Seeking Arrangements

[CenTexCrash]

Got a handful of girls in MTY / GDL / CDMX all asking the same question "What are you seeking on this app?"

How to be on my best behavior when saying.

I just put down $180 for 90 days on SA to seek Sugar. I am based in Texas, BUT travel to MTY (or replace with "GDL / CDMX") often. I want to make my short visits to MTY more memorable / enjoyable with a cool local gal. Instead of an allowance I do per visit. Like Tinder but girl gets propina. Cut to the chase with me and she can worry about her monthly allowance demands with some other dud.

Also do city hop trips like MTY-GDL-CDMX-Quito-Guayaquil-Lima-Buenos Aires and want dates lined up at each destination OR if going direct to Puerto Vallarta, can fly a MTY/GDL girl to hang with me at PV.

Surely these girls get DM'd by the traveling businessman / monger types for short time all the time (?)

EDIT: I feel like I just untangled myself typing this

[DramaFree11]

This is probably me over thinking but what if mini travel bulletins backfires on me?

Say I land one girl for upcoming weekend trip to Puerto Vallarta. And I have 39 other applicants that didn't make the cut. Are those 39 runner ups going to blacklist me as that ahole that didn't take them to PV that one time?

Or nah?

Be careful not to over promise and not be able to deliver. Be as honest as you can. No need to lie too much on SA, it will eventually backfire. That is the great thing about SA you can be way more honest then normal dating.

[Elvis 2008]

This is probably me over thinking but what if mini travel bulletins backfires on me?

Say I land one girl for upcoming weekend trip to Puerto Vallarta. And I have 39 other applicants that didn't make the cut. Are those 39 runner ups going to blacklist me as that ahole that didn't take them to PV that one time?

Or nah?

Let me put this in perspective. You have 40 women and have preferences 1 through 40. #1 agrees and then blows you off. Then she is not #1 because no #1 woman would tell you something and back out. She is not on the list.

My father told me the best way to get to know someone is to take a trip with them, and he was right. Because if I am extending my time and money to you in order for us to have fun, and you make some sorry ass excuse to not come, you are selfish, and I do not think selfish people do well in life. I know of NO sugar baby prospect I have blown off who has done well in life.

As for the other women, it sounds egotistical to think of yourself as the prize, but that really is how we should think of it. What you are saying CTC in a round about way is that the women feel degraded by being thought of as #3 or #10. Well, that is an excuse for the ones who are losers. A winner is going to prove to you that she should have been the #1 woman and not #3 or #10.

I get what you are saying. We men have been trained to think all women are special and numbering them is degrading, but you want a SB who steps up to the plate and delivers versus one who feels sorry for herself and becomes the victim.

So yeah, if #1 blows you off, then you say "Next" and #2 becomes #1. As for being offended, should you be offended at getting into Harvard after being on the wait list? Getting a scholarship to a school that has you as the last person to get one? No, you should be grateful, and that is the way the women should be. If they are not like that, they are losers, and you are better off without them.

[CarloRogue]

This is probably me over thinking but what if mini travel bulletins backfires on me?

Say I land one girl for upcoming weekend trip to Puerto Vallarta. And I have 39 other applicants that didn't make the cut. Are those 39 runner ups going to blacklist me as that ahole that didn't take them to PV that one time?

Or nah?

Nah. Overthinking it. The minute you disengage on a girl in the sugar bowl, she forgets you. The hard part is keeping them engaged until you get them to show up. If they're even moderately attractive, they'll have an overflowing inbox of offers. That said, most of my experience is in major US cities, where SD's way outnumber SB's. Things might be a bit different south of the border, but I still think the flake factor of hot girls is pretty much a global characteristic. BTW, you haven't landed your PV girl until the plane lands and she's there with you. Having backup options, especially on short term travel, is a very good idea.

[CenTexCrash]

This is probably me over thinking but what if mini travel bulletins backfires on me?

Say I land one girl for upcoming weekend trip to Puerto Vallarta. And I have 39 other applicants that didn't make the cut. Are those 39 runner ups going to blacklist me as that ahole that didn't take them to PV that one time?

Or nah?

[NapataJohn]

A few days back someone here posted that they used vanilla gift cards. Best to use them.

This is from SA officially.

How can I pay without using my personal credit card?

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Hey folks,

Please provide insight if anyone has subscribed using credit / debit cards issued in India. I have tried couple of times and the payment is getting declined. I have done international transactions using the same card recently. Thanks!

[DramaFree11]

Almost on a whim, did a 90 day subscription with the promo sale.

Set sights on Monterrey MX, but also wrote in profile "based in Dallas but travels to Latin America, Southeast Asia, Middle East, India, Philippines. ".

I hope I'm doimg this right to have guaranteed ST dates upon arrival to each far away place.

Not a problem at all. I do it all the time, so does Elvis. I just got back from a very successful trip to MTY.

[CenTexCrash]

Almost on a whim, did a 90 day subscription with the promo sale.

Set sights on Monterrey MX, but also wrote in profile "based in Dallas but travels to Latin America, Southeast Asia, Middle East, India, Philippines. ".

I hope I'm doimg this right to have guaranteed ST dates upon arrival to each far away place.

[Drogo420]

Hey folks,

Please provide insight if anyone has subscribed using credit / debit cards issued in India. I have tried couple of times and the payment is getting declined. I have done international transactions using the same card recently. Thanks!

[Steve 9696]

That's a great metaphor. I like that. But the real jam is when a box of Sees candies is broken out at grandma's and offered to you, do you say "oh grandma, I sure hope I pick a highly conversational girl who's a **** under the sheets"? Will grandma know you mean the truffle creams? Only one way to find out Steve.

