Stupid shit in Medellin

[Elvis 2008]

If she's on Tinder, Bumble, Seeking, Colombian Cupid, or any other "dating" site, your chance of a real connection goes down. It's not impossible, but if you're looking for a long-term relationship, or marriage, you've chosen a very difficult path. However, if you're just looking for someone for a date, or someone for sex, those are good choices. If your goal is to find a wife, then your greatest chance for success is to branch out within your community.

MB, have you ever noticed with JJBee there is never a source for anything he says? He meets his woman in the community and that is what is best. LOL. It is all mental masturbation with him and if you doubt him, it is, "Let's take an IQ test. ".

Whatever I meet a woman off an on line, her on line profile is out of mind within minutes. It is amazing how these guys make all these dumb judgments about individual people based on what websites they are on and do not see how the hypocrisy could be pointed at them.

Here you have a guy on ISG who is going out with someone 40 years younger than him, fucking hookers on the side, and he has the balls to think he knows where to find good marriage prospects.

It is not wonder they have to do personal attacks. What choice do they have given their hypocrisy?

[Mr Enternational]

I will ask the same question I asked to Mr. E, and he did not answer. If your "girlfriends" are so great, why are you still seeing hookers on the side?

Yeah I did many times. You are just a dummy who chose not to see the answer. Because I want to..

My car is so great but I still have a motorcycle, scooter, bicycle, and skates. My ribeye is so great but I still eat chicken, pizza, and hotdogs. Why do you believe that if a person has one great thing that they should not want anything else? (Not expecting a real answer as you never give one. For 3 years people have been on the edge of their seat waiting to hear what an elite woman is and all they have learned from you is it is one that is in demand. The line at New Life is out the door at lunchtime because chicks there are in demand. Which according to you means they must be elite.).

[Elvis 2008]

All those women on SA are hos of one sort or another. If you were a decent woman with a decent job, independent and all of that, you wouldn't be on Seeking Bobob.

The girl Don and I were rushing to get was a chef and lawyer. In addition, I went out with a bank teller, civil engineer, government employee in Colombia's version of the EPA, elementary school teacher, nanny, nurse's aid, nurse, PE teacher, model, actress, two fitness instructors, salesperson for a rental truck agency, bartender, and office clerk. One beauty queen in Bogota worked at a clothing store in the mall, and the one in Cartagena worked for a collections agency.

From what I recall in Colombia, these women made between $300 and $900 per month and for some reason you think that none had the need to care for a sick mother or child with special needs or to pay down student debt. They all had jobs and they had more money than they could ever want in a lifetime at an average $500 per month.

Now why would you think that? I got it. Because you are a completely pigheaded moron incapable of seeing any one else's POV and you have to react with hostility to anything that does not fit into your narrow fucked up view of the world.

Maybe you need to hang around women that are not full time hookers. You might learn something. I doubt it, but you never know until you try.

[TjBrazil]

There was a guy on Reddit or one of those types of forums that said he looks for his sugar babies at minimum wage type jobs like Walmart or fast food places and makes sure she can see he is wealthy. He then feels her out to see if she might be game. We have all been to these types af places and see a 9 that's 18 or 19 and you want to offer her money but you don't because it's awkward. It's an interesting way to find a sb if you ask enough hotties at Taco Bell. I personally was at a shake shack recently and saw this ko working the fryer. She was 5'10 ddd natural, maybe 20, and 135 pounds. Should have been a model. I didn't know how to flirt with her since she was not the cashier. I might go back more often so I can drool.

[TjBrazil]

Is there anyone in the world more stupid than you? All those women on SA are hos of one sort or another. If you were a decent woman with a decent job, independent and all of that, you wouldn't be on Seeking Bobob.

This forum likes to classify hoes in different rankings. The street ho, the brothel ho, and the so called Seeking.com not a ho- ho. She just wants gifts and her rent taken care of. Let people believe the seeking, not a ho-ho they married, wasn't really a ho, because she didn't bang 2 guys a night at a terma.

