Seeking Arrangements

[NeilGeorge]

This happened about 7 or 8 years ago, when I was in HK. During a shower with an incall, she brings out a tube and squeezes out some black paste and spreads it all over my cock. Then she washes it off. Suddenly, my cock is as hard as a rock and it stays that way until I shoot my load maybe 45 minutes later while we were fucking in her bed. True story.

Does anyone know what this paste or cream was? I would love to buy it. But that said, I wonder if it's not good for the cock in the long run.

A friend of mine had to get shot injections into his dick to get erections. Not sure what it was?

[Midwestern]

You don't need any penis cream what the heck is that? You can fuck for hours and not need any special cream.

This happened about 7 or 8 years ago, when I was in HK. During a shower with an incall, she brings out a tube and squeezes out some black paste and spreads it all over my cock. Then she washes it off. Suddenly, my cock is as hard as a rock and it stays that way until I shoot my load maybe 45 minutes later while we were fucking in her bed. True story.

Does anyone know what this paste or cream was? I would love to buy it. But that said, I wonder if it's not good for the cock in the long run.

[Steve 9696]

I land in Bog later tonight. (posting there also) One very pretty girl from SA messaged and she wants to do lunch. I have 2 more that most likely will want to fuc. Scheduled one day apart. My friends in USA say, so "she wants a free lunch on a horny old man. " So, I got rid of these usa idiots, brainwashed people. My concern is yes she will enjoy lunch and since she is very good looking (however small breasts) I might succumb to take her to the hotel. No $ discussed. I might insult her if I offer anything. The other 2 will be all evening dates and they already know the program.

Since I am an "old man" LOL I am concerned about my recovery rate, chafing of the penis and basically too many girls available. Some booked in advance. I will immediately get a shot of testosterone upon landing. Also have some cream for the penis which I use in between sessions. Anything else I need?

Next is the hot as fuc actress / model / yoga instructor 22. That has told me blatantly, "I broke up with my professional football player / jock / boyfriend, he was too jealous and I have not had sex for 1 year and 7 months. I have never had an orgasm" this she told me over a week ago. So in preparation (we will spend 3-4 days together all-nighters in a cabin on top of a mountain. I purchased multiple sex toys, various lubricants, vibrators etc. She thinks she is in love with me. Wtf? So I will go with the flow and see what happens.

There are too many women and not enough time to meet. And once I land there will be even more. I downsized from over 200 (with their numbers, texting etc.) to only around 50 but in different cities all over Colombia. Most are 10's. They are all nice people. My penis is apparently running the show. So I increased the time in Colombia to 2 months. I figure 10 of these girls will want long term relationships. If I fall in love, it won't be the first time. I hope to meet them and return to close a deal with someone, maybe more than one. Help Elvis! . I feel kinda bad about that. But you only live once.

How the heck old are you? Surely not older than a lot of guys on here. You don't need any penis cream — what the heck is that? You can fuck for hours and not need any special cream. I'm thinking pussy juice and saliva have you covered (literally! Assume h have vigará or Cialis or generics? This is all an old man needs in his arsenal.

[The Cane]

Please clear your inbox. Thanks!

[DonCarlos1234]

I land in Bog later tonight. (posting there also) One very pretty girl from SA messaged and she wants to do lunch. I have 2 more that most likely will want to fuc. Scheduled one day apart. My friends in USA say, so "she wants a free lunch on a horny old man. " So, I got rid of these usa idiots, brainwashed people. My concern is yes she will enjoy lunch and since she is very good looking (however small breasts) I might succumb to take her to the hotel. No $ discussed. I might insult her if I offer anything. The other 2 will be all evening dates and they already know the program.

Since I am an "old man" LOL I am concerned about my recovery rate, chafing of the penis and basically too many girls available. Some booked in advance. I will immediately get a shot of testosterone upon landing. Also have some cream for the penis which I use in between sessions. Anything else I need?

