Stupid shit in Medellin

[TjBrazil]

I am saying that more than likely Bill Gates would be just as fucked up as my kid. My kid had more opportunities and resources than most kids, but could never take advantage of them because of her crazy ass mom who always thinks folks are out to get her or against her.

When she was 9 she told me I do not know why my mom is like this. But when she got to the age of 13 and started smelling herself coupled with her mom letting her do what the hell she wanted it was no turning back.

The court appointed a guardian ad litem that said my daughter can go anywhere, but she can not go back to her mom. I got custody of her because she was not going to school or doing her work, but both her and her mom continued to fight against me because she wanted to go back and live at the motel her mom and stepdad were living in because there were no rules. Finally I said fuck it and told the judge to let her go back and I would pay until she is 18. She was 13 then and I did not see her again until she was 19.

So despite the opportunity of having the world as her oyster my kid went off the rails because her crazy mom had more influence over her than teachers and other family members. Her mom has been estranged from her family since my daughter was 7 (she is 26 now). When she was 9 I found out that she had not seen that side of her family in 2 years so I took her to see her mom's mom. Her mom and her stepdad said if I took her there again then I would not be able to see her again.

Did you marry a hooker or regular girl.

[DownLow123]

Insert Michael Jackson eating popcorn gif here.

[Villainy]

If you proposed money for sex with my woman, the only person losing dignity would be you when she slapped you in the face.

Your woman?? not your girlfriend? Not your mistress or concubine? OK I guess ownership has its priviledges.

Didn't you find her on BA? (ooops that is the Spanish equivalent). En Busca de mi Alquiler or as it is known in English. Seeking monetary Arrangement or SA for short.

So she advertised for a "pay for play arrangement" or "friends with benefits" or "amigos con derechos" however you choose to describe it BUT if anyone else suggested something similar, she would be offended? Yeah, I'm going to call BS on that.

She might not accept an offer, afterall, she already has one sucker on the line, but I can't imagine for a second that she would be insulted.

[Elvis 2008]

I'm in long term relationship with a Dominican woman here in my town and she's the mother of my child. I went to jail on a probation violation stemming from marijuana trafficking case I had a few years back.

Well, you are quite the role model. Anything else flattering you want to post about yourself?

I got two knuckle sandwiches for you if I ever see you in Medellin.

Is that one punch from you and one from your midget?

[Mtndew704]

If you proposed money for sex with my woman, the only person losing dignity would be you when she slapped you in the face.

I have an even better idea. Why don't you propose in front of her bother and father, and we will see what happens then?

Take your old ass to sleep. I got two knuckle sandwiches for you if I ever see you in Medellin.

[Mr Enternational]

That is what I am saying if I understand you correctly. I brought this up under the context of the discussion of capitalism. It seems what you are saying is the Bill Gates will still be the same if he was brought up in the same condition as your daughter.

I am saying that more than likely Bill Gates would be just as fucked up as my kid. My kid had more opportunities and resources than most kids, but could never take advantage of them because of her crazy ass mom who always thinks folks are out to get her or against her.

When she was 9 she told me I do not know why my mom is like this. But when she got to the age of 13 and started smelling herself coupled with her mom letting her do what the hell she wanted it was no turning back.

The court appointed a guardian ad litem that said my daughter can go anywhere, but she can not go back to her mom. I got custody of her because she was not going to school or doing her work, but both her and her mom continued to fight against me because she wanted to go back and live at the motel her mom and stepdad were living in because there were no rules. Finally I said fuck it and told the judge to let her go back and I would pay until she is 18. She was 13 then and I did not see her again until she was 19.

So despite the opportunity of having the world as her oyster my kid went off the rails because her crazy mom had more influence over her than teachers and other family members. Her mom has been estranged from her family since my daughter was 7 (she is 26 now). When she was 9 I found out that she had not seen that side of her family in 2 years so I took her to see her mom's mom. Her mom and her stepdad said if I took her there again then I would not be able to see her again.

Fast forward 18 years later and now my daughter refuses to have a relationship with me and my side of the family the same as her mom did with her own family. So now all she has is her mom and her kids. It is like some twisted Stephen King shit That ordeal made me get a vasectomy 9 years ago. I did not want to go through anymore bullshit like that again. The best laid plans will get fucked up by a funky biotch!

[JustTK]

If you proposed money for sex with my woman, the only person losing dignity would be you when she slapped you in the face.

I have an even better idea. Why don't you propose in front of her bother and father, and we will see what happens then?

Then we agree. Paying a girl money for sex has nothing to do with dignity. I am glad you rolled back on that position.

