Seeking Arrangements

[Midwestern]

My second weekend trim to M. City is off to amazing start.
The girls were ready to go back to my place, we finally get an Uber, total pain in the ass, it was only a 2 minute walk, but I did not to make the girls walk. We get back to my palace and the rest is History. Expensive night, but what the hell.

The next morning I had another threesome setup, now these two are super cute and fun. Total craziness for 90 minutes. This was all done in 18 hours. I have 2 more meetings Saturday. I am totally loving M. City.

I have hit a dry spell. Only got laid once in the past month, and that was with a WG. For some reason, a couple of my regulars are no longer into meetups. Maybe I am doing something wrong.

Meanwhile, I love strange, but man, it is really hard to find new gals. A couple of days ago, I was getting a veggie massage and I thought my masseause was cute and so I asked for her WeChat and she said no. Dang!

[Midwestern]

So planning a date with Sarah she asks if we can take it slow as in another platonic date. I don't generally have a problem with this but I was having to do some schedule magic to work her in and it's just not worth that for a platonic date.

Even when I am dating regularly, I have a 3 date rule. If sex does not happen by the third date, then I think there's a 99 percent chance that it will never happen, and so I just cut bait. So, I totally agree with your stance on Sarah.

[DramaFree11]

My second weekend trim to M. City is off to amazing start. I arrive yesterday at 5 pm, Uber issues, so I was running a late. The main girl I was going to cancel, but I had setup a meeting at 5;30 for drinks. We meet at 6 pm, my phone is blowing up with work issues and problems at my apartment. Things calm down. We are talking and drinking. I was not totally into her, but was decent. She says she is bi-sexual. What the Hell, lets make the night work. I say call one of your friends. She does, and the girl is over 1 hour late. We are drinking and smoking shisha. Music is great food and music.

The girls were ready to go back to my place, we finally get an Uber, total pain in the ass, it was only a 2 minute walk, but I did not to make the girls walk. We get back to my palace and the rest is History. Expensive night, but what the hell.

The next morning I had another threesome setup, now these two are super cute and fun. Total craziness for 90 minutes. This was all done in 18 hours. I have 2 more meetings Saturday. I am totally loving M. City.

[Steve 9696]

I realize that when I have regulars I miss all the searching and seduction. Worth it of course but I do miss it. Well luck would have it that Uma is moving back to the Midwest after her semester here in town and I am on the prowl.

Reengaged with Sarah. She's from nearly a year back long story we had a great date but no time for hotel due to drama with her Ex. And have stayed in touch on and off but no second meetup. Now trying to figure it out But she works full time and has a two year old and lives 45 minutes away. These factors make it a super long shot. Normally I'the rock on but she is a legit 9+ Cambodian mix. OMG she slays me.

My new excitement is Mattie. Wow this girl is so cute and so hot and genuinely engaging and interesting. We've been chatting a few days. Her Platonic tag was obviously a big red flag but she read my profile which said pretty clearly what I want. Anyhow been having great light chat and got down to meetup chat and we got pretty serious. She s had sexual trauma in the past and not sure she can go there. But I like the challenge of the seduction and showing her that not all men are pigs. So we had a very honest conversation and agreed we will meet up. And it could fizzle or it could sizzle but we are going in eyes wide open having talked it thru. I give it a 100% chance of being fun and being friends and 20% chance of seduction. But I've had a handful of first timers and made magic from it so let's roll the dice and let it happen. I'll keep you posted.

So planning a date with Sarah she asks if we can take it slow — as in another platonic date. I don't generally have a problem with this but I was having to do some schedule magic to work her in and it's just not worth that for a platonic date. So I said fine but we need to reschedule and instead Uma texted wanting to see me so we had a super nice date instead. With all the trimmings of course.

Meanwhile Mattie's gone a bit quiet but Jay ha totally taken over my mind space. Jay was a long shot and our initial conversation a bit off (English is her second language) but eventually we got a groove on text. Now she texts me every morning and night with cute little selfies of what she is up to. OMG she is so cute and hot. But mostly it's the girlfriendy thing! Mattie and Sarah are more my type but having this GND hottie checking on me everyday and sending selfies is soooo my vibe. I'm truly excited to meet her (soon!) I am really as much about how she treats me as anything — I love affection and attentiveness — as long as she crosses the attraction bar. And Jay has totally exceeded that.

[Elvis 2008]

So of the many many many girls I've seen, I have the most ridiculous attraction to Alexa physically, chemically, and as a person. Just a total gem of a girl. But I recently started a "best of the best" list where I put 3-4 girls in each category:

Best BJ.

Best Sex.

Best Passion.

Best Tits.

