Seeking Arrangements

[SfoCowboy]

Agree with you but if they claim to be exclusive I'll know their bluff.

I've had a few SBs tell me that they quit SA for me. But a couple of months later, I see their profile back up on SA. Sometimes using a different profile. At first, it hurt, but now I just expect it. And besides, when I was active on SA, I rarely had fewer than 3 regular SBs myself, so who am I to complain?

[Midwestern]

I also block the girls after moving to texting. What I also do is that I have a fake I'the with a different location to check the online activity of the girl. Just in case they say they are exclusive and still remain active.

I've had a few SBs tell me that they quit SA for me. But a couple of months later, I see their profile back up on SA. Sometimes using a different profile. At first, it hurt, but now I just expect it. And besides, when I was active on SA, I rarely had fewer than 3 regular SBs myself, so who am I to complain?

[Steve 9696]

I also block the girls after moving to texting. What I also do is that I have a fake I'the with a different location to check the online activity of the girl. Just in case they say they are exclusive and still remain active.

Ooh. That's a great idea since it's free to browse. I don't obsess over it but it would be nice to check up if I want.

[PilotPaul]

Love this modified line. LOL. So apt.

I pay American women to leave but Latin women to stay.

Hey I have noticed something lately happening enough that I'the call it a trend. I'the say it happens more with pros or near pros. But when you chat a bit and then go to text messaging, they block you on SA. You are still having a fine conversation on regular text but SA is blocked. I have some theories on why they do this. Anyone else seeing this? Only happened once last year and now like 3 times in the last week. Like they all read an article on how to manage guys on SA. LOL. Anyone else seeing this?

I have seen the same from the more professional operators, including myself. One can say "Oh I have deleted / deactivated my account so I can concentrate on you. ".

I keep a separate document of the girl's name, profile name with URL, cell number and kik. Sometimes even if they have deactivated or hidden their account you can still see activity via the direct URL link.

The direct URL will have various states, depending upon the status in the database:

Will return.

The not found page showing "This member's profile can no longer be found. The member might have deactivated their account, been suspended, blocked you, or been blocked by you."

Their profile without picture but updated access times.

Their profile with pic and location but not returned in search.

Their profile with pic and new location (active elsewhere).

The 2 & 3 status I think might just be gaps in the SA security infrastructure.

As others have said, it is worth having a second account. I do not complete the profile or have pic. This means SA doesn't show this account in searches or show this profile as a viewer of the girls' profiles.

It is worth noting that girls and we are not entering into exclusive arrangements.

PP.

[SfoCowboy]

I also block the girls after moving to texting. What I also do is that I have a fake I'the with a different location to check the online activity of the girl. Just in case they say they are exclusive and still remain active.

Love this modified line. LOL. So apt.

I pay American women to leave but Latin women to stay.

Hey I have noticed something lately happening enough that I'the call it a trend. I'the say it happens more with pros or near pros. But when you chat a bit and then go to text messaging, they block you on SA. You are still having a fine conversation on regular text but SA is blocked. I have some theories on why they do this. Anyone else seeing this? Only happened once last year and now like 3 times in the last week. Like they all read an article on how to manage guys on SA. LOL. Anyone else seeing this?

[DramaFree11]

Love this modified line. LOL. So apt.

I pay American women to leave but Latin women to stay.

Best Quote Ever, goes for European women as well.

Hey I have noticed something lately happening enough that I'the call it a trend. I'the say it happens more with pros or near pros. But when you chat a bit and then go to text messaging, they block you on SA. You are still having a fine conversation on regular text but SA is blocked. I have some theories on why they do this. Anyone else seeing this? Only happened once last year and now like 3 times in the last week. Like they all read an article on how to manage guys on SA. LOL. Anyone else seeing this?

I am also having the same issue, they do not want you to see there online activity.

[Steve 9696]

Love this modified line. LOL. So apt.

I pay American women to leave but Latin women to stay.

Hey I have noticed something lately happening enough that I'the call it a trend. I'the say it happens more with pros or near pros. But when you chat a bit and then go to text messaging, they block you on SA. You are still having a fine conversation on regular text but SA is blocked. I have some theories on why they do this. Anyone else seeing this? Only happened once last year and now like 3 times in the last week. Like they all read an article on how to manage guys on SA. LOL. Anyone else seeing this?

