Stupid shit in Medellin

**Paulie97** · 03-17-22 01:42

Originally Posted by Thunder01 [View Original Post]

I have been on 6 continents and the only place I have had any crime happen to me was in the USA.

Personal anecdotes in a monger forum. That is not evidence when deciding what places are more dangerous than others. Credible crime statistics though can be useful.

**Elvis 2008** · 03-17-22 00:45

Originally Posted by Huacho [View Original Post]

Where I don't want to go right now in LatAm is Mxico.

I think that is overblown due to the media. I thought Mexico City was not walkable at night, but I was just there, and the streets were flooded, and we walked around with no issues. And I was just in Cancun and Tulum 2 months ago. Despite the widespread media reports, Cancun and Tulum are still packed. I actually wish people would not go there. I loved Cancun when it was empty during the pandemic. The deaths there were collateral damage in the drug war. That is unlike other places I went.

For example, in Rio, when I went 15 years ago, the slums were right near Atlantic Avenue, the street lining Copacabana Beach. It was open season on tourists. 2 of 3 people in our party got mugged, and people bragged about NOT getting mugged.

I was in Caracas, Venezuela shortly after that, and I went to a strip club. The streets were fucking dead at night. Those two places were the only cities where I have ever been where I was constantly looking behind me. Everything and everyone was open season in Caracas.

I do not know why but around the same time I was visiting Juarez Mexico which meant I had been to three of the four most dangerous cities in the world at that time. It was sad to see Americans not going there and the city streets and shops were decaying because of that. Thing is while Juarez was the most deadly city in North America, across the border, El Paso was the 3rd safest. So again, it was a drug war with citizens as collateral damage, and it was dangerous, but I felt a lot better there than in Rio or Caracas.

**Elvis 2008** · 03-17-22 00:28

Originally Posted by Huacho [View Original Post]

But those other individual session occurred with such diverse women in such diverse circumstances in such diverse places, that I think you can never know or predict precisely when or how the chemistry and stars will align to produce great sex. You just have to keep hitting it and go with the flow. In the case of paid sex, I have found zero correlation between price and performance. In the case of civilians, I have found zero correlation between looks and performance.

Good post. Yeah, I think price has to do more with looks. I agree there is zero correlation with price and performance.

**MarquisdeSade1** · 03-16-22 22:32

Originally Posted by PedroMorales [View Original Post]

https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/weird-...-doll-24895898

A bodybuilder who married a sex doll last year claims he is now madly in love with an ashtray. And plans to give it an artificial vagina.

Yuri Tolochko says he has moved on since his devastating split from Margo the doll and is building a new life.

Well played PM.

**Thunder 01** · 03-16-22 22:01

Originally Posted by Zeos1 [View Original Post]

Don't know what you are comparing it to. It is an abnormally dangerous place compared to where I live. Everyone I know that comes from or lives in Medellin has been the victim of some sort of robbery or violent crime. Almost no one I know in my home town has ever been a victim of a similar crime.

Um. No! It is not dangerous at all. Hey must be in the wrong place doing the wrong things. You must be white grinho and disrespecting or something. The most dangerous places in the world are in the USA. I am a lot safer in Mexico, Cuba, El Salvador than there. Maybe because I am Native American and not a gringo. But it is deadly for minorities in the USA. I have been on 6 continents and the only place I have had any crime happen to me was in the USA.

**LuvMexicanas** · 03-16-22 17:31

Originally Posted by Huacho [View Original Post]

I lived in and recently visited Medellin and I will dissent from that. I have been to all Central and South American Spanish speaking countries and would say that Medellin is more dangerous (including all forms of safety including traffic, STDs, theft, scopolamine, police shakedowns, etc.) than most Latin cities, maybe 80% of the cities of been to (which is most of them). And it's more dangerous than anywhere I have been in Europe which includes over 20 countries.

More dangerous: Coln, Tegucigalpa, Ciudad del Este mmm that's about it. About the same vibe of danger: Guatemala City, David. Of course cities in the Yew Ess like St. Louis, Baltimore, Albuquerque, etc.

