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07-08-23 20:10 #6175
Posts: 15925Originally Posted by DramaFree11 [View Original Post]
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07-08-23 18:36 #6174
Posts: 5465Originally Posted by MiamiBoy1 [View Original Post]
Why is my relationship so important to you?
You can't say it's not important. Something that's not important isn't something you write about every day. Something that's not important isn't something you talk about with others at every opportunity. Just answer the question. Why?
What's your definition of "won't last long?" It's already been 15 months since we made it a sexual relationship and 2 years since we moved it beyond Platonic.
How do you know her maturity level? I understand you won't be able to answer this question either. I'm going to ask more, you won't answer them. How do you know I'm beat up by life? According to Elvis, I put a positive spin on everything. That hardly sounds like someone beat up by life.
I'm not going to dig it up, but I wrote a long post about our shared common interests. Just like everything else I've rebutted, you run away and then try something different. You spent months declaring the relationship was impossible and couldn't exist, now you're declaring it's a relationship that won't last long, when it already has.
Have you had a TBI? Traumatic Brain Injury? Short term memory loss can be a lifelong problem after a TBI.
I'm asking because you just decided that it's wrong to talk about girlfriends and relationships on ISG and now you're comparing 2 different relationships and deciding it's okay to talk about 1 of them.
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07-08-23 18:17 #6173
Posts: 5465Originally Posted by Elvis2008 [View Original Post]
So in this case with regards to maturity, there are two kinds of women: those with the image of a male Disney hero in their mind and those realistic about men. The former can be any age even into their 40's and above, and the latter can be very young. I actually was surprised to see that the most realistic young women in the USA come from the drug culture. I guess you lose your idealism quickly in that world.
1. A girl who has a kid at 16, leaves the kid with her mother, continues to party, keeps having kids, keeps partying.
2. A girl who has a kid at 16, settles down and starts building a life for her child.
3. A girl who gets pregnant at 16 and terminates the pregnancy because she knows she can't handle the responsibility and provide a nurturing home for the baby.
4. A girl who gets pregnant at 16 and tries to trap the father into marriage.
5. A girl who gets pregnant at 16 and terminates the pregnancy because she doesn't want a child holding her back.
That's just on 1 subject, 5 different levels of maturity. Change ages, change situations and it's immediately obvious there are many different levels of maturity.
Thing is what do you know about JJBee really? This guy spends a year in Colombia getting drunk in dive bars every night, is not only penniless but gets himself into deeper and deeper debt, hangs out with people for the purpose of hitting them up for money, was led on by a cam girl, and what does he say about it? It was the greatest year of his life. Even when JJBee was in Colombia spreading Covid, he and his buddy V were spinning it in a positive way.
1. Getting drunk in dive bars every night. I can give you partial credit on that one, but it requires an alternate definition. During that year, I got drunk 3 times, once in the "dive" bar, once in one of the clubs in Parque Lleras and once in my apartment. I did spend many nights in the "dive" bar, often ate a burger and had 2 or 3 beers. The "dive" bar was talked about quite a bit here and many ISG members went there. It was located just west of Calle 10,2 blocks away from Parque Lleras. The owner is an avid diver, so if you want, you can call it a "dive bar. ".
2. Is not only penniless, but gets himself into deeper and deeper debt. After the year I was penniless. I went in debt returning to the US and getting back on my feet. The debt was quickly paid off and 5 years later I'm in the best place financially I've ever been.
3. Hangs out with people for the purpose of hitting them up for money. There's absolutely no truth in that. There's not a single person who can claim I hit them up for money. Even my brother, who gave me the loan to get me going again can't make that claim. When he learned I was struggling he reached out and made an offer. Of all the lies you've made up about me, that may be the most egregious fabrication of them all.
4. Was led on by a cam girl. I'm not sure what that's supposed to mean. Her boyfriend had grand ideas about forming a webcam studio. He asked me to be a part of it. His plans never came to be.
