Seeking Arrangements

[Elvis 2008]

The problem with you Xpartan is you read an article in the Washington Post and you are like, "Oh, that is all exactly on point". I refer to a Christian group not because I care about them but just because they had the data I wanted to refer to, and you go off on this Christian angle.

It is amazing how the political BS takes over everything and can get even smart people to turn their mind off.

So you take this guy Spieler and because the Washington Post calls him an expert, you totally buy into it Xpartan.

Valtrex reduces HSV transmission rate by 75% so why he is even talking about condoms and HSV when Valtrex have been proven ineffective?

Active gonorrhea is successfully treated 100% of the time with antibiotics in both sexes so why is he even talking about condom use to prevent that disease? For prophylaxis, antibiotics beat condoms and it is not even close.

The vaccine Gardasil has significant risk reduction against HPV but condoms do not.

Then you have the risk of allergy to latex. That runs up around 5 to 10% with rare sudden death being reported with latex exposure.

With that data now look at this quote again "As somebody who is completely devoted to improving public health, I know that any message that minimizes the role and importance of correct and consistent condom use can have an extremely negative effect on preventing HIV and other STDs. ".

Uh sorry. I do not see someone dedicated to health. I see a "scientist" likely paid off by the condom industry. In fact, I question the purpose of the entire study, which is not A study but a compilation of a 100+ studies, because to me it looks like an attempted blowjob to the condom industry.

As for religious groups, I look at their economic interests instead of their moral virtuosity. They want to have as many members as they can and any form of birth control gets in the way of that. Bashing condom use for them in my mind is the same reason they really have for bashing abortion.

So here you are putting in this right-left debate when a guy really just wanted to know how to get to bareback. That is it, just information.

Didn't find UNIVERSAL protection? Sure, even 1% failure makes it less than universal. For HIV, that's 15%.

Sure 85% effectiveness is worse than 100%, but I'll fucking take it vs zero.Your life. Your risks, but stop spreading BS to support your lifestyle choices.

What are the chance of getting HIV from one random sexual encounter? That is actually a trick question, and you have bought into it.

Because you have to ask what kind of sex right? You are just assuming it is for vaginal sex right? Well, is it? How often does HIV transmission occur with vaginal sex? And with anal sex? And how often do anaphylaxis and latex allergies occur with condom use?

Honestly, Xpartan, have you done these calculations or are you just listening to a "scientist" and assuming he does not have an agenda?

Science is making a hypothesis and collecting data and seeing whether or not the hypothesis is true. Science is not making a hypothesis, collecting data, and rejecting the data and keeping the hypothesis. That is what this guy Spieler did, and the Washington Post is rushing to give this a guy a platform? Why?

Here is my take on the data: Condoms have definite benefit with HIV prevention with anal sex and with pregnancy prevention. Outside of those two things, the potential benefits of condom use are either non existent or so small that they do not overcome the risk of latex allergies.

If you have other data, Xpartan, I would like to see it but quit using this Democrat bullshit tactic of wanting people to bow down to some hack who the media certifies as an expert. Real scientists do not ignore data.

[The Cane]

Sagami 001 is actually 0. 018 mm, but Okamoto 0. 01 is real 0. 01 mm. Also Sagami 002 is actual 0. 02 mm, and it's considerably cheaper, so is this extra 0. 002 mm thinness really worth extra dough? Maybe someone here could compare.

I've tried Okamoto 001, and it's a real deal. They sell in regular or large size, so buy wisely. BUT! I bought 2 packages from 2 different sellers and felt something was off the second time. Don't know if I got a knock off or if I was just imagining things.

Where do you order your Okamato condoms from? I looked at their site and don't see how to indicate that you want large versus regular. I liked the Sagamis for their thinness, but finally gave up on them due to too many problems trying to get them on, with half the time failing. If I can find a similar thin, large, unlubricated condom, I would try it.

https://www.okamotoglobal.com/

[Nounce]

Sagami 001 is actually 0. 018 mm, but Okamoto 0. 01 is real 0. 01 mm. Also Sagami 002 is actual 0. 02 mm, and it's considerably cheaper, so is this extra 0. 002 mm thinness really worth extra dough? Maybe someone here could compare.

I've tried Okamoto 001, and it's a real deal. They sell in regular or large size, so buy wisely. BUT! I bought 2 packages from 2 different sellers and felt something was off the second time. Don't know if I got a knock off or if I was just imagining things.

Thanks for the info. For some reason, I don't see Okamoto 001 available in local stores and Sagami 001 is sold out often. I probably will try Okamoto next time based on your experience.

[Xpartan]

The most popular one is probably Sagami 001.

Sagami 001 is actually 0. 018 mm, but Okamoto 0. 01 is real 0. 01 mm. Also Sagami 002 is actual 0. 02 mm, and it's considerably cheaper, so is this extra 0. 002 mm thinness really worth extra dough? Maybe someone here could compare.

