Seeking Arrangements

[The Cane]

Or whatever she claims her name to be! Gentleman, I told you that I would provide you with monthly reports to cover my planned limited Seeking membership. Well, here's my report for January 2022. For those of you experienced with the site, I don't have to tell you how much work it is! I must have contacted 100's and 100's of "women" already, to get only a few to respond to me on the site, followed by even fewer who I have communicated with offline by text and phone. I said "women" because the site is full of fakes, flakes, fraudsters, and scammers. During my first month of membership, I met just two women in person. I was supposed to meet three, but one proved to be a perpetual flake cancelling at the last minute multiple times, so I said to hell with her. Of the other two I met, one we both agreed right off the bat, and for reasons I won't go into, that we should keep it platonic. I agreed to meet her for lunch anyway, and I'm glad I did. She was a quality girl.

Now girl number two? It was bingo! Late 20's, slim, pretty long blonde hair, big round blue eyes, an attractive face, fair white skin with just the right amount of pink in it that I love so, so much, luscious milk white titties, and a nice round butt. YAY-UH! We met for dinner, and the sexual attraction between us was instant and obvious. I mean, I was getting a boner under the table looking this girl and imagining myself inside of her! After dinner, there was hugging and kissing on the lips. You know you're up in there then! But, I chose not to push it and try to have sex with her that same night. No, we were both new at this, and I felt it was best for us to end it for the night on a great note and think about it, and pick it up again if we both felt it was right. We continued to communicate by text, and agreed to get together again in about a week. We agreed to go to an event together, after which time we would have lunch and come back to my place. To make a long story short, we ended up fucking BBFSCIP! That's right no condoms, and I "nutted" inside of her! It's what the both of us wanted from the very start (she admitted that she wanted to fuck me on the first date too). Oh my God Steve! My boy Steve! WTF?

Now don't worry. Before we went there (bareback sex), it was established that she has solid birth control. She can't get pregnant. And we're both clean. So going forward, we will continue to not use condoms, and The Cane will get to enjoy "multiple shots" inside of his new, attractive, blonde, trophy, sugar baby! Without having to worry about impregnating her! I'm sure you guys want to know what the terms of the "arrangement" are. We agreed to meet at least twice a month on a pay-per-meet basis of $250 per meet! For the tier 1 market that I live in, that's a steal! Most of the attractive white girls start out asking for between $500 and $1,000 per meet. With respect to Abby, I could not have asked for anything better. She's hot and has just the look that I like, the price is right, and I'm doing her bareback with no need to pull out. Nut inside! Oh my God! Going into this, I felt like I could have some success. But, I didn't expect so much so soon! I mean, I met Abby within the first couple of weeks on the site! Now, that said, at this point I'm still convinced that after three months on the site, that's going to be enough for me. You have to do way, way too much work wading through knee-deep bullshit to find an absolute diamond like Abby. But, I'm here to add to the others who have said that Seeking can work. You're damn skippy it can work! If you're willing to put in the work (it's a lot). Steve! Got damn! My man! Steve!

Over and out until my February report.

[Gfefan]

Where in Europe are you headed?

Maybe we can work out a deal.

Not sure what you are getting at. Maybe you missed the fact I own a place in Nicaragua. I don't go there for this girl. I go regularly for lots of other reasons. We aren't on any path to shack up. She isn't asking me for monthly support. We have basically transitioned to FWB where I am having truly enjoyable sex with a solid 8, 23 year old who goes out of her way to see me because she enjoys the sex too. From a straight of cost perspective every met with her is less or cost equal than any other reasonable mongering options Managua. And she solves the problem that outside of Managua it's incredible difficult to find options.

I say this not because I care about what you think but just to clarify for others in the forum that are interested in SA as an alternative to other avenues of mongering this sort of outcome is possible. The gems are out there.

In this case the total cost / benefit analysis of the timee and money invested ended up dramatically in my favor.

I am happy for Anna. She is going to likely move to Europe and increase the quality of her life substantially. She is fun, smart and lively and very pretty. I hope she finds someone that will treat her right. She should. And when I am in Europe later this year we are likely to spend a great weekend together that will cost me nothing more than some meals I am more than happy to pay for.

