Seeking Arrangements

[FilthyBeaver]

I created a girl account because I was curious about the competition. Within 10 min I was convinced I was a catch. There's always going to be someone wealthier, better looking, taller, bigger scaling, whatever. It all boils down to confidence and chemistry. You can't force something that isn't there for more than a few dates.

It is like we are programmed to expect certain things. It used to be singers had to be super model types or no one was interested supposedly. American Idol et al come on and wouldn't you know people actually just wanted people who can sing not look good.

So it goes with good looking women. They are supposed to be with women their own age and equally attractive: football captain and head cheerleader. It is programming that is everywhere. I saw it when I showed a photo of my gal to a friend's 9 year old and she said, "Ohhhhh, she is way too young for you. ".

It was so ingrained in me that even when women came, and they had that smell, the sound, and even some squirting, there was still doubt. Did I really make that young hottie cum? And there were so many, and still I was like "Did I make you cum really?

Now I know the signs, the body language, the voice of a girl really interested and I took action on it. Thing is I gave up so much pussy and free pussy at that was just because I was convinced I was not worthy of it and was so underconfident.

Saying the women only like you for your money is like saying buy Apple stock. Nobody is going to say that stupid or dispute you for it especially if it is long term, but there are times like now that it is not a good time to buy Apple. I cannot drag someone by the nose and say "Smell that cum! That is how much she likes me. ".

But the easiest thing for other people to see is if a woman is a caring and loving GF type or a ho. I do not question any more. My gal has done everything possible to make me believe, and an old GF is still texting me wanting to know if we are together. If you do not have the confidence to break the mold and want to live your life confining yourself to the expectations of a 9 year old, have at it.

Yes, the women get tons of messages, but you know when I looked at the phone of a woman who was on seeking, almost every guy was some loser trying to get laid for free. I picked out four that were real SD types, the same ones she did, and said they were real. There are not that many quality men out there. For real. Yes, if you think she has feelings for you, she probably does. Do not listen to the fools who have never been on the site or used seeking.

[Elvis 2008]

Yeah actually my age difference is a bit over 35 years with all the girls I date. And I KNOW without question there are deep feelings both ways with several of these girls. It's not all that hard to imagine if you think it thru:

Past experience: Guys who are immature. Have a shit job if they have one. Take take take.

You: Charming and successful. Polite. Genuinely nice. Care how she feels. Listen to her ramble on endlessly. Hahaha.

Anyhow you get the point. Any girl who looks past basic looks is bound to fall a bit for many of us. We didn't get where we are by being losers.

It is like we are programmed to expect certain things. It used to be singers had to be super model types or no one was interested supposedly. American Idol et al come on and wouldn't you know people actually just wanted people who can sing not look good.

So it goes with good looking women. They are supposed to be with women their own age and equally attractive: football captain and head cheerleader. It is programming that is everywhere. I saw it when I showed a photo of my gal to a friend's 9 year old and she said, "Ohhhhh, she is way too young for you. ".

It was so ingrained in me that even when women came, and they had that smell, the sound, and even some squirting, there was still doubt. Did I really make that young hottie cum? And there were so many, and still I was like "Did I make you cum really?

Now I know the signs, the body language, the voice of a girl really interested and I took action on it. Thing is I gave up so much pussy and free pussy at that was just because I was convinced I was not worthy of it and was so underconfident.

Saying the women only like you for your money is like saying buy Apple stock. Nobody is going to say that stupid or dispute you for it especially if it is long term, but there are times like now that it is not a good time to buy Apple. I cannot drag someone by the nose and say "Smell that cum! That is how much she likes me. ".

But the easiest thing for other people to see is if a woman is a caring and loving GF type or a ho. I do not question any more. My gal has done everything possible to make me believe, and an old GF is still texting me wanting to know if we are together. If you do not have the confidence to break the mold and want to live your life confining yourself to the expectations of a 9 year old, have at it.

Yes, the women get tons of messages, but you know when I looked at the phone of a woman who was on seeking, almost every guy was some loser trying to get laid for free. I picked out four that were real SD types, the same ones she did, and said they were real. There are not that many quality men out there. For real. Yes, if you think she has feelings for you, she probably does. Do not listen to the fools who have never been on the site or used seeking.

