Stupid shit in Medellin

[Elvis 2008]

You certainly caught me there, Elvis. I was a little loose with my language, I said "friends" when I should have said "acquaintances".

I must say I'm really impressed. You must remember ever post I've made and here I was, thinking you couldn't even read.

I think the city is safe as long as you are careful. Don't walk down empty streets at night, don't wear your jewelry or watches. Don't pull your cell phone out on the streets. It takes a little adjusting but nothing hard. Most of the friends I have here (as opposed to acquaintances) have not had any bad experiences.

God, you are a clueless dumb ass. You admit your friends or whatever they are followed your advice and got robbed, and you think that people here are dying to hear your advice on safety? You are a narcissistic boob. My whole point was that your friends should have listened to Paulie instead of your sorry ass.

I realize that any time anyone makes a mistake, they must be lying. Right?

You are not just anyone. I said unlike anyone else here I wanted to hit you in the head with a wrench, and I suspect that is a common reaction you bring out in others.

I'm still waiting for you to show me those broker statements demonstrating all those money making trades you claimed you made. I have called "BS" on you many times for those claims.

And let's make that clear. You believed my amazing trades were bullshit when they were in the money. When they were not in the money for a few days, you couldn't shut up about how real they were. Maybe you "forgot" that too.

I think everyone knows all they need to be about you now: You are a liar. You are a narcissistic blowhard. You admit you give horrible advice. You are a horrible friend, and you know next to nothing about investing or safety.

And your beef with me was that I come off as too much of an expert? LOL. Well, here is my "expert" opinion: I know envy and jealousy when I see it, and you are such a narcissist you are threatened by it.

[Nounce]

Exactly. But you have no problem in smearing us w negative character traits despite never meeting me / us. Your a ignorant piece of work.

MB treats people differently based on perceived wealth. He did something similar in Sao Paulo forum but because most Scandello club regulars are high end spenders so he would not treat them the same way he treats Centro rates, instead he proposed Seeking as "value" but he failed to see the value otherwise. I am a regular on both. I have the experience and know mongers from both sides. I don't see a real difference as far as satisfaction goes.

http://www.internationalsexguide.nl/...g-Arrangements

...are too cheap to have any meaningful relationships. ...

This is not only about being cheap. It is their "pussy is pussy" mentality. They have no clue what real GFE is, and don't even want to try, because they are too lazy, insecure, etc. Most of the reports that I see here are so boring and bland. Went to casa X, paid X mil cop, shot 1 load, got out. Meh. Read Steve's reports in the Seeking thread just to compare, and see for yourself what a real girlfriend experience is.

Guys should stop posting something like this. If you read Surfer's report, you think he is not getting GFE when he takes a girl on a trip? And only seeking users get GFE? There is also GB who did something similar. Surfer and GB both speak Spanish, do you guys speak Spanish as well as either one of them?

Most Centro rates are here on longer term. You think they wouldn't get GFE they want with all the time here?

No one hates Seeking, what people hates is the attitude of some Seeking users as shown in the quoted posts, and the superiority displayed.

[JjBee62]

Sorry. I couldn't address all of your errors in 1 post.

Let's get the positive out of the way first. Your gal is cute and if she traveled to Chicago to meet you, there is more than the usual P4P.

So you are paying your "girlfriend"? Does she pick up her money with her Colombian boyfriend? Isn't that what your sorry douche ass said about every guy who sends money to women in Colombia?

Am I paying her? No. Payment requires an agreement on exchange of goods and / or services. Do I send her money and buy things for her? Yes. Does she take her boyfriend to pick up the money? Probably not. Cost is lower, exchange rate is better and transaction is easier if I send directly to her savings account. Although, I have also sent money to her sister to buy presents for her.

As always, your facts aren't correct. I have said that webcam models often pick up money with their boyfriend. On webcam being "single" is important, but seldom the reality. I've also said that if you want to send money, send it. It's your money. However, I caution that there are no guarantees when you send money, except for future requests for money.

you let Paulie's comment about fucking her slide which tells me there is truth to it. Your definition of girlfriend then is what everyone else calls a sugar baby. Welcome to the club douche! And after your autobiography about how great a year you had sliding into debt, it tells me the real reason you were not in the club was not desire but because your jealous and cheap ass had no money.