The big head is fine.

[RonhinCruz]

Thinking with your little head. Wait until the big head comes back into focus.

Not sure what you are getting at. Maybe you missed the fact I own a place in Nicaragua. I don't go there for this girl. I go regularly for lots of other reasons. We aren't on any path to shack up. She isn't asking me for monthly support. We have basically transitioned to FWB where I am having truly enjoyable sex with a solid 8, 23 year old who goes out of her way to see me because she enjoys the sex too. From a straight of cost perspective every met with her is less or cost equal than any other reasonable mongering options Managua. And she solves the problem that outside of Managua it's incredible difficult to find options.

I say this not because I care about what you think but just to clarify for others in the forum that are interested in SA as an alternative to other avenues of mongering this sort of outcome is possible. The gems are out there.

In this case the total cost / benefit analysis of the timee and money invested ended up dramatically in my favor.

I am happy for Anna. She is going to likely move to Europe and increase the quality of her life substantially. She is fun, smart and lively and very pretty. I hope she finds someone that will treat her right. She should. And when I am in Europe later this year we are likely to spend a great weekend together that will cost me nothing more than some meals I am more than happy to pay for.

The big head is fine.

[NeilGeorge]

I have som posts up in some of the country forums but never here in the SA board. I just got back from Nicaragua where I have a place and earlier this year I was in Ecuador. In both places I used seeking and with good success. I figured I would just add a report here.

I used SA first in Nicaragua because I spend most my time away from Managua and was looking for a girl to travel with. About a year ago on my first trip I pinged all the relevant girls. I met one for a PPM. True flakita who had experience in Costa Rica where many Nicas go to work. It was ok but too pro for me for another meet. Then I was Managua and there did on meet with Anna. 23, poised thin, gorgeous skin. Dinner with my bad Spanish but it went well enough we went to an autohotel and it was a pretty good experience. I gave her $40 for "taxi" and she seemed happy. I liked her enough I invite That is a very reasonable price. She was beautiful, no kids, thin and game with my bad Spanish. We did this one more time and the sex was even better. So I invited her to meet me for teaching her to surf and travel for a weekend. This is where we really made the full switch. When I picker her up and we were driving to the beach we held hands. That morphed into me fingering her while driving until she orgasmed. GFE. We spent a wonderful weekend hanging, hiking, surfing and having sex 2-3 times a day. Sent her home with a new swimsuit another $40 and a lot of good memories. Do another trip with her to Granada. Yet another amazing weekend including going down on her in an open air palapa inside a volcanic caldera..

Thinking with your little head. Wait until the big head comes back into focus.

[FilthyBeaver]

Don't waste a second on girls like that. In my experience there are tons of hot girls willing to get intimate so long as you're willing to give them the amount they're asking for. I found my stable one and I'm so happy but I keep getting tempted by others that contact me out of the blue. I'm going to meet one soon just because she's so damn cute and she's very clear about the fact that intimacy is something she's after. I doubt I'll change anything but it's nice to feel wanted. Or at least it's nice that my money is wanted, and I'm totally cool with that.

Some of these women on Seeking! They want somebody to give them a steady "allowance" to pay for college through an online arrangement only? No meet up ever! You got to be kidding me right? What guys are doing that? Maybe if you're old and infirm with money to burn? It's usually the much younger ones seeking arrangements like that. Young and dumb. Out of their minds. Good luck! Because if you want this cash, you're giving up that young ass! Anyway, I've decided that I will be providing monthly reports on my experiences with the site. I'm fast approaching one month as a Seeking member, so you guys can expect my report this week. Steve! No spoilers please! I will tell the story by the end of the week. Ciao!

[Gandalf01]

Some of these women on Seeking! They want somebody to give them a steady "allowance" to pay for college through an online arrangement only? No meet up ever! You got to be kidding me right? What guys are doing that? Maybe if you're old and infirm with money to burn? It's usually the much younger ones seeking arrangements like that. Young and dumb. Out of their minds. Good luck! Because if you want this cash, you're giving up that young ass! Anyway, I've decided that I will be providing monthly reports on my experiences with the site. I'm fast approaching one month as a Seeking member, so you guys can expect my report this week. Steve! No spoilers please! I will tell the story by the end of the week. Ciao!

