Stupid shit in Medellin

[Elvis 2008]

So why is there an issue when I say that I date everyday women? Is that not what YOU just admitted to Dummy?

I go out with lookers, and you go out with average looking women dummy.

[JjBee62]

You were not in a hurry because you were fucking others and didn't care. And probably waiting for her to become of legal age. You are just an old pervert. Just a thought about seducing a girl who just finished high school and turned 18 was turning you on.

I felt this particular bit of hypocrisy deserves some attention.

First, you're imagining a situation about a 61 year old man in which the 61 year old man is becoming aroused and getting an erection. And you call me a pervert?

Next is what I will call the pervert test. This is one you can literally do at home and if you will be getting together with family for Thanksgiving, it's the perfect time to do it. However, to do it properly requires you to be honest, and we both know that the chances of you being honest are lower than the chance of you sneezing a Ferrari out your nose.

Simple enough, describe, without embellishments, without imagining me with an erection, the situation to your family. Put it simply. "I know of a man who is 61 years old and he is dating a 21 year old woman. What do you think about that?" Then wait for parents, siblings and other family or friends to respond. That's part one.

Part 2 is crucial and it's the part where you must be absolutely honest, otherwise part 1 just proved you're a hypocrit incapable of making moral judgements about the actions of others (rather than just a person unqualified to make moral judgements about the actions of others).

Parr 2 is where you describe, to the same family and friends, your activities when you travel to Colombia. "When I go to Colombia, I seek out young, attractive Colombian girls who I pay for sex. What do you think about that?

Part 1 doesn't matter much. It tells you how judgemental the people around you are. The answers might surprise you. The second part is the real test. It tells you whether or not you believe you're a pervert. If you can't admit to the behavior in front of those close to you, you're affirming that you believe yourself to be a pervert.

I've passed part 2, with flying colors. I've sat down with my family and my girlfriend, in each of their homes. It wasn't the first time. Some disapprove, but that's on them.

I've never bothered with part 1. What anyone does sexually, within the boundaries of the law, providing it is consensual, is none of my business. I just don't have the time to go around pointing fingers and exclaiming "you're a pervert for doing exactly what I'm doing (and by your own admission, doing it better with less effort), because you're older than me. ".

Of course the funny part is that the people who you voice agreement with are quite often near my age and doing the same thing, yet not a peep from you.

[SubCmdr]

I cannot take anyone posting on ISG and talking about monogamy seriously.

FACT: The purpose of the forum is for us to share information on having sex with girls. FACT: Sex can occur within a relationship or outside of one. FACT: Only the two people involved get to define the nature of the relationship. FACT: No one from outside is in the position to do that. Those are FACTS!.

Man number one meets a girl and she says, I have a car, I would like you to drive it. Here I will give it to you. But you have to maintain it for life. (Marriage.). Man number two meets a girl and she says, I have a car, I would like you to drive it, but you have to put gas in it and maintain it while you use hit. (Girl Friend, Sugar Baby, Fuck Buddy, Friend with benefits). Man number three meets a girl and she says, I have a car and but you are going to have to pay me for each hour you use it. (Prostitute). Man number four meets a girl who says, I have car and you can use it anytime you want, just because I like you. Don't worry about the gas and maintenance. I got you covered. (Girl Friend, Fuck Buddy, Friend with benefits).

Guys are posting here from the standing of privilege. For some of these girls the money could be the difference between having or not having the most basic resources a human should have. Who in the position to judge any of the girls above or the men?.

[JjBee62]

This proves two things.

1. They are not your girlfriends. Friends, fuck buddies, friends with benefits, hookers, yes. Because there is no commitment from either side.

2. You are just a selfish jerk who only cares about his dick and doesn't care about his partners' feelings.

Did your father fuck hookers on the side while being married to your mom? (just because he wanted an occasional steak or a motorcycle ride?) If he did, no wonder you are doing the same shit and encouraging this kind of behavior.