Sorry, but I've been busy. I can only respond to a limited amount of insanity in 1 post, so both you and Paulie will have to wait, as your posts always exceed the threshold. As for Paulie's mention of fucking my girlfriend, even if she was a working girl, it's unlikely he could afford her, or that she would lower her standards to his level.

Where did you get "jealous and cheap?" I'm neither. My girl might have a boyfriend. I doubt it, but recognize the possibility. Why worry about it? She meets my needs. During her 7 week stay at my place there were no signs of a boyfriend, or that she was missing anyone except her sister, mother and dog. Unless the alleged boyfriend gets in my way, it's not something I worry about. And if there's a boyfriend that interferes in any way, I just walk away. Life's too short to waste it trying to change reality. Accept it and move on. It's not like there's a shortage of girls.

And cheap? Me? Sorry. Wrong guy. If I'd been cheap I wouldn't have left Medellin broke. I tend towards extravagance. Always have.

There was no reason to have a SB when in Colombia and no reason to specifically seek one. I wasn't looking for a SB or girlfriend when I found my girl and she wasn't looking for a SD. Is she now a SB? Maybe. I ponder that from time to time. As I've said, we had been talking for 2 years before we started dating. No money sent, nothing discussed about support. During that time her and her sister were my airport taxi service, we hung out, but never alone and had dinners together, still not alone.

Last trip I spent a night at her place, after her sister and her picked me up at the airport. It was somewhat awkward, but ended up much better. Definitely a new experience for her. The next day we flew to the coast for 5 days. If she's a SB, I'm comfortable with that.

The only thing left to ask is that now that you have a job, are you going to keep voting Democrat?

I've always had a job. Over the past 45 years, except for a serious work injury that required over 1 year of physical therapy and my year in Colombia I've never been unemployed longer than 1 week. At a guess my lifetime average is 60+ hours of work per week. I've averaged almost 70 for the last 3 years. I've never voted Democrat. I used to vote Republican. Then I realized voting for a party was stupid. The purpose of both parties is the same; power and control. Voting strictly for a party is just choosing who you want to hold the leash. I vote Republican when there's an honest, conscientious candidate. I vote Democrat when there's no good Republican option. When Republicans come up with better candidates, they'll get my vote.

And believe it or not, Paulie has been a good and loyal friend to both you assholes even when you trashed him.

I left that line in because it's so funny. When I first met Paulie he mentioned meeting one other guy, who he praised, the way he used to praise me. After his first blowup, I asked if he had ever had the same thing happen before, where he became unhinged over a reasonably minor matter. Yes. With the only guy he had ever mentioned meeting. Since then, only 1 guy has mentioned meeting Paulie, once. There's been no other mention. I wonder if guy 3 experienced the same thing. I have a mutual friend. Maybe I'll get him to ask. What do you think Paulie? Any skeletons in that closet?

Who knows how many others Paulie has shown his special brand of friendship to? Nobody ever mentions him. Nobody ever says thanks for showing them around, or providing them with information. Is it because he doesn't meet anyone, or because he blows up at everyone? Something to ponder.

To paraphrase Animal House, fat, drunk, stupid, in debt, and watching live and video porn is no way to go through life son. Only you would try to justify a year like that. The rest of us would call it what it was, hitting rock bottom. Unless Paulie was a person keeping you down, and I doubt he was, then you have no clue what a friend really is.

Again with the lack of knowledge. Well, it is your trademark.

When I arrived in Medellin I weighed 260#. At 6'4" that's not morbidly obese, but certainly fat by my standards. Long before I was in debt I was down to 205#. With my height, at that weight, everyone is worried that I'm not eating. Once I got into debt, I dropped to 180#, which leaves me looking like someone should be showing my picture on TV and asking you to please help. Now I'm at 220#, about 10# above my ideal weight. That rules out fat. Just curious, how do you stack up?