I'm nearly one month into it too. 44 years old in an English university city. I've had a few messages looking for 'platonic sugar daddies' which would involve me getting regular texts asking how my day was and not much more. Maybe a few sexy pics too. Insane.

It's been positive but a lot of work so far. I'll work on a report too!

[RonhinCruz]

I have som posts up in some of the country forums but never here in the SA board. I just got back from Nicaragua where I have a place and earlier this year I was in Ecuador. In both places I used seeking and with good success. I figured I would just add a report here.

I used SA first in Nicaragua because I spend most my time away from Managua and was looking for a girl to travel with. About a year ago on my first trip I pinged all the relevant girls. I met one for a PPM. True flakita who had experience in Costa Rica where many Nicas go to work. It was ok but too pro for me for another meet. Then I was Managua and there did on meet with Anna. 23, poised thin, gorgeous skin. Dinner with my bad Spanish but it went well enough we went to an autohotel and it was a pretty good experience. I gave her $40 for "taxi" and she seemed happy. I liked her enough I invite That is a very reasonable price. She was beautiful, no kids, thin and game with my bad Spanish. We did this one more time and the sex was even better. So I invited her to meet me for teaching her to surf and travel for a weekend. This is where we really made the full switch. When I picker her up and we were driving to the beach we held hands. That morphed into me fingering her while driving until she orgasmed. GFE. We spent a wonderful weekend hanging, hiking, surfing and having sex 2-3 times a day. Sent her home with a new swimsuit another $40 and a lot of good memories. Do another trip with her to Granada. Yet another amazing weekend including going down on her in an open air palapa inside a volcanic caldera.

I leave and we stay in touch. She moved to Costa Rica and the Switzerland where he sister lives. I come back to Nicaragua but she isn't there. Sad. Then on my last day in Nic waiting for my test it turns out she flies back for a few months at home and we cross paths Managua for only a few hours. But she really wants to get together. So do I. She shows up at my Airbnb after 22 hours of travel worried she doesn't have time to get ready. I told her we already traveled together just chill and use my place to shower and relax. She is relieved and she gets off the bus from Costa Rica and taxis to my place. It's hugs and chat. She gets lit her sweats and comes out in a georgeous summer dress. We are going go to lunch but we start kissing and her dress stays on for minutes and we go at it like long separated lovers. She loves me eating her out. I love doing it. Heaven for both. I take her to a nice lunch. We come back, snuggle and pretty soon she wakes up from her travel coma and BBJ, more DATY full on GFE.

She has to catch the bus to her village for her mom's birthday. Never asked for a dime and we are both just happy. And now I am trying to get back before she heads out to Switzerland again. It's the dream SA promises. It might have ruined me for normal mongering.

[Gfefan]

Work has been hectic past few weeks but taking off next. A weeklong trip coming up. Some SBs lined up. Hope it clicks. Followed veteran advice here of lining up more than one, as backups.

My top choices are the less experienced ones (as long as they are a 6+), followed by more experienced as long as they are 7+.

One of those exceptions is an experienced 6. She says she is not experienced in SA but she has got a kid (saw pics) and that she hasn't had a dick inside her since Aug 2020. She explicitly said, "come here, take me for dinner, and later just fuck me good. Whether you pay or not, I don't care" .

Too good to be true but let me see how it all goes.

[The Cane]

Some of these women on Seeking! They want somebody to give them a steady "allowance" to pay for college through an online arrangement only? No meet up ever! You got to be kidding me right? What guys are doing that? Maybe if you're old and infirm with money to burn? It's usually the much younger ones seeking arrangements like that. Young and dumb. Out of their minds. Good luck! Because if you want this cash, you're giving up that young ass! Anyway, I've decided that I will be providing monthly reports on my experiences with the site. I'm fast approaching one month as a Seeking member, so you guys can expect my report this week. Steve! No spoilers please! I will tell the story by the end of the week. Ciao!