Next is the hot as fuc actress / model / yoga instructor 22. That has told me blatantly, "I broke up with my professional football player / jock / boyfriend, he was too jealous and I have not had sex for 1 year and 7 months. I have never had an orgasm" this she told me over a week ago. So in preparation (we will spend 3-4 days together all-nighters in a cabin on top of a mountain. I purchased multiple sex toys, various lubricants, vibrators etc. She thinks she is in love with me. Wtf? So I will go with the flow and see what happens.

There are too many women and not enough time to meet. And once I land there will be even more. I downsized from over 200 (with their numbers, texting etc.) to only around 50 but in different cities all over Colombia. Most are 10's. They are all nice people. My penis is apparently running the show. So I increased the time in Colombia to 2 ½ months. I figure 10 of these girls will want long term relationships. If I fall in love, it won't be the first time. I hope to meet them and return to close a deal with someone, maybe more than one. Help Elvis! . I feel kinda bad about that. But you only live once.

[Steve 9696]

So we already discussed how Secret Benefits doesn't work. But worse it's a spammy scam!

So there is this girl I know. We had a date but agreed to be buds (she gave me a pity BJ LOL) So we chat all the time. Suddenly yesterday I see an email that she's sent me a message on Secret Benefits. And I say I'm not going to pay $10 to read it when I can just text her. And she's like WTF I didn't send that to you — apparently it just spams a bunch of guys that you are interested. And of course each guy has to pay to read the message. And she didn't even send it! What a scam.

[PilotPete]

I was going to reply in detail to Pussycat123 then decided to dump my thoughts here instead. Consider that the members here are mostly coming from other parts of ISG. Their searches for dates are based on a specific perspective. Getting lais ASAP for as little as possible and hoping for a GFE. If you want to know how much various types of girls "charge" in Bogota. ISG posts are mostly it related to that perspective.

I dated a bilingual attorney in Bogota who picked me up in her Mercedes, went to university in Barcelona and is a 10. Also a very nice person to be around. Also dated a violinist, an Actress (Barcelona transplant) and others. If you approached them with the desire to get laid. Mentioning friends with benefits and money on your whatsapp. A quick visit, 300 800 COP you just lost the opportunity to ever know who they are. Even the ones who are middle class might be turned off. And yes you will make SA look like a P4 P site and make it more difficult for the next serious person to be successful.

The SA girls in Bogota who I want to meet are not all "for sale" however they will respond to someone respectful, kind and "at their level" because that is what they really want. Not money. Probably why Elvis does well with these types. I am not saying you can't do the P4 P with many of them. You might miss out on a lot. Not really friends with benefits at all.

IF she has been on SA for over a year, she's fair game (P4 P) she uses it as her income. All pro pussy I call it. I dislike those types..

Thanks for taking the time to provide this valuable perspective. I'm almost exclusively interested in the type of woman you have dated and have had successful experience in Medellin this way. Money was never mentioned but I discreetly put money in their purse and / or in a thank you card or we went shopping. Traveling together and shopping, obviously on my dime, was the most satisfying. It's encouraging to hear that this type dating is still available.

[Steve 9696]

Just a few words: period sex. BBFSCIP. Seeking rules.

[The Cane]

And so on text, I asked her why she disappeared from the site, and she said that within the first couple of hours of her being on it, she got hundreds of guys messaging her, and it just overwhelmed her and so she went off of it. So, this really made me realize how competitive it was for us guys. SA keeps bragging that there are 4 or 5 women for every guy on the site. But there obviously is a lot of competition to get the gems. Every gal that I talked to on SA said that they have to weed through hundreds of messages every time they log onto the site. They spend a second on each message and move on to the next. And so, we really do have to figure out ways for our messages or profiles to stand out. I did not have a picture on my profile, and so that made it easier for the gals to just move onto the next guy's message.

Yes, we guys don't have an appreciation for how overwhelmed the girls can get. I have met a couple already, and they tell me what you say. They log in and have 100's of messages to weed through. Makes them want to quit. I also don't have a public picture, but they can see that I have a private one. So, if somebody is interested in my profile and responds positively to one of my messages, I will let them see my private pic. I understand that not having a public pic makes it easier for an overwhelmed girl to just move on, but that's what I feel comfortable with right now. Besides, I think I may have met somebody anyway who's going to do the trick. Will advise later.