[SfoCowboy]

Some really interesting posts here. Thanks for some tips!

[Elvis 2008]

She is already trying to get the price up. She sent me a clothes catalogue with her favorites tagged. "Could you buy this for me?" I replied "No. " This is when the adage "You don't pay them to stay, you pay them to leave." comes into play. It helps me stick to the budget and stay in the reality that this relationship is temporary.

LOL. I get it. I felt like in the USA I was paying almost a bribe. It was legally and emotionally cheaper to pay for sex than deal with the bullshit that followed a "real" relationship. Anytime you buy an American girl something in that catalog like say shoes, she has at least 20 fucking pairs in the closet but nothing in her bank account. Buying gifts for American women was all cost and no benefit.

I will say that gift giving does pay off in countries where the people are not as rich. I have been giving out money, typically not very much, to people in poorer countries like Brazil, Peru, and Colombia, and the gifts have been very appreciated.

One of my Colombian gals was the only one working in her family. Her parents are not working because they are in nonessential jobs. Anyway, their washing machine went bad, and my gal found a good deal on a machine for $300 and asked if I could help. Her poor mother and she were having to wash all their clothes by hand, so I gave her $250. She put in the rest, got the machine, and she was sooo happy.

If you have dealt with American women, I could understand the guys here saying "You are such a sucker", but this gal is what a SB is supposed to be. When I offer to get her an Uber, she tells me the bus is cheaper and to save my money. When I am in town, she does my laundry, cooks me meals, insists on giving me a 30 minute back rub per day, and packs my suitcase when I leave. If she does not send me a weekly sex video, I am like, "Are you okay?" And sexually, the word no is not in her vocabulary. So in my world, I pay American women to leave but Latin women to stay. LOL.

The people, even though they are way poorer than the USA, for some reason are happier than we are. It is why I miss Colombia so much. I make my living here but I spend as much time in Colombia as I can. Not being able to travel there is killing me!!

[Big Boss Man]

As for the weekly allowance, as long as you guys don't do the mental accounting, with you trying to make sure you get the average price per meet down while she tries to get the average price per meet up, then $500/ week is a very good price. But if she's busy, then you may have to revert to PPM. If you guys are not in a big USA City, then the price can be $300 PPM or even less.

She is already trying to get the price up. She sent me a clothes catalogue with her favorites tagged. "Could you buy this for me?" I replied "No. " This is when the adage "You don't pay them to stay, you pay them to leave." comes into play. It helps me stick to the budget and stay in the reality that this relationship is temporary.

[NeilGeorge]

Dude you have the 1 2 3 down. Break out the wine. Close the gap with a kiss. Get handsy. Get some clothes off. Work tits down to pussy and DATY and there you go Ur in! 1 2 3. Don't be shy to put her hand on your dick if you feel she needs a litttle encouragement. This works wonders too. Rinse repeat! Go get em Maluca!

I prefer not to waste any time or money on them. I usually tell them, "on the floor now, *****!" and they give it up for me!

[Steve 9696]

Got chatting with a few 23 to 27 year old via SA last month, as I got stuck in Ipanema Rio with the lockdown. Initially found I got stuck with progress when the inevitable "its lockdown. Can't go out" responses came it. I was so fucking bored and was therefore determined to get the right girl to visit me in my airbnb, bearing in mind it couldn't be a pro, with my own fear of catching the lurgy. Anyway, latched onto a gorgeous 23rd year old Morena university girl who lived in a place called Bon Successo. Chatted to her for what felt like forever. But it was about 7 days. Eventually got her to agree a visit over to me at 5 pm, with princess pick up by Uber Black etc, just to "get to know each other" for a couple of hours.

I always wonder how you guys get these girls into bed. Like do you have a fail safe routine? Like a 1-2-3 dribble LOL. Anyway, promised her a lovely meal and just some conversation. About 1.5 hours in, suggested we open a bottle of the Brazilian version of Moet Rose, which I had pre-kept in the freezer for the last 40 minutes to ensure a great chilled drink. About 40 minutes after that we were hugging on the sofa and joking around, I started kissing the back of her neck, and hugging her and putting her on top of me for bouncing around. I find light simulated sexual movements get them horny. As the bottle emptied, I laid her flat, and started kissing her all over and quickly managed to take off her loose fitting stretchy jeans, and go for DATY. That really fired her up, and we fucked until the moon rose that evening. Brazilian SA works great!

