience in Medellin, one which could have killed you, your first reaction was to seek me out, tell me of your ordeal and ask me to tell your story. With all of your mongering experience, when things were at the bottom, the only person you could turn to was a guy who you had told to fuck off. What does that say about you? What does it say about me?

I told your story, as closely as possible to what you told me. However, I made a minor mistake. It had no effect on the story, but it set you off with another profanity filled attack on me. At that point, after all of my attempts to be reasonable, after my willingness to not hold your previous attacks against you, I said fuck it and identified you as the victim. Let's add in just a bit more spice. On several occasions, since your first insane outburst, whenever I have argued with another ISG member, you have given out personal or inaccurate information about me. Still interested in talking about integrity?

I will ask again. Is any of that untrue? You know it isn't. Now let's look at your deductions.

You last saw me over 6 years ago. Any deduction based on minimal contact 6 years in the past isn't "an easy deduction. " It's something made up out of thin air. Furthermore, although you are trying to paint a picture of someone who nobody would ever want to be around, I was clearly someone who you wanted to be around. You initiated contact, requested further meetings and came to find me, knowing that I might completely reject you. After a terrible experience, your first impulse was to come to me. You even sought contact with me again after I called you out for passing information about me to another monger. Cut the bullshit.

Back to your deduction that I can't have a girlfriend. She's not a third world hooker, never was and it's unlikely she ever will be. I'm not sending her money, considering our current situation, sending her money would be silly, which I told you 2 months ago. She's not selling me anything, but once again all of your statements are just shit you made up.

My natural aptitude got me into the Navy Nuke program? That might be the most clueless statement you've ever made. In 1980, getting into the Navy Nuke program required 5 things.

1. Basic education requirements, easily fulfilled in high school on the college prep track.

2. A high score on the ASVAB (Armed Services Vocational Aptitude Battery). I don't know the threshold.

3. A passing score on the NFQT (Nuclear Field Qualifying Test).

4. The ability to learn the equivalent of a BS in Electrical, or Mechanical Engineering, with a minor in Physics and Chemistry, in 6 months.

5. The ability to learn everything about a functioning Nuclear Propulsion Plant and pass comprehensive written and oral exams in less than 6 months.

At the time only 25% of those accepted into the school completed the program. I finished high enough to stay on as an instructor.

Failed at college? Another made up out of thin air sign of desperation. My first college experience was a certification program in Computer Science I finished top of my class. My second experience I was on the Dean's List, enrolled in Honors courses and holding a 3. 81 GPA when my financial situation could no longer support my education.

Failed at marriages? 40-50% of first marriages end in divorce. 60-67% of second marriages end in divorce. Apparently, I'm in good company. When there are no kids involved, and I am childless, it's not much of a failure. BTW, didn't you have a kid and get divorced? You never answered before, but isn't that ironic?

Failed at careers? Maybe you can open for David Copperfield, because you have a knack of pulling stuff put of thin air. I never sought a career, never wanted one. All I want is to earn enough to pay for my fun. I've accomplished that. Since you mentioned careers, what about yours? I'm pretty sure that you weren't doing what you do now for 40+ years.

Duped by a webcam model. Abracadabra! During most of the time I was in Medellin, the webcam model and her boyfriend were paying around 6 million COP monthly to rent 3 3 bed apartments, plus over 1 million for dedicated fiber and utilities. When I broke ties with them (towards the end of 2017), I received a nice deposit from them. It wasn't enough to offset my expenditures for the prior 8 months, but it helped. It was nearly 4 months after when I was penniless.

The core of your problem is that you have only 1 desire here, to attack me and anyone you perceive as my friend. You ignore anything which stands in the way of your desire. You completely bypass logic and make up whatever fits your skewed narrative. Here's a simple example. "I was duped by a webcam model and her boyfriend. " Duped for what purpose? For over 9 months I had almost free use of an apartment, a space which could have been used by a webcam model who would have made money for them. For 6 months I had almost unlimited access to another 3 bedroom apartment, intended to be used as a studio. Why give up chances to earn money to dupe a gringo into staying in your apartment for free while spending his own money to have fun?

