Seeking Arrangements

[BlueMoon22]

10,000?! What are you filtering for, a pulse?! I've only seen like 5 cities that have that kind of volume. La Ny London and cdmx. And it's not 10 k. It's like 300 after you filter and even then it's like 150 that have been active recently.

I'm struggling to find more cities like those because I am kinda tired of visiting them. I almost emailed Seeking to ask what their biggest membership cities were and then thought nah, getting on their radar isn't a good idea.

Lmfao. How much do you filter? I always find it interesting what other guys seek. I don't set any filters other than age 18-40 and then scroll thru pics and see lots of cities with 3 k-10 k.

What age do most of you search for or seek? Early 20's seem to flake more to me. Late 20's early 30's seem the sweet spot for me.

[AmericanPi]

Not getting many responses on sa and when I have they've flaked or ghosted meet ups. I'm wondering if I should start saying I'm visiting for a few days and see if I get better results since I've had better luck traveling.

I'm also wondering if anyone else has noticed a sweet spot for sa with the number of profiles. In the two cities I've had success in there are about 3-4 k sa profiles that match my search (age and height). But where I'm based there's over 10 k. Unlike some others I didn't have any luck in London where there was also over 10 k profiles. It would make sense to me that there are more guys in those areas too so girls are shopping for the best offers.

10,000?! What are you filtering for, a pulse?! I've only seen like 5 cities that have that kind of volume. La Ny London and cdmx. And it's not 10 k. It's like 300 after you filter and even then it's like 150 that have been active recently.

I'm struggling to find more cities like those because I am kinda tired of visiting them. I almost emailed Seeking to ask what their biggest membership cities were and then thought nah, getting on their radar isn't a good idea.

[BlueMoon22]

Not getting many responses on sa and when I have they've flaked or ghosted meet ups. I'm wondering if I should start saying I'm visiting for a few days and see if I get better results since I've had better luck traveling.

I'm also wondering if anyone else has noticed a sweet spot for sa with the number of profiles. In the two cities I've had success in there are about 3-4 k sa profiles that match my search (age and height). But where I'm based there's over 10 k. Unlike some others I didn't have any luck in London where there was also over 10 k profiles. It would make sense to me that there are more guys in those areas too so girls are shopping for the best offers.

Outside of my last encounter I'd say SA is easy and it was my fault not doing enough ops and having some good talks / chats with her before. 3-4 k that match age and height? What do you set for height? I've never bothered to set a height requirement. 10 k should be super easy as I've had good luck with only 500 matches in some cities. 10 k? Like fish in a barrel and usually get messages first. I'm sitting on about 300 unopened messages. Send me a PM if you want to discuss your profile and how you approach it. I'm not an expert but have learned a lot from Steve and like to pass on any knowledge I can.

[BlueMoon22]

No. I did not dish money.

First meet and greet. Went great. And, we had agreed previously that even if we had chemistry, no time to fuck that night because of her work. So we met, we had a great dinner. I picked up tab.

A week later. First mistake. I set up a Saturday Brunch. Wanted a lazy afternoon fuck. Second mistake, at brunch gave into her drama of car tires needing replacement. She was heading to workshop, pick up car and drive to me. Apologizes later that afternoon that she got stuck.

Following week. Starts talking monthly allowance of 2000 EUR. Politely but firmly refused. You first got to let me fuck you. Then, ppm. Cardinal rule.

Then, few weeks of messages, random asks for "hey, I got stuck here. Could you help blah. Blah". I did not budge. Cock in pussy, money in purse.

Then, went out of touch.

This last Europe trip, she messages me from a different profile. She recognizes me and wants to meet again.

I said "sweetie, happy to if we agree to take to bedroom. And, BTW, I will adjust for the damn 200 I paid you 3 years ago". She went quiet.

I met my Sports superstar.