Best Ass.

Best Eyes.

Best Mouth.

Best Overall Girlfriend Vibe.

And it's interesting that there are a pile of girls that show up in one or two categories. Only three show up in three or more: Krystal 3/8. Kayla 4/8. And Alexa 6/8. So amazingly the quants for Alexa line up with my gut. It's of course possible I am coloring my view because I like her so much. But I did it independently and it just showed up. Anyhow going to try to figure out how to see her again. She's down. And of course super happy Kayla with 50% is still actively my girl!

What about you guys. If you lay it out like this does one girl check a lot of boxes or do you find them all over the map like I did (other than Alexa)?

I am not sure about putting them in top 3. To me, it is like how does she kiss, suck, fuck, behave, and act GF like? My first real SB was stunning, gave the best head I have ever had, and I enjoyed being around her. However, the sex was good not great and in my mind, the fact that she had a BF and we became more like friends got in the way of things which I have not had happen before. I could not get too turned on because I felt like I was doing a friend.

My second real SB checked all the boxes looks and sex wise but I always felt like at the end of the day it was transactional.

Then you have other stuff that creeps in there: mental illness, selfishness, or BSC personality. At best, a woman with those qualities can only be taken in doses.

With you and Alexa, I am not sure the fight will be with her talent as much as the Coolidge effect: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coolidge_effect.

Will the temptation or need to see someone new trump the better but boring and reliable?

What I found is that if I rotated my women and saw them only every week or two, it kept things fresh and the Coolidge effect could be kept at bay. The issue with me going forward will be when I see my gal longer than for a few days every 2 weeks. Will the passion still be there? Chris Rock did a great bit on this: commitment v new pussy.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qp39zD6_cLU

It is funny how this whole competition keeps up, and you are always looking for better, but I am not sure in the long run if that is what matters. I was talking to my brother and saying I finally found someone who made me happy. When we were talking, she filled my drink and cooked me lunch, and I told him that. That was a huge turn on.

Then without even asking, she is cleaning dirt off my shoes. I told my other brother about that and he says his American woman would be bitching at him, "Why aren't you cleaning MY shoes?

So yeah, I go for the looks and sex up front, but I think it is personality, commitment, and character that win out in the end. We are always looking for better, but I am not sure if we really want to be.

[Steve 9696]

So of the many many many girls I've seen, I have the most ridiculous attraction to Alexa physically, chemically, and as a person. Just a total gem of a girl. But I recently started a "best of the best" list where I put 3-4 girls in each category:

Best BJ.

Best Sex.

Best Passion.

Best Tits.

Best Ass.

Best Eyes.

Best Mouth.

Best Overall Girlfriend Vibe.

And it's interesting that there are a pile of girls that show up in one or two categories. Only three show up in three or more: Krystal 3/8. Kayla 4/8. And Alexa 6/8. So amazingly the quants for Alexa line up with my gut. It's of course possible I am coloring my view because I like her so much. But I did it independently and it just showed up. Anyhow going to try to figure out how to see her again. She's down. And of course super happy Kayla with 50% is still actively my girl!

What about you guys. If you lay it out like this does one girl check a lot of boxes or do you find them all over the map like I did (other than Alexa)?

[Elvis 2008]

Her Platonic tag was obviously a big red flag but she read my profile which said pretty clearly what I want. Anyhow been having great light chat and got down to meetup chat and we got pretty serious. She s had sexual trauma in the past and not sure she can go there. But I like the challenge of the seduction and showing her that not all men are pigs. So we had a very honest conversation and agreed we will meet up. And it could fizzle or it could sizzle but we are going in eyes wide open having talked it thru. I give it a 100% chance of being fun and being friends and 20% chance of seduction. But I've had a handful of first timers and made magic from it so let's roll the dice and let it happen. I'll keep you posted.

LOL. That is quite the challenge. I had a married SB who had been raped, and I think was afraid of meeting men other than me. The sex life she had with her husband was awful. I would be hard pressed to say any other SB I had liked sex more than this one. She was so into the sex. In fact, one time she told me the night before she had a dream about my dick. She asked me, "Is that weird?

I do not think I ever hit gold with someone with the platonic tag, but I did bed a woman who was asking for $10,000 a month and paid her $300. She was a great fuck. Thing is that she put that high price out there to keep away the pretenders but it kept most every guy away.

[Chege]

Hi guys,

I am new to seeking but would like to try it in Rio and SP Brazil. It will be my second trip to Brazil and I speak a little Portuguese and Spanish.

I couldn't find any recent reports for Brazil. Does anyone have experience with SA in Brazil? What is usually expected regarding price, is PPM the best way to go?

