Stupid shit in Medellin

[JjBee62]

I learned a long time ago, people who were good with words, were never good in action or had the ability to back up their BS. They were all good at selling you a story if you were willing to buy. Anytime anyone must come online to belittle another BM, clearly shoes that you are inferior to the words that you type. I may type stupid words, I may seem controversial, but I can back up anything that I have posted on line. That's the difference in being able to seem intelligent and actually the ability to deliver.

I am not from your era, you are from the era of where a man's word meant something, I am from the era of "show and prove!" you are 20 yrs my senior and still you have no ability to convince me that what you are selling I should buy, why? Because you cannot prove it in a manner that satisfies my belief system. You writing skills may be off the scale, but I do not buy or believe what you write. You have to find others from your era who can believe in that foolishness that you are typing. I may seem illiterate, I may seem subpar, but what I can tell you is that I have been here in Medellin for 4 months and every month has become cheaper and cheaper to live.

1. I'm not trying to sell you anything. I've repeatedly told you that what I'm talking about isn't for sale. Really she's not for sale at any price. And I mean any price. You could offer her $50,000 US for a handjob and allow her to wear gloves and she'd turn you down. We had many 3 am discussions about things like that after her shows.

2. If your word is worth nothing, you are worth nothing. That's not something from any era. It's reality. Without integrity your value to society is at best zero.

3. Ask around. Ask if anyone can show that I promised something I couldn't deliver. The trouble seems to be that you think I've offered to deliver something, even though I keep telling you, that thing is not available.

4. If you feel I'm so inferior because I'm able to, usually, write complete sentences, why do my posts get under your skin? I post something that has nothing to do with you, in any way imaginable, and you want to argue with me about it because you misunderstood what I wrote.

5. I don't need to humiliate you. I actually feel bad that you continue to humiliate yourself. Look at the other replies. You expect me to prove something to you by doing something that won't prove what I'm saying to you. I've done everything except take you by the hand to show you how you can verify what I've stated, but you continue to insist I prove something I never said.

If I posted that I know some people in Envigado who are selling homemade burgers for pickup for 11 k including papitas, a bit more for domicilios, you'd announce that someone told you it's illegal to sell hamburgers in Envigado. Then you'd tell me you don't believe it's possible to get hamburgers anywhere in Envigado and tell me you won't believe me until I buy you a hamburger.

BTW, Jack and Roll in Envigado has some great burgers. Classic Diner is also great place for a burger, fries and a chocolate malt. And of you're interested in the 11 k Burger and fries deal, hit me up and I'll put you in touch with them.

[Balboa]

I learned a long time ago, people who were good with words, were never good in action or had the ability to back up their BS. They were all good at selling you a story if you were willing to buy. Anytime anyone must come online to belittle another BM, clearly shoes that you are inferior to the words that you type. I may type stupid words, I may seem controversial, but I can back up anything that I have posted on line. That's the difference in being able to seem intelligent and actually the ability to deliver.

I am not from your era, you are from the era of where a man's word meant something, I am from the era of "show and prove!" you are 20 yrs my senior and still you have no ability to convince me that what you are selling I should buy, why? Because you cannot prove it in a manner that satisfies my belief system. You writing skills may be off the scale, but I do not buy or believe what you write. You have to find others from your era who can believe in that foolishness that you are typing. I may seem illiterate, I may seem subpar, but what I can tell you is that I have been here in Medellin for 4 months and every month has become cheaper and cheaper to live.

So once again, continue to use your great big words to attempt to humiliate someone who does not buy the BS that you are writing, and until you can simplify your rationale and make it make sense, I will continue to call it BigFoot Theory, Pollo Negro is out!

It's not rocket science man.

Some girls make money in the Webcam biz and some don't, and some even make a following for themselves and for some reason or another, some lonely sap sends them big money.

There will always be way more that don't earn much, and plenty of girls in the PFP business, some cheap, some not.

So what's the big debate?

And why anyone really cares if you believe them or not, I certainly don't get, Lol.

Also, in every era, a man's word should mean something, but that is of course, once it has been earned or proven.

That's timeless.

Peace.

