Sexual Wellness and Safe Sex related Discussions

[Zenduka1]

Is masturbation good or bad for this hobby? I don't like ejaculating while I am in Tijuana unless it is the last day. It has a tendency to zap out the excitement of being there, touching, feeling, enjoying the girls. If cumming is the mission I do that at home for cheap.

[Gabacho]

I have read that but I don't believe petroleum jelly is really as issue for 30 minutes. My doctor was OK with it.

My question is not what type of lube. But whether TO PUT or NOT lube on penis head / glans before condom and sex to avoid friction burn.

I try to avoid condoms as much as I can but once in a while when a chica I really want to fuck absolutely will not budge on the issue, or wants way too much money, then I have to revert back to using a condom. I do like to put lubricant on my penis first and then put the condom on as I feel it makes the condom less plastic or elastic feeling.

I prefer to use a silicone lubricant not a water based one because those get sticky, silicone stays smooth. Platinum wet pure silicone lube is a good brand, also Swiss Army but it's more expensive. I believe Walmart in the US like in Chula Vista, also carries their own brand which is cheaper like $8 usd.

Also just as I don't like water based lube I also don't like latex condoms. I found that the polyisoprene (Skyn Condoms) or polyurethane (Trojan Supra) are much better. Trojan Supra have a bad habit of breaking easily through, not that I ever cared if they broke LOL. I remember sometimes they'd break and the Chica wouldn't notice and I'd still cum inside her. Kind of like stealthing but then again not really because I wasn't actively removing the condom it just happened to break sometimes.

Anyways hope this helps.

-Gabacho.

[Rambo1969]

Never never never use Vaseline with condoms. Petroleum and oils will break down the rubber. Only use water based lubricants like KY or Astroglide.

I have read that but I don't believe petroleum jelly is really as issue for 30 minutes. My doctor was OK with it.

My question is not what type of lube. But whether TO PUT or NOT lube on penis head / glans before condom and sex to avoid friction burn.

[MacNCheeze]

So, I thought the way to avoid that was to rub some vaseline on the glans before putting the condom on.

Never never never use Vaseline with condoms. Petroleum and oils will break down the rubber. Only use water based lubricants like KY or Astroglide.

[Rambo1969]

Hi Fellas.

I am struggling with the best way to avoid friction burn after having sex with condom.

Once after I got the burn on the head / glans I thought it was because it was too dry (due to wipe with tissue before putting condom on).

So, I thought the way to avoid that was to rub some vaseline on the glans before putting the condom on. But last week I got friction burn and almost a blister after having sex.

So now I am really confused how best to avoid friction burn. Whether or not to put Vaseline on the glans / head.

BTW. I used to also get slight abrasion on the very top of the penis after many sessions in a weekend. Vaseline on the very tip of the penis does work to prevent those very small abrasion cuts.

What's been your experience?

[SeaBeeJoe]

Latest researches have link loss of smell as indication of early dementia.

If you cannot smell rotten dead fish pussies, well, be prepared for dementia.

Thank you Dr. Solo for that informative tidbit, unfortunately I can still seem the rotten fish!

[Captain Solo]

Latest researches have link loss of smell as indication of early dementia.

If you cannot smell rotten dead fish pussies, well, be prepared for dementia.

[Zenduka1]

Tijuana rent is very expensive for a Mexican gal not from Tijuana. The regulars that are here and don't do much business, I would assume they are from Tijuana, living in a free of low-rent environment.

Make sense. I would agree this is the case. Either way the benefits must outweigh the hassle so they endure.

[Jackie888]

I know a girl who told me she will never come back to Tijuana for lack of business in HK. She is not ugly either, she is just average. In any case some girls endure for years and years and I and other regulars do not arriba them. However they are there year in and year out. You have to assume the wait rewards them at some juncture in time that would be the reason they are there.

Tijuana rent is very expensive for a Mexican gal not from Tijuana. The regulars that are here and don't do much business, I would assume they are from Tijuana, living in a free of low-rent environment.

[Zenduka1]

I'm attracted to any girl of Amy ra e whose not fat, but I have to be fair, 70% of the girls going up for sex to me, do not look very attractive. They look decent, and if I was already married to them I could accept it. But majority tobme, even in old age, do not look so good that I'd want to be in a relationship with them. And latina woman are my favorite.