[DramaFree11]

Yeah actually my age difference is a bit over 35 years with all the girls I date. And I KNOW without question there are deep feelings both ways with several of these girls. It's not all that hard to imagine if you think it thru:

Past experience: Guys who are immature. Have a shit job if they have one. Take take take.

You: Charming and successful. Polite. Genuinely nice. Care how she feels. Listen to her ramble on endlessly. Hahaha.

Anyhow you get the point. Any girl who looks past basic looks is bound to fall a bit for many of us. We didn't get where we are by being losers. 😜.

I am currently seeing 6 or 7 girls regularly. A couple are still in MTY, but most are in CDMX, the average age is 23, maybe 22, so there is a 30 year age difference. I love it. I need to steal the line from Elvis, "I am having the best Sex and the most fun in my life. " Most of these girls text me regularly and are just amazing girls. I am heading back to CDMX after work Saturday.

[Buksida1]

I am not connected with this magazine or newspaper and have no financial interest in any of the websites. I was banned from SA and tried Sugardaddy.com with better success than I had on SA. Not as many scammers, actually none yet. Met 3 decent SBs in first week and plan my first insertion tonight. Then another tomorrow, and meeting a third Friday night. Will be tired and limp dicked all weekend.

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[Steve 9696]

If I may ask, what is the typical age difference for those girls who may have developed feelings for you.

My most recent girl is 30 years my junior, and I think she has developed intense feeling for me, and the problem for me was that the feeling is mutual.

She would ask to spend more time with me when I was there in the city without asking or expecting anything else in return. She would display affections with all these little besitos or kisses in the public. Sex with her was simply amazing and we had so much of it when I was there, and it was like she had just discovered the pleasure of sex for the first time, and in a way it kind of is, and kept wanting more.

I don't really how and what to make of this.

Yeah actually my age difference is a bit over 35 years with all the girls I date. And I KNOW without question there are deep feelings both ways with several of these girls. It's not all that hard to imagine if you think it thru:

Past experience: Guys who are immature. Have a shit job if they have one. Take take take.

You: Charming and successful. Polite. Genuinely nice. Care how she feels. Listen to her ramble on endlessly. Hahaha.

Anyhow you get the point. Any girl who looks past basic looks is bound to fall a bit for many of us. We didn't get where we are by being losers. 😜.

[Steve 9696]

Sugardaddy.com

Update. So I created what is basically a blank profile 6 days ago. Basic text, no pic. I have 17 unread messages in my inbox and I have not attempted to communicate with anybody. I have no intention of paying to read them but on what planet do girls approach a guy's profile that says almost nothing with no pic? If anyone needs anymore proof that the site is sketchy, there you go.

Yeah so what's even worse those girls probably did not send those messages. A girl I know was on that site for a while and said guys contacted her and after discussion she found the site had sent them a message from her! Unsolicited! That is shady filthy and downright wrong.

[Rcl 44]

Done SA three times in London and really great each time. Managed to get my first girl for 250. Don't think that will happen anymore. She was amazing. After we hooked up We were going to Zurich together and COVID hit. Boo.

Second time a hot Colombiana. She wouldn't budge off 400. But then she wanted to bring a friend. The original girl was a 9. The friend a 7. But what a time. 5 hours including dinner dancing and room time duo. Wow.

And last is Sarah who's my current girl there. She was set on 400. We finally agreed 400 first night and 300 if we repeated. That worked good. When I flew her to Europe I told her I could only do 200/ day and she was fine with that.

So yeah I think you will do fine with 350-400. Just have to slog thru it a bit as usual!

Curious how old roughly, these women are.

[Ggekko2009]

Maybe I'm a bit soppy but I always try to leave my girls better than I found them. But oftentimes you grow apart and you wonder how they are doing. Well I just heard from Kayla who I last saw six months ago (we were steady monthly for about six months).

She just dropped me a message to thank me for helping her thru that six months. Said she's doing really well but doesn't know where she would be without me. Awwww warms my heart. Will keep an eye out for a cash request but already told her subscribing to her onlyfans was my max. Really think it was genuine.

If I may ask, what is the typical age difference for those girls who may have developed feelings for you.

My most recent girl is 30 years my junior, and I think she has developed intense feeling for me, and the problem for me was that the feeling is mutual.

She would ask to spend more time with me when I was there in the city without asking or expecting anything else in return. She would display affections with all these little besitos or kisses in the public. Sex with her was simply amazing and we had so much of it when I was there, and it was like she had just discovered the pleasure of sex for the first time, and in a way it kind of is, and kept wanting more.