Would love to have some tips before I got stung by Brazilian killer bees kkkk.

Thanks in advance guys.

[Steve 9696]

I realize that when I have regulars I miss all the searching and seduction. Worth it of course but I do miss it. Well luck would have it that Uma is moving back to the Midwest after her semester here in town and I am on the prowl.

Reengaged with Sarah. She's from nearly a year back — long story we had a great date but no time for hotel due to drama with her Ex. And have stayed in touch on and off but no second meetup. Now trying to figure it out But she works full time and has a two year old and lives 45 minutes away. These factors make it a super long shot. Normally I'the rock on but she is a legit 9+ Cambodian mix. OMG she slays me.

My new excitement is Mattie. Wow this girl is so cute and so hot and genuinely engaging and interesting. We've been chatting a few days. Her Platonic tag was obviously a big red flag but she read my profile which said pretty clearly what I want. Anyhow been having great light chat and got down to meetup chat and we got pretty serious. She s had sexual trauma in the past and not sure she can go there. But I like the challenge of the seduction and showing her that not all men are pigs. So we had a very honest conversation and agreed we will meet up. And it could fizzle or it could sizzle but we are going in eyes wide open having talked it thru. I give it a 100% chance of being fun and being friends and 20% chance of seduction. But I've had a handful of first timers and made magic from it — so let's roll the dice and let it happen. I'll keep you posted.

[Steve 9696]

Will try it. But I wonder if it will beat my current favorite way of getting a BBBJ, which is sitting on the bed with my back against the headboard or wall, and letting them suck me while I am drinking a beer with my left hand and caressing their hair with my right hand. Sometimes I will watch TV too.

Haha love it. Will call that one the Midwestern. I do think I will have to try it! It should be noted however that since the Steve 2 is an upright position it should be very possible to have two fingers in her pussy and two fingers of whiskey in a glass in your other hand! The Midwestern Steve 2? I might have to try that too!

Oh wait I kinda did the Midwestern with Alexa. Sat in a chair on the balcony and had my drink while she blew me. This was one of the most amazing experiences ever. Cuz she just wanted to chat while she blew me. How did I lose my virginity. Favorite blowjob technique. First kiss. It was amazing to just chat while she blew me and we kept on drinking. This was literally a 30 minute BJ. Will remember that a long time!

[Midwestern]

Will try it. But I wonder if it will beat my current favorite way of getting a BBBJ, which is sitting on the bed with my back against the headboard or wall, and letting them suck me while I am drinking a beer with my left hand and caressing their hair with my right hand. Sometimes I will watch TV too.

[Midwestern]

I am not aware of anyone who thinks they need to pay 1500 in Canada. The Canadian mongers that I know, know the Canadian rates very well. Even the novice mongers. This is because the mongering scene in Canada is pretty well known and established. I used SA in Canada with pretty good success. I hate to generalize, but I think using SA in Canada is easier than using SA in the states. And yes, 300 CAD was a typical rate, but it could get up to 400 or 500 CAD.

Have you guys seen the rates for seeking arrangement?

http://www.internationalsexguide.nl/...037&viewfull=1#post2512037.

It says 300 CAD for a date on seeking arrangement.

It actually could be 300-400 CAD.

On a standard seeking arrangement date you may meet the girl in your apartment get to know each other for 30 minutes then possibly have sex if both parties agree and then talk again for another 30 minutes. So you could expect 2 to 3 hours.

I'm just trying to slowly demonstrate to you guys that it's not always necessary to pay 1500 for 4 hours.

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[Nounce]

This belongs here. LOL.

My wife and side girl Pt 1

[Steve 9696]

Just tried it and it worked well. LOL But by any chance that you practice yoga?

Isn't fingering pussy while being blown just magical?

Yoga? No I benefit more simply from the flexibility that fucking young hotties in creative positions provides. I study at the Church of the Hot Twenty-something. Namaste!

PS I strongly recommend the Steve 1 as well. Has so many nice benefits:

Fuck forever and never tire
Watch the in and out action
Great leverage when grabbing legs
Highly dominant
Make out when u want to
Girls seem to absolutely adore it (heavy gspot banging if u have an upswing)

[NapataJohn]

You're not doing it right. Sending a woman money before you've met her is not a good idea. Paying for an expensive, nonrefundable plane ticket before you meet is not a good idea.

I saw a SB in another city a few times, we clicked really well, so I paid for a ticket for her to a destination in the Caribbean. She ghosted, and I would have been out the price of the ticket if her flight hadn't been delayed, which allowed me to cancel with no penalty. That's not going to happen to me again.

Better to go to her home town and then fly with her from there.