Stupid shit in Medellin

[JjBee62]

There is also the possibility that he may find someone who exceeds all his expectations. I have had my expectations exceeded many times, and I am very picky.

Sure. But how many times have you picked a girl because she reminds you of a porn star that you have a very specific fantasy about?

I've gone to casas expecting a typical casa session and walked out feeling like I won Olympic gold. My expectations were exceeded because I went in with reasonable expectations. Go to a casa sometime expecting to have the greatest experience of your life. Then come back and talk to me about having your expectations exceeded.

The problem with the fantasy is that it puts blinders on you. It keeps you from making good choices. It also starts you out with completely unreasonable expectations.

[Fun Luvr]

However, instead of a porn star, who knows what to do, he'll have a girl who doesn't even speak his language. He'll have a girl who probably didn't properly prepare for his anal fantasy. He'll have a girl who might not even be willing to do anal with him. He'll have a girl who might not be as clean as he wants. He'll have a girl who might not look like her pictures. He'll have a girl who may have too little or too much experience. He'll have a girl who might not do anything in the way he expects.
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Sometimes the best advice is to tell someone to change their plans.

There is also the possibility that he may find someone who exceeds all his expectations. I have had my expectations exceeded many times, and I am very picky.

[JjBee62]

I am disappointed with what I have read over and over on this thread and on many others.

What I see is people come to the board to try to get help getting what they want from their trip and all they get is people telling them they are stupid and to do something else instead.

To those that came here looking for help getting what you want.

You do you buddy. Don't let anyone tell you to do the opposite and seek other things.

You have an idea in your mind of what you are trying to do, you do it. You may crash and burn and you may end up without what you want but you have to do you. It is your money, it is your time, it is your trip. You spend it the way you want to.

I'll try not to be too harsh.

On this forum I'm only dealing with adults. No fragile kiddies who might be scarred by hearing about reality. Grown men who are traveling to a place that can be dangerous if they're walking around with their head in the clouds. Just like others did for me, when I first started posting about how I was going to reinvent mongering, I give the best advice I can, even if it bursts their bubble.

I've taken plenty of people on casa runs and strip club visits, taken a few to check out the street girls at Veracruz, Raudal and Mayorista and helped several get started on Facebook. I've also preached for people to find what's best for them. While it may not be the advice someone wants to hear, I always give the best advice I can.

Which brings us to fantasies. A fantasy is a very specific thing. If someone wants to check off a bucket list item, no problem. They will probably be okay however it turns out. Plus there are plenty of guys who can offer useful advice. However, when a guy is fantasizing about someone who resembles some porn star to fulfill their anal fantasy, they are setting themselves up for an epic failure.

The fantasy is something he's thought about too much. He's probably watched videos of that particular porn star, imagining himself as her co-star. Of course the fantasy leaves out all the background stuff to produce the porn clip. If he could hire that specific porn actress, it would probably be okay. It still wouldn't meet his expectations, but he would have the compensation of being with his favorite porn star.

However, instead of a porn star, who knows what to do, he'll have a girl who doesn't even speak his language. He'll have a girl who probably didn't properly prepare for his anal fantasy. He'll have a girl who might not even be willing to do anal with him. He'll have a girl who might not be as clean as he wants. He'll have a girl who might not look like her pictures. He'll have a girl who may have too little or too much experience. He'll have a girl who might not do anything in the way he expects.

He might still have a good time with the girl. However, he's not there to have a good time. He's there to duplicate something that only exists in his mind. How is anyone supposed to help with that? Especially with a woman who he'll only talk to for a few seconds before trying to achieve his dream.

There are 2 possible ways to help. The easiest way is to tell him to forget about the fantasy. Why build your expectations around an impossible dream? It's enough to spoil his entire trip.

The hard way he's already said he's not interested in. That would be to get on Facebook, get in contact with every prepago he can find. Talk to as many as possible. Find the ones who are down for anal. Find the ones who have the look he's looking for. Tell them about his fantasy. Send them specific videos to show what he wants. Make all the arrangements to do it right. If he finds the right girl, he might just pull it off.

Sometimes the best advice is to tell someone to change their plans.

[Linyjo]

I am new to mongering. Last night encountered a hooker with smelly vagina and a small hint of white discharge. Just wanted to ask is this normal vaginal bacteria imbalance or some STD? And what do other mongers do when they take a hooker and encounter similar thing? Do you continue or terminate the session?

Tell her your pussy stinks and has a discharge.

Give her 5 K for a taxi and tell her to leave.

If she is so unsanitary down there, I would not even risk her mouth on my dick.

[Orgasmico]

The irony! The only reason you would think every Colombian woman is DTF is because you are a racist! Ha!

This is just the tip of the iceberg in terms of how the scene is changing. Enjoy it while it lasts!