[Steve 9696]

Ok fellas. I know I'm considered pretty good at this but seek some advice from other learned souls. Here's the sitch:

Kayla is my sorta long term Tampa girlfriend. I see her 3 days a month every month when I am in

After having trouble finding anyone suddenly I have two and they both seem down. Neither can touch Kayla for pure looks. They are both cute and maybe just OK bodies. Maybe 7's. Angie is a cute Latina and a student. She's been engaged enough and seems down to meet. And when we priorized dinner, dancing, kissing, Netflix, drinking and dinner in, she had the right answer LOL. And Nellie is a black girl who's cute but possibly thick (thought this about Kayla from pics and damn was I wrong!) and she is sooooo on point on the girlfriend thing. Just a chatty bundle of fun. Def more a pro than Angie. But maybe not a pro pro.

So damn I don't want to let either of these girls down. I want to meet them both. But I only have the one night. I need more dicks or more nights. Creative ideas fellas?

Ok Nellie kinda answered the question for me. She sent some pics which were kinda meh but a video that was very sexy and compelling. So this AM we started chatting about meetup specifics and she asks what I like in private. So i ask her if she means explicitly and she says yes. So I just lay it out there. And she's like "damn I love all that but esp fingering and giving and receiving head". Nice! It's def on with Nellie.

[FilthyBeaver]

I'd tell one I can meet for lunch around noon but have to meet a client for a big deal at 5. Tell the 2nd girl you can't meet until after 5. One hotel room, revolving door. Sounds like you answered your own question re Kayla, time to go, too routine / no excitement.

I'm not one for juggling, one at a time is plenty. I'd rather have a bit of a dry spell between girls than always keep one or more on the hook. It's too much of a complication.

Ok fellas. I know I'm considered pretty good at this but seek some advice from other learned souls. Here's the sitch:

Kayla is my sorta long term Tampa girlfriend. I see her 3 days a month every month when I am in town. Her face is an 8/9 and her body is the only full on ten I have ever been with. And we bareback. So what's the problem you say?

Well she's become a bit like a wife to be honest! We started out going out to dinner. Drinking. Clubs. And passionate sex. Oh even went to the sex club together. But more recently she eased me down the slippery slope of wifeness. Started eating in some. Maybe Netflix and chill. Now that's ALL that we do. She actually admitted she prefers this and just did "those things" to attract me but she's a homebody. And she had a bad experience at work that made her not like to be seen in public with me.

So I can hang with this amazing girl at home and fuck her bareback but I am strapped inside my hotel or eating out alone. It just sucks that it's not like it used to be and doesn't appear to be going back.

[Steve 9696]

Ok fellas. I know I'm considered pretty good at this but seek some advice from other learned souls. Here's the sitch:

Kayla is my sorta long term Tampa girlfriend. I see her 3 days a month every month when I am in town. Her face is an 8/9 and her body is the only full on ten I have ever been with. And we bareback. So what's the problem you say?

Well she's become a bit like a wife to be honest! We started out going out to dinner. Drinking. Clubs. And passionate sex. Oh even went to the sex club together. But more recently she eased me down the slippery slope of wifeness. Started eating in some. Maybe Netflix and chill. Now that's ALL that we do. She actually admitted she prefers this and just did "those things" to attract me but she's a homebody. And she had a bad experience at work that made her not like to be seen in public with me.

So I can hang with this amazing girl at home and fuck her bareback but I am strapped inside my hotel or eating out alone. It just sucks that it's not like it used to be and doesn't appear to be going back.

So I've started exploring. I'm doing two nights with her and one with another girl. I just tell her I am only in town for two nights obviously. If you recall last time on my free night I had a great date but no sex. Ok thank you next. So here is my problem.

I've got one Night without Kayla. Top spot was going to a 27!year old Thai girl. She reminds me a lot of Anna at Olina in London. She's def a pro but seems like she'll bring the GFE. Well she made things easier by saying she had to work Sat nights. So we are going to meetup for brunch (got to get rid of Kayla) so that is cool and I still have my night open for another girl.

After having trouble finding anyone suddenly I have two and they both seem down. Neither can touch Kayla for pure looks. They are both cute and maybe just OK bodies. Maybe 7's. Angie is a cute Latina and a student. She's been engaged enough and seems down to meet. And when we priorized dinner, dancing, kissing, Netflix, drinking and dinner in, she had the right answer LOL. And Nellie is a black girl who's cute but possibly thick (thought this about Kayla from pics and damn was I wrong!) and she is sooooo on point on the girlfriend thing. Just a chatty bundle of fun. Def more a pro than Angie. But maybe not a pro pro.