Drunk? I got drunk 3 times in Medellin. Before that, over the previous 15 years, maybe twice. Zero times since then. I rarely drink, and then only in moderation. You're thinking about Paulie. Go hang with him and see what I mean. You can hear all about Jim Morrison and The Doors.

Stupid? Absolutely. Everyone is stupid at various times. Spend 15 minutes on the interstate and you'll see what I mean. For most of us, it's a temporary break from reason. For others it's an addiction. Where do you stand?

Hitting rock bottom? You've said that before and it reveals something about you, which you've never mentioned. Everything you have came from daddy, didn't it? He set you up so you didn't have to earn your position. Right? How many times did he bail you out when you fucked up?

You see, there's nothing wrong with hitting rock bottom. Shit happens, mistakes are made, and sometimes it's just bad luck. What's important is what you do when you hit rock bottom. Only someone who's never had to worry where their next meal is coming from wouldn't understand.

I spent 3 months struggling to stay afloat (which is how I ended up at 180# I spent a few days wallowing in self pity before I swallowed my pride and reached out for help. Help was offered, I accepted, and got myself back on the right road.

You obviously feel that where a person has been is more important than where they are. Another sign of daddy putting you where you are. Most of us, including Paulie, have had our struggles. We've accomplished things through our will and effort. We've fallen down and gotten back up. We can look back at rock bottom and laugh, because we crawled out and got back on our feet. You'll never know that feeling. If you ever hit rock bottom you'll grab a Thermos and a chair and go lay down and cry.

There's power in failure. As a friend told me when he was teaching me to ski, straight to the black diamond trails, "if you're not falling down, you're not learning. Stop worrying about falling and learn to get back up. ".

Left out the "watching porn" part. Don't really do that much anymore. When I was doing it a lot I was getting paid for it. Just not getting paid enough. When I was buying it. Well, maybe I'll talk about that later.

[Nounce]

I ain't trying to debate you or measure post counts. I referred to it cause I'm disappointed in you and you're still doing it, like bruh stay on topic, the subject is about using SA that you haven't used, yet assuming and writing invalid and incorrect info about it on a public forum. Now you're deterring the topic and want to discuss post counts? Who's weak again?

It's not a big deal man, I only post facts based on my experience and clearly many have had similar posts and experience on SA.

You do a girl search in Medellin within 50 miles radius and you'll have 10,000 results, it's like the girls outnumbers the fellas by 100/1 or even more. Yet you writing garbage like we're bidding against each other blah blah. SA is a dating site, most meet or require to meet w / o price discussion, at least not on the site. It's not a puta price bidding site. I you're wrong, grow some balls and admit it. I could careless of how little I've posted vs you BS.

I am just gentle with you to tell you your attack is meaningless. Go ask each girl how many guys contacted her, how many she keeps in contact, and why she go out with you? Then post the answer here. It will provide answer to what I said. The competition does not have to be money. Do you really think it's pure luck that the girl pick you randomly to have sex with you?

I don't look at the total number. I only look at new members. I think you still have a bit too learn.

You think I am not posting my own observation based on my own experience? You are making a fool of yourself in front of the people who know me personally.

[JustTK]

Dude don't be an idiot, there is a difference between paying for something of value such as food in a restaurant and throwing money away for free.

If you and the others who attacked me here enjoy. Throwing your money around in order to look like big ballers or weekend warriors .

Haha. I didn't attack you. I just made a joke at your expense. I never go to high end clubs bcos I think theyre a waste of money, regardless of tipping.

Sry for not replying earlier, I didn't see your reply as it was moved. And now I just spent 45 minutes giggling at the latest banter on this section.

[Villainy]

Exactly. But you have no problem in smearing us w negative character traits despite never meeting me / us. Your a ignorant piece of work.

Hahahaha you are not allowed to call some one ignorant when you don't know the difference between "your" and "you are / you're" it just comes out wrong.

