Stupid shit in Medellin

[AmorPorFavor]

Payment does not determine price in a free marked controlled by Supply & Demand, but nice try.

It was a joke but thanks for the econ lesson.

[Mr Enternational]

Perhaps I am missing some context because I did not read Elvis' post to which you responded, but your number 6 answer seems waaaaay off. I guess you know enough to call the guy who impregnated her a loser, but your point is sexist, as if all the blame falls on her.

You definitely missed it. According to Elvis, his girl, his girl's daughter, and his girl's family considers the guy a loser because he uses drugs and hits women. I asked so what does that make her for choosing him. His excuse for her is that she was young. Although the guy was young too, no excuses for that loser.

Seems he is basing her being the best of the best because she is pretty. He has never pointed out any other outstanding qualities about her, and to be honest, I do not even remember him saying she is pretty. The only adjective he gives to describe his bill is "best". She is the best bill ever in history and sux for us that we can not get one just like her. Really hard for sub-par guys like us to find someone to let us pay their bills in this day and time. Life stinks!

[Mr Enternational]

Mr. E. he is actually the one I was talking to about this not you guys. He has own issues so he is not going to replicate what I have done or if he does, at least not talk about it right away. Mr. E bitched about sugar babies and then looked to get an account on seeking. He was totally with you on Covid and then changed his mind. He changes his mind and just forgets what he said to start with.

Of course I am not intending to replicate paying the rent for any sorry ass grown woman.

I went on Seeking to see the chicks. I never paid any money to send them emails. The chicks there look the same as the chicks on any other website despite those that use the site saying how above other chicks Seeking chicks supposedly are. Anyone can look for themselves. I even saw a couple of chicks on there that I already knew from Cupid that I have never given money to. So I would like to thank guys like Elvis for paying their bills so that they would not expect me to.

I do not know who I was supposedly with on Covid or what I changed to. I have had my own opinions since day 1 and have not faltered. I am still not vaccinated and have yet to fall ill. I have a vaccine card, a qr code, and can still make test results at the click of a finger. So really what did I change from and to?

It seems many countries are finally lifting restrictions as well. As of May 1 Thailand is no longer requiring stupid tests or booking of covid hotels to quarantine in. As of May 1 people will not have to wear masks in Lima outside although half the people already don't. Philippines has opened back up. Europe. Whoever is still balls deep in their defense of covid restrictions seem to be on the sinking side of history.

[JjBee62]

Anyone typing out long posts day in and day out fighting to get the best of strangers in a hooker forum has a "fragile ego. " The rare occasional indulgence is excusable, but as a regular thing, and damn near as a way of life then someone has a problem. Size up the shoe and see if it fits.

As to the "women" or GFs, well most of these hookers have several guys they call their "BF" who send them money so we can add sucker to the list. That's while pointing out once again that one couldn't find a worse place for advice on relationships than a hooker forum, as most guys who congregate here are failures at this, and thus choose to satisfy their primal urges with P4P.

I'm surprised. I figured you would be off licking your wounds for another week. Did you just get a testosterone booster and started feeling macho again?

Getting the best of strangers on a hooker board doesn't require much of a fight. Afterall, there aren't many stranger than you and I've had no trouble there. You've resorted to sending PMs to others, hoping one of them could do what you can't, get the best of me. Shit, you even made a trip to Parque Lleras to find me, because I had blocked you. Just out of curiosity, can you name 1 person who regularly visits Medellin, who you can message and say "let's go get a beer?" Anyone out there who you haven't alienated?

As for making it a regular thing, you've been guilty yourself, many times, except it's almost your only contribution. Then when someone dunks on you, you sit on the bench pouting for 2 weeks. Besides, it's 600 miles between Denver and Kansas City with nothing interesting on the way. Pointing out your inadequacy helps cover the miles.

You're right about one thing. Most of the working girls will take all the gringo boyfriends they can get. However, as usual, you assume your experiences are the same as mine.

By the way, whatever happened to your Colombian friend who drugged and robbed you? Maybe he will come and drink with you again.

[JjBee62]

Perhaps I am missing some context because I did not read Elvis' post to which you responded, but your number 6 answer seems waaaaay off. I guess you know enough to call the guy who impregnated her a loser, but your point is sexist, as if all the blame falls on her.

I also see it as exceedingly unfair to brand every female with an unwanted pregnancy as fucking up the most important decision she'll ever make. Perhaps if she were to choose to stay home and take care of her kid instead of going to work as a research scientist to discover the cure for cancer, then maybe you have a point. That is a hypothetical and extreme example by design.