It doesn't prove anything, other than your inability to understand anything, and you've demonstrated that countless times.

1. What they are is something which only the girls and MrE know. What commitment there is, only they know. I'm just guessing, but some of the women he might only see for 4 or 5 days every year. He's supposed to abstain from sex all year long just to prove his commitment to a girl he seldom sees?

2. Everyone is selfish. There are probably dozens of 5's and 6's in the world who would like to fuck you, but you're too selfish to give them some satisfaction. You get paid (which still boggles the mind), yet instead of freely sharing your excess money with people who need it, you selfishly think only of your dick and rush off to find a woman to fuck, who, according to you, doesn't really need the money to survive.

It's so fucking easy. Every single thing out of you is always completely full of holes.

[JjBee62]

Online platforms don't bypass anything. They are used to connect / match, collect a phone number, then set up a date and go from there. Simple as that. At least this is how I've been using them. I don't chat with women online for a freaking year like you did. I'm not wasting my time in chatrooms. And I'm not a simp messaging some webcam girl out of mom's basement and begging her to show me a boob.

Yet, just yesterday you were talking about finding a wife on Tinder. Make up your mind.

Online platforms pass up many things. How often have you gone to the grocery store and walked out with some woman's phone number? And at the mall? Yet, a simple match on Tinder and you're exchanging phone numbers.

Online platforms take the guesswork out and minimize the risk of rejection. If she's on a dating site you already know she's interested in dating. On a site like Tinder you know she's interested in dating you. The woman in front of you at the grocery store, she might be talking with you because she finds you attractive, or she might just be bored.

You were not in a hurry because you were fucking others and didn't care. And probably waiting for her to become of legal age. You are just an old pervert. Just a thought about seducing a girl who just finished high school and turned 18 was turning you on.

I love how you so often create sexual fantasies involving me. It's weird, but it always makes me laugh.

I was fucking others. From your recent posts on the subject, plus this long obsession with my relationship status it appears you are and have been looking for a wife, but you are fucking others. I wasn't looking for a wife, or girlfriend, just meeting and getting to know people. So why is it perfectly acceptable for you to fuck other women while looking for a wife, but completely unacceptable for me to fuck other women when I was just talking to a girl?

Waiting for her to become of legal age? Nope. According to both her and her sister she was already 18. She was almost 20 when I learned she was a year younger than she had told me. I was waiting for something though. If you were smart enough to see through the stupidity of a free, online, 20 question IQ test, you might recall what that was. I'll give you a hint. We started chatting in April of 2020. Was there any significant event which occurred at that time, which might have caused a person to wait to travel internationally? Since I didn't feel trying to sneak into Colombia, when travel to Colombia was suspended, was a good idea, I waited until travel bans were lifted.

Keep trying. It's fun watching you fail at every attempt.

[JjBee62]

That is what I try to explain to women. It sounds dumb to say you are looking for a mate. That is putting the cart before the horse first of all. You have a fantasy and are looking for someone to step in to it.

The only thing you should be doing is looking to meet people. From there you get to know them and one of them may be right for you. It just sounds so stupid to me to say I am looking for a boyfriend or husband. Who has ever left their house and gone to the mall to look for friends? You would be a damn fool to do that. Friendships and relationships are just something that happen, not something you look for. You are in a class with 25 other people, yet only 1 or 2 of those you became friends with. You did not seek them out or pick them. It just developed that way.

I did that stuff with women when I was young. Second date and I was thinking she should move in with me. Shit, it takes weeks or months before most people stop playing a role and show their true selves.

Until you can both comfortably fart in the presence of each other you're not ready to think about some type of commitment.

[JjBee62]

The owner of Seeking said in an interview that everyone uses something to attract women. Some men are tall and handsome, some use their body by working out a lot, some use status, and some use money and or success. You use what you have. In the end, all relationship or one night stands or shallow. That's why nobody should care if you're paying or using something else. Love isn't real.