[BootyBandit84]

I'm not sure what is so hard to believe about women making money online. They have been making money like that since the internet was created. In the age of social media it's easier than ever, they don't even have to take their clothes off. My cousin, the lucky bastard that he is married a Russian girl a few years ago. I will admit she is ridiculously hot. She has something like 173 k followers an IG. She has several sites like Patreon, Twitter and Only Fans among other. She is always posting pictures of herself in bathing suits and workout clothes that she gets paid to promote. My cousin says on good months she makes over 20 thousand dollars! For posting pictures online! It really blows my mind. Anyway, if she can make that much money with her clothes on I can only imagine how much cam girls can make if they are really popular, the amount must be crazy!

[JonSnow1]

It's true some Colombian camgirls are making bank. I used to buy tokens off several camgirls. I would wire them the same amount that Chaturbate would pay them. It was convenient because the girls would receive payment faster than the bi-weekly cashout period and I was buying tokens at cost without the markup. One of the girls I know is a friend and former coworker with a top model; Angela_5. She said Angela just bought her own apartment and paid for a Fiat in cash. She also said all the money she's making on Chaturbate changed her. They're still friends, but not quite as close as when they both worked at the same studio. Angela is an Independent model now.

Anyhow, I would wire models anywhere from $200 - $600. I became verified on chaturbate so that I could cash out the tokens I didn't spend. Chaturbate sends out 1099's, so I stopped cashing out tokens.

Some camgirls are pay2 play. A few are also on SA. The most popular models make too much money to be pay2 play. The average price I was quoted was $200 for a session for a few girls. If they get to know you and feel you're not a creep, some are willing to meet for coffee or lunch. Although it would most likely be an uphill battle to bed them. These are models that are making decent money on chaturbate. They usually have a few guys that are infatuated with them and give them a majority of their earnings. Also know a former Colombian camgirl that dabbled on SA, and moved to Mexico because that was were she could make more money. Her sugar daddy gave her a brand new Mini Cooper!

[PolloNegro]

Here's my way of thinking. It might help you avoid making a fool of yourself in the future.

If someone says something I think is wrong, I look it up. If they provide me some sources, I check them out. Are they reliable sources? Can I find any supporting sources? Is there sufficient evidence to support the other person's claims or position? If the answer is "yes" I've learned something and I'm happy to have the new knowledge.

If the links are to clickbait sites, or known propoganda sites, I find reputable sites. I find out whether or not their claims have any validity. If the claims are invalid, I will show them, step by step why they are mistaken. I don't care if they change their mind. I put the correct information out for everyone else, to give them the chance to know the facts.

That's how I think. Now if others don't accept that way of thinking, they deserve the insults, because they are refusing to even examine something, which they have no knowledge of, before deciding they know the facts.

I'll give an example you might be able to relate to...

I learned a long time ago, people who were good with words, were never good in action or had the ability to back up their BS. They were all good at selling you a story if you were willing to buy. Anytime anyone must come online to belittle another BM, clearly shoes that you are inferior to the words that you type. I may type stupid words, I may seem controversial, but I can back up anything that I have posted on line. That's the difference in being able to seem intelligent and actually the ability to deliver.

I am not from your era, you are from the era of where a man's word meant something, I am from the era of "show and prove!" you are 20 yrs my senior and still you have no ability to convince me that what you are selling I should buy, why? Because you cannot prove it in a manner that satisfies my belief system. You writing skills may be off the scale, but I do not buy or believe what you write. You have to find others from your era who can believe in that foolishness that you are typing. I may seem illiterate, I may seem subpar, but what I can tell you is that I have been here in Medellin for 4 months and every month has become cheaper and cheaper to live.

So once again, continue to use your great big words to attempt to humiliate someone who does not buy the BS that you are writing, and until you can simplify your rationale and make it make sense, I will continue to call it BigFoot Theory, Pollo Negro is out!

[JjBee62]

Bigfoot theory, save the grand standing insults, it shows your inability to accept when others do not accept your way of thinking. I still do not believe you, Pollo Negro is out!

Here's my way of thinking. It might help you avoid making a fool of yourself in the future.

If someone says something I think is wrong, I look it up. If they provide me some sources, I check them out. Are they reliable sources? Can I find any supporting sources? Is there sufficient evidence to support the other person's claims or position? If the answer is "yes" I've learned something and I'm happy to have the new knowledge.