[YippieKayay]

https://thebogotapost.com/medellin-d...yzTGOeze0aweN0

"One woman reported that she was allegedly approached by Summers and one of his students who started following her in the middle of the night. After she initially rejects the student's advances, he accuses her of being racist after asking her why she "didn't like black dick. " he then berates her. ".

The irony! The only reason you would think every Colombian woman is DTF is because you are a racist! Ha!

[Orgasmico]

Yes. Every time some guy tries to run a business out of this hobby he gets burned.

https://thebogotapost.com/medellin-d...yzTGOeze0aweN0

"One woman reported that she was allegedly approached by Summers and one of his students who started following her in the middle of the night. After she initially rejects the student's advances, he accuses her of being racist after asking her why she "didn't like black dick. " he then berates her. ".

"Due to its violent history, Medellin has never had big waves of foreign visitors compared to other cities in the region. In 2015, 212,000 foreigners visited the city and in 2019 this number has almost surpassed a million. While foreigners are mostly treated with kindness and respect, this reception to visitors will likely change if the paradigm of sexual and drug-related tourism keeps increasing. ".

[YippieKayay]

I meant if he isn't a tourist and has some type visa that he violated. If he is a tourist, then what he was doing by having a business in Colombia might be a violation of that status.

I was told that years ago Colin Post from the Expat Chronicles was barred from Colombia after posting on his blog about his sex / drugs lifestyle, which included a Bogota Brothel Tour. Perhaps something similar might happen to this dude.

Yes. Every time some guy tries to run a business out of this hobby he gets burned.

[Orgasmico]

Unlikely. He'll either leave before they do or they'll find something to charge him with. Then this will be a distant memory.

They're not going to kill their tourism business by requiring visas. People will just go somewhere else.

I meant if he isn't a tourist and has some type visa that he violated. If he is a tourist, then what he was doing by having a business in Colombia might be a violation of that status.

I was told that years ago Colin Post from the Expat Chronicles was barred from Colombia after posting on his blog about his sex / drugs lifestyle, which included a Bogota Brothel Tour. Perhaps something similar might happen to this dude.

[YippieKayay]

(It will be interesting to see if this gains any momentum and causes any change in things like immigration / visa process.).

Unlikely. He'll either leave before they do or they'll find something to charge him with. Then this will be a distant memory.

They're not going to kill their tourism business by requiring visas. People will just go somewhere else.

[Orgasmico]

https://colombiareports.com/medellin...ism-immersion/

One of the downsides of Medellin's increase in tourism is the increase in sex tourism, an evolving industry that now includes an "immersion program" to teach visitors how to get laid.

The program is run by "dating coach" Austen Summers whose theoretic element of the program, according to his promotion video, includes an abundance of advice on how to have sex.

The "field practice" element of the "picking up girls" program includes apparent street harassment, grabbing women's breasts and allegedly getting removed from a college campus after trying to recruit women for a hotel party.

While being a misogynist is legal in Colombia to the point of abuse, it is unclear whether Summers' program on how to pick up girls and "achieve results" is.

Colombia Reports reached out to the "dating coach" to verify if Summers had the appropriate visa papers to carry out his controversial commercial activity, but was unable to get a response.

Update (July 31).

Summers has stopped advertising his sex tourism program, took down his Youtube video and, according to members, has ended all online activity in Medellin expat forums where he was allowed to promote his "immersion" program. It is unclear whether he is still in Colombia or has left the country.

(It will be interesting to see if this gains any momentum and causes any change in things like immigration / visa process.).

[KilledSoul]

Sounds like you had a run-in with good old Mr. Yeast infection. You don't have to kill the session (though I know it's a mood killer), just flip her over for anal. If that's not in the cards, head is the best way to go.

The poor girl tried to jack me off by giving a BBBJ but my dick went so flacid that it became an inverted vagina.

[IronQuinn]

I am new to mongering. Last night encountered a hooker with smelly vagina and a small hint of white discharge. Just wanted to ask is this normal vaginal bacteria imbalance or some STD? And what do other mongers do when they take a hooker and encounter similar thing? Do you continue or terminate the session?

Sounds like you had a run-in with good old Mr. Yeast infection. You don't have to kill the session (though I know it's a mood killer), just flip her over for anal. If that's not in the cards, head is the best way to go.

[Mr Enternational]

And what do other mongers do when they take a hooker and encounter similar thing? Do you continue or terminate the session?

I jack off in her mouth.

[KilledSoul]

I am new to mongering. Last night encountered a hooker with smelly vagina and a small hint of white discharge. Just wanted to ask is this normal vaginal bacteria imbalance or some STD? And what do other mongers do when they take a hooker and encounter similar thing? Do you continue or terminate the session?