[JjBee62]

As always, you totally missed my point. Who said any girl on Tinder is looking for sex only (p4 p or not)? There is plenty of girls looking for a relationship that can possibly lead to a marriage. Same applies to Seeking, maybe to a lesser extent. You just need to use your brain (which is difficult for you, despite 170+ iq score) and weed out the prostitutes and non-wife material. Also, there is Colombian Cupid, there is Bumble and other apps, where you can find non-pros / normal girls. Facebook is even better. It is the most popular social media platform in the world. Yes, dumbass, people can use it to connect, start dating and end up marrying. Not only to find prostitutes, which is actually a MDE thing. Isn't your "girlfriend" a Facebook chick, that you somehow managed to weed out of 2000 prostitutes? Or or she just one of them?

If she's on Tinder, Bumble, Seeking, Colombian Cupid, or any other "dating" site, your chance of a real connection goes down. It's not impossible, but if you're looking for a long-term relationship, or marriage, you've chosen a very difficult path. However, if you're just looking for someone for a date, or someone for sex, those are good choices.

I'll go over this again. Relationships are built on mutual respect and shared experiences. Online platforms bypass that and you make connections without the shared experiences, or mutual respect. You develop a familiarity which has no real foundation.

If your goal is to find a wife, then your greatest chance for success is to branch out within your community. Join local organizations, get involved within the community. You will have a better chance of finding someone with mutual interests and who is socially and financially your equal.

Sure, you can use Facebook in that way. I never said you couldn't. However, most often I see it used to connect or reconnect with people already known. That's really how it's setup. I've met many new people, friends of friends, but it's still bypassing the necessary personal interaction required to build a solid relationship. Any of the online platforms are best utilized as simply a tool to meet new people. Just new people, not girlfriends or wives. You meet, maybe go on a date, then decide where to go from there. It might lead to marriage, but all of the relationship issues should build from scratch.

I'll give a somewhat related example.

From 1996 to 2002 I was making a lot of connections online and then meeting in person, when I was in the area. Most meets led to sex. One woman, who I had talked with over a period of several months, wanted to meet me. I was a few days away from where she lived, when she started talking about all the things she wanted to do with me, or more precisely, that she wanted me to do to her. I stopped her and told her we were just meeting, no expectations. Whatever happened would happen naturally, or not at all. She kept insisting on talking about all her expectations. Against my better judgment, I met her. It was one of the most uncomfortable experiences of my life. She was incredibly nervous, wouldn't even sit next to me. Conversation was terrible, all because she had built a picture in her mind that had no foundation in reality. Eventually I left and shortly after she was messaging, asking why we didn't fuck. How are we supposed to fuck when you can't even talk to me?

Something similar is likely to happen when setting expectations from an online connection. What you expect becomes more difficult, because nothing has created the real connections necessary for things to progress naturally.

And no, I didn't meet my girl through Facebook. She has both Facebook and Instagram and likes a lot of posts, including some of mine, but she's never active on her own page. This is another thing I've covered before.

Shortly before the onset of the pandemic I noticed a trend. There was a huge uptick in livestream users. TikTok, Bigo, LiveMe and several others were growing rapidly. The pandemic, shutdowns and quarantines created another surge. I checked it out and saw a lot of Colombians. I decided to see if some of the girls, complete new to chatrooms, would be approachable. They were.

My girlfriend, her sister and several friends were all checking it out. With all schools closed, most activities canceled and quarantines they were bored. My Spanish is sufficient to carry on a conversation and I have a great deal of experience in chatrooms. Instead of being one of the guys begging to see something, I was connecting with the girls. I collected Whatsapp numbers and just began the process of weeding them out. Nobody could travel, so it was a way to learn about the girls and to build their interest in me.

What I didn't do, what wouldn't have worked, was offer money for sex. I succeeded in building interest. I met the ones I most wanted and let the others slip away. With a few it was easy to move to sex, with my GF it took a long time. I wasn't in a hurry. Just as I've been saying, it built naturally, without unrealistic expectations. By the time we ended up in her bed we were completely comfortable with each other.

[TjBrazil]

The owner of Seeking said in an interview that everyone uses something to attract women. Some men are tall and handsome, some use their body by working out a lot, some use status, and some use money and or success. You use what you have. In the end, all relationship or one night stands or shallow. That's why nobody should care if you're paying or using something else. Love isn't real.

[JjBee62]

If someone tells me they fuck El Centro street girls, I don't need to meet those girls, because I have been to El Centro many times, been to casas as well, and I'm well aware of what is on the menu.