5. It was the greatest year of his life. Wrong again. "Greatest " goes completely against my philosophy. Every year of my life has been a great year. That will continue until it ends. However, it was a great experience. I built friendships and got to learn more about the culture. I ate well, exercised daily and explored a fascinating city, all while improving my Spanish and fucking as much as I wanted. When it ended I had the challenge of climbing back up. That's one of life's true pleasures and you'll never experience it.
6. Even when JJBee was in Colombia spreading Covid. Not much amazed me before you landed on ISG. Since then you've amazed me many times. Mostly I'm amazed by how often you contradict yourself. You spent months arguing vehemently that Covid was no worse than the flu. You insisted, even declared "I'll take the under on that bet any time", that US Covid deaths would never exceed 80,000. As soon as I made the bet, you went silent and wouldn't acknowledge anything until weeks later when you tucked tail and ran saying you never accepted the bet. You argued against masks and social distancing and any attempt to restrict travel or isolate infected people. Then, when I discovered I had Covid in Colombia, getting my required test to return home, suddenly it became a conspiracy. According to you, I had known before my trip, and, in your words, had infected all of South America. Yet, as with everything else, it's just more EMUS (Elvis Made Up Shit). One person who I was in contact with got sick. Nobody else in her house got sick. She recovered quickly with only mild symptoms.
Had I known I had Covid before my trip I would have canceled. Period. Even if I decided to travel infected, I would have gotten a test upon arrival, so I didn't have the extra expense of spending 2 more weeks in an expensive hotel. And if I didn't care about infecting other, I wouldn't have quarantined.
So JJBee can put a positive spin on anything. And he has someone 19 or whatever versus my 34 not that he is competing? Cough, cough. But you know where she is at on the Disney scale. She is in the front row of the church of rainbow farts, unicorns, and white knights, and JJBee, Mr. Positive (I repeat cough, cough) has convinced this young thing that he is her white knight and for now, it is clear that she believes it.
Sorry to disappoint you, but I'm nobody's white knight. The only thing that's clear is your head. It's obviously clear up your ass. You've once again demonstrated you know nothing about me. Correction. You know less than nothing about me because almost everything you think you know is false. You know just as much about her.
So you should care but not for the reasons he gives. The fun part is what happens next. Will the white knight stroke out or his knees give out to worsening arthritis, will our fair maiden wake up to reality, or will they live happily ever after? And that is where I disagree with you MB. I think we both know the ending but watching what almost certainly will be a train wreck is IMO must see tv.
Happily ever after? Now it's fairy tale? Like with the Venezuelan princess? The fair maiden gets taken to the castle of her dreams in Peru and the white knight even brings her parents. Then the fair maiden starts fucking the stablehand and locks the knight out of the castle. So, the knight comes to the round table crying and gets ridiculed. Is that the type of fairy tale you're talking about?
For me, it lasts as long as it lasts. No train wreck needed. Although it is fun watching the dumpster fire of your logic.
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07-08-23 18:13 #6172
Posts: 3230Originally Posted by MiamiBoy1 [View Original Post]
Originally Posted by MiamiBoy1 [View Original Post]
You know the talk about the crazier they are, the better they are in bed? Well, there is a basis to that. I do not know this woman at all, but given JJBee's ego, he is a sucker for a borderline. https://www.verywellmind.com/devalua...-in-bpd-425291.
Idealization reduces anxiety by protecting the person from emotional conflicts that might emerge in a relationship.
Rather than deal with the fear that the other person isn't perfect or that the relationship might not work out, idealization allows them to keep the fantasy of perfection intact.
It's common with borderline personality disorder for a person to idealize a friend, family member, or loved one. End of link.
The catch phrase for borderlines is I love you, I hate you, do not leave me. You have never been loved like when a borderline loves you, and you feel like a white knight but when it turns to hate, you will be in the darkest hole you have ever been in. Thing is borderlines are usually really attractive and very giving in bed. They are the trickiest to spot because they not only will pass all your red flag tests but those of your friends and family. I do not know if this chick is borderline but like 6% of the population is.