If the links are to clickbait sites, or known propoganda sites, I find reputable sites. I find out whether or not their claims have any validity. If the claims are invalid, I will show them, step by step why they are mistaken. I don't care if they change their mind. I put the correct information out for everyone else, to give them the chance to know the facts.

That's how I think. Now if others don't accept that way of thinking, they deserve the insults, because they are refusing to even examine something, which they have no knowledge of, before deciding they know the facts.

I'll give an example you might be able to relate to.

30 years ago I suffered a serious back injury, which sidelined me for 18 months. I've had frequent back problems since. Several years ago, I was golfing and smashed a drive, right at 300 yards in the middle of the fairway. Unfortunately, just as I connected with the ball my foot slipped. Because I was overpowering my swing, that little slip was enough to slip a disc, L3 to be exact. Needless to say, I didn't finish my round.

Went home used my TENS unit for awhile and popped 1600 MG of ibuprofen. About 2 am the pain was off the scale and I went to the emergency room. Just getting there was a challenge.

Went to the admissions desk, the on duty doctor was sitting there as the nurse took my information. I explained about my history of back problems. I explained what I was doing when I experienced the pain. I described the pain. The doctor, after hearing all of that declared "you've got kidney stones. " he went on to guarantee that my problem was kidney stones. I told him no and repeated everything to him. Again he assured me it was kidney stones.

So instead of an x-ray to identify the disc problem they took x-rays which proved I didn't have kidney stones. I spent 6 hours in agony waiting for another doctor to come in with the "good news. You don't have kidney stones. " No shit doc. I knew that when I walked in.

That first doctor used your way of thinking. He was presented with sufficient evidence to make an informed decision and refused to even consider the evidence, because he had already decided what the answer was.

Completely unrelated, but because I mentioned it elsewhere, here's a link to Camgirl Magazine. If you appreciate excellent photography and beautiful women, check it out. You'll get to see some of the top webcam models looking their absolute best.

https://juanbustos.com/camgirl-english/

Yes, it's run by Juan Bustos. He might be considered the (young) Hugh Hefner of Colombia. The model in the first issue, Laura Vega, was the first model I worked with in Medellin. Hot as fuck, but a complete pain in the ass. Nice girl, though.

[JjBee62]

Bigfoot theory, save the grand standing insults, it shows your inability to accept when others do not accept your way of thinking. I still do not believe you, Pollo Negro is out!

Others have accepted it just fine. Others have confirmed how much some of the webcam models make. There are countless online sources available that confirm how much webcam models are making. A few years ago HBO did some episodes on whatever their sex series was called going through the lives and earnings of webcam girls. Various reliable news sources have done stories on webcam modeling. There's practically a library of available sources to confirm the possibility of what I have stated.

None other than the first person to show you around Medellin has weighed in and stated he personally witnessed a webcam model make over $30,000 on her birthday.

Last year I watched one of the popular chicks on Chaturbate make over $30,000 on her birthday in tips. I was amazed.

Yet you still don't believe me? You understand that every time you repeat "I don't believe you" you're proving I'm not insulting you when I call you a clueless fucking idiot? I'm stating a fact you keep demanding the right to prove.

Keep it coming. I'm enjoying how silly you are making yourself look.

[PolloNegro]

Everyone knows you've been wrong before. I'm beginning to think that's your career path. I already explained to you how you can witness payments like that. You're calling BS on something you can easily verify, yet you refuse to try to verify but.

Nobody knows how many fellow mongers you've met, because knowing you, you're going to make up a number, multiply it by your age or your IQ, same result, then claim you met that many mongers and fucked all their sisters, while their mothers rubbed your balls. Make it easy, just list their ISG handles. Name just one. One monger who showed you pictures of a webcam model, told you he could set you up with the model and then failed to produce.

That's completely irrelevant. I never claimed I could set you up with a webcam model, I never produced a picture. I stated I know a model who receives a weekly large tip from someone she's never met. Fuck. If I wrote that I know a good place to get a cheap lunch with excellent food, you'd be claiming you've met 100 mongers who said they knew where to get the best steak in Medellin, but they all took you to McDonald's, therefore you don't believe me.

Nobody said girls in Medellin are earning $800 per day. Once again, I stated that my former roommate, a webcam model, receives a weekly tip from a guy and that tip costs him $800. She doesn't even live in Colombia anymore. She is now living in a first world country.