Noticed the difference when you see them outside in normal street attire vs inside the clubs? Some still look very good in fact I would prefer to see them that way but most look really shaggy outside.

In any case looks is overrated. Any fit woman can do her nails and hair, paste up her face and dress in mini skirt and can make any warm blooded inexperienced str8 guy pee. After laying all those women this has stopped working for me long ago, I wish it still did but it doesn't. I fall for a combination of, youth, fitness, cleanliness and most of all friendly feminine attitude in the moment.

[Dogers69]

I know a girl who told me she will never come back to Tijuana for lack of business in HK. She is not ugly either, she is just average. In any case some girls endure for years and years and I and other regulars do not arriba them. However they are there year in and year out. You have to assume the wait rewards them at some juncture in time that would be the reason they are there.

I'm attracted to any girl of Amy ra e whose not fat, but I have to be fair, 70% of the girls going up for sex to me, do not look very attractive. They look decent, and if I was already married to them I could accept it. But majority tobme, even in old age, do not look so good that I'd want to be in a relationship with them. And latina woman are my favorite.

[Zenduka1]

Feel free to disagree but from my years there and watching which girls constantly go up every hour or so, I noticed several common and easy things for a smart HK chica to do if they want to join that every 1 hour arriba money bags club.

The successful and busy HK chicas that get banged every hour usually do the following:

1) have big see cup size tits and wear a very revealing 2 piece bikini style outfit (not those one piece outfits where you can't see anything).

I disagree because doesn't work for me.

2) Stand in busy intersections that allow easy access to customers such as the staircase in the middle of the club (those who hang around the front entrance or the main stage get almost no attention be / see they're not easily accessible).

I agree

3) Very flirtatious and actively reach out and squeeze guy's crotches as they walk by.

I agree

4) don't stand there staring at their phone.

I agree

5) don't hide among groups of other girls and engage in constant conversations with them making themselves seem unavailable.

I agree

See inline response.

One more important addition:- Smile.

I understand that this list will never be seen by any HK girl or at least for that to happen the chances are very narrow. However, in reality we are talking about ourselves. What we like and we don't like and what we respond to.

[ABAJoeSmith123]

I know a girl who told me she will never come back to Tijuana for lack of business in HK. She is not ugly either, she is just average. In any case some girls endure for years and years and I and other regulars do not arriba them. However they are there year in and year out. You have to assume the wait rewards them at some juncture in time that would be the reason they are there.

Feel free to disagree but from my years there and watching which girls constantly go up every hour or so, I noticed several common and easy things for a smart HK chica to do if they want to join that every 1 hour arriba money bags club.

The successful and busy HK chicas that get banged every hour usually do the following:

1) have big see cup size tits and wear a very revealing 2 piece bikini style outfit (not those one piece outfits where you can't see anything).

2) Stand in busy intersections that allow easy access to customers such as the staircase in the middle of the club (those who hang around the front entrance or the main stage get almost no attention be / see they're not easily accessible).

3) Very flirtatious and actively reach out and squeeze guy's crotches as they walk by.

4) don't stand there staring at their phone.

5) don't hide among groups of other girls and engage in constant conversations with them making themselves seem unavailable.

[Zenduka1]

Maybe the ugly ones don't bag a client the whole week but the actual hot and attractive ones bag a client every 1-2 hours. Anyone who regularly goes to the club and watches which girls go arriba would be lying if they didn't agree with this.

I know a girl who told me she will never come back to Tijuana for lack of business in HK. She is not ugly either, she is just average. In any case some girls endure for years and years and I and other regulars do not arriba them. However they are there year in and year out. You have to assume the wait rewards them at some juncture in time that would be the reason they are there.

[Zenduka1]

Man, I don't know what you guys are doing or if you just have really poor chica selection, but in my numerous years of mongering in the zona I have NEVER ran across a "fishy pussy".

I encountered one just 2 weeks ago. So bad. Yes, nasty smelling pussies can be encountered but are not very frequent in my experience. Just nicely told the girl to wash up with warm water and no soap and she came back smelling better. It also is a good practice for both of you to shower before the action no matter how you both feel cleansed.

For some reason as someone wrote I never encountered this with the SG's. Not sure why. The issues with SG's is the bad attitude as you do not have time to gauge her as you would with a bar girl. There is only a certain level of connection you can have with SG's vs BG's. Having said that, the best and unforgettable sex that happened for both of us there, is with a regular SG I used to have.