Seeking Arrangements

[EverythingBlue]

Doh! Hasn't everyone and his brother said don't talk that explicitly? I know you didn't say for money but "intimate for compensation" surely comes to close to the fire. You have to take things over to text to discuss more carefully. Though I have never been quite that explicit. It's also a turnoff for most girls.

As far as why you were banned I don't think they can generally monitor conversations but I bet they can read all your stuff if someone reports you. So that likely triggered it.

Only way to get back on would be to VPN from a different device. With different email. Credit card not in your name (like a visa gift card I guess). Basically become a new person.

Oh well. I hope the girls I'm texting with come through in an upcoming trip then. Thanks for the reply.

[Steve 9696]

Just got an email notification I was permanently suspended for soliciting sex in exchange of money. I asked a few girls if they'd like to spend time and during some conversations we talked about becoming more "intimate" in exchange of a gift or compensation. Would that have done it? Or was it a girl I told I would not pay her 400 just for dinner over text and she reported me? I'm bummed, I was finally starting to get some girls to agree to meet. Has anyone been successful at overturning a ban?

Doh! Hasn't everyone and his brother said don't talk that explicitly? I know you didn't say for money but "intimate for compensation" surely comes to close to the fire. You have to take things over to text to discuss more carefully. Though I have never been quite that explicit. It's also a turnoff for most girls.

As far as why you were banned I don't think they can generally monitor conversations but I bet they can read all your stuff if someone reports you. So that likely triggered it.

Only way to get back on would be to VPN from a different device. With different email. Credit card not in your name (like a visa gift card I guess). Basically become a new person.

[EverythingBlue]

Just got an email notification I was permanently suspended for soliciting sex in exchange of money. I asked a few girls if they'd like to spend time and during some conversations we talked about becoming more "intimate" in exchange of a gift or compensation. Would that have done it? Or was it a girl I told I would not pay her 400 just for dinner over text and she reported me? I'm bummed, I was finally starting to get some girls to agree to meet. Has anyone been successful at overturning a ban?

[Steve 9696]

So Kayla and I had a great few days together. Our fifth time and getting a bit more coupled up each time. We rented an Airbnb loft so it was more like playing house. There were some minuses. Like we stayed in a lot. She said she doesn't really like to go out. That she only does it because I like to. Boo. That's unfortunate to learn. But some nice pluses too like when she cooked dinner the second night and when she got more lit our third night and gave the best doe eyes BJ and was just really romantic and passionate. It's getting a little too comfortable but damn she still checks pretty much all the boxes.

But my favorite line was this:

"I'd be a great wife. I just want to suck dick and cook. ".

Yep babe. That pretty much describes a great wife! LOL.

Ps and she’s fully serious. She’d love to find some successful guy and just wife up.

[DramaFree11]

I am glad you are having a great time. Thing is that the average income in Mexico City is the same as a lot of the USA. What that means is not only are there a lot of hot and worldly women, they are often in high demand because there are so many men with money.

Of the four tens I met in CDMX, I followed them on Instagram. Three of the four moved sideways after meeting me (and that is not typical with the SBs I have had), and one hit the absolute jackpot.

My point is that you have to lock them down much more quickly in CDMX than other Mexican cities or in Colombia. I do not think there is a woman I met in MTY or Colombia I could not call up and see again, but I think I would be given the cold shoulder if I approached any of these four. They are taken.

Yep, 100% true. The girls I am meeting are way more sophisticated in M. City, then MTY.

I do disagree it is way more expensive here then MTY, but also much better and there is Hot Attainable girls everywhere. Girls do want to hang out here, so you get more bang for your buck. If I you want to live like J. Carter that is a different story. You can get by cheap here, but I real doubt the higher end girls will go for that.

At the airport now, heading back to Texas tonight. I will be in MTY to celebrate Christmas Thursday evening with the model, then back to Mexico City.

Life is great!!

[Elvis 2008]

The next morning I had another threesome setup, now these two are super cute and fun. Total craziness for 90 minutes. This was all done in 18 hours. I have 2 more meetings Saturday. I am totally loving M. City.

I am glad you are having a great time. Thing is that the average income in Mexico City is the same as a lot of the USA. What that means is not only are there a lot of hot and worldly women, they are often in high demand because there are so many men with money.

Of the four tens I met in CDMX, I followed them on Instagram. Three of the four moved sideways after meeting me (and that is not typical with the SBs I have had), and one hit the absolute jackpot.

My point is that you have to lock them down much more quickly in CDMX than other Mexican cities or in Colombia. I do not think there is a woman I met in MTY or Colombia I could not call up and see again, but I think I would be given the cold shoulder if I approached any of these four. They are taken.

[Elvis 2008]

My main criteria these days is if she is willing to do bareback. I will choose to fuck a 5 bareback over an 8 covered. I might even happily fuck a 3 if it is bareback.

