Tips for recharging time

[John Dough]

Maybe I should avoid the Tongkat.

Tongkat Ali should help you recover faster and cum again sooner, as should Maca and Mucuna. I should have used the word booster instead of agonist. Try taking Maca for three weeks before your next trip and then take Mucuna during the trip. Maybe it will work better for you than Tongkat.

I don't understand why I can't finish. And the problem seems to be getting much worse every year. When I'm home alone and can just jerk-off, I can bust 5-7 nuts a day. But with beautiful, hot chicks in Colombia or the Philippines, I just can't get over the hump after 2 per day. And occasionally less than that.

I think avoiding masturbation would be the most effective strategy. The internet is full of tales of woe by men who say things like "I beat off ten times a day but can't get it up with a real woman. What's wrong? ". They answered their own question. Masturbation depletes the body's dopamine level. It takes about three months of abstinence to restore it.

https://nofap.com/

https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/rele...and-addiction/

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8GbCnr4gBjE

[BKKguru]

Age 50, non-smoker, non-drinker. On my trips, I eat fast food a few times per week. Particularly when other restaurants are closed.

I will give you one tip. Start eating Medjool Dates.

The Medjools dates are bigger in size and more expensive.
3 to 4 dates every day is good enough. Meaning, just don't eat dates 5 days before your trip!

FYI-
I consume dates imported from Jordan. I pay approximately USD 36 for a 1 Kg box.
The brand is Karamah Jordan Valley. www.karamah-dates.com.
You can find less expensive Medjool dates from other countries.
Saudi Arabia is a big exporter and they sell all types - cheap to premium.

Don't buy the Medjool dates grown in Arizona or California. Costco used to sell this 4 years ago. I have not been to Costco since then.
Fast food - avoid eating deep fried Chicken (KFC) and reduce consumption of french fries.

~BKKguru

[ShadowJ]

Your message did not mention this data which is important for sexual health:

+ Age?
+ Smoker?
+ Fast food consumption per week (McDonalds, Burger King etc)?
+ Alcohol consumption per week?

~BKKguru

Age 50, non-smoker, non-drinker. On my trips, I eat fast food a few times per week. Particularly when other restaurants are closed.

[ShadowJ]

Boosting your dopamine level should reduce the refractory period. This is the basis of the Coolidge Effect. Natural dopamine agonists include Velvet Bean (Mucuna Pruriens), Maca root and Tongkat Ali (Longjack). Parkinson drugs like Cabergoline also do this. Supposedly you have to take Maca for 2 to 3 weeks before the effect kicks in. Gelatinized (cooked) is best. L-Tyrosine and vitamin B6 might also help. Caffeine is thought to cause premature ejaculation, so it might help you finish faster. Masturbation depletes dopamine, so avoid doing it for a few months before your next trip.

https://www.rareddit.com/r/sex/comme...plements_that/

On my trips, I typically take half a pill of clomid every other day along with Tongkat Ali and Tribulus to max out my Testosterone. Maybe I should avoid the Tongkat.

[BKKguru]

<snip> I just can't get over the hump after 2 per day. And occasionally less than that.

I know rest works. But I've got to believe there is something that can be done medically to help with this problem and make my trips even more fulfilling.

Your message did not mention this data which is important for sexual health:

+ Age?
+ Smoker?
+ Fast food consumption per week (McDonalds, Burger King etc)?
+ Alcohol consumption per week?

~BKKguru

[John Dough]

Boosting your dopamine level should reduce the refractory period. This is the basis of the Coolidge Effect. Natural dopamine agonists include Velvet Bean (Mucuna Pruriens), Maca root and Tongkat Ali (Longjack). Parkinson drugs like Cabergoline also do this. Supposedly you have to take Maca for 2 to 3 weeks before the effect kicks in. Gelatinized (cooked) is best. L-Tyrosine and vitamin B6 might also help. Caffeine is thought to cause premature ejaculation, so it might help you finish faster. Masturbation depletes dopamine, so avoid doing it for a few months before your next trip.

https://www.rareddit.com/r/sex/comme...plements_that/

[Zeos1]

This is phenomenal guidance. But it strikes me as overly pessimistic.

I wish we had doctors in the US that were like some of the doctors my gay friends have. They help them with every aspect of going out and banging as many dudes as possible. PReP, Looks-maxing, ED and drugs to max out T and minimize recovery time. Us straight men in this hobby either have to deal with moralizing doctors or have to rely on "bro-science" to figure out what to do.

In my own case, I only get a few trips per year. Maybe a total of a month per year away from home. I want to maximize that time by banging as many hot chicks as I can. My problem is that after banging 2-3 girls per day, I stop being able to finish. I can bang the girls forever and never even start to feel the buildup toward an orgasm. The only cure I've found is, as this post suggests, taking a day off. But I can't afford to waste a day. And I don't understand why I can't finish. And the problem seems to be getting much worse every year. When I'm home alone and can just jerk-off, I can bust 5-7 nuts a day. But with beautiful, hot chicks in Colombia or the Philippines, I just can't get over the hump after 2 per day. And occasionally less than that.