So damn I don't want to let either of these girls down. I want to meet them both. But I only have the one night. I need more dicks or more nights. Creative ideas fellas?

[FilthyBeaver]

Yes, I do agree that you don't pay for a meet & greet. If she's demanding money for that she falls into the category of a desperate girl and I'm not interested.

I have her on straight allowance rather than ppm. Never considered this before but it works with this girl. She needs a certain amount and I'm ok with it. I don't really keep track of the comings and goings but as I said, I'm happy. If that changes I'll recalibrate but for me for now she's a keeper. For reference, we used 500 as the goal and worked into the allowance number. She sleeps over and neither of us watches the clock but we're both really busy and I'd like to think she's there because she wants to be most of the time. If not, I'm ok with being lied to. The bottom line is I'm attracted to her and I don't know where you meet someone much younger than you for an ongoing physical relationship outside of SA. The bonus for me is there is a real mental connection too.

Can you clarify whether you are giving your 9. 5 money and or gifts in a non transactional type of way or your doing it straight up for free?

BTW the one thing he said right was don't ever pay for a meet and greet. I am sure you agree with that.

[Steve 9696]

Disagree with almost everything. Read my lengthy post a few pages back about my experiences on SA. It was night and day between premium and diamond and mooches (I call them party girls) don't get past chat. I'm in a very happy arrangement with one right now, she's a 9.5 with an 11 personality. I want to spend my time with her and the feeling is mutual because she comes whenever she wants with no discussion of money. Last thing I see is a mooch, I see an engaging girl of my dreams who's trying to make it on her own with no help from anyone and I'm glad to be able to help her. There are limits to what I'm willing to do and she knows I'm not jealous or possessive so she can have as many as she wants so long as she respects my time and our plans. She's got a full time job and who knows how many arrangements, I don't care or care to know as I'm getting what I want. I went into SA with my eyes wide open trying to understand their motivations for being there. With that information I figured out who I was interested in meeting and wrote the rest of. It was time consuming and oh so painful but I gave no regrets, I found a gem.

FYI In my top tier coastal city I've been quoted as low as 300 and as high as 1 k. Most are 5-8 and at least half are 5.

Can you clarify whether you are giving your 9. 5 money and or gifts in a non transactional type of way or your doing it straight up for free?

BTW the one thing he said right was don't ever pay for a meet and greet. I am sure you agree with that.

[FilthyBeaver]

Disagree with almost everything. Read my lengthy post a few pages back about my experiences on SA. It was night and day between premium and diamond and mooches (I call them party girls) don't get past chat. I'm in a very happy arrangement with one right now, she's a 9.5 with an 11 personality. I want to spend my time with her and the feeling is mutual because she comes whenever she wants with no discussion of money. Last thing I see is a mooch, I see an engaging girl of my dreams who's trying to make it on her own with no help from anyone and I'm glad to be able to help her. There are limits to what I'm willing to do and she knows I'm not jealous or possessive so she can have as many as she wants so long as she respects my time and our plans. She's got a full time job and who knows how many arrangements, I don't care or care to know as I'm getting what I want. I went into SA with my eyes wide open trying to understand their motivations for being there. With that information I figured out who I was interested in meeting and wrote the rest of. It was time consuming and oh so painful but I gave no regrets, I found a gem.

FYI In my top tier coastal city I've been quoted as low as 300 and as high as 1 k. Most are 5-8 and at least half are 5.

Instead of getting hit up for $200 to meet these mooches, if you are a Diamond member they ask $400 up front for the privilege of taking them to lunch or dinner and you will be spending another $200 on the restaurant check. They order the most expensive items on the menu to see if you flinch.

Then they ask for double for a PPM. I recommend you dress down and tell them you may not be the richest guy on the site but you are the nicest and most genuine. If it is all about the money for these mooches, then you would not be satisfied long term with them anyway.

This is supposed to be a mutual job interview with no pressure on either person. How many people, except mooches, ask for money to show up at a job interview? Stop pandering to these mooches!