Nobody stated the transaction involved "buy a twat. " I specifically stated the guy has never met the girl. She's a webcam model. She doesn't go to cheap El Centro apartments to fuck clueless clowns for money.

It's like your brain shuts off when you see a post by me..

Bigfoot theory, save the grand standing insults, it shows your inability to accept when others do not accept your way of thinking. I still do not believe you, Pollo Negro is out!

[JjBee62]

I have been wrong before and will probably be wrong again. Until I can witness these payment, I will continue to call it BS. Do you know how many fellow mongers I have met in Medellin who showed me photos of girls and the monger and myself finally met in person, they couldn't produce the girl in the pics? I hear all kinds of stories from the east to the west. I can not tell you or other mongers what "you" all may know, but I can most definitely tell you what I don't believe and just don't buy.

Everyone knows you've been wrong before. I'm beginning to think that's your career path. I already explained to you how you can witness payments like that. You're calling BS on something you can easily verify, yet you refuse to try to verify but.

Nobody knows how many fellow mongers you've met, because knowing you, you're going to make up a number, multiply it by your age or your IQ, same result, then claim you met that many mongers and fucked all their sisters, while their mothers rubbed your balls. Make it easy, just list their ISG handles. Name just one. One monger who showed you pictures of a webcam model, told you he could set you up with the model and then failed to produce.

That's completely irrelevant. I never claimed I could set you up with a webcam model, I never produced a picture. I stated I know a model who receives a weekly large tip from someone she's never met. Fuck. If I wrote that I know a good place to get a cheap lunch with excellent food, you'd be claiming you've met 100 mongers who said they knew where to get the best steak in Medellin, but they all took you to McDonald's, therefore you don't believe me.

I don't believe girls here in Medellin during the quarantine are earning $800 a day. I could be wrong, I do not believe it though. When I meet the person who can show me in person these girls who can verify that they earn $800 a day, then I will beg your pardon. There is not one chic that I have banged in Medellin that I can not put my hand on or call to come over. Now if you are a certified $800 usd paying member of the buy a twat club, then raise your hand, otherwise I am calling it BS.

Nobody said girls in Medellin are earning $800 per day. Once again, I stated that my former roommate, a webcam model, receives a weekly tip from a guy and that tip costs him $800. She doesn't even live in Colombia anymore. She is now living in a first world country.

Nobody stated the transaction involved "buy a twat. " I specifically stated the guy has never met the girl. She's a webcam model. She doesn't go to cheap El Centro apartments to fuck clueless clowns for money.

Its just that simple, don't point me to a website, point me to a whatsapp number and the ability to converse with these high priced internet sensations. Otherwise save it, otherwise all you guys are doing are misleading the readers and setting them up for failure, which I have witnessed in the pass. Just be yourself and don't boost up these girls or these websites that cannot deliver what you are selling. Its just that simple, a name, a number and rate, how hard is that? Pollo Negro is out!

It's like your brain shuts off when you see a post by me.

This all started because I listed several of the crazy things I have witnessed over the years. One of the things I witnessed was a guy, who happens to be a hedge fund manager, who gives a weekly tip, which costs him over $800, to a webcam model. I know this because I shared an apartment (Edificio Poblado Verde, Torre 1 ask the porteros if a tall gringo named Jeff used to live there) with the webcam model he gives the tip to.

Simply because I wrote it, you decided that it's not believable. No other fucking reason. I don't know why, but you long ago decided that I am the enemy and you must defeat me. Unfortunately, the only battle we can have is a battle of the wits, and you have no ammunition.

You can't even keep track of what it is you don't believe. It started as $800 per week to a webcam model as a tip. I even stated that the man has never met the model. But in your tiny little brain that got changed to paying to fuck her in Medellin. Now it's changed again to paying to fuck her every day in Medellin. What's next? Are you going to decide I said she's fucking 75 guys a day in Medellin for $800 per hour. I'm using chicken math, since you're using chicken brain.

This webcam model, like most of the webcam models who are making excellent incomes, is not a prostitute. She wouldn't fuck you for any amount of money. She also has a low tolerance for clueless fucking idiots (maybe that's why we get along so well), so your charm won't work either.