I have lived in Argentina, Colombia, Panam, Costa Rica and Guatemala (in CA and SA) and as a country overall, I believe Colombia to be the most dangerous one, followed by Guatemala, then Argentina, then Costa Rica, then Panam. Depends on the regime in power, the state of the economy, and so forth.

Where I don't want to go right now in LatAm is Mxico.

It is a place where things can go bad for you very fast. It's nickname is Albucrackee, albeit it's more about meth these days but the name has stuck.

**PedroMorales** · 03-16-22 09:35

Originally Posted by Elvis2008 [View Original Post]

Pedro,

I was not talking about mongers marrying porn stars but porn stars marrying each other. MDS had the notion that preachers showing up at a porn star convention are out of place. Certainly, the loud mouth judging types are but a number of porn stars are married and Christians..

https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/weird-...-doll-24895898

A bodybuilder who married a sex doll last year claims he is now madly in love with an ashtray. And plans to give it an artificial vagina.

Yuri Tolochko says he has moved on since his devastating split from Margo the doll and is building a new life.

**Huacho** · 03-16-22 07:02

Originally Posted by Jay0940 [View Original Post]

I'm sure most who have visited or live in Medellin would agree that it's not an abnormally dangerous city.

I lived in and recently visited Medellin and I will dissent from that. I have been to all Central and South American Spanish speaking countries and would say that Medellin is more dangerous (including all forms of safety including traffic, STDs, theft, scopolamine, police shakedowns, etc.) than most Latin cities, maybe 80% of the cities of been to (which is most of them). And it's more dangerous than anywhere I have been in Europe which includes over 20 countries.

More dangerous: Colón, Tegucigalpa, Ciudad del Este mmm that's about it. About the same vibe of danger: Guatemala City, David. Of course cities in the Yew Ess like St. Louis, Baltimore, Albuquerque, etc.

I have lived in Argentina, Colombia, Panamá, Costa Rica and Guatemala (in CA and SA) and as a country overall, I believe Colombia to be the most dangerous one, followed by Guatemala, then Argentina, then Costa Rica, then Panamá. Depends on the regime in power, the state of the economy, and so forth.

Where I don't want to go right now in LatAm is México.

**Huacho** · 03-16-22 06:31

So I'm of a pensionable age and I'm having the best sex of my life, as well as the least complicated arrangement. I'm not in love with her and she's not in love with me. I was in love and I know the difference. We do like each other quite a bit. It's been a year.

What I think is, it is random and flukish and fleeting. When I say the best sex, I mean the best sex on average (mean not median) and hardly any clunkers or bad sex sessions. We both have a lot of experience and her attitude is, tell me what kind of sex you want tonight and we'll do it. And she's got an idea of how she wants to do whatever that might be. She has a lot of stamina so there is never any "I'm getting sore" or "My jaw is starting to hurt" or anything like that. She's not a princess. She's not skinny and she's not fat. She's not tall and she's not short. She's not old and she's not young. She's the woman next door as that is literally how we met (actually she was my upstairs neighbor).

Now I could look back at oh say a dozen individual sessions over the years that were better than the best session I've had with this woman, but never this level of consistency. And no drama. We live in LatAm but she is not Latina so that means (at least) two things: 1) no insane, baseless, poisonous jealousy; and 2) she shows up on time .

If I wanted to use sports analogies, she has the positional versatility of Chris Taylor and the consistency of Cal Ripken, Jr. ; takes a pounding better than Chuck Wepner; and can eat weiner better than Joey Chestnut. And I'm more like Tiger Woods than Santa Claus because Santa stops after three Hos.

But those other individual session occurred with such diverse women in such diverse circumstances in such diverse places, that I think you can never know or predict precisely when or how the chemistry and stars will align to produce great sex. You just have to keep hitting it and go with the flow. In the case of paid sex, I have found zero correlation between price and performance. In the case of civilians, I have found zero correlation between looks and performance.

**Elvis 2008** · 03-16-22 04:33

Originally Posted by PedroMorales [View Original Post]

I know another guy is on his 4th Thai wife.

