Stupid shit in Medellin

[Gabacho]

The women do not have to pay Gabacho. The women can pay a small fee so that their ads are on the top of the searches, but that is it.

Also if the women don't have to pay then what is to stop someone from making a fake account with fake pictures, fake ID, etc. To lure in unsuspecting men to be scoped and robbed or even kidnapped and killed like the Hmong dude a cpl weeks ago?

[Gabacho]

The women do not have to pay Gabacho. The women can pay a small fee so that their ads are on the top of the searches, but that is it.

I think you are missing the greater point. She wanted to prove her value as a quality companion. I have little doubt that this one would have done literally whatever I wanted sexually. She was also the type that did charity work and was a giver. So yeah, I knew that if we were in a relationship for a while, she would want me to give back to her, but I do not think she did. She was in the happier ever after fairy tale mode.

The downside is that she was naive about relationships and put me on a pedestal, and I did not want to be around once I came off. IOW, she liked me too much without knowing me that well, and she was in school. I was going to have to be there for her when the realism of a relationship and the work place hit her, and the reality of the law is cold and hard. That naivete is the downside of relationships with the 18 to 23 ish range women IMO.

Thing is the women in Colombia remind me of people I used to hire. With white collar people, they responded great to incentives. Blue collar folks took that as license to steal, so I had to learn that to get the best out of them was to kick their ass if they did not do the work. So I get your attitude about I don't give a fuck about them because that was the way I was with blue collar types. If you do not do the job, I will find someone who will. The hookers / strippers / centro gals think kindness is weakness. Long term for them is tomorrow.

But many white collars in Colombia do not make that much. One of the first women I met was in Barranquilla. She was a 9, great in bed, nice, ambitious, and she was working at a bank making $300 a month. She looked like a younger Thandiwe Newton. If I were there, I would be like, "Hey, why don't you go part time and I will cover your salary. You can see me versus going to work, and I am a lot more fun. " That is where the woman liking you and trusting you pays off. If she likes you, then you are banging a smoking hot classy intelligent woman two or three times a week as much as you want for $150 a month. I don't get the fucking as many women as you can. Why would you want 20 hookers who are just in it for the money over two or three women who are better looking and better in bed and like you and actually want to please you?

Of course, the ultimate reason for the girl to like you is you fuck them for free. If a woman brought up price, then I would talk about it, but I have met women who fucked me without a price. I just used seeking to meet them but if I were there and could network, I would have not had needed it. I cannot tell you how many times I have had to tell guys not to mention price in Colombia.

I've never used seeking before (atleast not yet) so forgive my ignorance, I thought both parties ha e to pay.

As far as wanting as many women as possible, I was in a marriage type relationship for like 7 years right off the bar when I was younger and I felt like I wasted my best years when I could have been out exploring instead being tied down to just one woman. Then after her another one for 3 years LOL. So now I just want to test drive and move on. I guess I'm trying to make up for lost time idk. But to each his own.

I e had a cpl chicas here in Medellin that I genuinely liked being with. Like Reimarby, the one I took on the santa marta trip back in 2021 but I realized that it was all just a show she was putting in for me to keep me fucking her and giving her money instead of broadening my horizons, so I stopped seeing her and moved on.

For me it's better not to get emotional or worry about if a chica likes me or not because I don't want to be with just one I want to keep test driving.

[Elvis 2008]

How about the flip side. Tell the woman that you can longer see her, but you will still send her money. Think she will mind losing out on you the same way you claim she should not accept you without the money?

I know you think she would be happier with money over companionship. The truth is you could not be more wrong.

If she had a job where she could work, and I quit mine, and we spent every night together, that would be heaven for her.

I guess you have never had a woman determined to be a good partner.

It is funny for me to be getting used to this, but when a couple has luggage, it is customary for the man to carry the heavier load. Not her. She carries everything and if she cannot do it on her own, she makes her daughter carry what is left. She won't let me carry the luggage. That is symbolic of who she wants to be in our relationship.