Another clue that's completely wasted on you:

Webcam models work on websites. Specifically they work on webcam websites. That's why they are called "webcam models. " If you want to talk to a webcam model, you go to a webcam website because, and this is the tricky part, Webcam models work on Webcam Websites..

Giving you the WhatsApp number for any webcam model won't do you any good, because she's not a prostitute, and if she's making good money, she doesn't want to talk to any clueless fucking idiots.

You can find lots of prostitutes who will tell you they are on webcam. If you weren't a clueless fucking idiot you'd recognize that I recently mentioned one by name that can be found on Facebook. She would probably fuck you, but she's out of your price range. She can't really help you with talking about making the big money, because she's just getting started and isn't making much. However, I can guarantee you she will happily fuck you for $800. All you have to do is make the offer.

I'm not setting anyone up for failure. I'm not even sure where that came from. Who can tell what will come out of a chicken brain? If someone wants to go to a webcam site and spend $800 on a webcam model they are guaranteed to succeed. They will no longer have the money and the webcam model will get her share of it ($500 if she's independent, $250-$400 if she works for a studio). Failure is not a possibility. However, if they are stupid enough to think that spending $800 on a webcam model on a different continent will somehow get them laid that night, then they're going to be disappointed.

Again, because your feeble little chicken brain seems to have a problem with this, I never claimed you could fuck my former roommate for $800. Even if she told me to find a guy who would fuck her for $800, I'd give her WhatsApp number to a syphilitic warthog with halitosis before I'd give it to you.

I've got a new tagline for you. Try:

PolloNegro is out of fucking brain cells.

[PolloNegro]

Again, you've got the "I'm too lazy to confirm it, so I'm not going to believe it" syndrome. It's quite simple. For example you can go to.

https://m.myfreecams.com/more/missmfc

That's the list of the too earners for the month, along with the bonus they'll receive. Find one of them online. Sit and watch. See how many tokens she receives. 20 tokens is $1 to the model and costs the guys $1. 60 to buy. Do the math. Read through the model's bio. Many include screenshots of their biggest tips, or will list them along with who gave them the tip. All the proof you need is right at your fingertips.

The irony here is you write things that are very difficult to believe and impossible to verify, often things which contradict earlier things you have posted, and then get offended if anyone questions your word. Yet you refuse to believe things which could be verified by any 6th grader in less than 5 minutes.

In case you're wondering, that's called cognitive dissonance.

Maybe you are a part of the guys who spend $800 usd on line to girls on my cam and chaterbate, I have not seen it, have not witnessed it, and still do not believe it. Many people have seen bigfoot, and me and in my 40 yrs of living have not seen bigfoot, I also do not believe there is a bigfoot, no shade no debate, just my honest opinion. No one is Medellin currently is spending $800 usd on girls for a date, I have not seen it and do not believe it! Pollo Negro is Out!

[JjBee62]

This is the fallacy you've wasted an hour of your life engaging in.

https://www.logicallyfallacious.com/...t-a-Difference

It's all "transactional sex. " You invite them over for two hours, set a price, and given that she's an obvious FB hooker and you are an obvious FB John, the assumption is that she's going to fuck you. You then take whatever she wants to give you beyond an all covered quickie. Sometimes you get more, sometimes you don't, and likely are exaggerating your successes or completely pulling stuff out of your ass to sweeten your argument. That's so easy to do when it comes to presenting personal experiences on the internet. I personally like to to negotiate a few more terms because I can get a casa girl for 75% less than a FB girl if all I'm up for is an all covered quickie. But to each his own, as it's that old "do your own thing" concept you love so much until you want to get involved in one of these protracted circle jerks.

What you fail to grasp. One of the multitude of things you fail to grasp, my experiences are irrelevant to what I have posted. If the probability of a coin flip coming up heads is 50%, flipping tails 5 times straight doesn't change anything.

However, it's worth noting that more than one person has agreed with the value of using compliments and treating the girls better. Be consistent. Tell each of them they are also likely pulling stuff out of their ass.

After skill and reading all your bitching and complaining about Mr. Enternational, I'm honored to have replaced him at the top of your "Guys who make my vagina cramp" list.

A long time ago a friend told me "If you want to know how well you're satisfying a woman, talk to her friends. " If her friends like you, you're doing things right. If her friends can't stand you, you're just there to help pay the bills.

