Stupid shit in Medellin

[Gabacho]

And first SB are here.

Are those your perfect 10/10's Elvis?? Are you sure they aren't trans LOL. ??

[Huacho]

Yo Elvis, if you have truly found the woman and relationship you want, congratulations. But you do realize that most of just want to fuck and move on? That this is hooker board and not a lonely hearts' club? And that bragging is generally unattractive? And that most of us have enough money and aren't jealous of you in that regard? And that one characteristic of narcissists is that they routinely accuse others of being narcissists?

Oh, wait a minute; obviously you don't realize any of that. The technology does not currently exist to develop a machine that can be calibrated in large enough increments to measure how full of shit you are.

[Elvis 2008]

And first SB are here.

[Elvis 2008]

It doesn't matter whether or not you buy it, and not only because you're irrelevant. I've got some time to explain it. I'll start with Elvis.

Elvis has a woman who is around 20 years younger than him, maybe more. He's convinced that she loves him, so convinced he's talking about marrying her and taking on the responsibility of raising her daughter. As long as he's convinced that she loves him, that his relationship is real, then he has a relationship. It doesn't matter if she's just using him, or if she secretly is disgusted by him. As long as she keeps him convinced of her love, it's all sunshine and rainbows.

LOL. Like I said, I am reading this book on what women really want in a man, and I could say a lot of things about it or I could make it simple. Women do not want you.

Elvis's only mistake is trying to convince everyone of the perfection of his woman and his relationship. If he spent half the time on her as he spends trying to convince himself everyone is jealous of him, it would last forever.

That is one way of looking at it. The correct one is you are completely crazy.

Do you grasp that? As long as 2 people are each willing to put forth the effort to convince each other that they are happy together, they have a relationship. Whenever 1 or both stop putting forth the effort it crumbles and falls apart. That's the only significant thing.

No, that is not how it works. Number one thing women look for in a man is provision of resources. You are saying it is happiness because you cannot provide resources and are full of shit.

Second thing you mention is women tell you that you have a great body. Again, that is not what is important. Women look at the health of the male and given your health and passing out everywhere, no desired or quality woman is going to invest in you once they know how you really are.

Early on, I needed some convincing. Why was this woman interested in me? She gave me some good answers but something was missing. There is a 20+ year difference in ages and she can obviously get younger and better I thought, but she held off on telling me she had a kid. Given her child's age and my ability to provision resources for her child, yeah, now the partnership and her choosing me made perfect sense. If she had a one year old or no kids, yeah, being with me made no sense.

As for women, outside of the cultures where there are very few men, 80+% of women will not marry someone unless they are in love, but that is something you will never have to worry about Mr. Truck Driver unless you find another stripper type to "marry".

I cannot believe I ever took you seriously. You are not just a loser but a crazy one at that.

[Elvis 2008]

Is the relationship exclusive and genuine?

But, but JJBee's relationships are not exclusive and real while mine are exclusive but not real. LOL. I want to post positively for a change. First off, MB when I mentioned a guy being worthy of a 10, I made the analogy of the woman with a line of guys out to buy her a drink, and did you see how practically every guy ran away from her? So we should not even start with the game of getting a 10. It looks like most guys are too chicken shit to even get up to the plate. As I have gotten older, I have learned to give myself pats on the back for things that are nothing. So pat yourself on the back MB for just getting up to bat. It seems like nothing but it is.

I am reading this book about the evolution of desire, https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0...?ie=UTF8&psc=1, and it tries to answer the age old question of what do women want, and they have a novel approach: they actually ask the women. LOL.

And what was listed was #1 is resources, #2 is social status which is affiliated with education, #3 is age, All these cueseconomic resources, social status, and older ageadd up to one thing: the ability to possess resources. But the possession of resources is not enough. Women also need men who possess traits that are likely to lead to the sustained acquisition of resources over time.

Listed next then is ambition and industriousness, dependability and stability, then intelligence, compatibility, and then finally, LOL, looks.

Then there were the deal breakers: Most deal breakers, however, are simply the inverses of the qualities that women desirelacking resources, drive, ambition, or status; lacking intelligence; being undependable or emotionally unstable; being small, weak, or feminine in appearance; being unhealthy or asymmetrical; being mean or cruel; and lacking love specifically for the woman doing the mate selecting.

Unlike the Covid crap, this is real, actual science. Now granted this is what women want in a partner not a one night stand but MB when I was your age, I though I was what women really wanted, but did not feel it. Also, I just did not do a good job of projecting confidence. Granted, I had an ex-wife keeping my ego down. I thought she was as good as I could get but obviously I could and did get way better.

This blonde was the first hooker / stripper type that I could have had as a SB. Deal with her is that I felt like it was too transactional. I just kept her on a P4 P leash and recommend you do that with those types of women.

The first real sugar baby is the red head in the black dress. Her friends called her Angie Everhart and she does have a striking resemblance to said super model. We were together for years and most of the time she was a 9 but she had a period where she had a BF trainer who pushed her to a 10 IMO. She was a wonderful conversationalist. Great personality. Best head ever. Good not great in the sack. Smart and athletic enough to get a big 12 scholarship.

We had good times together and great sex, but I felt she was way out of my league. After my divorce, I asked her hypothetically if she would be interested in dating me, and she told me yes but only if I gave up my other women which I refused to do. Even though I felt she was out of my league, the reality was the opposite.