You seem hell bent to believe she is all about the money even though you have never met her. What does that say about you?

[Elvis 2008]

I'm not calling you a liar, Elvis. I'm not sure what her motivation or intentions were, but at some point I'm sure she would have expected some kind of financial support in exchange for her company. Maybe it was in fact the long con she was attempting to go for. You mention that you found her on Seeking Arrangements, correct? Doesn't that site require a monthly membership fee to be able to use it? You're honestly telling me that she pays a fee every month to use Seeking but she isn't seeking anything financially from it? Sounds like she would be losing money if that were the case.

The women do not have to pay Gabacho. The women can pay a small fee so that their ads are on the top of the searches, but that is it.

I'm not sure what her motivation or intentions were, but at some point I'm sure she would have expected some kind of financial support in exchange for her company.

I think you are missing the greater point. She wanted to prove her value as a quality companion. I have little doubt that this one would have done literally whatever I wanted sexually. She was also the type that did charity work and was a giver. So yeah, I knew that if we were in a relationship for a while, she would want me to give back to her, but I do not think she did. She was in the happier ever after fairy tale mode.

The downside is that she was naive about relationships and put me on a pedestal, and I did not want to be around once I came off. IOW, she liked me too much without knowing me that well, and she was in school. I was going to have to be there for her when the realism of a relationship and the work place hit her, and the reality of the law is cold and hard. That naivete is the downside of relationships with the 18 to 23 ish range women IMO.

Thing is the women in Colombia remind me of people I used to hire. With white collar people, they responded great to incentives. Blue collar folks took that as license to steal, so I had to learn that to get the best out of them was to kick their ass if they did not do the work. So I get your attitude about I don't give a fuck about them because that was the way I was with blue collar types. If you do not do the job, I will find someone who will. The hookers / strippers / centro gals think kindness is weakness. Long term for them is tomorrow.

But many white collars in Colombia do not make that much. One of the first women I met was in Barranquilla. She was a 9, great in bed, nice, ambitious, and she was working at a bank making $300 a month. She looked like a younger Thandiwe Newton. If I were there, I would be like, "Hey, why don't you go part time and I will cover your salary. You can see me versus going to work, and I am a lot more fun. " That is where the woman liking you and trusting you pays off. If she likes you, then you are banging a smoking hot classy intelligent woman two or three times a week as much as you want for $150 a month. I don't get the fucking as many women as you can. Why would you want 20 hookers who are just in it for the money over two or three women who are better looking and better in bed and like you and actually want to please you?

Of course, the ultimate reason for the girl to like you is you fuck them for free. If a woman brought up price, then I would talk about it, but I have met women who fucked me without a price. I just used seeking to meet them but if I were there and could network, I would have not had needed it. I cannot tell you how many times I have had to tell guys not to mention price in Colombia.

[MiamiBoy1]

I'm not calling you a liar, Elvis. I'm not sure what her motivation or intentions were, but at some point I'm sure she would have expected some kind of financial support in exchange for her company. Maybe it was in fact the long con she was attempting to go for. You mention that you found her on Seeking Arrangements, correct? Doesn't that site require a monthly membership fee to be able to use it? You're honestly telling me that she pays a fee every month to use Seeking but she isn't seeking anything financially from it? Sounds like she would be losing money if that were the case.

Seeking is free for women.

[Gabacho]

Right on Dr Fun!

You must be a blast to hang with Lol. 🤪

Felices fiestas! 🎄

Yea I prefer not to "hang out" with anyone. I'm more of a lone wolf and that's exactly how I like it.

-Gabacho.

[Balboa]

I could give two fucks whether or not a woman really likes me. I am here to fuck as many women as possible (without any emotions involved). It's a pure numbers game. Any money wasted on some woman, other than being used to stick my penis inside her, is a futile waste of money and it takes away from other prospects that I could have had, had I not wasted the money on the ***** that I thought might have liked me.

Are guys really coming down here for a love connection? LMAO. Looking for some fake fucking future wife (or at least that's what they think) that really loves them and isn't in it for the money.