[The Cane]

Most people lie about many things on this site. Age, location, animal lover, etc. But they check "prefer not to say" if they have children. I have not owned a dog for 40 years but post a photos with a puppy, women love it. Many women have multiple profiles to increase their hits, it costs them nothing to create a new profile with a different multiple email account.

This is so true. Lying going on everywhere! Including by us guys. But, I find the "prefer not to say" about having kids to be pretty funny because it obviously means that you do have kids LOL! So, you may as well just go ahead and say so.

[NeilGeorge]

Another way to increase your success rate is to check the site every day and jump on anyone that is new to the site.

On a related note, on the site many gals lie about their location.

Try leaving your computer on 24/7. That way your profile will show up as recently active all the time and you will get more hits. You can turn the monitor off at night and when you wake up in the morning you will be surprised all the messages you receive, although most will be from Venezuela, trying to sell you photos online for paypal money.

Most people lie about many things on this site. Age, location, animal lover, etc. But they check "prefer not to say" if they have children. I have not owned a dog for 40 years but post a photos with a puppy, women love it. Many women have multiple profiles to increase their hits, it costs them nothing to create a new profile with a different multiple email account.

[NeilGeorge]

So, this really made me realize how competitive it was for us guys. SA keeps bragging that there are 4 or 5 women for every guy on the site. But there obviously is a lot of competition to get the gems. Every gal that I talked to on SA said that they have to weed through hundreds of messages every time they log onto the site. They spend a second on each message and move on to the next. And so, we really do have to figure out ways for our messages or profiles to stand out. I did not have a picture on my profile, and so that made it easier for the gals to just move onto the next guy's message.

On a related note, on the site many gals lie about...

There are 4 to 5 Fuglies for every guy. Very few slims, whites and babes for every guy, they get hundreds of messages. And they want more money than fuglies.

The older women are much more available, but have saggy tits, baby bellies and want to boss you around, they are less money. The older women are like cow chips. As they get older they are easier to pickup- if you like saggy tits, flabby bellies and talk, talk, talk, question, interrogations, etc.

You can post photos on the message page with each girl to stand out. I often do. Maybe a dic pic would make your profile "stand out" and let the girl know you are serious.

[Midwestern]

Like others have said before me, this is a lot of work! I must have messaged a few hundred girls already, just to get a few to respond on the site, and then even fewer to go to text. These girls don't want "form letter" intros, but there are just too many of them for anything else (I'm in a Tier 1 city).

I know what you're going through. I had this same problem when I lived in SF. So eventually I started searching nearby towns (in North Bay, East Bay, and South Bay, but still within 50 miles of SF). My success rate went up dramatically. But that meant that I had to drive a couple of hours to meet them, and the hours can really add up, and it will be way more frustrating if they do not show.

Another way to increase your success rate is to check the site every day and jump on anyone that is new to the site. Many of the gals that I ended up "dating" were ones that were very new to the site. There was this one gal, 24 years old, super hot and just returned home from finishing graduate school. I noticed that she just joined SA. I quickly chatted her up, exchanged contact info, and set up a date. After an hour or so, her profile disappeared from the site. I freaked out, because I thought I was being scammed or being targeted in a sting, or something like that. I mean, why would she be on the site for an hour or two and then disappear? And so on text, I asked her why she disappeared from the site, and she said that within the first couple of hours of her being on it, she got hundreds of guys messaging her, and it just overwhelmed her and so she went off of it. So, this really made me realize how competitive it was for us guys. SA keeps bragging that there are 4 or 5 women for every guy on the site. But there obviously is a lot of competition to get the gems. Every gal that I talked to on SA said that they have to weed through hundreds of messages every time they log onto the site. They spend a second on each message and move on to the next. And so, we really do have to figure out ways for our messages or profiles to stand out. I did not have a picture on my profile, and so that made it easier for the gals to just move onto the next guy's message.

On a related note, on the site many gals lie about their location. They might say they are located in SF when they were really in a small nearby town. Or, they might say they are in town X when they really live in town Z. I guess it made them feel more discrete.