Dude you have the 1 2 3 down. Break out the wine. Close the gap with a kiss. Get handsy. Get some clothes off. Work tits down to pussy and DATY and there you go — Ur in! 1 2 3. Don't be shy to put her hand on your dick if you feel she needs a litttle encouragement. This works wonders too. Rinse repeat! Go get em Maluca!

[Elvis 2008]

I always wonder how you guys get these girls into bed. Like do you have a fail safe routine? Like a 1-2-3 dribble LOL. Anyway, promised her a lovely meal and just some conversation. About 1.5 hours in, suggested we open a bottle of the Brazilian version of Moet Rose, which I had pre-kept in the freezer for the last 40 minutes to ensure a great chilled drink. About 40 minutes after that we were hugging on the sofa and joking around, I started kissing the back of her neck, and hugging her and putting her on top of me for bouncing around. I find light simulated sexual movements get them horny. As the bottle emptied, I laid her flat, and started kissing her all over and quickly managed to take off her loose fitting stretchy jeans, and go for DATY. That really fired her up, and we fucked until the moon rose that evening. Brazilian SA works great!

Way to go Maluca! Yeah, I think the Covid is a double edged sword. There are more high quality women than ever, but the virus may be scaring some off from intimacy.

As for a fail safe routine, it is a good idea. Thing is that you make sure that they text you on the day of the meet, and if you get them an Uber, I have never had one back out.

But it was much more of a problem in the USA than in Latin America. Shit, I cannot remember a Latin American girl flaking out on me. Of all my trips, I had one time where the girl wanted to wait until the second date for sex and one time I had to wait because I was so exhausted.

In Mexico, honestly, from just a sex POV, the hookers were better values. In Colombia, outside of Santa Fe, the SA girls were better values than the hookers. In the USA, I am not counting on having sex the first time so I have a backup SB or will go to a club if I get stood up.

Between this report and Steve's talking about Scandallo, I got to get back down to Brazil. Sao Paulo has more 10's than any other city on the planet.

[Elvis 2008]

I always wonder how you guys get these girls into bed. Like do you have a fail safe routine? Like a 1-2-3 dribble LOL. Anyway, promised her a lovely meal and just some conversation. About 1.5 hours in, suggested we open a bottle of the Brazilian version of Moet Rose, which I had pre-kept in the freezer for the last 40 minutes to ensure a great chilled drink. About 40 minutes after that we were hugging on the sofa and joking around, I started kissing the back of her neck, and hugging her and putting her on top of me for bouncing around. I find light simulated sexual movements get them horny. As the bottle emptied, I laid her flat, and started kissing her all over and quickly managed to take off her loose fitting stretchy jeans, and go for DATY. That really fired her up, and we fucked until the moon rose that evening. Brazilian SA works great!

Way to go Maluca! Yeah, I think the Covid is a double edged sword. There are more high quality women than ever, but the virus may be scaring some off from intimacy.

As for a fail safe routine, it is a good idea. Thing is that you make sure that they text you on the day of the meet, and if you get them an Uber, I have never had one back out.

But it was much more of a problem in the USA than in Latin America. Shit, I cannot remember a Latin American girl flaking out on me. Of all my trips, I had one time where the girl wanted to wait until the second date for sex and one time I had to wait because I was so exhausted.

In Mexico, honestly, from just a sex POV, the hookers were better values. In Colombia, outside of Santa Fe, the SA girls were better values than the hookers. In the USA, I am not counting on having sex the first time so I have a backup SB or will go to a club if I get stood up.

[Steve 9696]

So I saw a hottie on SA in a city I am visiting. Looks great. Love her profile. Has a Friend with Benefits tag. Golden.

Then way at the bottom it says "I do not participate in prostitution. ".

So I think damn. But wait that's confusing. FWB but no pro. Thinking there is no harm in chatting I hit her up. I ask her her dream date. She says "doesn't matter as long as I get paid ". LOL. These girls!