Seeking Arrangements

[Mono Sin Luz]

Hi all,
What are some amazing Seeking cities in America? Don't want to stop at Cdmx this time.

I have never done it, just browse from time to time, but maybe check Miami. Depending on your type / taste you may find luck there.

[AmericanPi]

Hi all,

I have a weekend to kill the first weekend of June. I'm from CA but heading east. I can spend the weekend anywhere before I head home. Would love some recommendations on which cities have the most abundant seeking supply.

I have done NYC and it's great. Might do change of pace. Thought Chicago might be good that something is going on that weekend and hotels are north of $800 a night.

What are some amazing Seeking cities in America? Don't want to stop at Cdmx this time.

[AmericanPi]

Time for the occasional inventory of red flags for the new and also fully initiated. If you encounter these, just run away.

Girls with model photos.

Girls who say what they offer is to be a great listener and phone / text exchanges.

Girls who have been on multiple years (they're basically sex workers at that point).

Girls who have multiple profiles.

Girls who send nudes or similar right away.

Girls who call you baby, honey, sugar, or similar.

Girls who say "I know my worth".

Girls whose profiles include photos in front of expensive stores or cars.

Girls who have obvious face fillers when they're under 25.

Girls who say they are in some city now, like their profile is phoenix but they say "currently in Miami". These are escorts.

[Kazeu]

This is why on first meet, I never meet at my home base, whether it be an airbnb or a hotel. And never give my real name. These days it has become absolutely ridiculous the amount of "airbrushing" and filters that the girls use. They use the filters to slim their waists, increase their breast size and remove all imperfections. None of the pictures are real. I blame the downfall of online sites on filters. I used to be able to select a decent looking girl from online sites and have a decent hit rate, these days, my hit rate is like 1 in 100. No more online site unseen girls for me.

I've had bad experiences with girls both using bogus pictures, but also lying about their age. Then of course there is bad hygiene; yuck! These days I usually won't meet unless I video chat first, or if not, agree ahead of time on a cancellation fee if "we are not a match. " I don't think losing 100 USD is worth the risk of her running to the hotel desk crying rape, telling her friend or pimp that you robbed her, or anything else along these lines that could lead to way more trouble than it's worth. Even in the end if you make it out unscathed, do you really want to spend the next 5 hours talking to the cops when they might not even speak your language? There's all kinds of shady figures in this lifestyle, and paying a small cancellation fee is nothing compared to full scale blackmail.

I've been surprised both ways. Sometimes they look better in person. One thing you can almost never tell for sure is if they have acne scars. Because even without airbrushing their photos, they can put so much makeup on that it's almost impossible to tell from a picture if they have extensive pockmarks. Then in person you will know, and it gets worse as makeup rubs off during the session.

I think the best thing is to have an "acceptable" threshold. So the bare minimum can be "this isn't what I was hoping for, but it will work. " Anything below that I would just offer a small cancellation fee and get out of there, or get her out of there, as quickly as possible. Because next time they might look better than their pictures. I don't normally do this, but I've taken chances on blurred out faces a couple of times, and been pleasantly surprised. Navigating this world will never be 100% perfect, but try to plan for the best haul possible.

[AmericanPi]

if not, agree ahead of time on a cancellation fee if "we are not a match. " I don't think losing 100 USD is worth the risk of her running to the hotel desk crying rape, telling her friend or pimp that you robbed her, or anything else along these lines that could lead to way more trouble than it's worth. Even in the end if you make it out unscathed, do you really want to spend the next 5 hours talking to the cops when they might not even speak your language? There's all kinds of shady figures in this lifestyle, and paying a small cancellation fee is nothing compared to full scale blackmail.

I can be a broken record on this point, but I totally agree. I have paid girls the entire amount just to part ways peacefully. If you get the sense that a girl is a loose cannon, and could do something drastic (Eg accuse you of rape because she got pissed off about something you said) your best bet is to just do what you need to do to part ways peacefully. It's like in my martial arts training, they drill into you that if you ever have to use this stuff you'd have been way better off just running away. Same thing. Don't get penny wise over 500 bucks or something. One phone call from the police and it's no longer worth it.

One girl got upset after we had sex. She was new and I think it make her feel like a working girl. She left in a huff. I ended up writing a series of painfully nice text messages (" I'm so sorry things didn't work out." " It was clear we weren't feeling it and I'm glad you were so kind in how we parted ways") just to create an evidence log of how we walked away without drama.

[VanessasClient]

If they ask you for a number before meeting, lets say they ask you for 500 usd and you agree. But when you meet her, she doesn't look nearly as good as her pictures. Do you just call it off or do you tell her how it is and say she's only worth 300?