[MoonShot]

I agree with the other board member that there are many types of mongers and you can't categorize mongers into two categories, winners and losers which is essentially what the other guy is saying. Every monger has his own situation.

That is all I will say about the topic.

As for me, when I go to Medellin, I do what I want to do and I really don't give a shit about what a bunch of anonymous board members say. I would also recommend this approach to other guys, Don't worry about what a bunch of anonymous guys think. Do what you want and pay what you want, it is your money and your time.

I am still in Medellin now But the trip is winding down.

I am having a great time with the girls from Facebook. They have all provided GFE experiences for me and I've been very happy with their performances. Most have been young, in the 18 to 20 age range and I am experienced enough not to believe that any of them are in love with me or have any great desire for me other than for making some money.

That is fine for me. I'm not looking for a girlfriend or a wife here. I'm just looking to have a good time young attractive women for a reasonable price. So far the flakiness is minimal, just one girl but she did it twice to me. There is always some crazy excuse but in both instances, I was able to get another girl for the night so no big deal.

The fun continues for me for a few more days before I return to the reality of work.

I will say that to group mongers together is a bit off. The younger mongers are completely different from the older mongers in their '50's and up. For older mongers, it is not the case that we can't attract women, it is that we are unable to attract women who are in the 18-24 age range. At least that is the case with me.

[JustTK]

I tend to meet only like-minded individuals and have zero interest in meeting guys like you because we have the opposite views and mongering style.

Exactly. But you have no problem in smearing us w negative character traits despite never meeting me / us. Your a ignorant piece of work.

[Villainy]

This is your post September 26 2022, #57957.

What is your excuse now for lying now douche? You have a stroke?

You certainly caught me there, Elvis. I was a little loose with my language, I said "friends" when I should have said "acquaintances". I met them at the St. Peter bar watching the football games.

I must say I'm really impressed. You must remember ever post I've made and here I was, thinking you couldn't even read.

But let's be real. Medellin is a big city but has a large population of people who are barely getting along. Most of them (in my opinion) are honest but if the kids are screaming that they are hungry and they see a "gringo" walking around with a $1,000 I-phone and gold jewelry. Well, what do you think is going to happen?

I think the city is safe as long as you are careful. Don't walk down empty streets at night, don't wear your jewelry or watches. Don't pull your cell phone out on the streets. It takes a little adjusting but nothing hard. Most of the friends I have here (as opposed to acquaintances) have not had any bad experiences. Paulie was ranting and raving about the gangs in the barrios. Yeah they exist but then again, why would you be hanging around alone in one of the poor barrios?

I wrote a bunch of "rules" for people visiting Medellin (called 'villainy's rules' A lot of the trouble guys have with girls here could be avoided. Just as an example: Don't arrange an overnight 'cita' with a girl you've never met. Unlike you, I've tried to post information that would be helpful to people who bother to read the forum.

And I have no friends? Paulie asked me to have a beer with him, and I could not because I am meeting with my GF, you know the one you made fun of for having saggy tits?

Really? Jajajajaja. Don't feel too special, he asked me to have a beer with him too. I wonder if he has asked JjBee too? Needless to say, I have better things to do. Like watching grass grow jajajaja.

Oh and how is Miss Saggy Tits? Did you pay for the breast lift yet?

And so now the friends line is bullshit too. Can you label two sentences together without contradicting yourself? And why are you even posting here? You get off on lying? Because you have zero credibility.

I realize that any time anyone makes a mistake, they must be lying. Right? No one (except you) can ever misspeak or make an honest mistake. I know you're not very analytical and that comes from not having a good education. (Sorry, but we both know it is true) but lying is saying something you know is not true. Mistakes? Misjudgements? Misspeaking? It happens but they aren't lies unless you knew it and intentionally misrepresented it. Which is one reason I laugh at so many of your posts in the Opinions / American Politics section. You call everyone one a dumb Democrat and a liar. Those guys are sometimes wrong, sometimes misinformed but rarely "lying", they just happen to honestly believe things that you don't believe or don't understand.