I believe it was Tupac Shakur who said "you can't turn a hoe into a housewife" a lot of you guys would do well to heed his wisdom.

Gabacho.

Right on Dr Fun!

You must be a blast to hang with Lol. 🤪

Felices fiestas! 🎄

[Gabacho]

Have you ever met a hooker try to give you back $300? I have not. In fact, hookers are notorious for not thinking long term. That is why they are hookers.

That leaves I am a liar. And why would I be lying about this? Like I said, I did everything wrong with her and had no plans to see her again. Am I lying or is it that you cannot handle the fact that a woman liked me or a guy like me for something beyond money?

I'm not calling you a liar, Elvis. I'm not sure what her motivation or intentions were, but at some point I'm sure she would have expected some kind of financial support in exchange for her company. Maybe it was in fact the long con she was attempting to go for. You mention that you found her on Seeking Arrangements, correct? Doesn't that site require a monthly membership fee to be able to use it? You're honestly telling me that she pays a fee every month to use Seeking but she isn't seeking anything financially from it? Sounds like she would be losing money if that were the case.

[Mr Enternational]

Gabacho is just repeating the same old line, Do not give them money and see how long they say. This is supposed to be the ultimate in wisdom when in fact if you follow it, you may lose out on a woman who really likes you.

How about the flip side. Tell the woman that you can longer see her, but you will still send her money. Think she will mind losing out on you the same way you claim she should not accept you without the money?

[Elvis 2008]

I believe it was Tupac Shakur who said "you can't turn a hoe into a housewife" a lot of you guys would do well to heed his wisdom.

Gabacho.

And how would he of all people know that?

Are guys really coming down here for a love connection? LMAO. Looking for some fake fucking future wife (or at least that's what they think) that really loves them and isn't in it for the money.

I have said this before, but I met a law student on seeking from Villavicencio and did everything wrong with her. I flew her without seeing anything other than a photo. I offered her $300 for a few days which was way too much, but this was during the pandemic. She comes and she is okay. She meets my minimum looks threshold, seems to come from money, and has a good heart, but I just was not that attracted to her. So we fuck and her company is okay. Once, I even have to leave to see another woman. LOL.

Our time is done. I give her the money, and I did not think I would see her again and did not. Not only did she try to hand the $300 back to me, she later sent me a text saying she loved me. With someone with your POV Gabacho, there are only two possibilities: I am a liar or she was playing the long con. That is it.

Have you ever met a hooker try to give you back $300? I have not. In fact, hookers are notorious for not thinking long term. That is why they are hookers.

That leaves I am a liar. And why would I be lying about this? Like I said, I did everything wrong with her and had no plans to see her again. Am I lying or is it that you cannot handle the fact that a woman liked me or a guy like me for something beyond money?

I could give two fucks whether or not a woman really likes me.

Oh please. Travis Kelce going out with Taylor Swift is evoking envy from people on TV all day long because she seems to really like him. You can be classy about it and say you envy a guy going out with Taylor Swift or you can lie and say I don't give a fuck about whether a woman likes me.

All we need now is a run of old mongers swearing up and down they would not go out with Taylor Swift or Miss Universe for that matter.

Why do you guys all engage in this fantasy where you swear up and down you know how every woman in Colombia thinks?

[Gabacho]

Gabacho is just repeating the same old line, Do not give them money and see how long they say. This is supposed to be the ultimate in wisdom when in fact if you follow it, you may lose out on a woman who really likes you. The counter to that line is let the women get unattractive or not put out and see how long I stay.

The truth is that guys suck at knowing how women think. If one guy sees an unattractive / older / whatever guy with an attractive woman, guys make the dumbest excuses for why that guy has a hot woman and they do not. They know all about why the woman likes the guy, and they are so fucking smart that they don't have to talk to said woman. The guys do not know shit. They just cannot handle someone else having a hotter woman than they do or having a woman who really likes a guy other than them.