In the past 3 weeks, 4 of the cheerleader's friends and her sister have messaged me. Three of the friends have suggested I should see them when I'm in Medellin. One has been very specific. Her sister and best friend keep telling me how much she talks about me. Just 2 hours ago she said was rather explicit in telling me how she feels when she talks with me.

Of course I could just be making all this up. It could be gross exaggeration. Certainly it can't be because of my looks. It can't be because of my money, because she's never said anything about money, and because, judging by her mother's house, she doesn't need any. We're left with:

1. I have an incredible penis which she can't wait to ride.

Or.

2. Tossing around compliments and treating women special are effective ways to arouse interest.

Granted, it's all just supposition. The time I spend talking to her and the others may result in nothing. We won't know the answer for a few months. I may ultimately waste hundreds of hours of my time for nothing more than several hours of videos, hundreds of photos, dozens of video calls and an improved language skill.

I'll take the chance.

[JjBee62]

This is the fallacy you've wasted an hour of your life engaging in.

https://www.logicallyfallacious.com/...t-a-Difference

It's all "transactional sex. " You invite them over for two hours, set a price, and given that she's an obvious FB hooker and you are an obvious FB John, the assumption is that she's going to fuck you. You then take whatever she wants to give you beyond an all covered quickie. Sometimes you get more, sometimes you don't, and likely are exaggerating your successes or completely pulling stuff out of your ass to sweeten your argument. That's so easy to do when it comes to presenting personal experiences on the internet. I personally like to to negotiate a few more terms because I can get a casa girl for 75% less than a FB girl if all I'm up for is an all covered quickie. But to each his own, as it's that old "do your own thing" concept you love so much until you want to get involved in one of these protracted circle jerks.

You forget I've sat and listened to your endless complaints. Casa girls with odor issues, casa girls that wouldn't do what you want and the Veneca who led you around by the dick for a week.

Then there was the time you let them drug and rob you.

However, my favorite will always be your complete mental breakdown because some Venezuelan street rats didn't tell you thanks for the pizza you bought. All because you thought a piece of pizza would finally get the girl, who was leading you around like her pet Chihuahua, to finally put out for you. How did that turn out again?

You are free to do things in your own way. Then find someone new to complain to when it doesn't work out again. And we know how that story always ends.

Every human interaction is transactional. We give, we take, accept or decline. We weigh cost versus rewards and apply ourselves accordingly. However there's a difference between a craftsman building a piece of furniture and someone putting a similar piece together on an assembly line. There's a difference between writing a complete sentence and writing an engaging story. There's a difference between a home cooked meal and grabbing a burger at Presto. Often the better choice costs the same or less, it only requires a bit of effort and skill.

I do enjoy your attempts. Although not as cute, it reminds me of a 4 year old insisting he can tie his own shoes, after putting them on the wrong feet.

[Paulie97]

That's the difference between the transactional sex you're promoting and the paid sex transactions I prefer.

This is the fallacy you've wasted an hour of your life engaging in.

https://www.logicallyfallacious.com/...t-a-Difference

It's all "transactional sex. " You invite them over for two hours, set a price, and given that she's an obvious FB hooker and you are an obvious FB John, the assumption is that she's going to fuck you. You then take whatever she wants to give you beyond an all covered quickie. Sometimes you get more, sometimes you don't, and likely are exaggerating your successes or completely pulling stuff out of your ass to sweeten your argument. That's so easy to do when it comes to presenting personal experiences on the internet. I personally like to to negotiate a few more terms because I can get a casa girl for 75% less than a FB girl if all I'm up for is an all covered quickie. But to each his own, as it's that old "do your own thing" concept you love so much until you want to get involved in one of these protracted circle jerks.

[JjBee62]

Wrong again. You should go back and read the definition that Balboa posted. Why do you keep making up things that nobody said so you can argue against it? Once again, simping does not mean treating someone nice. It means overly catering and kowtowing.

Maybe that is where the problem lies. You are mistaking the HOOKER that Blakman had to be his girlfriend. She was a person that he was paying so that he could get sexual gratification. He was paying so that he could be served (which is why I brought up restaurants. When your order is up you do not run over to the place where the cook sat the food and tell the waitress let me help you with that as you are purporting one should do.)