[Nounce]

... The parents are the resources needed.....

That is what I am saying if I understand you correctly. I brought this up under the context of the discussion of capitalism. It seems what you are saying is the Bill Gates will still be the same if he was brought up in the same condition as your daughter.

[Elvis 2008]

Just to show you how stupid that is. Lets say I fucked your GF. If I offered her more money than you, would that mean I was showing her more dignity than you?

If you proposed money for sex with my woman, the only person losing dignity would be you when she slapped you in the face.

I have an even better idea. Why don't you propose in front of her bother and father, and we will see what happens then?

[Mr Enternational]

The first school, annual expenditure per student per year, $10 k. The second school spent $5.5 k per year per student. First one has a graduation rate of 89%, compared to 57% for the other.

In which direction would you send your money? Investing money in inner city schools where you know it will be wasted is not a smart investment. You have seen the same thing with the projects. Put money in and build a new playground or paint the walls and the people do not take care of it. Say we will make a program called Section 8 where folks can move to a nice area and the government pays for most if not all, and the owner's home is destroyed. It may not be politically correct, but it is the truth.

In a poor neighborhood teacher pay is much lower, everything about the school receives less funding. The best teachers seek the best pay at the best schools. Better teachers equals better students, equals better accreditation scores, equals increased funding, equals better teachers, ad infinitum.

I do not know where you live, but where I am from there is a pay scale. No teacher in the same district with the same level of experience but at a different school makes a different amount of money. And even when I attended private school, I remember the public school teachers making more.

In the inner-city schools we could not gives students a bad grade because as you said the school is worried about the rankings and funding. The principal would send that shit right back to you to change it. Recently in my state a teacher blew the whistle on that shit. It was nothing new to folks inside because it has been going on for decades.

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How does one get to be a best teacher? Mostly by having students that do their part. If you have students that bullshit around and whose parents are not going to make sure they go to school and do their work, then there is no hope on being labeled a "best teacher".

Students enter school pliant, ready to learn, to be molded into successful adults. If 1 group of students are always exposed to teachers who are financially stressed and unhappy with their job, how will they grow compared to students with teachers who are comfortable and happy with their position?

Of course parenting plays a role, but it's the same deal. Stressed parents, broken homes, surrounded by poverty, it's a lot harder to inspire your children.

Man have you ever been inside of a school? Students pliant ready to learn? Not at all. Working at a school is like herding cats. Working at an inner city school is like herding feral cats. My parents were stressed and divorced, but that did not stop them from making sure I did what I had to do on an academic level. Me and my 4 brothers and sister all have college degrees. Me and my sister have masters degrees. My nephew finished 4 years of the university in 2 years last year and just finished the police academy last month. It had nothing to do with teachers, and everything to do with my brother raising him to do what needed to be done.

Too many folks have the game messed up. Even my mom wanted to get a tutor for my daughter. Her school (my rival high school) was full of great teachers and resources. As much as I tried to explain to my mom that it has nothing to do with her not understanding the material, but everything about her not going to school and not doing her work, it just went over my mom's head. Prescribing a tutor for someone not going to school and not doing their work is like a librarian prescribing novocaine when your car has a flat tire.

There are some fat ass people running around here yet nobody is blaming the school lunch lady. You can present to them all the healthy meals in school that you want, but if they go home and all they eat is junk, then it ain't because there are no good lunch ladies. It is the parents' fault for allowing it. The same as if a mf first even comes to school, but does not go home and work on their assignments so they can learn the material, it ain't the teacher's fault. It is the parents' fault for not making sure their kids are doing what they are supposed to so that they can be molded into successful adults as you put it.

These days being a teacher in most of these schools is a thankless job. You have to really want to be there if that is the career you have chosen. Me myself, I was like fuck that shit.

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[JjBee62]

That was the whole idea of my response. It is because in the richer school districts there are parents that care. Good parents make good students, which in turn make good schools. The school does not make the students, the students make the school. You said it yourself!

Is this a common lifestyle in the bad schools? No! You did not say the schools did all these things for the students; you said the parents did them! The parents are the resources needed.

The moment you hear a mf say well I went to school everyday and I did all of my assignments, but I still failed out, that is the day that the schools are problem. First questions that should be asked when someone talks about a bad school is did the student go to class everyday and did they complete all of their assignments. If the answer is yes, then the school would be the problem. If the answer is no then one has to look at the man in the mirror, not the mirror itself. The school is only the reflection of the students that attend it.

You take an A1 school and take all the students out and put all students from the worst school in, you are not going to make A1 students; you are just going to make a bad school.