Your last sentence is absolutely correct.

The rest is also true. Throughout a long life most men will use many different ways.

[Mr Enternational]

You are just a selfish jerk who only cares about his dick and doesn't care about his partners' feelings.

Damn I was not finished with your ass still. I am sure you do not send messages to those Instagram hoes (that will not give you the time of day) telling them how selfish and bragging they are when they post pictures being on a yacht or showing off some shit some sugar daddy simp has bought them. It is only the men that you want to stop from being selfish and bragging. Go ahead and post a screenshot of you telling those Instagram broads to stop bragging. I double dare you!

[Mr Enternational]

This proves two things.

1. They are not your girlfriends. Friends, fuck buddies, friends with benefits, hookers, yes. Because there is no commitment from either side.

Are you Dummy #2? You do not know what commitments that I have with anybody. Obviously you do not even know what a commitment is. Talking as if a person can only have one commitment to anything in life. Let you explain it, Mormons or Arabs can not have more than one wife because it somehow to you means they do not have a commitment, when they actually have multiple commitments. So now their wives are not their wives?

2. You are just a selfish jerk who only cares about his dick and doesn't care about his partners' feelings.

Did your father fuck hookers on the side while being married to your mom? (just because he wanted an occasional steak or a motorcycle ride?) If he did, no wonder you are doing the same shit and encouraging this kind of behavior.

Yes. And there are several members on this very website that have met him in different mongering places! (See how I have no problem answering a question as well as quoting what someone said? I lead by example. I do not just throw things out and hope they stick.).

Me reporting on my experience is encouraging nothing. I would hope that people here would be grown man enough to follow their own path; even if that path is staying in his mom's basement and jacking off to the 8's, 9's, and one 10 that he can not get, as you have done.

Another question that I know you will not answer because you just talk to talk. What is wrong with being selfish? Still have not said what is wrong with bragging so I do not really expect an answer to this either. According to you a chick should be able to be a selfish jerk and have a man to herself, but a guy should not be able to be a selfish jerk and live his life how he wants. Make that make sense.

You just throw words out like broads do in hopes of trying to offend or shame. I guess it works like a charm on you when a chick calls you cheap. That induces you to spend more money on her because it somehow hurts your ego to be called cheap. A mf like me would respond well you must be the same cheap that I am since you have not bothered to pay for it either. Stop letting those hos shame you man, because you should see already that shaming shit does not work when you try it on me. Boo hoo. I am selfish and brag. So the fuck what? Why is it your mission in life to get men not to be selfish and to stop bragging?

[Mr Enternational]

The girl Don and I were rushing to get was a chef and lawyer. In addition, I went out with a bank teller, civil engineer, government employee in Colombia's version of the EPA, elementary school teacher, nanny, nurse's aid, nurse, PE teacher, model, actress, two fitness instructors, salesperson for a rental truck agency, bartender, and office clerk.

So why is there an issue when I say that I date everyday women? Is that not what YOU just admitted to Dummy?

[Mr Enternational]

I personally was at a shake shack recently and saw this ko working the fryer. I didn't know how to flirt with her since she was not the cashier.

Tell the cashier to tell her that you want to marry her.

[Elvis 2008]

She just wants gifts and her rent taken care of. Let people believe the seeking, not a ho-ho they married, wasn't really a ho, because she didn't bang 2 guys a night at a terma.

We have all been to these types af places and see a 9 that's 18 or 19 and you want to offer her money but you don't because it's awkward. It's an interesting way to find a sb if you ask enough hotties at Taco Bell. I personally was at a shake shack recently and saw this ko working the fryer. She was 5'10 ddd natural, maybe 20, and 135 pounds. Should have been a model. I didn't know how to flirt with her since she was not the cashier.

LOL. The seeking website is set up to meet EXACTLY those kind of women, It exists so you do not have to have those awkward conversations in public.