He was not paying so that she would allow him to please her and make her feel like a queen. In your advice you were telling him to be sure to serve the person that he was paying to serve him. You have to pay the broad AND serve her too? THAT is what would be called simping. You are telling him to be the hooker and the trick at the same time. Why shouldn't she be paying him if he is serving her just as much or more than she was serving him?

I'll just put it in one post.

Starting with Blakman.

He agreed to a 7 day term with the girl. She and he established a basic list of things she would and wouldn't do. Can that concept penetrate the fog in your brain? She wasn't going to be there for an hour, for 2 pops, or even for a day. 7 days. A week.

You're renting an apartment for 7 days. The owner gives you a list of the apartment rules. You don't own the apartment for those 7 days. You can't change the rules without getting approval from the apartment owner. If you decide to change the rules on your own, you can expect, if the owner knows about it, to have your stay cut short and you will still have to pay for the 7 days. You may end up paying extra. If it's an apartment you enjoy renting, you'll probably fuck that up too.

Blakman entered into an agreement. The term of the agreement was 7 days. Are you still following, or are you thinking about a guy who went to Madagascar and told you a hooker there wouldn't eat cheese?

If Blakman tried to force a change of his agreement, why would you think the woman would just jump right in and agree? Would you? If you're waiting in line, pulling train on some woman and the guy between her legs tells you to rub his back if you want your turn, are you suddenly his masseuse? I'm sure he'll appreciate it.

Second concept that you have become oblivious to: lowering your DHF. DickHead Factor. You say how great a guy you are and how wonderful you treat women and then insist it's better to be a dickhead with them. Pick a fucking team.

Let's go to the restaurant. A hostess greets you with. "Welcome to (whatever the restaurant is called). How are you today?" Now you could respond with "I'm not paying to answer questions. Get me a table. " That seems to be your current recommendation. Or you could say "I'm doing great. How are you doing?" You might even smile or compliment her. When the waitress shows up and offers a few pleasantries, you could stick with the high DHF responses. Maybe a "don't fuck up my order. " or something equally in line with your line of thinking. Or you could smile, return the salutation and make her feel a bit better about herself.

You don't need to go carry the food, or setup the table. You don't have to wash the dishes. Being nice isn't going to change the bill. Your hamburger isn't going to upgrade to a filet. Assuming being an asshole at the beginning didn't get you kicked out, there's only a small difference in your food, but there's a huge difference in the overall experience.

The small difference in your food? The absence of pubic hair, fecal matter, mucus or other undesired condiments. The huge difference in the experience? The waitress is happy to come to your table. She gives you better service. She's more attentive to any problems and she, along with the hostess, looks forward to every visit.

Call me what you want. I'm not the guy who licked his roommate's balls in order to stand in line, with 15 guys, for a chance to stick his dick into an overused semen collection facility. That's got to be like fucking a milkshake machine.

Given a choice between a girl who is trying to get me to cum as quick as possible, so she can get the fuck away from me, and a girl who won't stop fucking me, at the same price, I'm going with the second one.

If I can change the first one into the second one, without paying more, by dropping a few compliments, I'm happy to toss out a few palabras dulces. Sure, I could instead spend my time figuring how much more I need to pay for BBBJ. I could invest my time into making sure she does everything on my checklist. Or I can invest 30-45 seconds into making her smile and she'll do everything I want without discussion, without an upcharge and without trying to cut it short.

Sticking solely with Colombian women, they like compliments. It makes them feel better about themselves. It changes their attitude. It improves their performance. They aren't getting compliments from their Colombian customers. They aren't getting compliments from their boyfriends. Their mothers complain when they're out selling pussy and complain when they aren't selling pussy. There aren't many people making them feel good about their life.

Along comes one of us simps. We're still paying. Some are paying more, some are bringing gifts. But all we're really doing, because we realize it costs nothing to smile and say a few nice words, is treating them the same way we expect them to treat us.

Yep. There's a hooker in Brazil who doesn't want gifts. There's probably a hooker in Thailand who doesn't want guys to be nice to her. You probably met a girl in Santiago who gets pissed off if a guy compliments her.

There's also a girl in Medellin, practically every week, posting pics on Facebook showing off the gifts someone sent, or brought and 30 of her friends congratulating her. There's a girl calling out her favorite monger because she had a better time with him. And there's a new girl, almost every day hitting me up because some other hooker showed her my, absolutely free to me, sweet WhatsApp message.