Speaking about lying. I'm still waiting for you to show me those broker statements demonstrating all those money making trades you claimed you made. I have called "BS" on you many times for those claims. I saw that now you claimed you cashed in before the market had that big bounce the other day. How amazing is your timing? Or how much of it is fantasy BS??

So insult me some more douche. What else do you got when your own words say you are full of shit?

Happy to oblige, Elvis. But only because you asked nicely, jajajajaja.

[JjBee62]

Let's get the positive out of the way first. Your gal is cute and if she traveled to Chicago to meet you, there is more than the usual P4P.

So you are paying your "girlfriend"? Does she pick up her money with her Colombian boyfriend? Isn't that what your sorry douche ass said about every guy who sends money to women in Colombia?

And you let Paulie's comment about fucking her slide which tells me there is truth to it. Your definition of girlfriend then is what everyone else calls a sugar baby. Welcome to the club douche! And after your autobiography about how great a year you had sliding into debt, it tells me the real reason you were not in the club was not desire but because your jealous and cheap ass had no money.

The only thing left to ask is that now that you have a job, are you going to keep voting Democrat?

If Viliany had listened to Paulie about the dangers of Colombia, maybe that douche would not have told his friends, who later got robbed, how safe Colombia was. And believe it or not, Paulie has been a good and loyal friend to both you assholes even when you trashed him.

To paraphrase Animal House, fat, drunk, stupid, in debt, and watching live and video porn is no way to go through life son. Only you would try to justify a year like that. The rest of us would call it what it was, hitting rock bottom. Unless Paulie was a person keeping you down, and I doubt he was, then you have no clue what a friend really is.

Ah yes. Paulie, the ever loyal friend, unfairly dismissed and abused by the evil Jjbee. Of all the crazy shit you've spouted, this might be your Mona Lisa.

Let me tell you how great of a friend Paulie is. This will take a bit.

When he messaged me because he had spent too long in a checkout line at Exito, I asked what he expected. It's Colombia. Cashiers are slow, in the best of times. He got angry and began insulting me. Being the evil bastard I am, I let it slide. A few days later his last ditch failed attempt to get a Vennie street girl in bed involved buying pizza for her and the guys she hung out with. Shockingly, none of the street punks thanked him for the pizza (and he didn't get laid). When he told me the story, once again I asked what he expected. What followed was about an hour of verbal abuse and insults, before I stopped responding. Quite the friend, isn't he?

Before I get to the next example of his exceptional friendship, I'll go over how I responded to the abuse, some hours after. I told him I felt he needed a break from his usual routine. I offered to meet him and take him around the city, play tourist and get off his daily routine of viagra, beer and hookers, completely at my expense. His response? "Fuck you. ".

A few months later he came to Parque Lleras looking for me. He wanted to talk. I went to Laureles the next day to hear him out. He told me the first version of his "I was drugged and robbed" story and asked me to post it, without mentioning his name, which I did. The next day I log on to find abusive PMs from superfriend Paulie. His first version of the story had mentioned drinking shots with a stranger and that the stranger kept providing shots. I assumed the stranger was buying shots. However, version 2 Paulie had bought a bottle. Version 3 came much later and involved a completely different bar and the revelation his Colombian friend had set him up.

But wait! There's more. Several months later I was going back and forth with a basement dwelling troll (which, if I remember correctly is what you were saying about Paulie not long ago). When the troll mentioned that he had heard nobody likes me, along with more stuff I replied that I knew where he was getting the information from, something Paulie confessed to via PM. Because I'm such a terrible person, I had a PM conversation with Paulie for a few months. I didn't hold his past transgressions against him and kept it polite. It wasn't until he went on another unwarranted, abusive rant when I finally put him on ignore.

I know of at least 1 other occasion when friend of the year Paulie tried to get another BM to go to war with me via PM, and several times he's tried to score points on me by attacking me through replies to other members, a tactic which you seem to favor. Kinda funny when he's saying I don't have balls.