I've tried Okamoto 001, and it's a real deal. They sell in regular or large size, so buy wisely. BUT! I bought 2 packages from 2 different sellers and felt something was off the second time. Don't know if I got a knock off or if I was just imagining things.

[Nounce]

I am primarily using SA for Medellin. The forum there is a combination of pros and non-pros. I am trying to figure out the set of questions I should ask, cues I should look for to filter out the pros. Would love to get insight on how you go about doing that.

Just talk to them and it won't take long for you to find out. Pros usually are more efficient. If they tell you a price when you ask "que buscas? I think that will be what you consider as pro. Pictures will be a good indicator too. Some that I think are non-pros have showed me their homework, school schedule, or ask me to help them their English homework. Some ponder about if they really want to do it. Some are distressed financially. Most of the ones I know are not out there fucking guys everyday so the label is not really that important to me.

[Akibono]

I personally never suggest it. I let the woman take the I initiative, that's how I know she's mentally (and emotionally) prepared for it.

Do you have brand names.

Sagami. 02 or. 01.

[DramaFree11]

If they are willing to meet you at a hotel or at your place or their place without checking you out first, like with a picture of your face or with a phone call or with a meet-and-greet, then they are likely to be pros. This is not a hard rule, of course. But at the end of the day, what kind of girl is willing to hook up with you without seeing your face first?

Great advice, as always.

[Midwestern]

I am primarily using SA for Medellin. The forum there is a combination of pros and non-pros. I am trying to figure out the set of questions I should ask, cues I should look for to filter out the pros. Would love to get insight on how you go about doing that.

If they are willing to meet you at a hotel or at your place or their place without checking you out first, like with a picture of your face or with a phone call or with a meet-and-greet, then they are likely to be pros. This is not a hard rule, of course. But at the end of the day, what kind of girl is willing to hook up with you without seeing your face first?

[WyattEarp]

The most popular one is probably Sagami 001.

Does that come wrapped in Nori?

[Nounce]

Do you have brand names.

The most popular one is probably Sagami 001.

[Luminous]

I am primarily using SA for Medellin. The forum there is a combination of pros and non-pros. I am trying to figure out the set of questions I should ask, cues I should look for to filter out the pros. Would love to get insight on how you go about doing that.

[MiamiBoy1]

I personally never suggest it. I let the woman take the I initiative, that's how I know she's mentally (and emotionally) prepared for it.

Makes sense. But I have never been offered BBFS by a woman. If I don't take the initiative, it is not going to happen.

[CarloRogue]

I use prepaid cards for SA membership all the time. I also use a fake address. Everything was working well until I forgot the fake address, made up another address and they immediately suspended my membership and then deleted my account. But yes they take prepaid cards.

I've been using pre-paid debit card for the last several years (I can't imagine using personally identifying info on that site). I've run into problems several times with payment processing, including getting locked out of the account, but was always was able to get it fixed by emailing SA support. Be polite. They were always helpful to me, and seem to understand the score. The payment processing security is just a computer algorithm that reacts to whatever discrepancies it's programmed to find, so if you get blocked, don't assume there's a wizard behind the curtains divining your nefarious intent. As others have reported, what works best now is to pick a large apartment complex in your area and use that address for entering payment info, with a One Vanilla card. But yeah, remember to write it down. Thanks to this thread, I realized I forgot to do that on my last renewal, and just went through my browser history to find my map search (success!

[Oneminuteboy]

What would make a working girl agree to BBFS? Do you offer extra $ for that? I've read a bunch of reports recently where guys bareback left and right.

I don't get it. Every time I propose it I get a huge NO. I'm healthy and maintain good hygiene, but no luck. My understanding is girls do not like to take pills because it fucks up their hormone system, therefore they prefer to have covered sex and be safe.

Damn, i even had to order these expensive 0.01 polyurethane condoms from Japan for my next trip, a friend of mine said they are so thin you don't feel them on

I personally never suggest it. I let the woman take the I initiative, that's how I know she's mentally (and emotionally) prepared for it.

As for the super thin Asian condoms, they are worth every bit if you can fit into them. The are quite inflexible, so, it you don't fit, they can be expanded like latex. However, they are strong and they have great feeling--especially if you don't have to worry about the unexpected. Their greatest feature is heat transmission. You can simply feel her temperature and that can be sensational with the right woman. I know of a person where I can feel her passion by her temperature. The best feature is they are super slippery. Very little natural or synthetic lubrication is required. That lets you fuck for a long time and you can slip into the smallest holes with no problem. At times, they can be better than barebacking. When a woman does not have to worry about pregnancy and disease, she can enjoy the moment. That can lead to sex on and off for a whole day and wanting more at night. Always look at the big picture. More sex is always better.

Do you have brand names.

[Travel902]

Thanks for replying.

So I gather, then, that:

1. I need to choose a fake address.

2. That address is linked to my account, so I need to note it so that I re-use the same one in the future so my account doesn't get suspended.

Is that right?

That is correct.

I only join for 1 month at a time, so when I rejoin I usually have a new card and it always requires me to fill out my address;.

Good luck.