I know rest works. But I've got to believe there is something that can be done medically to help with this problem and make my trips even more fulfilling.

The problem is that you don't have a problem. Having a limitation of being able to only climax a couple of times per day is probably more than the average guy, I suppose depending on your age. But many with normal T levels can't do that even. And messing with testosterone if you are not low already is a risky business, and it can backfire on you so your choice I guess, but if it ain't broke best not to try to fix it.

[ShadowJ]

This is phenomenal guidance. But it strikes me as overly pessimistic.

I wish we had doctors in the US that were like some of the doctors my gay friends have. They help them with every aspect of going out and banging as many dudes as possible. PReP, Looks-maxing, ED and drugs to max out T and minimize recovery time. Us straight men in this hobby either have to deal with moralizing doctors or have to rely on "bro-science" to figure out what to do.

In my own case, I only get a few trips per year. Maybe a total of a month per year away from home. I want to maximize that time by banging as many hot chicks as I can. My problem is that after banging 2-3 girls per day, I stop being able to finish. I can bang the girls forever and never even start to feel the buildup toward an orgasm. The only cure I've found is, as this post suggests, taking a day off. But I can't afford to waste a day. And I don't understand why I can't finish. And the problem seems to be getting much worse every year. When I'm home alone and can just jerk-off, I can bust 5-7 nuts a day. But with beautiful, hot chicks in Colombia or the Philippines, I just can't get over the hump after 2 per day. And occasionally less than that.

I know rest works. But I've got to believe there is something that can be done medically to help with this problem and make my trips even more fulfilling.

Some random opinions from my experience:

Your General fitness / Sex specific Stretching eg Kegel exercise.

Your General health and hygiene (clean health, wash gently and dry thoroughly before and after. Use mild disinfectant / mouth wash after).

The room temperature will affect your performance and recovery. Cooler will generally be better.

Avoid eating within 2-3 hours of the event. Drink plenty but minimize within an hour of the event unless you do watersports.

My feedback for age 40+:

If 3 times in a day, next day is a complete rest day.

If 2 times per day. No more than 3 consecutive days and then take next 2 days off.

If 1 per day. Can do it every day.

In general aim for 3-6 hours between each completion and preferably include at least a 2 minute cold shower and a nap. Make use of Hotel Spa facilities such as Saunas and a Cold Dip. Always finish with a 2 min cold shower / dip.

If I knock two off within an hour no more action for the rest of the day.

Booking 30 min sessions are preferable. Better to extend if needed rather than commit to 60 mins. Recovery can start sooner.

If you only have 1 day available to play. Good luck and discover your limitations.

Note: if you blue / yellow pill, it affects when your recovery can begin.

[Aoctenisan]

I'm good once its up and hard I rock on, but being 30 something lately running into times where after one pop its taking longer times to recharge for next round, if it recharges. Leaning towards quickies as booking a full hour date and only one round fulfilled like just watching money burn. (I've had extremely rare instances where house girl agreed to honor hour rate but split it into 30 minute mini rounds to accommodate this recharging situation)

Any remedies, diet suggestions, lifestyle suggestions (I don't smoke, no substance, maybe 2 beers / month).

Some random opinions from my experience:

Your General fitness / Sex specific Stretching eg Kegel exercise.

Your General health and hygiene (clean health, wash gently and dry thoroughly before and after. Use mild disinfectant / mouth wash after).

The room temperature will affect your performance and recovery. Cooler will generally be better.

Avoid eating within 2-3 hours of the event. Drink plenty but minimize within an hour of the event unless you do watersports.

My feedback for age 40+:

If 3 times in a day, next day is a complete rest day.

If 2 times per day. No more than 3 consecutive days and then take next 2 days off.

If 1 per day. Can do it every day.

In general aim for 3-6 hours between each completion and preferably include at least a 2 minute cold shower and a nap. Make use of Hotel Spa facilities such as Saunas and a Cold Dip. Always finish with a 2 min cold shower / dip.

If I knock two off within an hour no more action for the rest of the day.

Booking 30 min sessions are preferable. Better to extend if needed rather than commit to 60 mins. Recovery can start sooner.

If you only have 1 day available to play. Good luck and discover your limitations.

Note: if you blue / yellow pill, it affects when your recovery can begin.

[CenTexCrash]

I'm good once its up and hard I rock on, but being 30 something lately running into times where after one pop its taking longer times to recharge for next round, if it recharges. Leaning towards quickies as booking a full hour date and only one round fulfilled like just watching money burn. (I've had extremely rare instances where house girl agreed to honor hour rate but split it into 30 minute mini rounds to accommodate this recharging situation)

Any remedies, diet suggestions, lifestyle suggestions (I don't smoke, no substance, maybe 2 beers / month).