In the future, you might want to verify your facts before jumping into something you know nothing about. Then again, why change horses in the middle of the race?

[MiamiBoy1]

I wonder which guys you have met in order to arrive at these statements. Knowing you from other comments you made, probably none.

I have met quite a few. Most of them are super cool dudes. I tend to meet only like-minded individuals and have zero interest in meeting guys like you because we have the opposite views and mongering style.

[JustTK]

They have no clue what real GFE is, and don't even want to try, because they are too lazy, insecure, etc.

I wonder which guys you have met in order to arrive at these statements. Knowing you from other comments you made, probably none.

[JustTK]

Most guys here have the curiosity but self identify as "Mongers" think of this as a "hobby" and are too cheap to have any meaningful relationships. Treat them with resect.

I will treat them w the same respect that you give to guys that don't happen to be attracted to SA.

[DonCarlos1234]

You want to know something funny! After I discovered SA and being in this hobby, at first I hesitated sharing intel w a bunch of horny and thirsty dudes on sites like this one so they don't go ruin it, but then I realize few others were on it and discussed it, yet sooooo many don't believe the reports and stay away from it. Meaning it's not for everyone, which is good.

Part of it is because it's not cheap, and also most guys prefer point and click environment and are lazy to actually take a girl on a date, or have small talk, etc. So now I don't mind sharing bc I know the losers will stay away. But if you're the guy who want to travel and want to diversity your time between casas / hardcore putas, and also go on actual dates with beautiful ladies, then it's for you.

http://www.internationalsexguide.nl/...g-Arrangements

Most guys here have the curiosity but self identify as "Mongers" think of this as a "hobby" and are too cheap to have any meaningful relationships. STILL there are some that use it, try it and it can be life changing. Treat them with resect, do not expect them to want to hear about $ till they know who you are. Do not let them contact you. You contact them.

[Elvis 2008]

P.S. I knew Elvis would get his two cents worth in (LOL), and with some good thoughts. We aren't going down the political road until his crowd dumps Trump and the election denialism. At that point I'll consider some Repubs. Until then I'm stuck with the Dems, most of whom are more left than me. Beers and a chat session have been offered to him as well, though he's spending time outside Medellin these days. Good luck out there bro.

Paulie, the whole Dem-Republican thing came out of of Covid and the travel ban to Colombia with Covid. I was pissed as shit about that because there was zero scientific evidence it worked. And in fact, it was Republicans and Trump who said banning flights from China would stop the spread of Covid. Of course, it did not. Worse, even Fauci said travel bans did not work early on. He also said the same thing about masks not working.

What governments were doing was making rules: some based on science, some based on scientific anecdotes, and some pulled out of their ass, and travel bans were in the last category. The Dems, who seem to worship whatever scientists say and not look at what their opinions are based on, were critical of me. I could not believe this. This whole thing should have been apolitical.

So the political discussions on this really made no sense. Being pro-vax and anti-vax were political definitions. I was pro-vax when the vaccine was 95% effective and antivax now when it is 0 to 20% effective, yet more often that not, being provax or antivax has to do with what party you belong to. Why the fuck is that? And how is that productive?

The last time I went to Colombia I was asked for my vaccine card, and it cracked me up. It has been shown definitively that being vaccinated has nothing to do with the spread of Covid. I can almost hear people say "Well, they are just wanting to be safe" when it is fucking stupid. It should be made fun of not excused.

Still, unlike my showing my card, the lockdowns and travel bans actually hurt Colombians so much so they rebelled. It is a flat out lie to say the lockdowns and travel bans were pulled because safety was achieved. Those measures were stopped not because they worked with Covid, but Covid was spreading anyway.

Just like the vaccine debate where politics really should have had nothing to do with anything, the lockdowns and travel bans were political too. The Democrats lock up scientists and said that if anyone goes against their scientists, they are stupid. That is just wrong. Science is data not people, and I do not appreciate people who are too foolish to know the difference lecturing others. It is fine to lecture people on fact based conjecture but not on opinions and so much of Covid policy was based on opinion and not data.