There's a girl who sends me videos every day, also free to me, because I tell her how beautiful she is. There's a girl who, because I mentioned I'd like to see another girl eating her out, went out, found a girl, and yesterday morning surprised me with a video of the encounter, again at no cost. All because I make her feel good about herself. She even went to great lengths apologizing and explaining why the video wasn't longer and finished by thanking me for suggesting it.

There's even a girl, from a nice home, with a comfortable living situation, an engineering student, and about the closest thing to a 19 year old virgin as you'll find in Medellin, who is literally begging me to do whatever I want with her. And all it took was telling her she's beautiful.

If I'm paying for sex, I'm paying for sex, exactly the same as paying for a meal in a restaurant. If I can make the experience better by not being a dickhead, I've decided I enjoy great experiences more than I enjoy being a dickhead. The best part about it, for me, because I like to repeat good experiences, is each return visit it gets better. Even though I'm still paying the same, the restaurant treats me like family. The meal is an event worth remembering, rather than something to forget about 15 minutes later.

I'll close with an explanation of transactional sex, just to give you another opportunity to work that false equivalence.

Going to McDonald's and going to a Michelin 3 star restaurant are both transactional eating. You're paying someone to cook for you. They bring you food. You eat it. You leave. At some point later you shit the unused portion out. If the price was the same, which would you prefer?

Read the reviews. "We agreed on 200 k + taxi for doggy, mish and CG, 2 pops, 3 hours, BBBJ and COB. She agreed to let me take photos and video for an extra 50 k."

Or.

"I told her I always pay 200 k and usually the girls stay for 2 or 3 hours."

In the first, every item on the list is a potential issue. She wants another 30 k for BBBJ. You're too big and CG hurts her. She doesn't want you to photo her face. She has to leave early. She didn't agree to 2 pops. How often do guys complain about those things?

In the second instance, the only problem, which I've rarely experienced, is she wants to leave after 1. 5 - 2 hours. Occasionally I get CBJ. Big deal. Unless you're using the cheapest condoms 99% of the difference is in your mind. Usually I don't want the 2nd pop. I have never had a position refused, because I change positions without stopping, pulling out and redirecting. I don't need photos and video, but if I want them, there's no upcharge. On several occasions the girl has grabbed my phone and asked for pictures. I don't need a stopwatch to make sure she blows me long enough. I don't need to count strokes. I don't need to listen to make sure she says "te amo. " There's no checklist I need to refer to. There's only these things:

1. Did she show up?

2. Did we fuck?

3. Did I enjoy it?

There's no "was it like every time with every girl?

That's the difference between the transactional sex you're promoting and the paid sex transactions I prefer.

[Knowledge]

Real talk, the gifts are for the gift givers. Some of whom are trying to build toward the unicorn jumping a rainbow fantasy of a girlfriend experience with someone who is no one's girlfriend because she is everyone and anyone's girlfriend. Last week I gave a girl a gift of blackout curtains because it was too hot to fuck in her Robledo bedroom and I was tired of sweating like a pig. Those curtains were really for me. She seemed surprised how much cooler the room is. She was not surprised when I made no effort to pay her that day. Does that make her my girlfriend? LOL!

Man what the heck are you talking about? The word simp has nothing to do with this young group of square ass White guys that can not get laid. It is ghetto slang. If we had a friend that we saw who was kissing up to chicks in hopes of getting in good with them, we would tell him to stop being a simp. This was 40 years ago, but I am sure the term dates back probably 100 years in the Black community. There is a saying that goes, "Nice guys finish last. " I didn't make the shit up, but there must be a reason that it exists.

"In some online communities, "simp" exists in the same solar system online as words like "cuck," "soyboy" or "beta" with some distinctions. While "cuck" is a pejorative used to emasculate, a "simp" is used to call out behavior associated with "white knights" or "nice guys". In these cases, men who simp believe that they are owed sex for their good behavior. " https://knowyourmeme.com/editorials/...is-it-trending.

It is still transactional, because if you showed up without money she would not be telling you shit. You can show up with money and say I want you to tell me mi amor mi amor. You show up with sweet words and no money what will the mi amor mi amor change to? But if it helps you to fool yourself that your compliments are what is doing the trick I guess it is all Kool & the Gang..