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Originally Posted by Elvis2008
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If the 20 year old is some tatted up glue sniffing hooker showing off her latest Gucci bag on Instagram and whose goal in life is to get as many likes as possible, I agree with you.
OTOH, you have a serious woman wanting to start a family, she will go for a successful, self confident, and stable 50 year old over some jobless 25 year old all day every day. And yeah, she will fling free pussy at said guy just to have a chance at landing a husband.
And any single mother with a brain is going to laugh off the 25 year old unemployed guy. She is already taking care of children and does not need another one.
There are hookers and there is wife material / elite women, and you guys have been too focused on the hookers.
Most everyone here knows that Elvis and I couldn't agree on what time of day it is, let alone anything more substantive. Well, it pains me to no end to say this, but Elvis demonstrated some good awareness of the Latino and machismo culture here in Colombia. There are a few others here who simply cannot grasp the concept. Perhaps it is their insecurity and jealousy but Colombian women of substance are not opposed to dating men who are 30-40 years older. We're not limiting these men to the "Gringo" group either. Many of these younger ambitious women are dating Colombian men who are older and successful.
Naturally someone from the US who has lived in my former country might have a hard time grasping the concept. Why in the world would a 25 why / o super attractive woman want to date a man who is 30-40 years older? In the US it would plain and simply be assigned as a Gold-digger hoping to score the easy life.
But as Elvis pointed out women are not preoccupied with a man's looks (a big difference contrasted with US women). A good hearted, successful man is a very desirable match. He can provide for his family. If they have children he is far less likely to evaporate in the wind as so many young Colombian men seem to do. The woman sees less of the muscles and more of the future for herself and their children. They will get to live in a better and safer area of the city. The children will go to better schools. All these types of advantages are presented to young girls by their mother, aunts and grandmother. It is cultural. In Colombia women can have successful careers but it is far more difficult. In the US women have much the same opportunities as men but even today the pay-scale isn't level. In Colombia women have far fewer opportunities and the pay-scale isn't tilted it is lop-sided in favor of men.
So yes, if you are a foreigner you can score women morning, noon and night, especially if you are opening your wallet to do so. BUT if you learn the language at least passably well and DARE to talk to women and initiate a conversation AND have a semblance of intelligence you can date women who are bright, beautiful and curious about your life and culture. One of the great advantages of Colombia! The culture is ideally suited to many of us.
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Originally Posted by JjBee62
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Your "beauty queen" was a fairly average looking woman, standing outside what looked like a typical, small town beach bar, wearing a white sash, with nothing on it. It depicted someone in a local beauty contest, frequently held at small town beach bars. I'm certain the Miss Cartagena contest isn't held behind a small town beach bar. Had she been Miss Cartagena and a runner-up to Miss Colombia, there would have been pictures identifying her as such. You can't even claim you were protecting her anonymity, because a simple photo search would reveal her identity, if she ever achieved any fame.
I actually bumped into Miss Colombia (think it was 2018). She drove up in a black chauffeured limo in Cartagena Old City. She was having brunch at a place I was. She was a smoking hot classical statuesque beauty. A different league indeed.
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The coochie discount rate
27 yo. Time to sell!
30 yo - 50% off.
Over 35 yo. Clearance (up to 70% off).
40 yo. Outlet.
50 yo. Goodwill / Salvation Army.
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Originally Posted by MiamiBoy1
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While a 20 years old competing athlete fucks a fat grandpa gringo for free? And has a blessing from her family to do so.
Amazing isn't it.
You still are hiding from the simple question:
Why is my relationship such a significant part of your everyday life?
If you ever stop hiding in the closet from that question, maybe I'll tell you how I pulled it off and why her family approves.
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Originally Posted by TjBrazil
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Most people stop aging on the inside at 30. Madonna comes to mind. Dating a 27 year old. I am completely different than when I was 18 but by 30 I finally got my shit together. It's why when I meet a 50 year old, she seems like my mom, even though we are the same age. It's what a mid life crisis really is. It's not losing your hair or gaining weight. It's realizing you're only attracted to 20's and all women your age seem like your mom.
Jejeje best post ever!
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Originally Posted by Elvis2008
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And any single mother with a brain is going to laugh off the 25 year old unemployed guy.
Could be argued that if she wound up being 25 year old single mother then she does not have a brain at all (unless the kid's father died in some kind of accident.) Kind of the pot calling the kettle black.
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Originally Posted by Paulie97
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Sadly there's little to nothing attractive about the slow death of aging, especially when it comes to the last 20 to 30 years of life. That's why there's so many huge cosmetic industries trying to turn back the clock, little of which is effective. That's precisely why few guys here or anywhere for that matter, are running out to bang elderly women. Guys are free to convince themselves that they are a sexy grandpa, but when they go to selling their fantasy here it's normal to see some reality based pushback.