If she is broken and you are broken, by all means hook up,. But there ain't nob ody going to put those Himpty Dumptys back together again.

Pedro,

I was not talking about mongers marrying porn stars but porn stars marrying each other. MDS had the notion that preachers showing up at a porn star convention are out of place. Certainly, the loud mouth judging types are but a number of porn stars are married and Christians.

The concept then is that love like a preacher at a porn convention is out of place here. I disagree. Let me change the word to passion then.

Despite looks and technique, you cannot have a great session without passion. In fact, guys comment in reviews about IOP, the illusion of passion.

So when you have sex, I would say that the pecking order and quality of the session goes: no passion, IOP, affection, real passion, and then passionate love. The higher you go up the passion tree though, the harder the fall can be, and that is why you should look for safeguards and the help of others on the climb up. And if you are at passionate love and she is at IOP, then look out below.

Because guys have fallen, they stay on the lowest level, deny real affection let alone passion is possible (they just want us for our money), and engage in the 3 FS (find them, fuck them, forget them). In the P4P USA world, even in sugaring, I never went higher than affection, and I think had I done so, I would have fallen. I never think women ever went beyond the affection stage and I kept things there.

OTOH, in Latin America, it was different. I regret not thinking I could climb higher. There was like one in 5 or one in 10 sessions where scaling up was possible. How high I do not know but what kept me from doing that was the 3 F attitude where I was certain the next lay was better than the last. In reality, if you find a woman great in the sack, you should probably repeat then seek out the new.

So I was in Bolivia and had a great session with a Paraguayan. She was a nympho, and I was spent after two rounds. The woman was molesting me on the cab to the hotel before we even started. Because I had a 3 F attitude then, it never occurred to me it was anything more than P4P. I handed her money, what we agreed on and taxi fare, and she looked sad. In hindsight, I realize now that she did not ask for money or to leave. She was sad because she wanted to stay. And with this girl, everything was on the table, and I just did not see it. I left so much fucking meat on that bone, and it was all me. I am kicking myself for that still.

In hindsight, she was at the real passion level, and I was not there because I did not think it was possible. I was a 3 F man and the next night I went back to the club and had an average and totally forgettable lay.

So yeah, I think if the goal is here having the most and best sex possible, it is worth talking about how you get that. The idea that real passion is not possible is counterproductive to having the best sex.

**Zeos1** · 03-16-22 02:15

Originally Posted by Jay0940 [View Original Post]

I saw your first post about the precautions you were taking when visiting Medellin. Now you state that you want to reduce your chances of getting mugged while there. I've got to ask, if you think it's that dangerous in Medellin that chicas will try and slip something into your drink or you will get mugged, why are you even going? Ever hear the saying, if someone thinks they're going to die today, they'll find a way to make it happen?

I'm sure most who have visited or live in Medellin would agree that it's not an abnormally dangerous city. If you visit with the belief you're going to be robbed, (a) you likely will, and (b) you will not enjoy your visit. Just keep your eyes open, don't do something stupid (I. E. , go somewhere you shouldn't) and take any normal precautions you would for your safety and you should be fine. Take cabs or Uber (they're much cheaper than the US) and don't walk around at 2:00 am.

To answer your question, if you're going to a club just about everyone wears jeans and a t-shirt. A few wear polo shirts. If you're dressed for an African safari you'll stick out like a sore thumb.

Don't know what you are comparing it to. It is an abnormally dangerous place compared to where I live. Everyone I know that comes from or lives in Medellin has been the victim of some sort of robbery or violent crime. Almost no one I know in my home town has ever been a victim of a similar crime.

**Paulie97** · 03-16-22 01:28

Originally Posted by Jay0940 [View Original Post]

I saw your first post about the precautions you were taking when visiting Medellin. Now you state that you want to reduce your chances of getting mugged while there. I've got to ask, if you think it's that dangerous in Medellin that chicas will try and slip something into your drink or you will get mugged, why are you even going? Ever hear the saying, if someone thinks they're going to die today, they'll find a way to make it happen?.