[The Cane]

Like others have said before me, this is a lot of work! I must have messaged a few hundred girls already, just to get a few to respond on the site, and then even fewer to go to text. These girls don't want "form letter" intros, but there are just too many of them for anything else (I'm in a Tier 1 city). So, what I have is a cut and paste intro, but then I will add to it and tailor that based on things I find in the girl's profile (yes I actually read their profiles). That is, provided she says much of anything about herself in her profile! Many don't say a damn thing, and yet they want you to say something that catches their attention!

So anyway, in a little less than a couple of weeks, I have communicated with like 7 girls by text. And from there, meets and greets have been set up. Already had somebody cancel on me twice! To the back of the line! So, meet and greet process has started, and have not identified a match yet. And all of the scams man. People wanting to sell you nudes, get you to invest in their cryptocurrency business, join their swinging group (just give them your email address), prostitutes, or just straight up asking for money outright. I see a lot of female profiles get taken down every day. I'm going to do this for a short period of time, and that's it!

[Gfefan]

I had a date with the fifth one. Looks - 5/6. Attitude - 8. Action. ***.

She lives 250 kms away from me. Since I did not have time to drive that far, she agreed to. I asked her to book a decent hotel, stay for the night, and meet me for brunch next day. She did nkt go overboard and get those 500 EUR hotels. She took a 100 EUR per night. So, good news there.

We met and chatted over brunch. Looks super fit. Turns out she is an active sportswoman. Perfect. I have a thing for sportswoman as I am into sports myself. Another bonus.

Then, turns out she just got out of a manipulative relationship and is not looking for one. Great. She doesn't have problem with me being married. Excellent. Also, ok driving to meet me once or twice a month. Awesome.

Then, we went for a walk in the town. I tried all the on / off tricks from Maestro Steve but nothing worked.

She said she is not in for sex, although she is open to it in future, certainly not on first date.

I move to another cafe, and grab some drinks with her hoping to sway her to bed. Failed again.

But, decided not to spoil what might be in store for future and let her go. Paid for her hotel, gas expenses and little more (250), as promised. Another investment hopefully bears fruit in future.

She seems ok with BBFS in future. Which certainly is a bonus. But for that, I first have to gey her naked and access that sports pussy. Lets wait and watch.

SA scene for me has been mixed. Overall, I would still do it for the quality of GFE and the different feel it brings from WG.

I have chatted with 75+ girls on the site but only about 40 moved to whatsapp or telegram. 50% conversion. From there, it gets tricky because not many local.

From that 40, about 10 came to discussing potential meet and actually met only 4. This is partly because many are 100 miles or so away from where I am. Off the 4, I had three ending up on my bed.

One was in France area. Decent outing. Candle lit dinner and wine at her place. But for some reason, not exciting enough to go back. Dropped after first fuck.

Second was two dates. One brunch and one dinner. Couldn't bed her yet but I would love to. She has been claiming she needs some time to work on herself. I'm being respectful of her well being, but not sure how long a rope I should give her. Already gave her 200 Eur to fix her car but not "investing" anymore unless she is willing to let my dick out on her. Any pro tips on how I could navigate this is welcome.

Third, lunch date. Was great and it seemed like she was going to bail out but she texted me late evening again. We had a few drinks that same evening and we fucked. Not repeating because even BJ was covered but I think I can get her to uncovered if I pull my strings.

Fourth. Best of the lot. We fucked bare in my car, she has blown me while driving country roads, and also some full on sex in bedroom. This one was not even expecting money. All she wanted was my dick. But, after few months, now she says she wants to get to regular dating scene and find her life partner. Bummer but I respect her choices. Left the door open to her for coming back.

Net-Net, pipeline dried up. Meeting the fifth one this weekend. Sportswoman. Looks super athletic. We had a video chat and things look promising. She is not a 8+. More like a 5. But I hage a thing for athletes. Let's see how it goes.

Any mentorship on how to improve my conversion rate is welcome. I see some pros here, particularly Steve9696, and tell myself that I need to up my game. But, not getting there.