Yes, it sounds like you are much more price insensitive than I. If I had your money, I think I would just stay stateside and work seeking there.

I've had bad experiences with girls both using bogus pictures, but also lying about their age. Then of course there is bad hygiene; yuck! These days I usually won't meet unless I video chat first, or if not, agree ahead of time on a cancellation fee if "we are not a match. " I don't think losing 100 USD is worth the risk of her running to the hotel desk crying rape, telling her friend or pimp that you robbed her, or anything else along these lines that could lead to way more trouble than it's worth. Even in the end if you make it out unscathed, do you really want to spend the next 5 hours talking to the cops when they might not even speak your language? There's all kinds of shady figures in this lifestyle, and paying a small cancellation fee is nothing compared to full scale blackmail.

I've been surprised both ways. Sometimes they look better in person. One thing you can almost never tell for sure is if they have acne scars. Because even without airbrushing their photos, they can put so much makeup on that it's almost impossible to tell from a picture if they have extensive pockmarks. Then in person you will know, and it gets worse as makeup rubs off during the session.

I think the best thing is to have an "acceptable" threshold. So the bare minimum can be "this isn't what I was hoping for, but it will work. " Anything below that I would just offer a small cancellation fee and get out of there, or get her out of there, as quickly as possible. Because next time they might look better than their pictures. I don't normally do this, but I've taken chances on blurred out faces a couple of times, and been pleasantly surprised. Navigating this world will never be 100% perfect, but try to plan for the best haul possible.

[The Cane]

So, several weeks ago I showed you guys a Seeking girl who put up a pic with spermatozoa on her nose! And now this from a different one! LMAO!

[GoingDumb]

She obviously wants to make you happy so tell her you feel teeth. If she can help it I'm guessing she would. My ex had a really small mouth and I could feel teeth all the time but I was never really a BJ guy anyway so she didn't and I was fine with it.

Sorry, I meant more technique wise haha.

[Elvis 2008]

I have had amazing experiences on SA in Mexico, Peru, and Colombia but am now looking to expand in South America.

The girls I like are 18-23, no plastic, non pros, feminine, I don't care if they are dark or light, and they don't have to be models, I am cool with 7's and 8's LOL.

BA and SP seem too expensive for me, maybe the 2nd tier cities in either country or anyone ever been to Asuncion Paraguay look off the beaten path?

What new city should I try?

Paraguay is part of the Mercosur group and so Paraguayans are free to work in any of the Mercosur nations like Brazil and Argentina. Thing is Asuncion is inexpensive and a lot of the younger girls are not gong to venture out to greener pastures right away. So it and Colombia are probably the cheapest two places in the Western world to get laid, but Asuncion is small and boring.

Unlike Colombia though, Paraguay is not easy to get to. You had to have a yellow fever vaccine, pay for a visa, and would pay more for flights, so you are talking about probably a $1000 more to get there than Colombia. If you are willing to camp out there for months, you can get your money back. For a nonstop fuckathon, it would be decent, but the women are not going to be too sophisticated as they probably have never left their home nation. If you find the woman of your dreams there, and you can find the 9-10's there as many Paraguayan women are stunning, what are you going to do? Fly twelve hours to see them? A six hour flight where you meet in the middle?

That said, given how small the population is, I would not rely on seeking. I wish I had been much more forward there than I was. Still, back then, that would have been a sex not sugar daddy desire.

The other place that intrigued me was not Sao Paulo or Rio but Curitiba Brazil. I have been told it is the nicest city in Brazil, well run, founded by European settlers with a lot of blondes. But while the city itself is cheaper, it is hard to get to and you have to pay for a visa so you are looking at hundreds more in expenses. And because you have a smaller population, you are going to have dig deeper and harder than just relying on seeking. And the sex to be had in Sao Paulo is so good I am not sure why you would go to Curitiba. Again, if you find your dream sugar baby, the costs of flights and time to meet are going to be insane.

The same could be said about the Igauzu falls region where there are a lot of beauties. The woman in the Mancora region of Peru IMO were way prettier than the ones in Lima but there are not many of them.

As someone who has ventured into the Colombian country side, I can tell you that there is gold in them thar hills. The cost is not prohibitive but it is the time. Add on three or four hours to whatever your flight time is. Also, the people in the places I am thinking of look are beauties but they look much the same, so an American is going to stick out. It is not going to take long for people to figure out why you are there, and they may not approve. It is much easier to blend in in Bogota than even places like Cartagena or Medellin where there is already a huge backlash against sex tourism.