I just remembered after I started answering this, I was an unplanned, illegitimate kid who forced the marriage of two people. Exactly where does the "fuck up" of that decision begin and end?

Maybe in your never-ending quest to bash Elvis you got a little carried away? I probably should go back and read what Elvis wrote before I responded to you, but that would be a change for me, and I fear change, jaja.

You failed to comprehend.

First, Elvis identified the father as a loser. You'll have to go back a ways to find that post, and he might have used a different word, but same basic idea.

The main point was calling the woman "best of the best." By my criteria, she's disqualified from being far above any other woman that anyone on ISG, has ever had, by the fact of the child. As always, I'll explain.

She might be incredibly beautiful, talented in bed and a world class cook and housekeeper. She might make an excellent girlfriend or even wife. However, per his somewhat vague description, she's much more. She's a pinnacle which nobody else has any hope of ever conquering. However, she has a kid.

And that knocks her down to the same level as most of the women most of us are using for entertainment purposes. She has a prior obligation. That creates limits. Spontaneity is severely restricted, if not eliminated. He can't, in the middle of dinner decide to go straight to the airport and take the next flight to anywhere. If they're spending a week away, he can't extend the trip indefinitely. The child must come first.

If he decides on a real commitment and wants to have children with her, her existing child will almost certainly cause some issues. Certainly it will complicate things.

I don't blame the woman for getting pregnant, it's the Colombian national pastime for teenagers. However, it undeniably altered the path of her life and created a more difficult path for the offspring.

Her child also creates a potential problem for Elvis. If the two bond emotionally, it puts him in a difficult position. If he decides he no longer wants to keep the woman as his SB, he might feel obligated to continue because of the child. If he chooses to walk, will the child suffer?

I'm not interested in the SD-SB thing, but as I see it, it's a compromise. You get the benefits of a relationship, with the freedom to walk away, no muss, no fuss. Add a child and it's basically a marriage without the tax deduction.

[DontSayMuch]

Hello board,

I'm thinking of going to Medellin in the next six months but am having a little problem with this forum's layout and finding questions. I'll ask some questions here and if there's a post or thread this is answered then if you could let me know where that is I'd really appreciate it.

I'll try not to ask too many questions at once and will break it up.

I'm looking to stay at a hotel / complex that has alright security, is guest friendly (multiple and no questions asked), and is near a good place to monger. For under $100 ideally.

Thanks for any responses, I appreciate it.

DSM.

[Osteoknot]

6. Claiming a woman who already has a kid by some loser is the best of the best. She fucked up the most important decision she'll ever make and had to find a sucker to support her, her mistake and apparently her family too.

Perhaps I am missing some context because I did not read Elvis' post to which you responded, but your number 6 answer seems waaaaay off. I guess you know enough to call the guy who impregnated her a loser, but your point is sexist, as if all the blame falls on her.

I also see it as exceedingly unfair to brand every female with an unwanted pregnancy as fucking up the most important decision she'll ever make. Perhaps if she were to choose to stay home and take care of her kid instead of going to work as a research scientist to discover the cure for cancer, then maybe you have a point. That is a hypothetical and extreme example by design.

I just remembered after I started answering this, I was an unplanned, illegitimate kid who forced the marriage of two people. Exactly where does the "fuck up" of that decision begin and end?

Maybe in your never-ending quest to bash Elvis you got a little carried away? I probably should go back and read what Elvis wrote before I responded to you, but that would be a change for me, and I fear change, jaja.

[Paulie97]

And I won't go the childish route of claiming any of them are the best of the best. My ego isn't fragile.

Anyone typing out long posts day in and day out fighting to get the best of strangers in a hooker forum has a "fragile ego. " The rare occasional indulgence is excusable, but as a regular thing, and damn near as a way of life then someone has a problem. Size up the shoe and see if it fits.

As to the "women" or GFs, well most of these hookers have several guys they call their "BF" who send them money so we can add sucker to the list. That's while pointing out once again that one couldn't find a worse place for advice on relationships than a hooker forum, as most guys who congregate here are failures at this, and thus choose to satisfy their primal urges with P4P.

[Osteoknot]

I think I will go there and pay one $12 and fuck up your market.

Payment does not determine price in a free marked controlled by Supply & Demand, but nice try.

[AmorPorFavor]

Probably the same kind of dogs that get $205 (Colombia's minimum wage) for laboring away 23 days of the month. I guess to the dogs, $10.60 for 15 to 30 minutes of work does not seem as bad as it seems to folks from richer countries. Some may even figure it is damn good versus someone on the grind at a normal job making a mere $8.91 for the entire day.

