Stupid shit in Medellin

[Gabacho]

https://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-34290981

See JjBee62 is way more intelligent than Miamiboy1. The stuff he says is backed up by scientific evidence! I always could tell JJBee was smarter than alot of the others who post here. It definitely can be seen in the intellectuality of his posts.

[CheckMate1]

I'm going to first go over some niche examples. Until around the 7th week of development embryos have no gender. They are neither male nor female. The primary sexual characteristics begin to form after that. However, there is a rare condition where both genders develop. The result is a person of ambiguous gender. Look up hermaphroditism. There is another rare condition in which primary sexual characteristics don't develop until puberty. A child who was listed as female at birth will, during puberty, develop a penis and testicles, or a boy will develop a vagina.

https://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-34290981

[MiamiBoy1]

Both knew that I was not going to settle down with them.

And both didn't know shit about you fucking others. Just like you GF doesn't know shit about your sexual encounters when you are not together.

[MiamiBoy1]

Do you decide what is normal?

Is your behavior of fucking prostitutes normal? Would you detail your exploits to family and friends during the time you spend with them?

If you cannot not, then maybe you should reexamine your position. No, actually you do not as it is your just your opinion.

Why would I discuss my sexual life in details with my family and friends? Isn't it supposed to be an intimate topic? Doesn't matter if it is p4 p or not. When / if I start a relationship, my girlfriend will be introduced to family and friends. But until then, my encounters are not their business. I share some stories only with a select few of my bros, who are like-minded individuals.

Once again, my behavior of fucking prostitutes doesn't hurt anyone, because I'm single. And I rarely do hardcore pros these days.

[Gabacho]

Good example of centro rats insulting pobaldo guys:

I thought we were cool as of recently but now you are talking shit to me again. I didn't say anything to you at all but yet you feel the need to quote my post and chime in talking shit. You and your buddy SlantedEyes (Aka SandyNYC) need to shut the fuck up.

If you aren't going to contribute useful information then you keep your fucking mouth shut. It perhaps you need someone to shut it for you?

[MiamiBoy1]

Now to respond to the other part of this.

Define committed relationship.

Years ago I had 2 regular women and a lot of irregular ones. One lived in New York and the other in Arizona. Both had jobs, and supported themselves. Both knew that I was not going to settle down with them. When I was headed towards 1 of them, I would let her know and I would stay with her, whether just 1 night or several days. We would go out, do things, have sex and behave like a couple. When I left, they went back to their normal lives. My commitment to each was to give them whatever time I had available while I was there. They committed to the same thing. While I was away we kept in contact.

If I was in a conversation with someone and the subject came up, I might refer to them in different ways. The most respectful way, would be as "a girlfriend. ".

Girlfriend is an easy to understand label. It is somewhat ambiguous. It doesn't tell you whether or not we live together, or even if we have sex. However, it does tell you that we are together, on some level. Fuck buddy is disrespectful, often unacceptable, depending on the company. Friend with benefits is awkward. Just calling her a friend says there's no romantic connection. Girlfriend, is the easiest understood and accurate term.

This is another situation where you don't get to make the rules. You're welcome to refer to anyone however you see fit. I'll give you an example. Just a few days ago a guy I worked with remarked that another guy was an asshole. I responded that I thought he was a nice guy. No argument. He's welcome to his opinion, I'm welcome to mine.

All of this could be over and done with in an instant. For some obscure reason you constantly want to judge almost everyone on their morality, terminology, choice of women, methods of finding women, age and a long list of other things which don't pertain to you. Let it go.

Good example of centro rats insulting pobaldo guys:

Whether on the street on inside of the club called Gustos, $200 usd is currently more than $800'000 COP. Anyone paying that much money for a short time romp is a fucking simp and there is no wonder why these guys are getting robbed and killed like every week LOL.