Originally Posted by MiamiBoy1 [View Original Post]
Originally Posted by MiamiBoy1 [View Original Post]
So a 25 year old who has a 9 year old kid working since age 16 is going to be attracted to a man who can help her out of her rough life. OTOH, I have met Colombian women in their mid 20's who have not dated much and live at home. I would have a much better shot at the former than the latter especially if the single mother had a great looking BF who was the kid's father and turned out to be a no good bum. That single mother is done with the irresponsible young pretty boys. With them, it is how can you help me with my kid and their future?
I know on the market value scale women without kids trump those with them, and I get why. Thing is I like women as nurturers and can usually tell just by how a woman touches me if she is a mother or not. And some of the best looking women I have met are single moms, so it is not quite the negative for me it has been with other guys.
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07-08-23 16:26 #6171
Posts: 5465Originally Posted by LoveItHere [View Original Post]
This is an adult oriented website, which is a shrinking niche market. Adult services advertise here because they're more likely to find potential customers. If you look, somewhere near most major US airports you'll find a strip club. Are airports about naked girls giving lap dances? No. But the strip club owners know a lot of business travelers might have a pocket full of cash and a few hours to kill. Here are thousands of pre-qualified potential customers. They travel internationally and they want to get laid.
People have been talking about non-pros for as long as ISG has existed. Frequently people talk about getting free sex. LatinaLover just wrote that he's found himself a wife here. Slapshot wrote extensively about his girlfriend and their adventures during the pandemic. Every few weeks someone is asking about meeting regular girls to date.
While most here are just looking for quick, affordable sex, many are also interested in moving beyond the prostitutes.
"Money is the world's greatest aphrodisiac".
Open your mind. There are many ways to use money to get sex. However, for straight P4 P, it's not much of an aphrodisiac. The girl doesn't necessarily want to spend time with you. She wants to spend time with your money. Her good time begins when your good time ends and you hand her the cash.
However, put on good clothes, drive a nice car, spend money in nice places and you'll find women who are excited to be with you. Some are playing the long game, others are looking for the quick thrills, exotic trips, shopping sprees, expensive meals.
As soon as you leave the airport in Colombia, you become more attractive to almost all women. Even though your income may be modest, it's still riches to them. Now it's truly an aphrodisiac. Instead of ordering burgers at McDonald's, someone wants to cook for you.
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07-08-23 12:55 #6170
Posts: 1987Words should be used in the correct manner or not at all.
Originally Posted by Elvis2008 [View Original Post]Originally Posted by Elvis2008 [View Original Post]Originally Posted by Elvis2008 [View Original Post]Originally Posted by Elvis2008 [View Original Post]
Originally Posted by RamDavidson84 [View Original Post]
Originally Posted by RamDavidson84 [View Original Post]
Loser - a person or thing that loses or has lost something, especially a game or contest..
I don't know about you, but for me I have been a loser on the sport field. You know games and when play a game I don't like to lose. But life is not a game, but it can be a contest. And it can get deadly. Depending upon the contest you have entered. And for those who have agreed to step into the line of fire at some point in their lives and lived to tell about it knows that "It pays to be a winner".
We are in the forum to share information about having sex with girls. There is no contest. If you fuck you are a winner. Let me say that again: If you fuck you are a winner! Because Pussy is Pussy! People can argue with me until "my goats come home". But anyone who is not obsessed with dicks of other people knows that the pleasure received from a girl who lets you have access to their mouth, pussy or ass is received in private (unless you are into doing that with people watching). And when she gives you an orgasm, the dopamine hit you experience is yours and yours alone. And may I ask, who does not enjoy busting a nut? For me it does not matter the numerical ranking that some other man wishes to put on her, nor does it matter how much I paid or did not pay her. That nut is the best nut I ever busted. At least until I bust my next one.
I have been in airports and seen greetings. Especially between military personal and their loved ones waiting for their return. Those are joyful occasions that light up the entire area and cause smiles to everyone. Not a single moment of jealousy. Who in the fuck is so self involved that they think other people are looking at them in the airport in their moment of being greeted that others are jealous of them? That is an exercise I leave to my many readers. All through that airport many of those greetings are occurring at all levels of PDA based on the personalities of the individuals involved. Some of you guys posting up in here calling people losers and stupid and dumb need to do some deep self evaluation and figure out why they are so angry with themselves and others.