Even if I was duped, as you say, I profited greatly from the experience and the expense was well worth it to me. Meanwhile, you were duped by a "friend" into ingesting dangerous drugs which could have killed you, and you were robbed. Say what you will, but I'll take spending $25 k to spend a year in Medellin, making friends, learning Spanish and fucking hookers over waking up in a hospital, with all my money gone and a 14 hour gap in my memory.

[Knowledge]

Yes, my understanding is it works like bars and clubs where there is no cover for women and / or women drink free or 1/2 price.

Seeking is free for women.

[Knowledge]

It is like every other premium price point in the game. You are not paying for a good performance or even sex. You are paying a premium for fantasy, illusion, make up, sometimes plastic surgery, furnishings, air freshener, etc. It's all good as long as we don't get caught up in the bullshit like gamblers who think they are going to change their lives if they just keep playing until the big score comes.

Yea I always figured it was probably bullshit. I've gotten tons of women from Facebook then have them introduce me to their friends and then friends of those friends and so on and that seems to work really well for me and I don't have to pay any fucking fees at all.

[Knowledge]

I'm going to make a big bowl of popcorn and watch the rebuttals from guys who really believe the seeking lore. This should be good, even though Mr. E spoiled some of the fun with this response.

Bullshit. Everyone knows there are beauty queens and models on Seeking who are only looking for love. I know that Seeking means Seeking Love. Why are you trying to lie and say it means Seeking Suckers?

[ElPostino]

Seeking is a big ripoff. I tried it for a Month, most of them wasted my time, blah blah for days only when I tried to arrange something they back away, one came and she was a twisted ugly old rag who was a former street prostitute, another I met, she was average but ok looking and she said she is not sex for a hire but want real Sugar / baby / Daddy relationship although I made it clear to her what I wanted and she agreed.

If you have money to throw away then get one of these who want thousands per month only for you to be with them few times. If you are trying to find sex for pay as you go, do not use this site.

So true! I see same listed in seekibng also in tinder, facebook and parque lleras. Saw some in Parque lleras who work in casas. It is totally waste of time. I am sure there are one or two lucky one but mostly garbage.

[Mr Enternational]

Seekingarrangement is the only site I know, you pay more than $100/ M US and the women don't. What you get is liars, overweight old milfs, ugly twisted former pros or expensive as shiit young women who are no better looking than what you get in a club.

Seeking is a big ripoff. I tried it for a Month, most of them wasted my time, blah blah for days only when I tried to arrange something they back away, one came and she was a twisted ugly old rag who was a former street prostitute,

Bullshit. Everyone knows there are beauty queens and models on Seeking who are only looking for love. I know that Seeking means Seeking Love. Why are you trying to lie and say it means Seeking Suckers?

[Gabacho]

Seekingarrangement is the only site I know, you pay more than $100/ M US and the women don't. What you get is liars, overweight old milfs, ugly twisted former pros or expensive as shiit young women who are no better looking than what you get in a club. Not only you pay a hefty monthly fee but you expose yourself, real photo for the world to see that you are trying to be a sugar daddy. The effort and time it consumes searching and chatting will blow your mind.

Seeking is a big ripoff. I tried it for a Month, most of them wasted my time, blah blah for days only when I tried to arrange something they back away, one came and she was a twisted ugly old rag who was a former street prostitute, another I met, she was average but ok looking and she said she is not sex for a hire but want real Sugar / baby / Daddy relationship although I made it clear to her what I wanted and she agreed.

If you have money to throw away then get one of these who want thousands per month only for you to be with them few times. If you are trying to find sex for pay as you go, do not use this site.

Yea I always figured it was probably bullshit. I've gotten tons of women from Facebook then have them introduce me to their friends and then friends of those friends and so on and that seems to work really well for me and I don't have to pay any fucking fees at all.