People who are concerned about getting robbed or drugged are typically less likely to have it happen because such will motivate them to do some research and take certain procautions. Those who go around falsely thinking that Medellin is just as safe as any other big city, even though they have much higher violent crime rates than many cities of similar size in the US and Europe, are more likely to let down their guards and get burned. This pseudo religious / esoteric horseshit that what you fear will automatically take place is just that, horseshit, even if you "heard" it somewhere sitting on a barstool.

Why is he going there? Probably because he wants to enjoy some legal prostitution with some hot, friendly Colombian babes at a reasonable prices. He's willing to take some risks and is also willing to take some precautions. You set up dilemmas that don't exist, with no apparent motive aside from acting like an ass online.

P.S. Druggings are pretty common in Medellin, even against locals while they hardly exist in the large US city where I live. Don't leave your drink unattended. If you do mistakenly then it's a throwaway.

**Jay0940** · 03-15-22 20:20

Originally Posted by TedFerguson [View Original Post]

The alternative attire for me would be what I would wear hiking in a warm climate. Thin synthetic khakis plus a thin synthetic button down shirt. Sweat dries very easily and provides good coverage from sun. But I look white AF, especially with a wide brimmed hat. Imagine the modern version of what British dudes would wear going on safari. I wore that once when visiting a Korean AAMP in the Bay Area whom I'd known for a long time and she said quite directly "you look like a white guy today."

T-shirts and jeans made from cotton don't deal with sweat well but maybe they blend in and reduce my chances of getting mugged.

I saw your first post about the precautions you were taking when visiting Medellin. Now you state that you want to reduce your chances of getting mugged while there. I've got to ask, if you think it's that dangerous in Medellin that chicas will try and slip something into your drink or you will get mugged, why are you even going? Ever hear the saying, if someone thinks they're going to die today, they'll find a way to make it happen?

I'm sure most who have visited or live in Medellin would agree that it's not an abnormally dangerous city. If you visit with the belief you're going to be robbed, (a) you likely will, and (b) you will not enjoy your visit. Just keep your eyes open, don't do something stupid (I. E. , go somewhere you shouldn't) and take any normal precautions you would for your safety and you should be fine. Take cabs or Uber (they're much cheaper than the US) and don't walk around at 2:00 am.

To answer your question, if you're going to a club just about everyone wears jeans and a t-shirt. A few wear polo shirts. If you're dressed for an African safari you'll stick out like a sore thumb.

**PedroMorales** · 03-15-22 10:00

Originally Posted by Elvis2008 [View Original Post]

Why do so many porn stars eventually get married if love sex is not the best there is?

A then elderly friend of mine had been around colourful characters all his life. Getting on, he took a part time job driving a hooker about. She advertised a competitive base price but, once they saw her botox and boobs jobs, mongers would pay more and more for extras. First thing she told him was you are here to drive and no more, none of your shit.

He ended up doing other jobs for her. Take toys to her child who was in care. She had a 2 br apartment and one bed room was stuck with wtf toys.

She knew all the tricks, eg red condoms for period time.

The one day, she had him drive her several hundred km to visit her be f who was ding a long stretch in a medium security prison. Big ugly fucker, shook his hand and checked him out, just wanted to make sure all her did was drive.

I know another guy is on his 4th Thai wife.

If she is broken and you are broken, by all means hook up,. But there ain't nob ody going to put those Himpty Dumptys back together again.

**MarquisdeSade1** · 03-14-22 22:18

Originally Posted by Elvis2008 [View Original Post]

Why do so many porn stars eventually get married if love sex is not the best there is?

And you are totally happy with how it is right now? Your friends, family, and kids have all accepted how you are and are okay with you seeing multiple women? You do not hide it from anyone and do not care what anyone else thinks? LOL. Who the fuck do you think you are talking to?

I think you are absolutely completely bonkers, take your damn meds bro, and if you don't have any, get some already LMAO.

This is a website to find pussy not something to fill that void in your "heart" LOL.

And all the best LOL.