In fact, seeking is so widely used that when I went to an American strip club, I would ask the women I was interested in if they had a profile. 90% did, but for most, there was not the huge payout they were expecting so they were not that active on the site. Still, every one of them had heard about it.

In the USA now, women talk openly about having a sugar daddy. These women would never admit to being hookers, yet the old out of it losers here still think they are the same.

So if I saw a hot woman at a fast food place, I would ask her if she had heard of seeking and if so, if she had a profile on it. I would be shocked if she had NOT heard of it.

What is funny about a guy like you is you think you know what is going on. Truth is if you publicly called out a known stripper and said she was a hooker, very few people would object. If you publicly called shake shack girl a hooker, and you have defined her as a hooker if she is on seeking, ten guys would look to punch you in the nose.

In fact, you are the one who is in the dark because you do not if she is on the site. In your head, for whatever reason, you have just imagined she is not. I would say the same to you than I said to the other guys. Sugar dating is mainstream now. Try talking to normal women who are not hookers, and you can confirm what I just said for yourself. The only land that pristine valley of virgins exists is in your head.

[Elvis 2008]

Yeah I did many times. You are just a dummy who chose not to see the answer. Because I want to..

Then the only women who would put up with you are complete losers. No wonder you have to say pussy is pussy. What guy would to take a woman seriously who let her partner go out and fuck hookers?

If your daughter went out with a guy like you, you would have a fucking heart attack.

My gal has an older, attractive friend. She has three kids, found out her husband was cheating on her, and she cut him off right then and raised the kids on her own. That is a strong woman. The women you are going out with are weak.

[MiamiBoy1]

Yeah I did many times. You are just a dummy who chose not to see the answer. Because I want to..

My car is so great but I still have a motorcycle, scooter, bicycle, and skates. My ribeye is so great but I still eat chicken, pizza, and hotdogs. Why do you believe that if a person has one great thing that they should not want anything else? (Not expecting a real answer as you never give one. For 3 years people have been on the edge of their seat waiting to hear what an elite woman is and all they have learned from you is it is one that is in demand. The line at New Life is out the door at lunchtime because chicks there are in demand. Which according to you means they must be elite.).

This proves two things.

1. They are not your girlfriends. Friends, fuck buddies, friends with benefits, hookers, yes. Because there is no commitment from either side.

2. You are just a selfish jerk who only cares about his dick and doesn't care about his partners' feelings.

Did your father fuck hookers on the side while being married to your mom? (just because he wanted an occasional steak or a motorcycle ride?) If he did, no wonder you are doing the same shit and encouraging this kind of behavior.

[MiamiBoy1]

I'll go over this again. Relationships are built on mutual respect and shared experiences. Online platforms bypass that and you make connections without the shared experiences, or mutual respect. You develop a familiarity which has no real foundation.

Online platforms don't bypass anything. They are used to connect / match, collect a phone number, then set up a date and go from there. Simple as that. At least this is how I've been using them. I don't chat with women online for a freaking year like you did. I'm not wasting my time in chatrooms. And I'm not a simp messaging some webcam girl out of mom's basement and begging her to show me a boob.

Any of the online platforms are best utilized as simply a tool to meet new people. Just new people, not girlfriends or wives. You meet, maybe go on a date, then decide where to go from there. It might lead to marriage, but all of the relationship issues should build from scratch.

This is what I just said above.

What I didn't do, what wouldn't have worked, was offer money for sex. I succeeded in building interest. I met the ones I most wanted and let the others slip away. With a few it was easy to move to sex, with my GF it took a long time. I wasn't in a hurry. Just as I've been saying, it built naturally, without unrealistic expectations. By the time we ended up in her bed we were completely comfortable with each other.

You were not in a hurry because you were fucking others and didn't care. And probably waiting for her to become of legal age. You are just an old pervert. Just a thought about seducing a girl who just finished high school and turned 18 was turning you on.