As to this poster that you speak of-don't know haven't read much here lately-do keep in mind, he can pull whatever he wants out of his ass by way of alleged personal experiences to try and get the better of an online dispute. But even if all he says is true with no important details omitted (doubtful), then his logical fallacy is "anecdotal. ".
https://yourlogicalfallacyis.com/anecdotal
Most people stop aging on the inside at 30. Madonna comes to mind. Dating a 27 year old. I am completely different than when I was 18 but by 30 I finally got my shit together. It's why when I meet a 50 year old, she seems like my mom, even though we are the same age. It's what a mid life crisis really is. It's not losing your hair or gaining weight. It's realizing you're only attracted to 20's and all women your age seem like your mom.
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Originally Posted by Combo
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Now, if you're talking a guy in his 50's and and hot 20 year old chica, of course that guy's going to end up paying in some way. She may not even want to be seen talking to him around anyone she knows.
If the 20 year old is some tatted up glue sniffing hooker showing off her latest Gucci bag on Instagram and whose goal in life is to get as many likes as possible, I agree with you.
OTOH, you have a serious woman wanting to start a family, she will go for a successful, self confident, and stable 50 year old over some jobless 25 year old all day every day. And yeah, she will fling free pussy at said guy just to have a chance at landing a husband.
And any single mother with a brain is going to laugh off the 25 year old unemployed guy. She is already taking care of children and does not need another one.
There are hookers and there is wife material / elite women, and you guys have been too focused on the hookers.
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Well
Originally Posted by MiamiBoy1
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Well, we have a poster here, who is in his 60's, dating a 20 yo without paying. She even introduced him to her family and friends, and got their approval.
Sadly there's little to nothing attractive about the slow death of aging, especially when it comes to the last 20 to 30 years of life. That's why there's so many huge cosmetic industries trying to turn back the clock, little of which is effective. That's precisely why few guys here or anywhere for that matter, are running out to bang elderly women. Guys are free to convince themselves that they are a sexy grandpa, but when they go to selling their fantasy here it's normal to see some reality based pushback.
As to this poster that you speak of-don't know haven't read much here lately-do keep in mind, he can pull whatever he wants out of his ass by way of alleged personal experiences to try and get the better of an online dispute. But even if all he says is true with no important details omitted (doubtful), then his logical fallacy is "anecdotal. ".
https://yourlogicalfallacyis.com/anecdotal
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Originally Posted by MiamiBoy1
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Well, we have a poster here, who is in his 60's, dating a 20 yo without paying. She even introduced him to her family and friends, and got their approval.
More than 1.
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Originally Posted by Combo
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I agree totally. And furthermore, this notion that "you always pay for it somehow" is BS. Guys and girls fuck all the time with nothing paid for by either party. In the US, in Colombia, in Europe, wherever. People hook up at parties, after class in university, with a next-door neighbor, etc with no money spent by anyone. WTF did you guys do in your teens and 20's?
Now, if you're talking a guy in his 50's and and hot 20 year old chica, of course that guy's going to end up paying in some way. She may not even want to be seen talking to him around anyone she knows.
Well, we have a poster here, who is in his 60's, dating a 20 yo without paying. She even introduced him to her family and friends, and got their approval.
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Originally Posted by JjBee62
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No they're not.
It's amazing and sad the number of grown men who consider every woman to be a hooker. Bring that one up to Mom at the next family dinner.
I agree totally. And furthermore, this notion that "you always pay for it somehow" is BS. Guys and girls fuck all the time with nothing paid for by either party. In the US, in Colombia, in Europe, wherever. People hook up at parties, after class in university, with a next-door neighbor, etc with no money spent by anyone. WTF did you guys do in your teens and 20's?
Now, if you're talking a guy in his 50's and and hot 20 year old chica, of course that guy's going to end up paying in some way. She may not even want to be seen talking to him around anyone she knows.
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Originally Posted by JjBee62
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Yet, those highly motivated, highly successful 10's were willing to filuck a fat gringo for $40.
While a 20 years old competing athlete fucks a fat grandpa gringo for free? And has a blessing from her family to do so.
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Originally Posted by Elvis2008
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You are right most of the time, but the Colombians were locked down and most could not work for 9 months. .
These were different times, and it is funny how quickly people have erased from their minds how scary and depressing Covid and the lockdowns were.
Yep. Most of the world was locked down, not just Colombians. And people around the world, as well as Colombians, that did not get money sent to them by strangers did not survive those different times.
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Originally Posted by Elvis2008
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You are right most of the time, but the Colombians were locked down and most could not work for 9 months. The best women, the women who want to do for themselves, took what I gave them and were grateful for it. That is why I said some girls appreciated what I did. There were others who hit me up after the lockdowns were over, and I told them, "Nope, you can go to work now. " They were the ones who felt entitled.
These were different times, and it is funny how quickly people have erased from their minds how scary and depressing Covid and the lockdowns were. When you deal with women particularly hot ones, there is a big flake factor but of the seven women I met, they all showed up. The worst flake job was one who met me a day later than she said she would.
It sounds like it worked out for you. As long as you have your head on straight and don't give into future requests. At that point they will think you're a simp and ATM. 40 bucks is nothing to us and a lot to them.
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