Why did I feel that way? Because in my 20's, I was beaten up. Back then, all I had to offer women was my potential. Only way you are going to get decent women then without resources is looks and relationships based on looks do not last long.

So my lack of confidence was being beat up not just by the women but also the better looking and confident men but as you see here, when you go down the list you have to get to #8, intelligence, before JJBee checks a box. Does he act like that? Fuck no. There have been so many times the guys I meet who are uber confident are narcissists.

MB, I could make a case we are neck and neck on what women want, or you are even ahead, but I would get a woman over you solely on the basis of confidence. You think you have what women want and you do, but you do not know it and feel it. That is the difference but how do you get the confidence? Compliment yourself on the little things and that rack up successes. When I interview a sugar baby prospect, I focus on whether or not she meets what I want and if she does, then I will see if I can meet her needs. That way it may not feel like rejection if things do not work. Again, with some women, a billion is not enough but even with the 10's, you have to see if she is long term material.

Other reason I bring up Angie is she dated a male 10. She did what you wanted and showed up with him in a high end Ferrari at some club and everyone stared at her, and she loved it. Well, it turns out he got his money conning people and was put in jail. She had to fight off other women with a stick and after they broke up said, "I will never date a man better looking than me. " When I asked why, she said when you have a male 10, he really is never yours. It turns out he was fucking everything in site behind her back.

IMO unless you are the attention loving narcissists like JJBee and V who live to be the the center of attention the juice on said appearances is not worth the long term squeeze. People are going to try to knock you down and with appearance the joy goes down and people's expectations of you go up. And what got me with Angie was the thing you are most proud of is how you look and not what you have done? Do I really want that for a long term GF?

[JustTK]

Madagascar looks like a cool place to monger. They speak French instead of Spanish. I think the money is similar in value to Colombian money. They have a forum on here with lots of guys posting that they monger in a place called nosy be. I think its cheaper even than Colombia. Guys report getting BBFS for like 15 k.

Yeah, Nosy Be is the main tourist beach area of Madagascar. I never went mongering there myself. I went for scuba diving and chasing lemurs w an ex-GF. I can see how it could fit that bill though. Must be very low key though. At least when I was there, it was very quiet as a tourist destination, mostly French expats. Food was terrible, so that's another thing in common w Colombia.

[Gabacho]

Africa is my fave continent. But Somalia presents a language problem to me. I have to stick to those countries where English can get me understood.

Madagascar looks like a cool place to monger. They speak French instead of Spanish. I think the money is similar in value to Colombian money. They have a forum on here with lots of guys posting that they monger in a place called nosy be. I think its cheaper even than Colombia. Guys report getting BBFS for like 15 k.

[JustTK]

I was watching some youtube videos the other day of a cow going from farm to table. It looked really horrible and gross. I do not see why anyone would want to eat meat, but boy do I love me a ribeye steak.

Can we choose better analogies please?

[JustTK]

Just like Jamie Foxx said about Jennifer Lopez. "J-Lo? I remember when it was Hey Ho!

If Shakira was a chick you knew growing up, you would not put that much value on her pussy. She would just be Shakira from down the street to you.

Haha. Plus you would have probably fkd her already anyway.

[JustTK]

Those mfs who frequent El Centro to experience the culture and not for the hookers, why don't you travel to Somalia then? .

Africa is my fave continent. But Somalia presents a language problem to me. I have to stick to those countries where English can get me understood.

[JjBee62]

This sub-forum is supposed to be about Stupid Stuff in Medellin. Example 1) This restaurant I know that leaves their condiments out at night and do not put in the refrigerator at night or ever. Example 2) I told a street girl that is she comes to Botero tomorrow that I wanted to be with her again. She asked for taxi money.

But instead guys write novels about why the other guy is stupid and we should all care for some reason. This has nothing to do with Medellin or what happens in Medellin.

I have never see so many guys trying to beat the hell out of a dead horse over and over and over again. Then do it again weeks or months later. The only positive thing I can say is at least you guys are not quitters.

Nope. This thread was created to move the bickering out of the Medellin thread. Same thing with the Stupid Shit in Bogota thread.

[LoveItHere69]

You did notice the name of the forum, yes? .

This sub-forum is supposed to be about Stupid Stuff in Medellin. Example 1) This restaurant I know that leaves their condiments out at night and do not put in the refrigerator at night or ever. Example 2) I told a street girl that is she comes to Botero tomorrow that I wanted to be with her again. She asked for taxi money.

But instead guys write novels about why the other guy is stupid and we should all care for some reason. This has nothing to do with Medellin or what happens in Medellin.

I have never see so many guys trying to beat the hell out of a dead horse over and over and over again. Then do it again weeks or months later. The only positive thing I can say is at least you guys are not quitters.

[Gabacho]

What would you suggest? Should we call a vote to have admins ban a couple guys?

I think the "stupid shit in medellíand" forum is serving its purpose. It's a place to keep all this shit so it doesn't flood the real medellin forum. This is exactly what it was created for.

[Villainy]

I came across the current back and forth a couple of weeks ago, and when I checked back in this morning, I saw it was still going on.

You did notice the name of the forum, yes? You were expecting an intellectual discussion of the bio-diversity in Colombia by region?

Assuming you are at least semi-literate you would probably recognize this paraphrase: Abandon all hope of normalcy, ye who enter here.

[Anthony2023]

I came across the current back and forth a couple of weeks ago, and when I checked back in this morning, I saw it was still going on.

What would you suggest? Should we call a vote to have admins ban a couple guys?