So you didn't pay for the tires I hope? I have no room to talk about blowing a lot of money on my other SA fail but at least I did get to fuck her the first time (then fell way too hard for her) met the second time in LOS cabos and first night was good and had a condom issue which resulted in her taking a plan be and she was shitty the rest of the time. I didn't think she needed it but she acted like no big deal until she was weird the whole rest of the trip. Anyways I don't even care to think of the money I spent on her but such is life. I really actually loved that girl more than any GF or SA girl ever.

[Intelligencium]

I know we all differ culturally and some countries have this practice of passing around girls like they are poker chips or something. They are not. Most of the guys on this Seeking thread are after real girls with connection. And at the very least have done a shit ton of work separating the bad from the good. So of course each to his own but I suggest you do the work like the rest of us and get on Seeking and invest some time.

Huge +1. Sorry boys, I am not going to share the profiles. Apart from what Steve already said, there are few more selfish aspects: I don't want you to (by mistake) tell them that I talked about them here. Some of them likely know my real name / identity even if they never told me that they know (its easy to find out if you travel together or stay together for multiple days). And some of them I want to meet again.

Cheers,

Ravi.

[Intelligencium]

Good luck friends.

That sucks man. Especially because you drove so much to meet her, and she even showed up. My guess is that she is new to the game and is a bit spooked. She feels comfortable selling nudes and didn't really want to do something real (not virtual), agreed for some reason, but finally chickened out. Definitely sucks for you, but I also feel for these women. Fucking life.

[GoingDumb]

Not getting many responses on sa and when I have they've flaked or ghosted meet ups. I'm wondering if I should start saying I'm visiting for a few days and see if I get better results since I've had better luck traveling.

I'm also wondering if anyone else has noticed a sweet spot for sa with the number of profiles. In the two cities I've had success in there are about 3-4 k sa profiles that match my search (age and height). But where I'm based there's over 10 k. Unlike some others I didn't have any luck in London where there was also over 10 k profiles. It would make sense to me that there are more guys in those areas too so girls are shopping for the best offers.

[Gfefan]

No. I did not dish money.

First meet and greet. Went great. And, we had agreed previously that even if we had chemistry, no time to fuck that night because of her work. So we met, we had a great dinner. I picked up tab.

A week later. First mistake. I set up a Saturday Brunch. Wanted a lazy afternoon fuck. Second mistake, at brunch gave into her drama of car tires needing replacement. She was heading to workshop, pick up car and drive to me. Apologizes later that afternoon that she got stuck.

Following week. Starts talking monthly allowance of 2000 EUR. Politely but firmly refused. You first got to let me fuck you. Then, ppm. Cardinal rule.

Then, few weeks of messages, random asks for "hey, I got stuck here. Could you help blah. Blah". I did not budge. Cock in pussy, money in purse.

Then, went out of touch.

This last Europe trip, she messages me from a different profile. She recognizes me and wants to meet again.

I said "sweetie, happy to if we agree to take to bedroom. And, BTW, I will adjust for the damn 200 I paid you 3 years ago". She went quiet.

I met my Sports superstar.

She may or may not have been on drugs. I assume so with her behavior but she could also just be crazy. Either way was not a fun time and in the end glad we never did anything in bed. But yes she was super fucking hot.

Did you keep dishing her money after? And met and didn't hook up?

I'm still mind blown she asked for money this morning for groceries and didn't mention anything about last night.

[BlueMoon22]

Thanks for the story. Redflags learning.

I had one in France. Pretty similar but definitely not on drugs.

Moroccan and super hot. Gosh, I'd love to fuck her. When we have those super fuckables is when we let our judgement slip. I lost 200 EUR that day but she kept at me. That was a learning experience and since then. I can proudly say "Not a single penny wasted. In fact. I continue to have epic fucks at 300 EUR in Europe".

We all learn and grow in this trade. Thanks for sharing.

She may or may not have been on drugs. I assume so with her behavior but she could also just be crazy. Either way was not a fun time and in the end glad we never did anything in bed. But yes she was super fucking hot.