Practically speaking then, if you looking to hunt for sugar baby diamonds in the rough, Mexican cities off the beaten path like Leon, Puebla, Toluca, and Hermosillo are realistically better. Flying to secondary Mexican cities is cheap financially and time wise in comparison to these other places. Realistically speaking, you can find a SB in those places, but it is going to be a harder hunt than CDMX.

[FilthyBeaver]

She obviously wants to make you happy so tell her you feel teeth. If she can help it I'm guessing she would. My ex had a really small mouth and I could feel teeth all the time but I was never really a BJ guy anyway so she didn't and I was fine with it.

Any advice on how to give a girl BJ tips? I've had good ones before but not sure how to tell a girl to do it. One, like steve's report, was super soft but I have no idea how she did it haha. Girl I've been seeing does a decent BJ but I feel some teeth, maybe because she has a small mouth? I love it when she sucks her juices off my fingers but hasn't translated to bjs.

[GoingDumb]

Any advice on how to give a girl BJ tips? I've had good ones before but not sure how to tell a girl to do it. One, like steve's report, was super soft but I have no idea how she did it haha. Girl I've been seeing does a decent BJ but I feel some teeth, maybe because she has a small mouth? I love it when she sucks her juices off my fingers but hasn't translated to bjs.

[AmericanPi]

Brazil has been on the radar for a while.

Wife says she wants to go if I go to Brazil. Sad!

Words I live in fear of: Oh, that sounds like a great business trip. Since you already have the hotel paid for and I've always wanted to go, we should totally make it a family trip!

[Gfefan]

Brazil has been on the radar for a while.

Wife says she wants to go if I go to Brazil. Sad!

Well my friend if you are binging Latinas you got to get to Brazil. Best girl scene on the planet. Plus I'm flying an affectionate hot as fuck 9 to Barcelona and Mya the ten (yep) is looking to hang out also. It's paradise. And cheap as fuck compared to US (and Euro if you find the right girl).

[Steve 9696]

So after my last two experiences I was getting ready to throw in the towel and admit US Seeking bites and there are no gems. Hold on. Not so fast! Connected with a hottie earlier this week and we agreed 300 which is unheard of in big cities and she a smoking hot Mexicana. A little worried about a scam at that price but the vibe was quite different like she asked if she had to drive far to me and we don't vibe could I cover her gas. And when we changed day she asked if she could change the time. Little details that scammers likely don't do.

Anyhow it wasn't a scam and it was absolutely epic. We met for lunch and had some awesome sushi. The vibe was electric. Just a bubbly chatty fun girl. Just my type. Unfortunately when I went for the "let's get out of here" she said she had to take her grandmother to the doctors and was going to be tied up till 6. I know this sounds scammy but I could just tell she wasn't going to stiff me. Vibe was too good. And she's a real girl with a real job. The perfect Seeking girl.

So sure enough it's legit and we keep in touch right up to when she shows at the hotel. I was able to get the Renaissance for $89 on Hotwire so that was sweet. We get some drinks at the bar and after a few sips take them up to the room. Things start a little slow but eventually there is some tentative kissing. Then she asks to shower and I join her a few minutes later. Kissing still a bit light but once I get her going she starts to eat my face ravenously.

The sex was absolutely mind blowing. She had a strong O during the fingering in Steve 2 she loooved that and again later during sex and round 2 DATY. She has more of what I call the paint roller orgasm (see prior posts) rather than clamping but it's real and visceral. The Steve 2 was epic and very long. But eventually we fucked. Primarily in mish and I ended up cumming hard on her tummy.

We had a nice break and drank our drinks and chatted. On returning from the bathroom she started kissing me and round 2 was on. This round consisted mostly of a 20+ minute blowjob. I'the never had one like it before. After regular BJ I put her on BLS which was great but then I asked her to just lick my shaft. Most girls lick a bit and then return to BJ. Instead she kept doing s long lick from balls to tip. Lingering with her mouth on the tip for just a second then repeated this. She did this over and over and over again for at least 15 minutes. It was kinda like edging. Because it felt soooo good but every time I wanted to but it in her mouth. But she just repeated and repeated. It was like s pleasurable torture.

Eventually she went for the goods but didn't get them tho I was close. I was a little soft but went to fuck her in the Steve position. Damn she felt fine. In only about ten strokes I was hard as a brick again. We fucked absolutely forever (oi oi oi!) but couldnt quite get er done and packed it in.

Nearly 2. 5 hours in the bedroom. Holy fuck. What a girl. Proof once again that gems do exist if you slog thru the BS. Going to def fly her with me. I'm smitten.

[Steve 9696]

Crosss fingers for me fellas. Hope to be dropping a report tonight or tomorrow on a real gem. And that they still exist in the US. Cross fingers for me and stay tuned!