If you think a woman likes you, the best way to test her is to get an objective trustworthy woman to talk to said woman and listen to her. A woman will come up with a hundred different angles you have not thought of.

I could give two fucks whether or not a woman really likes me. I am here to fuck as many women as possible (without any emotions involved). It's a pure numbers game. Any money wasted on some woman, other than being used to stick my penis inside her, is a futile waste of money and it takes away from other prospects that I could have had, had I not wasted the money on the ***** that I thought might have liked me.

Are guys really coming down here for a love connection? LMAO. Looking for some fake fucking future wife (or at least that's what they think) that really loves them and isn't in it for the money.

I believe it was Tupac Shakur who said "you can't turn a hoe into a housewife" a lot of you guys would do well to heed his wisdom.

Gabacho.

[Elvis 2008]

I do think this type of topic is relevant and informative to a man coming to Medellin. There are many newbies who come to Medellin and get confused about the relationship with the girl. Is this not informative to a man's future trip to Medellin? I think so. I'm glad that you think that you are the definitive judge of what is relevant and what is not relevant to this thread.

Gabacho is just repeating the same old line, Do not give them money and see how long they say. This is supposed to be the ultimate in wisdom when in fact if you follow it, you may lose out on a woman who really likes you. The counter to that line is let the women get unattractive or not put out and see how long I stay.

The truth is that guys suck at knowing how women think. If one guy sees an unattractive / older / whatever guy with an attractive woman, guys make the dumbest excuses for why that guy has a hot woman and they do not. They know all about why the woman likes the guy, and they are so fucking smart that they don't have to talk to said woman. The guys do not know shit. They just cannot handle someone else having a hotter woman than they do or having a woman who really likes a guy other than them.

If you think a woman likes you, the best way to test her is to get an objective trustworthy woman to talk to said woman and listen to her. A woman will come up with a hundred different angles you have not thought of.

[Gabacho]

If we deleted all the posts not related to a trip record, that would delete about 90% of the post here including a number of your posts. There is more than trip reports as to information that is relevant to a person's trip to Medellin. I do think this type of topic is relevant and informative to a man coming to Medellin. There are many newbies who come to Medellin and get confused about the relationship with the girl. Is this not informative to a man's future trip to Medellin? I think so. I'm glad that you think that you are the definitive judge of what is relevant and what is not relevant to this thread.

Maybe we should clean out those 90% of Posts including some written by yours truly. The name of the thread is "Medellin Reports" not "Old Simps in Medellin wondering if prostitutes really love them or not" lmao.

Honestly though if you guys really want the answer as to whether the Chica really likes you or not just take all money out of the equation (this includes paying for meals and dates too) and see how long she still hangs out with you.

Its all about money and anyone who thinks it isn't, well they are just professional tricks getting conned out of more money. Like you guys taking these bitches on the helicopter ride in Guatape SMH. But hey if that's what you want to pay for then that's your right to do so.

[MoonShot]

All this back and forth about whether a girl really likes you if she acts like she likes you should be moved into the stupid shit in Medellin thread. It's just flooding the Medellin reports thread with shit that is neither a report nor something informative. Admin why don't you do your job?

If we deleted all the posts not related to a trip record, that would delete about 90% of the post here including a number of your posts. There is more than trip reports as to information that is relevant to a person's trip to Medellin. I do think this type of topic is relevant and informative to a man coming to Medellin. There are many newbies who come to Medellin and get confused about the relationship with the girl. Is this not informative to a man's future trip to Medellin? I think so. I'm glad that you think that you are the definitive judge of what is relevant and what is not relevant to this thread.

[Gabacho]

I agree with you 100. How hard is it to fall in "love" with Leonardo DiCaprio or bezos or Eddie Murphy. They have homes all over and yachts. It's all fake. If a girl isn't attractive I'm not interested, if I'm broke they aren't interested.

All this back and forth about whether a girl really likes you if she acts like she likes you should be moved into the stupid shit in Medellin thread. It's just flooding the Medellin reports thread with shit that is neither a report nor something informative. Admin why don't you do your job?