And? I never told you I fuck El Centro street girls. I've never fucked an El Centro, Santa Fe, or any other street girl. I have, in the past, fucked casa girls and strip club girls, including El Centro strip club girls, but it's been over 3 years since I did that. It's been at least that long since I've fucked a Facebook girl, excluding ones I had met previously. Only 1 girl who I've fucked in the last 2 years has been available to meet through any channels you might use. It's not bragging. I decided that I was bored with Facebook, Instagram, strip clubs and casas. I chose to take a different path and find the girls where nobody else was looking. My decision has turned out well for me.

Yet, without knowing me, without knowing what's on the menu, you've repeatedly insisted I only fuck average or ugly girls. Over the same 3 years I've posted pictures of several of the women, pictures which I took (with one exception, a screen grab from a video sent to me). Not once did you point out that the girl was fat or ugly. In the screen grab instance, if I remember correctly, you rated her a 7. 5 while complaining about her teeth (which can't be clearly seen from the photo). Simply put, the one you commented on was, on your scale, as good or better than 99% of the women you've managed to get through your superior methods and higher standards (according to you). Still you keep insisting I have low standards and only fuck the worst women. Explain yourself.

Wrong. Some guys are okay with fucking average or ugly women because they think they can't get better women due to lack of confidence or whatever reason, or because they are on a tight budget, or simply lazy.

Wrong again. Many guys fuck women who you, I, or anyone else you wish to name, consider average or ugly. However, we aren't the ones fucking them. Those guys aren't using our dicks. Unless the guys are very young (when getting an erection requires no stimulus), they are only fucking women who they see as attractive. Although there are rare exceptions, most men simply can't fuck a woman who they aren't sexually attracted to. As we get older, that becomes absolute.

There are many examples of this throughout ISG, too many for you not to know this. Guys talking about huge fake breasts, huge fake asses and going on about how she was a 9 or 10. I don't find that attractive at all, I'm betting you also don't find it attractive, yet some guy is crowing about how lucky he was to find her.

Why don't you accuse people who "choose to approach p4 p sex differently" of insulting others? In other words, why don't you say something to people throwing trash out of their car? You take a one-sided position. You think it is okay to insult others for overpaying or pursuing hotter women, but it is NOT okay for people who got insulted to defend themselves.

No. I don't think it's okay for people to insult others for overpaying. "Hotter women" is something which is entirely subjective, so has no bearing on anything. I've never said that's acceptable. However, I'm not wasting my time telling everyone they shouldn't behave badly. I did that for a few years and it accomplished nothing except to start arguments. It's quite likely that's how the never-ending argument with you began.

As for why I don't say something to people who throw trash out of their car, you should already be able to figure that one out. Chasing someone down and forcing them off the road, just to tell them not to litter, isn't easy, or smart. In a truck, speed limited to 70 mph, it's nearly impossible. It would require speeding, reckless driving, risking a multi-vehicle fatal accident, and if successful, might very well get you shot.

[Huacho]

OMG. Is there anything in the history of the world more stupid than this?

There are 10,000+ women on the site in most of the larger metropolitan cities in the USA, but you know everything about all of them.

I will ask the same question I asked to Mr. E, and he did not answer. If your "girlfriends" are so great, why are you still seeing hookers on the side?

Is there anyone in the world more stupid than you? All those women on SA are hos of one sort or another. If you were a decent woman with a decent job, independent and all of that, you wouldn't be on Seeking Bobob.

[Elvis 2008]

Why does a prince charming like you need to have 2000 prostitutes on his contact list? Didn't you say that all one needs to do to get laid is to be able to talk to women? Again, that speaks volumes about the quality of the women you were fucking. Less quality = less effort. Zero quality = zero effort. And since they are all prostitutes, it is indeed very easy to get their attention, because they are desperate to earn a quick a buck. This has nothing to do with "wanting to fuck you". All they really want is that you cum as quickly as possible, so that they can move on to the next customer.

That paragraph perfectly describes the fight between losers and winners.

[Mr Enternational]

The exact opposite has been proven. Your own woman proved it. Was the guy who knocked her up a rich guy?

He already admitted she was young and dumb back then. Now that she is pushing 40, he has shown her it is possible to find a dopey gringo to pay her bills.