I have no sympathy for these "Makin it rain" Poblado Fuckboys. I'm sure more of them will continue to come down here flashing their gold chains and their iPhone 15 Pro Max 512 gb phones and make it rain and they will continue to get robbed and killed.

Maybe if enough of these gringos get killed then the rest will stop coming and then the girls will have to lower their prices back down to reality to attract the business of the local parceros.

The only thing i agree with is that some weekend warriors act like monkeys, drawing unnecessary attention from the locals and thieves. Some deserve to be robbed.
I love Poblado though. It is nice, clean, very green, and some parts of it are quiet residential areas. Gabacho may continue to enjoy his 100 USD/month shack.

[Mr Enternational]

Do you rush off and tell your daughter, destroying her happiness, breaking up the family, putting the children through a divorce? Do you risk alienating your daughter, possibly even removing your grandchildren from your life? Do you talk to me about it? What tone do you take? Think before you respond.

It is called ego and the same selfishness that he tries to ridicule others for. It is okay to be selfish in this way, but not selfish in that way. He sees cheating as cheating and it is all bad. But for selfishness it depends on what kind of selfishness we are talking. Or for bragging it depends on what type of bragging it is. Okay for Instagram models to brag. Okay for him to brag and say he only likes 8's, 9's, and one 10 that he can not get. Not okay for other guys on a hooker board to brag about things they want to brag about. But we already know life is full of double standards and there is no one size fits all.

[Huacho]

BF or GF which implies exclusivity.

It implies exclusivity to you. Not to me, and I suspect not even to most posters on this board. Monogamy = monotony.

[Huacho]

At least that wouldn't be cheating, if both parties agree to fucking on the side. But in any normal relationship one partner would go nuts if they find out the other partner is cheating.

It's just so excellent that we have a stalwart such as you to tell us what is normal in relationships. You should hook up with Dear Abby.

[Mr Enternational]

Socialization tells us that our instincts are wrong. We should limit sex and we should be willing to give up our lives to protect others. We should allow others to make the rules which are often in conflict with our instincts.

Some funny shit. A girl that I went to high school with is a city council member. She went hard to have a law for no texting while driving. Who gets busted for texting while driving? It was all over the news. The policeman said I just pulled you over and you still are not going to put the phone down? The same as these other lawmakers that keep making all the laws they continuously break. Ie. Soliciting prostitutes.

[JjBee62]

This shit reminds me of recent talks on social media about gender identity. If you look at a person who has a dick and balls, you automatically assume the person is a male (fact). You don't ask the person how they identify. Maybe that male person identifies as a woman. Who the fuck cares? You see a man and you treat him as such. So don't tell me this BS about "only they know what they are". If he sees a girl 4 days a year, and is not in a committed relationship with her, she is not his girlfriend, period. I'm not saying he can't or shouldn't fuck other girls, it is up to him, I'm not preaching morality here. You clowns just need to call things by their proper names. If he said he had a fuck buddy or a friend with benefits in Sao Paulo or other places he goes to, I wouldn't say a word.

Now to respond to the other part of this.

Define committed relationship.

Years ago I had 2 regular women and a lot of irregular ones. One lived in New York and the other in Arizona. Both had jobs, and supported themselves. Both knew that I was not going to settle down with them. When I was headed towards 1 of them, I would let her know and I would stay with her, whether just 1 night or several days. We would go out, do things, have sex and behave like a couple. When I left, they went back to their normal lives. My commitment to each was to give them whatever time I had available while I was there. They committed to the same thing. While I was away we kept in contact.

If I was in a conversation with someone and the subject came up, I might refer to them in different ways. The most respectful way, would be as "a girlfriend. ".

Girlfriend is an easy to understand label. It is somewhat ambiguous. It doesn't tell you whether or not we live together, or even if we have sex. However, it does tell you that we are together, on some level. Fuck buddy is disrespectful, often unacceptable, depending on the company. Friend with benefits is awkward. Just calling her a friend says there's no romantic connection. Girlfriend, is the easiest understood and accurate term.