How much would one suppose a Colombian guy making the same amount on a normal job be paying for hookers? 3 ($26.73) or even 4 ($35.64) days pay? Prime example of how foreigners go fucking things up with their back home way of thinking. Why should pussy cost so much when half the planet has one they can rent out?

I think I will go there and pay one $12 and fuck up your market.

[JjBee62]

LOL. Yeah, you look at who posts and then agree or disagree with the post based on who you like or dislike. You do not have an objective cell in your body.

And I would be a simp based on the women you losers have tossed out: you and your street walkers, LuvMexicans and his strippers, and JJBee with his 7 GF who went from unemployed to stripper to ho in the short period he dated her.

Yeah, that is the "best of the best" in your worlds.

No. You would be a "simp" (and I hate that word), because of things like:

1. Supporting a woman is a privilege.

2. A woman must earn your monogamy.

3. Paying to move a hooker and her family to another country.

4. Publicly crying on a hooker board because the hooker dumped you after you moved her and her family to another country.

5. Trying to explain how a steakhouse will become a better steakhouse if you commit to only eat all of your meals at that steakhouse.

6. Claiming a woman who already has a kid by some loser is the best of the best. She fucked up the most important decision she'll ever make and had to find a sucker to support her, her mistake and apparently her family too.

I've made lots of bad decisions and countless mistakes, and I'll keep making more (everyone makes mistakes, narcissists just can't admit to them), but I don't excuse other people's mistakes, just because they're willing to fuck me for money.

Strange thing. I currently have 5 women who aren't P4 P. Although I spend money on all of them, I'm not supporting any of them. Of the 5, 4 are employed and 3 are attending university. 2 own their own car, 1 has a motorcycle. None of them have children and 2 have a US Visa.

2 of them consider themselves my girlfriends, 1 wants the position, 1 just wants to check off things on her sexual bucket list and 1 has taken herself out of consideration because her sister is one of the girlfriends*.

I have no plans to settle down with any of them, but if I change my mind, marriage would be the result. None of the ridiculous "I'll support you and your family as long as you pretend to enjoy fucking me and don't let me catch you fucking other guys" shit. Legally binding commitment, no prenuptial agreement. Actual commitment between 2 adults instead of acting like a pre-schooler who just gave a girl a Ring Pop.

And I won't go the childish route of claiming any of them are the best of the best. My ego isn't fragile. Claiming I'm with women everyone else would beg to be with, or stupidly stating I'm having better sex than everyone else, doesn't interest me. Then again, I'm not a narcissist.

[Mr Enternational]

I'm wondering what kind of dog you get to fuck in what kind of shithole for $10.60?

Probably the same kind of dogs that get $205 (Colombia's minimum wage) for laboring away 23 days of the month. I guess to the dogs, $10.60 for 15 to 30 minutes of work does not seem as bad as it seems to folks from richer countries. Some may even figure it is damn good versus someone on the grind at a normal job making a mere $8.91 for the entire day.

How much would one suppose a Colombian guy making the same amount on a normal job be paying for hookers? 3 ($26.73) or even 4 ($35.64) days pay? Prime example of how foreigners go fucking things up with their back home way of thinking. Why should pussy cost so much when half the planet has one they can rent out?

[Elvis 2008]

The only way to find a BOB (best of the best) steakhouse is to raise your own cattle, build your own steakhouse, overpay every employee and micromanage everything. You'll be putting in 100 hours a week and each steak is going to cost you about $500.

Nah, you find the BOB by going to the best steakhouses.

We have women, because that's what we want.

Nah, you are settling for that and you should.

We're all grown men. Most of us have been around long enough and have tried enough different things to know what works for us. Any of us might change our mind about what we want, but it isn't going to be because of a post on ISG.

Grown men huh? Yeah, that is a good one. Are your friends or family proud of who you are being in the hobby? Denial is thinking they are. Mr. E asked why I am hanging around the crack house every day but not going into smoke. It is funny how not one of you responded to that.

Everyone got it 3 weeks ago. The problem is you don't get it.

Nah, I still do not think you get it. Did I tell you to give up all your women and focus on one? No. In fact, and this is the funny part, you, Villainy, Osteo, Huacho, and LuvMexicans, the guys thinking I am so nuts, should disregard everything I say and see as many woman as you can. You are not looking for the BOB. You all are eating at the dump.