Loser - a person or thing that loses or has lost something, especially a game or contest..
Those who use the world incorrectly, lose the meaning of it. They have so much self loathing and hate that they use it to strike out at others instead using in the context of its proper meaning. After you win, you do not call your opponent a loser. You shake the hand of your opponent and you thank him for the competition. Because the willingness to step into the arena and compete has made you both better men. I look at a Tennis final. And you see at the end the difference in the Trophy's handed out. The difference in the amount of money awarded. And you can see that it pays to be a winner. But is the other person really a loser?
Sex is not a competition. Especially recreational sex. You make the argument that if your are trying to improve your family at the DNA level that is important. I'm not trying to do that at this point in my life. I've done it already. I'm trying to keep my legacy alive so they can further the achievements I have already made in this world. So I don't have to call anyone a loser, stupid or dumb to feel better about myself. I am not in competition for pussy with anyone posing here on ISG nor with any man or lesbian seeking it out in the entire world. I got friends that hook me up with mother fucking pussy! Compete. If your friends are not hooking you up with pussy, you mother fuckers need to get some friends like I got. Cause when I fuck, all my friends going to fuck. And when they fuck, all their friends fuck. It is not my girl. It is only my time. And I am here to say that when anyone posing in this thread busts a nut. The are a winner!
Pussy is Pussy
How you like me now?
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07-08-23 04:30 #6169
Posts: 729Originally Posted by Elvis2008 [View Original Post]
A 34 yo old mature woman, with a kid, education and career can't be compared to a 19 yo who literally is just starting out her adult life, if we are talking about a relationship. The former is a wife material, while the latter is a sex toy one uses to satisfy his sexual needs for money.
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07-08-23 04:29 #6168
Posts: 2794Originally Posted by Elvis2008 [View Original Post]
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07-07-23 21:57 #6167
Posts: 3230Originally Posted by JustTK [View Original Post]
Mr. E has a twisted view of children and marriage after his own. The whole notion a single woman is dumb for having a child (unless the father died) is typical for him. He is breaking down a very complex issue, a woman's decision to have a child or not, into one that is black and white.
He described a twisted relationship with his ex-wife and children and IMO because of that, when he speaks on these subjects, logic goes off the deep end.
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07-07-23 21:44 #6166
Posts: 1987Originally Posted by JustTK [View Original Post]
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07-07-23 20:56 #6165
Posts: 1782Originally Posted by LoveItHere [View Original Post]
The USA has not succumbed to to "compassion and all the empathy crap". Far from it and qiute the opposite in fact. The high taxes do not signify a social democracy. In the case of the USA its a steal, a robbery, an upward transfer of wealth from the lower and middle classes direct to the super wealthy ruling elites. If it were a social democracy, the USA would not have high taxes and decaying infrastcruture, poor state eduction, almost non-existent public health, and miserly state benefits. It is a corrupt plutocracy, where the people are brainwashed in to thinking they are winners. You response shows me that you are victim of that propaganda.
"prostitutes societal losers" - its not how I view them. I will not save them bcos I do not view them as needing to be saved. They provide a good service and I pay them for that. Just like my maid and my car mechanic.
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07-07-23 20:44 #6164
Posts: 15925Originally Posted by LoveItHere [View Original Post]
"An endless supply of food, water, and other resources were still there for the mice, but it didn't matter. The behavior sink had set in, and there was no stopping Universe 25 from careening to its self-made demise. Soon enough, there was not a single living mouse left in the enclosure."
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07-07-23 18:26 #6163
Posts: 387Originally Posted by JustTK [View Original Post]
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07-07-23 18:26 #6162
Posts: 568Comment
Originally Posted by JustTK [View Original Post]
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07-07-23 18:23 #6161
Posts: 1987Please work on your reading comprehension skills.
Now this was my error as I did not use precise language. If it is one thing that I have learned is that sometimes the skill sets of individuals are not up to the level I think they are when I write. What I should have written is that this is not a forum exclusively focused on prostitution. It is a big tent forum about having sex with girls.
Originally Posted by LoveItHere [View Original Post]