I just looked up 2 schools I'm familiar with. I delivered food to both for a few years. One is in an affluent suburb, the other in the inner city. The inner city school has been shutdown.

The first school, annual expenditure per student per year, $10 k. The second school spent $5.5 k per year per student. First one has a graduation rate of 89%, compared to 57% for the other.

The first school is more like a college campus than a high school, everything top notch. The second was falling down, building 100 years old, neither air nor heat worked as that district couldn't afford to repair them.

Looking in the parking lots, one school's teachers are driving mostly new cars, with a good mix of luxury models. The other parking lot is mostly cars 8-10 years old or older.

This state determines school district funding 2 ways. One is tied to property taxes, the other is determined by accreditation scores. In a poor neighborhood teacher pay is much lower, everything about the school receives less funding. The best teachers seek the best pay at the best schools. Better teachers equals better students, equals better accreditation scores, equals increased funding, equals better teachers, ad infinitum.

Students enter school pliant, ready to learn, to be molded into successful adults. If 1 group of students are always exposed to teachers who are financially stressed and unhappy with their job, how will they grow compared to students with teachers who are comfortable and happy with their position?

Of course parenting plays a role, but it's the same deal. Stressed parents, broken homes, surrounded by poverty, it's a lot harder to inspire your children.

[The Cane]

That was the whole idea of my response. It is because in the richer school districts there are parents that care. Good parents make good students, which in turn make good schools. The school does not make the students, the students make the school. You said it yourself! Is this a common lifestyle in the bad schools? No! You did not say the schools did all these things for the students; you said the parents did them! The parents are the resources needed.

Three basic things make for a good school. An excellent faculty, strong students, and top-notch facilities where they can come together to engage in teaching, learning, research, and service. That's what makes for a good academic institution. And what makes for strong students? As you say, it's parents who care, and even better yet, parents who care with some money to invest in their children's education, including allowing access to expensive preparatory materials that increase the odds of academic success. As somebody who spent years in higher education at some of the best public and private schools in the United States, these are things that I know to be true from direct experience. I took the time to write those essays (and more) Mr. E! LMAO LOL!

[Mr Enternational]

Then my question to you is why the richer school districts has better students than the poor school districts? This is a common life style in one of the best high school in my state where I come from.

Harvard is not in the business of making good students. If they were then they could just take the first 1000 students that apply. Instead they have stringent criteria for the people wishing to enter the school. Criteria of entering students that they have noticed makes the school good. I remember getting ready to apply to Harvard and they required 5 essays to be written with the application. I was like fuck that. Yeah I was the type of mf they were trying to weed out; a mf that would have come there without the highest standards. The people that were willing to put in the work on those 5 essays and reflect good on the school is what they were looking for, not a mf that was going to try to skate through.

[Mr Enternational]

Then my question to you is why the richer school districts has better students than the poor school districts?

That was the whole idea of my response. It is because in the richer school districts there are parents that care. Good parents make good students, which in turn make good schools. The school does not make the students, the students make the school. You said it yourself!

I am talking about parents who are take their kid to school at 5 in the morning for sport practice. To play in a basketball game at 8 PM, then took the kids to a tutoring class at 10 PM to finish homework after the basketball game and many after activities. This is a common life style in one of the best high school in my state where I come from.

Is this a common lifestyle in the bad schools? No! You did not say the schools did all these things for the students; you said the parents did them! The parents are the resources needed.

The moment you hear a mf say well I went to school everyday and I did all of my assignments, but I still failed out, that is the day that the schools are problem. First questions that should be asked when someone talks about a bad school is did the student go to class everyday and did they complete all of their assignments. If the answer is yes, then the school would be the problem. If the answer is no then one has to look at the man in the mirror, not the mirror itself. The school is only the reflection of the students that attend it.

You take an A1 school and take all the students out and put all students from the worst school in, you are not going to make A1 students; you are just going to make a bad school.

[Nounce]

... Look at some of these videos online of how students are acting in class. It is not about resources. It is about responsibility, discipline, and accountability. Sending 8 more computers to a school is not going to make Einsteins out of students whose parents don't give a shit. They have to actually sit down and read a book and put pen to paper. The shit takes work. It is not a mystery.

Then my question to you is why the richer school districts has better students than the poor school districts?

I am not talking about things like computers. I am talking about parents who are take their kid to school at 5 in the morning for sport practice. To play in a basketball game at 8 PM, then took the kids to a tutoring class at 10 PM to finish homework after the basketball game and many after activities. This is a common life style in one of the best high school in my state where I come from.