Well if gramma wasn't on the wrong side of the grass, I would surely do just that! LOL.

So while I did have good sex with Melany I did consider my trip generally disappointing. The fail with Vanessa and Melany's flakiness just kinda put me in a sour mood. This is when having a bit of a harem, both platonic and sexual helps. Next night I just start pinging lots of girls I know.

I have three platonic SA girls that we never met but have become penpals. I lay out my girl troubles to them and they are highly sympathetic. (I listen to the ups and downs in their lives also). Really felt nice just to have some company in my down state. And I hit up Alexa (who I took to Miami last time and should have this time). She's been a little cool towards me of late; not engaging in chat. Well she dives right in and we catch up on things (I don't share girl stories with her obviously) and she says she's totally down to travel with me again any time anywhere. Was a huge ego boost and she is hot AF — legit 9 and a super fine person to boot.

Anyhow just felt so good to have a support system amongst my SA girls. Highly recommend both keeping in touch for future sex and for platonic as well — having girlfriends of any stripe is really nice.

[AmericanPi]

That's a great metaphor. I like that. But the real jam is when a box of Sees candies is broken out at grandma's and offered to you, do you say "oh grandma, I sure hope I pick a highly conversational girl who's a **** under the sheets"? Will grandma know you mean the truffle creams? Only one way to find out Steve.

Well SA remains as usual like a box of chocolates. I have been super fortunate to consistently pull the truffle creams. But recently the nut clusters have been invading, lowering my batting average significantly.

My crowning disappointment of my trip was Vanessa. I found her two weeks ago. We chatted nightly. So smart. So sexy. And we agree to meetup for $500. (Big city lots of girls asking 700 and up. Yikes.) we have absolutely the most epic dinner. And she is a legit 9. 5 for me. We are so on the same page. Laugh soooo much. As we both come back from the restroom after dinner we are face to face getting ready to go and she kisses me full on the lips. A nice meaningful kiss. Literally first time ever a girl has made the first move. We go for a pedicab ride that is so fun. I pull her face to me and we kiss some more. She has her hand on my thigh. All the classic IOI tells.

So we get dropped at the hotel as prearranged with the driver. But at the elevator she balks and says she has to get up early. I am really surprised at this because we confirmed before she had cleared her night for me. Thinking quickly I say just one drink and she agrees. But in the room after two kisses of reasonable engagement and passion she says she has to go. I guess I coulda pushed harder but even after a bit more imploring she is insistent.

[Steve 9696]

Well SA remains as usual like a box of chocolates. I have been super fortunate to consistently pull the truffle creams. But recently the nut clusters have been invading, lowering my batting average significantly.

My crowning disappointment of my trip was Vanessa. I found her two weeks ago. We chatted nightly. So smart. So sexy. And we agree to meetup for $500. (Big city lots of girls asking 700 and up. Yikes.) we have absolutely the most epic dinner. And she is a legit 9. 5 for me. We are so on the same page. Laugh soooo much. As we both come back from the restroom after dinner we are face to face getting ready to go and she kisses me full on the lips. A nice meaningful kiss. Literally first time ever a girl has made the first move. We go for a pedicab ride that is so fun. I pull her face to me and we kiss some more. She has her hand on my thigh. All the classic IOI tells.

So we get dropped at the hotel as prearranged with the driver. But at the elevator she balks and says she has to get up early. I am really surprised at this because we confirmed before she had cleared her night for me. Thinking quickly I say just one drink and she agrees. But in the room after two kisses of reasonable engagement and passion she says she has to go. I guess I coulda pushed harder but even after a bit more imploring she is insistent.

Long story short she thought the $500 was dinner only and never agreed to sex. Obviously this is super naive but is what it is. I dropped her a little for her trouble but we are done. I am so bummed. I was totally smitten and thought it was on and crashed And burned. Just goes to show SA is never a completely sure thing. Boo.

So the next day I grab a hooker on P411 and release the hounds. Totally lame and quick and no GFE but it took the edge off. Good to know you can still use P411 on short notice to pull a pro.

Next two nights it's a different girl (9 face 7 body) and with her it's clear sex is on the table right away. No hesitation and starts turning down the sheets and getting undressed when we hit the room. LOL. So we have sex 3 times over the next two days and you would think that was great. And the sex itself was very good. But she is soo boring and meek at the dinner table, in contrast to being quite the spicy Colombiana in bed. An she is super late both times which just puts me in a bad mood.

Anyhow the point there is I come to SA for the WHOLE girl. Not just sex. So in one case the best girl on the planet. But no sex. And the other a real meh personality but good sex. I want the whole girl dammit! Want those truffle creams. Not the nut clusters!

Beats nothing but my trip was subpar. Boo. Makes me appreciate Layla tho for all her faults it's comfortable and easy with her.

[Steve 9696]

4.) Do the girls have to have paid subscriptions to reply to direct messages?

Nope. They can buy some premium features but all girls can list and chat for free.

[CenTexCrash]

4.) Do the girls have to have paid subscriptions to reply to direct messages?

[Jimmy Boy 99]

Created a free profile over 6 months ago, seldom log in. Thinking of taking the plunge.

1.) Can you pay using a pre-paid Visa gift card?

2.) Are there any introductory promo / promo codes / referral codes that might shave off just a little bit?

3.) Following local dating sites in East Asia, does SA have algorithms / flags that frown on you if you're immediately messaging girl to continue contact outside of SA onto WhatsApp / FB / tg / etc?

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