Osteo is so at the crack house he is banging a girl who tried to scope him, fucking a girl with one of the nastiest rashes I have ever seen, and probably got septic from his bizarre sexual practices. That is a guy at the crack house. Of course, yeah, he is interesting. He might live a little longer if he got a tad more boring.

Nounce might find someone because he is not fishing totally in the dump and neither is Mr. E. he is actually the one I was talking to about this not you guys. He has own issues so he is not going to replicate what I have done or if he does, at least not talk about it right away. Mr. E bitched about sugar babies and then looked to get an account on seeking. He was totally with you on Covid and then changed his mind. He changes his mind and just forgets what he said to start with.

[Elvis 2008]

Yeah, and I read a lot. What a simp.

LOL. Yeah, you look at who posts and then agree or disagree with the post based on who you like or dislike. You do not have an objective cell in your body.

And I would be a simp based on the women you losers have tossed out: you and your street walkers, LuvMexicans and his strippers, and JJBee with his 7 GF who went from unemployed to stripper to ho in the short period he dated her.

Yeah, that is the "best of the best" in your worlds.

[Villainy]

I am not saying I have the best steakhouse. What I am saying is this is the best one I have been to, one so good I do not need or want to go anywhere else. And that is how I know it is the best or at least the best I can get.

Maybe someone can have a better one than me, but you are not going to get there unless you commit totally to one steakhouse. Sorry. Now are you going to get the steak if you do not pay? Fuck no. That is another stupid comment. The best steakhouse has to provide value though and not rip you off though.

All three of you dummies had the same response. We are already eating at the best. Why you guys are dummies though is that I have eaten at all the places you have, and I am saying what I have is better. In fact, it is so good I do not want to eat anywhere else.

So how do you get to the best steakhouse? You have to think you are worthy to be there. You have to pay fair value, and you have to be open to and willing to commit if the steak is exceptional.

Okay one more time. You go to a steakhouse and it is one of the best you have ever been to. You go back and it is just as good. It is the best of the best. Is it easy to find a steak house this good? Hell no.

But how do you go one step further than the best of the best? You say to the restaurant I am going to quit going to all the other steakhouses and only support you and in exchange for this commitment: I expect you to go up a notch higher. Can you do that? And the restaurant says yes, and they do exactly that. Now, you have reached the pinnacle of steak houses. You are getting the best service at the best of the best. Is there better? Probably. But is this about the best you can get? Well, it is so fucking good that going to any other steak house would likely be a disappointment.

So when you all are telling me of the great steakhouses you have eaten at, my question to you is did you commit to it? If not, then do not tell me it is all that great. Okay, maybe it is 90 out of 100. My point is what gets you to 100 is commitment.

Can you say that a steakhouse that is a 50 and in demand can be 90? Hell no.

Can you pretend that a 70 is just as good as a 90? Hell no.

Can you say if the restaurant really liked me they would do it without pay? Hell no.

Can you get to a 100 by saying, "Well, you are pretty good but I want to keep my options open and keep eating steak at other places?" Sure you can do that, but if you really are eating at the best of the best, the chances of getting better are pretty slim.

So, I'm convinced! Elvis found his cut of meat. His favorite meat. His meat of all meats. Congratulations and nice going Elvis!

But, of course, I do have a few questions. If you are SO committed to this one cut of meat. Why don't you put a ring on her finger? Why don't you buy a big hacienda for the two of you and her family? Is it that your commitment is braggadocio? When it comes to backing up your claim with your actions. Well I'm not hearing any nuptials are in the offing. Perhaps you're not as committed to that piece of meat as you say. Or perhaps you know that as that piece of meat ages a little it might not taste so good. Or perhaps you know that one day you're going to have a craving for lobster and well. Poof!! There goes the loyalty. Do tell.

As for the rest of us. Well some of us are committed but our commitment is to trying all different types of savory dishes. You see? I, for example, am like Diogenes but rather than trying to find an honest man (assuming that he was a real person and his "search" wasn't some sort of allegory) I'm always in search of the perfect sexual purveyor. Why? It's fun and I enjoy the hell out of it. I have other intellectual pursuits but finding women who are willing to trade a few hours of pleasure for a small sum of money is really more like a 'hobby' as we like to refer to it.

Of course, those of us who are constantly in pursuit are not hypocrites. We announce up front that we don't want a girlfriend. We're not looking for a permanent relationship. We're enjoying our life and sampling the smorgasbord of beautiful willing women.

SO Elvis, man-up and stop being a hypocrite. Marry the piece of meat you enjoy so much or admit that you are just another fool that fell in love with his hooker.