I don't really how and what to make of this.

[FilthyBeaver]

Sugardaddy.com

Update. So I created what is basically a blank profile 6 days ago. Basic text, no pic. I have 17 unread messages in my inbox and I have not attempted to communicate with anybody. I have no intention of paying to read them but on what planet do girls approach a guy's profile that says almost nothing with no pic? If anyone needs anymore proof that the site is sketchy, there you go.

[FilthyBeaver]

As I'm single, I have no issue with giving gifts or money to anyone. A few friends that know what I'm up to as a SD think I'm crazy but I always reason it like this. If I were (traditional) dating a woman closer to my age that didn't have her shit together I'd still be giving her money, paying the power bill, or God knows what else. Now, I would never date a woman anywhere near my age who didn't have her shit together so it's kind of moot: that and most are hideous looking to me.

Giving those resources to someone who still has the opportunity to make smart choices with their life seems like a much better return and knowing that I had a part in her success as a SD /&mentor / benefactor whatever you want to call it really appeals to me. I will eventually become obsolete in her world and things will move on but that's not necessarily a bad thing, it's an opportunity to find a new gem.

I'll draw the line at the friend zone though. I don't need to communicate with them to "stay in touch" unless sex is on the table, even if it's infrequent.

Maybe I'm a bit soppy but I always try to leave my girls better than I found them. But oftentimes you grow apart and you wonder how they are doing. Well I just heard from Kayla who I last saw six months ago (we were steady monthly for about six months).

She just dropped me a message to thank me for helping her thru that six months. Said she's doing really well but doesn't know where she would be without me. Awwww warms my heart. Will keep an eye out for a cash request but already told her subscribing to her onlyfans was my max. Really think it was genuine.

[Steve 9696]

Maybe I'm a bit soppy but I always try to leave my girls better than I found them. But oftentimes you grow apart and you wonder how they are doing. Well I just heard from Kayla who I last saw six months ago (we were steady monthly for about six months).

She just dropped me a message to thank me for helping her thru that six months. Said she's doing really well but doesn't know where she would be without me. Awwww warms my heart. Will keep an eye out for a cash request but already told her subscribing to her onlyfans was my max. Really think it was genuine.

[Steve 9696]

How do you not break her heart? It's obvious she has feelings. Are you going to keep her around until she ends it (which means you could potentially see her as an obligation rather than a fun escape)? She just told you if you end it, you'll "break her heart."

I just told her the truth and she was super happy. That is:

I will never ghost her.

Yes things could fizzle over time if our circumstances change.

But I've seen girls off and on for two to three years and rekindling is easy.

So there's no need to talk about an end. We'll see each other when we can.

All good. Nothing says I have to tell her every time I'm in London.

[The Cane]

From my experience on Seeking, if you filter by age and photo it's better. 18-25 - need charm and lots of work. 26+, know the score and you can negotiate a price immediately. Also a lot of pics are faceapped and usually this will indicate that the lady is an escort and slightly worse looking.

That's it! Almost all of the ones who say they're seeking "platonic" fall into the younger age range. Naive enough to think they're going to get something for little or no effort on their part. Now, they may claim it's all about their time. But, my retort is baby my time is worth a hell of a lot more than yours. So, if we're going to base it off of that, then you ought to be paying me!

[ThickHead99]

From my experience on Seeking, if you filter by age and photo it's better. 18-25 - need charm and lots of work. 26+, know the score and you can negotiate a price immediately. Also a lot of pics are faceapped and usually this will indicate that the lady is an escort and slightly worse looking.

[FilthyBeaver]

How do you not break her heart? It's obvious she has feelings. Are you going to keep her around until she ends it (which means you could potentially see her as an obligation rather than a fun escape)? She just told you if you end it, you'll "break her heart."

So we talk a lot about how it's real or it's not and please don't tell me if it's not. My intuition with my local girl is it's real but with some strings there somewhere. And as I mentioned I think my London girl has a crush on me.

Well there is no doubt now. My London girl writes and says can I ask you a question. Well this is always interesting and the mind goes all sorts of places. But the question was "how long do you think we will be together because I want to prepare myself. I don't want to be suddenly hurt. " And there you have it real feels! Got to say it feels good to know I could break her heart. Of course I never would.