There is a guy in the Sao Paulo thread, think his name is Anaggie, who says that having a recent AIDS test helps him get bareback. I have had two women who saw my test and they were cool with bareback after I showed it to them.

[Midwestern]

I am not sure about putting them in top 3. To me, it is like how does she kiss, suck, fuck, behave, and act GF like? My first real SB was stunning, gave the best head I have ever had, and I enjoyed being around her. However, the sex was good not great and in my mind, the fact that she had a BF and we became more like friends got in the way of things which I have not had happen before. I could not get too turned on because I felt like I was doing a friend.

My main criteria these days is if she is willing to do bareback. I will choose to fuck a 5 bareback over an 8 covered. I might even happily fuck a 3 if it is bareback.

[Midwestern]

My second weekend trim to M. City is off to amazing start.
The girls were ready to go back to my place, we finally get an Uber, total pain in the ass, it was only a 2 minute walk, but I did not to make the girls walk. We get back to my palace and the rest is History. Expensive night, but what the hell.

The next morning I had another threesome setup, now these two are super cute and fun. Total craziness for 90 minutes. This was all done in 18 hours. I have 2 more meetings Saturday. I am totally loving M. City.

I have hit a dry spell. Only got laid once in the past month, and that was with a WG. For some reason, a couple of my regulars are no longer into meetups. Maybe I am doing something wrong.

Meanwhile, I love strange, but man, it is really hard to find new gals. A couple of days ago, I was getting a veggie massage and I thought my masseause was cute and so I asked for her WeChat and she said no. Dang!

[Midwestern]

So planning a date with Sarah she asks if we can take it slow as in another platonic date. I don't generally have a problem with this but I was having to do some schedule magic to work her in and it's just not worth that for a platonic date.

Even when I am dating regularly, I have a 3 date rule. If sex does not happen by the third date, then I think there's a 99 percent chance that it will never happen, and so I just cut bait. So, I totally agree with your stance on Sarah.

[DramaFree11]

My second weekend trim to M. City is off to amazing start. I arrive yesterday at 5 pm, Uber issues, so I was running a late. The main girl I was going to cancel, but I had setup a meeting at 5;30 for drinks. We meet at 6 pm, my phone is blowing up with work issues and problems at my apartment. Things calm down. We are talking and drinking. I was not totally into her, but was decent. She says she is bi-sexual. What the Hell, lets make the night work. I say call one of your friends. She does, and the girl is over 1 hour late. We are drinking and smoking shisha. Music is great food and music.

The girls were ready to go back to my place, we finally get an Uber, total pain in the ass, it was only a 2 minute walk, but I did not to make the girls walk. We get back to my palace and the rest is History. Expensive night, but what the hell.

The next morning I had another threesome setup, now these two are super cute and fun. Total craziness for 90 minutes. This was all done in 18 hours. I have 2 more meetings Saturday. I am totally loving M. City.

[Steve 9696]

I realize that when I have regulars I miss all the searching and seduction. Worth it of course but I do miss it. Well luck would have it that Uma is moving back to the Midwest after her semester here in town and I am on the prowl.

Reengaged with Sarah. She's from nearly a year back long story we had a great date but no time for hotel due to drama with her Ex. And have stayed in touch on and off but no second meetup. Now trying to figure it out But she works full time and has a two year old and lives 45 minutes away. These factors make it a super long shot. Normally I'the rock on but she is a legit 9+ Cambodian mix. OMG she slays me.

My new excitement is Mattie. Wow this girl is so cute and so hot and genuinely engaging and interesting. We've been chatting a few days. Her Platonic tag was obviously a big red flag but she read my profile which said pretty clearly what I want. Anyhow been having great light chat and got down to meetup chat and we got pretty serious. She s had sexual trauma in the past and not sure she can go there. But I like the challenge of the seduction and showing her that not all men are pigs. So we had a very honest conversation and agreed we will meet up. And it could fizzle or it could sizzle but we are going in eyes wide open having talked it thru. I give it a 100% chance of being fun and being friends and 20% chance of seduction. But I've had a handful of first timers and made magic from it so let's roll the dice and let it happen. I'll keep you posted.

So planning a date with Sarah she asks if we can take it slow — as in another platonic date. I don't generally have a problem with this but I was having to do some schedule magic to work her in and it's just not worth that for a platonic date. So I said fine but we need to reschedule and instead Uma texted wanting to see me so we had a super nice date instead. With all the trimmings of course.

Meanwhile Mattie's gone a bit quiet but Jay ha totally taken over my mind space. Jay was a long shot and our initial conversation a bit off (English is her second language) but eventually we got a groove on text. Now she texts me every morning and night with cute little selfies of what she is up to. OMG she is so cute and hot. But mostly it's the girlfriendy thing! Mattie and Sarah are more my type but having this GND hottie checking on me everyday and sending selfies is soooo my vibe. I'm truly excited to meet her (soon!) I am really as much about how she treats me as anything — I love affection and attentiveness — as long as she crosses the attraction bar. And Jay has totally exceeded that.