This is another situation where you don't get to make the rules. You're welcome to refer to anyone however you see fit. I'll give you an example. Just a few days ago a guy I worked with remarked that another guy was an asshole. I responded that I thought he was a nice guy. No argument. He's welcome to his opinion, I'm welcome to mine.

All of this could be over and done with in an instant. For some obscure reason you constantly want to judge almost everyone on their morality, terminology, choice of women, methods of finding women, age and a long list of other things which don't pertain to you. Let it go.

[JjBee62]

I never said I was looking for a wife. I'm open to a relationship if the right person comes along. If I meet the right person from Tinder, or any other app or social media, no problem. I can fuck whoever I want because I'm single, and therefore, I'm not cheating. I had said this before. I didn't say it is unacceptable for you to fuck other women when you were just talking to her. I merely explained the fact that you were not in a rush with her because you had others to fuck. Now, what is NOT acceptable is calling someone a girlfriend and fucking others on the side. This is called cheating. Don't tell me you never fucked others since you relationship started. Because as you stated before, you have been to Colombia for only two weeks or so this year. And she visited you in the states for a short period of time. So don't tell me you abstained from having sex the rest of the year.

Actually, it's completely acceptable by the only person who matters in the situation. Me. You, nor anyone else gets to decide what behavior is acceptable for me, except when that behavior directly affects you. If you were my girlfriend, and we have only spent 15 or 20 days together all year, how does me having sex with other women affect you? I'm not taking time away from you. I'm both using condoms and limiting my extra-curricular activities to known entities, minimizing the risk of disease or pregnancy. How are you affected?

I'll give you a hypothetical situation to ponder. Let's say you have a daughter, who marries me. I know. The mere thought nearly causes your head to explode. She is extremely happy with me and she is well provided for. I always treat her with respect and kindness. I also treat you and everyone else in your family with respect. Other than the fact that it's me, I'm the perfect son-in-law. We have a couple of kids and everything remains happily ever after. Then one day you learn that a few times a year, when I'm away for business, I fuck an escort.

What do you do? Do you rush off and tell your daughter, destroying her happiness, breaking up the family, putting the children through a divorce? Do you risk alienating your daughter, possibly even removing your grandchildren from your life? Do you talk to me about it? What tone do you take? Think before you respond.

Just so you understand, I don't allow anyone to decide how I'm supposed to live my life. Whether it's what I do for a living, who I fuck, who I vote for, what I eat or where I go, those decisions are mine and mine alone. I would hope you live by the same credo.

[JjBee62]

This shit reminds me of recent talks on social media about gender identity. If you look at a person who has a dick and balls, you automatically assume the person is a male (fact). You don't ask the person how they identify. Maybe that male person identifies as a woman. Who the fuck cares? You see a man and you treat him as such. So don't tell me this BS about "only they know what they are". If he sees a girl 4 days a year, and is not in a committed relationship with her, she is not his girlfriend, period. I'm not saying he can't or shouldn't fuck other girls, it is up to him, I'm not preaching morality here. You clowns just need to call things by their proper names. If he said he had a fuck buddy or a friend with benefits in Sao Paulo or other places he goes to, I wouldn't say a word.

Your fact is not a fact. When you meet someone do you immediately remove their pants so you can see their dick and balls? Most of us don't. Instead, we assume that there's either a vagina or a penis down there. However, that's not always the case and it's only part of the equation which determines gender.

This is going to be a complicated, respectful discussion on the subject.

I'm going to first go over some niche examples. Until around the 7th week of development embryos have no gender. They are neither male nor female. The primary sexual characteristics begin to form after that. However, there is a rare condition where both genders develop. The result is a person of ambiguous gender. Look up hermaphroditism. There is another rare condition in which primary sexual characteristics don't develop until puberty. A child who was listed as female at birth will, during puberty, develop a penis and testicles, or a boy will develop a vagina.