[Zenduka1]

I've never used seeking before (atleast not yet) so forgive my ignorance, I thought both parties ha e to pay.

As far as wanting as many women as possible, I was in a marriage type relationship for like 7 years right off the bar when I was younger and I felt like I wasted my best years when I could have been out exploring instead being tied down to just one woman. Then after her another one for 3 years LOL. So now I just want to test drive and move on. I guess I'm trying to make up for lost time idk. But to each his own.

I e had a cpl chicas here in Medellin that I genuinely liked being with. Like Reimarby, the one I took on the santa marta trip back in 2021 but I realized that it was all just a show she was putting in for me to keep me fucking her and giving her money instead of broadening my horizons, so I stopped seeing her and moved on.

For me it's better not to get emotional or worry about if a chica likes me or not because I don't want to be with just one I want to keep test driving.

Seekingarrangement is the only site I know, you pay more than $100/ M US and the women don't. What you get is liars, overweight old milfs, ugly twisted former pros or expensive as shiit young women who are no better looking than what you get in a club. Not only you pay a hefty monthly fee but you expose yourself, real photo for the world to see that you are trying to be a sugar daddy. The effort and time it consumes searching and chatting will blow your mind.

Seeking is a big ripoff. I tried it for a Month, most of them wasted my time, blah blah for days only when I tried to arrange something they back away, one came and she was a twisted ugly old rag who was a former street prostitute, another I met, she was average but ok looking and she said she is not sex for a hire but want real Sugar / baby / Daddy relationship although I made it clear to her what I wanted and she agreed.

If you have money to throw away then get one of these who want thousands per month only for you to be with them few times. If you are trying to find sex for pay as you go, do not use this site.

[Guerinto]

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[Villainy]

How long had they been dead, and was this before or after the embalming process?

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[Gabacho]

I have met women who fucked me without a price.

Did these women rim job your ass without a price too? Or did you have to pay for that?

[Huacho]

I have met women who fucked me without a price.

How long had they been dead, and was this before or after the embalming process?

[Elvis 2008]

Also if the women don't have to pay then what is to stop someone from making a fake account with fake pictures, fake ID, etc. To lure in unsuspecting men to be scoped and robbed or even kidnapped and killed like the Hmong dude a cpl weeks ago?

You can report women who are scammers or suspected ones on the site. If you show proof of their actions, the site will take their profile down.

The real issue though is on the guy and screening the woman. If I was particularly smitten with a woman's photos, there were times I would ditch my screening techniques, and that is when they were issues. If someone were a teacher, I would say tell me about your lesson plans. If an actress, tell me about what your last job was ETC. It would not take long to tell if the women were full of shit or not.

And my preference was always to meet them in a hotel where there were cameras all around. It was not 100% safe but it was safer than going to Santa Fe or Centro.

As far as seeing fewer and better women, I get you, but there is a difference between many of the women off of seeking and the hookers / strippers ETC. They both want money, but many of the seeking women did not want the feeling of being a hooker. If a woman meets a guy in a bar and fucks him and does not ask for money, she is not a hooker. The idea is seeking is the same thing but the man is helping the woman out. You may see that is the same as a woman selling herself for sex, but many women feel differently fucking a sugar daddy over a john.

And the opposite is the guy wanting to believe he is helping a woman out versus paying for sex. You can see Mr. E needling me on this subject. You ARE paying for sex. You ARE paying women to like you. He thinks he is always right, but the thing is I am asking myself those same questions about the women. And just as you had the experience when a woman turned out to be all about the money, I have met several of the same. In fact, I would be hard pressed to say I have met a stripper / hooker / cam girl who was not like that.

Still, I have met many women on seeking I have met who are not just all about the money, and the guys who have used the site have seen the same thing. It is not just you can get said women from seeking. It is just the easiest place for someone visiting to do it that I know of.