[Elvis 2008]

So of the many many many girls I've seen, I have the most ridiculous attraction to Alexa physically, chemically, and as a person. Just a total gem of a girl. But I recently started a "best of the best" list where I put 3-4 girls in each category:

Best BJ.

Best Sex.

Best Passion.

Best Tits.

Best Ass.

Best Eyes.

Best Mouth.

Best Overall Girlfriend Vibe.

And it's interesting that there are a pile of girls that show up in one or two categories. Only three show up in three or more: Krystal 3/8. Kayla 4/8. And Alexa 6/8. So amazingly the quants for Alexa line up with my gut. It's of course possible I am coloring my view because I like her so much. But I did it independently and it just showed up. Anyhow going to try to figure out how to see her again. She's down. And of course super happy Kayla with 50% is still actively my girl!

What about you guys. If you lay it out like this does one girl check a lot of boxes or do you find them all over the map like I did (other than Alexa)?

I am not sure about putting them in top 3. To me, it is like how does she kiss, suck, fuck, behave, and act GF like? My first real SB was stunning, gave the best head I have ever had, and I enjoyed being around her. However, the sex was good not great and in my mind, the fact that she had a BF and we became more like friends got in the way of things which I have not had happen before. I could not get too turned on because I felt like I was doing a friend.

My second real SB checked all the boxes looks and sex wise but I always felt like at the end of the day it was transactional.

Then you have other stuff that creeps in there: mental illness, selfishness, or BSC personality. At best, a woman with those qualities can only be taken in doses.

With you and Alexa, I am not sure the fight will be with her talent as much as the Coolidge effect: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coolidge_effect.

Will the temptation or need to see someone new trump the better but boring and reliable?

What I found is that if I rotated my women and saw them only every week or two, it kept things fresh and the Coolidge effect could be kept at bay. The issue with me going forward will be when I see my gal longer than for a few days every 2 weeks. Will the passion still be there? Chris Rock did a great bit on this: commitment v new pussy.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qp39zD6_cLU

It is funny how this whole competition keeps up, and you are always looking for better, but I am not sure in the long run if that is what matters. I was talking to my brother and saying I finally found someone who made me happy. When we were talking, she filled my drink and cooked me lunch, and I told him that. That was a huge turn on.

Then without even asking, she is cleaning dirt off my shoes. I told my other brother about that and he says his American woman would be bitching at him, "Why aren't you cleaning MY shoes?

So yeah, I go for the looks and sex up front, but I think it is personality, commitment, and character that win out in the end. We are always looking for better, but I am not sure if we really want to be.

[Steve 9696]

So of the many many many girls I've seen, I have the most ridiculous attraction to Alexa physically, chemically, and as a person. Just a total gem of a girl. But I recently started a "best of the best" list where I put 3-4 girls in each category:

Best BJ.

Best Sex.

Best Passion.

Best Tits.

Best Ass.

Best Eyes.

Best Mouth.

Best Overall Girlfriend Vibe.

And it's interesting that there are a pile of girls that show up in one or two categories. Only three show up in three or more: Krystal 3/8. Kayla 4/8. And Alexa 6/8. So amazingly the quants for Alexa line up with my gut. It's of course possible I am coloring my view because I like her so much. But I did it independently and it just showed up. Anyhow going to try to figure out how to see her again. She's down. And of course super happy Kayla with 50% is still actively my girl!

What about you guys. If you lay it out like this does one girl check a lot of boxes or do you find them all over the map like I did (other than Alexa)?

[Elvis 2008]

Her Platonic tag was obviously a big red flag but she read my profile which said pretty clearly what I want. Anyhow been having great light chat and got down to meetup chat and we got pretty serious. She s had sexual trauma in the past and not sure she can go there. But I like the challenge of the seduction and showing her that not all men are pigs. So we had a very honest conversation and agreed we will meet up. And it could fizzle or it could sizzle but we are going in eyes wide open having talked it thru. I give it a 100% chance of being fun and being friends and 20% chance of seduction. But I've had a handful of first timers and made magic from it so let's roll the dice and let it happen. I'll keep you posted.

LOL. That is quite the challenge. I had a married SB who had been raped, and I think was afraid of meeting men other than me. The sex life she had with her husband was awful. I would be hard pressed to say any other SB I had liked sex more than this one. She was so into the sex. In fact, one time she told me the night before she had a dream about my dick. She asked me, "Is that weird?

I do not think I ever hit gold with someone with the platonic tag, but I did bed a woman who was asking for $10,000 a month and paid her $300. She was a great fuck. Thing is that she put that high price out there to keep away the pretenders but it kept most every guy away.