Did you keep dishing her money after? And met and didn't hook up?

I'm still mind blown she asked for money this morning for groceries and didn't mention anything about last night.

[Gfefan]

I couldn't have said this better. Thanks, Steve for holding a high standard.

I know we all differ culturally and some countries have this practice of passing around girls like they are poker chips or something. They are not. Most of the guys on this Seeking thread are after real girls with connection. And at the very least have done a shit ton of work separating the bad from the good. So of course each to his own but I suggest you do the work like the rest of us and get on Seeking and invest some time.

[Gfefan]

Thanks for the story. Redflags learning.

I had one in France. Pretty similar but definitely not on drugs.

Moroccan and super hot. Gosh, I'd love to fuck her. When we have those super fuckables is when we let our judgement slip. I lost 200 EUR that day but she kept at me. That was a learning experience and since then. I can proudly say "Not a single penny wasted. In fact. I continue to have epic fucks at 300 EUR in Europe".

We all learn and grow in this trade. Thanks for sharing.

Thanks for the post man. Yes, for some reason I don't post much or talk in length about my good stories (I guess because they seem normal) but bad ones like this I remember and type every detail. Steve got a longggg message about the other bad one. With the other one it wasn't anything like this. We had met before and met again on a destination vacay and and she was just cold after the first night the next 2 nights and no more sex.

SA is amazing (even more so abroad) and can make some great relationships / arrangements / friendships whether they be ongoing or just once. Just don't ignore red flags. I did and it was dumb. She was just so damn beautiful and I was in a funk and she was waving red flags everywhere and I'm driving to see her like I'm Ray Charles. My only excuse is the biggest red flags didn't come until I was getting close to there. Still should have just turned around and figured it would be a fail.

[BlueMoon22]

So I just want to give a shout out to Blue Moon for posting his harrowing epic. It is of course a good warning to all of us that red flags are red for a reason! But I also know about his successes. Which have been legendary. He doesn't post much but he is slaying some serious pussy both locally and abroad on SA. So don't take his post to be indicative of the SA scene. You can't bat 1000 forever!

Thanks for the post man. Yes, for some reason I don't post much or talk in length about my good stories (I guess because they seem normal) but bad ones like this I remember and type every detail. Steve got a longggg message about the other bad one. With the other one it wasn't anything like this. We had met before and met again on a destination vacay and and she was just cold after the first night the next 2 nights and no more sex.

SA is amazing (even more so abroad) and can make some great relationships / arrangements / friendships whether they be ongoing or just once. Just don't ignore red flags. I did and it was dumb. She was just so damn beautiful and I was in a funk and she was waving red flags everywhere and I'm driving to see her like I'm Ray Charles. My only excuse is the biggest red flags didn't come until I was getting close to there. Still should have just turned around and figured it would be a fail.

[Steve 9696]

So I just want to give a shout out to Blue Moon for posting his harrowing epic. It is of course a good warning to all of us that red flags are red for a reason! But I also know about his successes. Which have been legendary. He doesn't post much but he is slaying some serious pussy both locally and abroad on SA. So don't take his post to be indicative of the SA scene. You can't bat 1000 forever!

[Steve 9696]

Hello brethren, if there are any leads for Valencia and Seville in Spain then kindly DM me, many thanks.

I'd prefer someone who is white and without tan.

I know we all differ culturally and some countries have this practice of passing around girls like they are poker chips or something. They are not. Most of the guys on this Seeking thread are after real girls with connection. And at the very least have done a shit ton of work separating the bad from the good. So of course each to his own but I suggest you do the work like the rest of us and get on Seeking and invest some time.

[BlueMoon22]

I didn't answer when she asked for money for groceries but opened the message and 30 or so min later she messaged me again and I let it sit for 20-30 minutes and opened it and she said "Babe?" so I just deleted / blocker her on SA and Snap. Nothing good was going to come from her still contacting me or me stringing it along I don't think. Shitty situation and didn't know what to do other than delete her.