[Elvis 2008]

According to DramaQueen, he's spending all his time weeding out women who don't even have computers and women who don't speak English and refuse to speak English (make that make sense). According to Mami'sBoy he's only getting women who are 7's on his 1-10 scale and his minimum acceptable is a 7. No idea what DonCarlos is doing, but 2 out of the 3 are, by their own admission, not getting "elite women. ".

I have seen MB was after elite women, and I know what DC is after and has gotten.

I have met DF in person and he may not even say his women are elite, but I will. He has game and stunning women.

[Elvis 2008]

As always, you totally missed my point. Who said any girl on Tinder is looking for sex only (p4 p or not)? There is plenty of girls looking for a relationship that can possibly lead to a marriage. Same applies to Seeking, maybe to a lesser extent.

In the women's section on seeking, the women list their preferences, and there are many women who list marriage minded as a preference not that any of these losers would know.

[Elvis 2008]

So you admit that these women are only with you for the money?

LOL. Thanks for admitting that I have the best women.

That does not take away from the fact that without the so-called game they would probably still be with you, but without the money they would 100% not be with you.

And if we did not have sex, I would not be with her. So what? My having money, her putting out, being clean and showered are minimum requirements to play the game not win it. Having good game means closing the deal and winning.

A guy can be rich and not spend any money on a chick.

Are you describing yourself?

You bailed on a marriage, fuck hookers on the side, have all this money to spend on traveling but little to none for your "girlfriends", and object to other guys spending money on women. I do not see why any woman who really knew you would want you for a partner.

On the flipside I have seen non-rich guys take out loans to spend the money on a chicks.

Yeah, you make it sound like I give women $10,000 and say "Hey, like me" as if women would not take that money and run away. It is not just having money but being fair and wise with it that it impresses women. In fact, the women who have gotten the most out of me and other guys are the ones who have asked for nothing or asked for the least, and that concept is clearly one you cannot understand.

[MiamiBoy1]

No. It's not just one of the many online platforms and it is in no way comparable to Facebook. It is however comparable to Tinder.

Seeking was originally "Seeking Arrangements", a site dedicated to sugar baby, sugar daddy arrangements. It is still a website for women seeking to exchange companionship (up to and including sex) for something of monetary value. "How much are you going to pay me" isn't the path towards "wife material. ".

In answer to bothof your stupid questions, you can find a wife anywhere. You can go to the local methadone clinic and find a wife. Is she wife material? If she's on Tinder looking to meet strangers for sex, with or without payment, is she wife material? If she's on Seeking, looking for someone to pay her bills in exchange for sex, is she wife material? Not in my book.

Unless you're looking for a girl who is under 18 and still supported by her parents, she has to meet certain requirements to be wife material. You should be able to understand this because it's similar to your requirements for women. They must be at least a "7", on your scale. True?

Wife material requirements (over 18):

1. Must be self-supporting. This is crucial. If she can't support herself she's always going to be dependent on someone else. Every relationship decision she makes starts and ends with "will he support me?

2. Must have a comparable education level. Effective, long-term communication is extremely difficult if both are not able to interact on the same level.

Each individual will have other requirements, but without those 2, she's just ex-wife material and that can be expensive.

I have 2,000 prostitutes on my Facebook because I was using my Facebook to find prostitutes. I would never use Facebook, or any other online platform to find a wife. At most I would, and have used internet sources to find women to meet. Meeting might lead to a date, which might lead to more dates, to a relationship, and eventually a wedding. Those are all decisions which only a fool would make from looking at a profile or a "someone please pay me for sex" ad.

As always, you totally missed my point. Who said any girl on Tinder is looking for sex only (p4 p or not)? There is plenty of girls looking for a relationship that can possibly lead to a marriage. Same applies to Seeking, maybe to a lesser extent. You just need to use your brain (which is difficult for you, despite 170+ iq score) and weed out the prostitutes and non-wife material. Also, there is Colombian Cupid, there is Bumble and other apps, where you can find non-pros / normal girls. Facebook is even better. It is the most popular social media platform in the world. Yes, dumbass, people can use it to connect, start dating and end up marrying. Not only to find prostitutes, which is actually a MDE thing. Isn't your "girlfriend" a Facebook chick, that you somehow managed to weed out of 2000 prostitutes? Or or she just one of them?