Next up, the existence of primary sexual characteristics is, at most, 33% of gender. The next third is determined by chromosomes. Normally females have XX chromosomes and males have XY. Some males have an extra why Chromosome and some females only have a single X. There's also a condition where a child has XXY chromosomes. This condition can result in abnormally small penis and testicles and the development of breasts, along with reduced body hair. If you saw such a person, you might believe they are female when their chromosomal sex is male.

The final component are the hormones. Generally, the second X chromosome causes the body to produce estrogen. The why chromosome causes testosterone to be produced. However, it doesn't always work that way. Some women's bodies produce male levels of testosterone, while some men have very low testosterone levels and very high estrogen levels. This can also affect appearance. It's quite easy to mistakenly identify the gender.

Gender is not always a simple dick check.

Now briefly, to touch on gender identity. Remember that boy in school who seemed more like a girl? Or the girl who looked and acted more like a boy? This is nothing new. Those are examples of very young children who didn't identify with their physical gender. I can think of a few examples from my childhood. . One committed suicide because neither he (or she) nor his family could deal with the disparity. Another got married, had a couple of kids, then got divorced and married a man. He's now happy, productive and very successful.

Personally, it doesn't matter to me. Does it help the person live a happy and productive life? Why would I argue in favor of their unhappiness over a pronoun?

[JjBee62]

Is there any relationship that is real? friendship?

That is a good question. I'm going to try a deep dive on this.

My opinion is that human socialization has advanced beyond human evolution. We're still animals struggling to use the frontal lobes which differentiate us from the other primates. Our culture tells us to behave in certain ways, but our instincts pull us in different directions. Instincts which drive us are simple, self-preservation and preservation of the species. In the simplest terms our instincts tell us to stay alive and have sex.

Socialization tells us that our instincts are wrong. We should limit sex and we should be willing to give up our lives to protect others. We should allow others to make the rules which are often in conflict with our instincts.

Those are just points to ponder. To answer your question, being part of a larger group improves your chances for survival. People who increase your chances for survival, friends you can depend upon, are connected to you by a real bond, a bond formed by your survival instinct. This is true whether they are male or female, whether they are a friend or a partner. Friendship is a real relationship. That is why I keep saying lasting relationships are built through mutual respect and shared experiences.

[TjBrazil]

LOL. The seeking website is set up to meet EXACTLY those kind of women, It exists so you do not have to have those awkward conversations in public.

In fact, seeking is so widely used that when I went to an American strip club, I would ask the women I was interested in if they had a profile. 90% did, but for most, there was not the huge payout they were expecting so they were not that active on the site. Still, every one of them had heard about it.

In the USA now, women talk openly about having a sugar daddy. These women would never admit to being hookers, yet the old out of it losers here still think they are the same.

So if I saw a hot woman at a fast food place, I would ask her if she had heard of seeking and if so, if she had a profile on it. I would be shocked if she had NOT heard of it.

What is funny about a guy like you is you think you know what is going on. Truth is if you publicly called out a known stripper and said she was a hooker, very few people would object. If you publicly called shake shack girl a hooker, and you have defined her as a hooker if she is on seeking, ten guys would look to punch you in the nose.

In fact, you are the one who is in the dark because you do not if she is on the site. In your head, for whatever reason, you have just imagined she is not. I would say the same to you than I said to the other guys. Sugar dating is mainstream now. Try talking to normal women who are not hookers, and you can confirm what I just said for yourself. The only land that pristine valley of virgins exists is in your head.

I'm assuming, and maybe I'm wrong, that if a girl is hot enough to work as a stripper, and is at shake shack, than she doesn't want to be in the sex industry. I assume they have some kind of moral compass that just wants to make an honest living as they say. The girl would be a top earner easily. I've seen some real pigs at strip clubs. Aren't most hookers or strippers molested or raped when younger.