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12-29-21 17:14 #2574
Posts: 347Numbers are believable
I've been asked outright for 1 k twice. Paid it once and still considering it for the other. As you clearly state, it's about expectations. Paying that at a $60 AMP makes no sense but the goal and circumstances are different. Paying that to get a no kidding GFE where she now knows my money is where my mouth is and there's no BS; I've now moved up in her priority queue (hopefully) which is what I want over time (hopefully if she's not a starfish or can't hold a conversation with me).
The more I've done SA the more I look at it like a poker game. You need to make the best decisions you can with bits and pieces of info that come in all different forms (words, actions, etc). When I'm playing poker I need to ante to be in the game. I may lose 10 antes before I have a hand I want to play. Price of doing business. If I need to blow 1 k to find out she's a dud that's fine because if she's not a dud I may be happier than a pig in shit that I'm getting her so "cheap" you just don't know. To be clear, we're way past talking about blowing your load in some hot girl. We're taking about, all things being equal, one might actually consider marrying because they literally check every box.
I easily believe 5 k. My first arrangement had a guy with a several thousand person company overseas. He'd write her a check for 5 k every month. It happens. It's the holy grail for some girls but fortunately for the masses (of the rest of us guys) those guys are few and far between.
Don't ever forget, they are there to cover expenses. Rent. X, college. Why, living expenses. Z, income from her job. A, shortfall. Be (that's where you come in). In a large expensive coastal city like mine 3-5 k a month sounds like a pretty honest answer. 10 k would be a little nuts. BTW there's nothing that says you need to be her only source. As long as you're not the jealous type accept you're one of a couple other guys and reserve yourself to the line. If she's that good then her part of the time is still probably better than her none of the time.
Originally Posted by Steve9696 [View Original Post]
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12-29-21 16:59 #2573
Posts: 176Originally Posted by Steve9696 [View Original Post]
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12-29-21 16:21 #2572
Posts: 2707On a Mission
So I've been low key trying to hook up a date tonight but I am getting pros or we can't work timing or whatever. I'm now going to go on a SA mission. I'm going to hit it hard, find a girl, chat her up and meetup tonight. Wish me luck!
Ps in the WTF dept: Aftet wonderful chats and plans to meetup, I’ve had one girl ask $1000 ppm and another $5000/mo allowance. I mean WTF really?
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12-29-21 15:30 #2571
Posts: 2707Expectations are Key
Originally Posted by EverythingBlue [View Original Post]
I totally get this. Kayla has become a bit more of a homebody. She presented as a party girl (went to strip club and sex club together) but now all our dates are Netflix and chill (and still amazing bareback sex) so I am casually looking around for someone more fun on the town and it's def a slog. And I get girls who are like "let's skip dinner and just go to your hotel" and it's so funny because I am not so interested. She's saying "I just want to have sex for money" and my SA brain is saying don't settle for that. So I keep working SA and hope to turn up the real deal. But have these pros in back pocket.
And of course even tho Kayla has become more wifey we are super comfortable (too comfortable?) and sex remains mind blowing so I am careful not to accidentally kill this off.
Anyhow point is it's all in what you expect. Expect a true SA girlfriend and get a pro. disappointed. Expect to show up and fuck and get a dinner invite. Disappointed. True in all aspects of life.
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12-29-21 14:38 #2570
Posts: 347Nah, I was thinking you were banging them in the shop before opening hours. I'm a little less impressed knowing they have their own place Cheers bud.
Originally Posted by Midwestern [View Original Post]
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12-29-21 06:56 #2569
Posts: 1202Originally Posted by FilthyBeaver [View Original Post]
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12-29-21 06:46 #2568
Posts: 1202Wow, my thoughts EXACTLY
YES! That is exactly how I feel about some of the MP gals that I hooked up with in Shanghai. There is this one gal that I have known for several years now. We can barely say a few sentences to each other. And yet, she has now traveled with me to Beijing (or met me there) on over a half dozen occasions, and we just genuinely like each other. The day that I met her, if I had arrived 10 minutes later, then we probably never would have had met and had our great relationship. Yeah, yeah, maybe the other gal that I would have met that day would have been great as well. But who knows? But overall, I too feel pretty lucky with some of the MP gals that I have met over the years, and can barely have a conversation with. In fact, I saw an MP gal yesterday morning before her shift. I have known this gal for several years too. We have known each other for so long, that we now bareback. The sex is passionate, and she often orgasms. We can connect so well, but we can barely communicate. And so, every once in a while, I just go to new MPs, hoping to find the next great GF, but 9 out of 10 times, it is a failure. Oh well. I know that if I want more than just a session with a pro, then I will have to pay some dues.
Originally Posted by FilthyBeaver [View Original Post]
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12-29-21 04:04 #2567
Posts: 347If I knew the answer to that I'd know the answer to life itself
My friend, I can't explain it either. I'm talking about a girl in an MP (proper Asian, in Asia, not AMP with imported product) who will come in on her day off to see you. Or the girl who spent the whole day me after she told me she'd be fired (she inspired me to start learning her language BTW). Or the girl who desperately tries to have a conversation with me before or after the act even though she knows damn well I don't speak hers and she speaks even less of mine. They like what they l like when they like it. Had I been a day later or an hour earlier before some a-hole customer who the hell knows what the result would have been but thank God the stars aligned the way they did. I will never forget any of those girls. Total magic.
Originally Posted by Midwestern [View Original Post]
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12-29-21 03:02 #2566
Posts: 1202Yep totally know what you mean
Originally Posted by FilthyBeaver [View Original Post]
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12-29-21 02:26 #2565
Posts: 347Wow
At their home? Don't they live there (at least the AMPS)? That's a whole new level of game for me. Congrats. If you need a padawan I'm willing to polish your lightsaber in exchange for training in that side of the force.
Originally Posted by Midwestern [View Original Post]
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12-29-21 02:20 #2564
Posts: 347Way more info needed
What's "reasonable" to you for a flight? Time / distance, cost? Skinny under 25 girls are all over the planet so then you need to ask yourself what you like. White, black, Latina. Latinas tend to plump up fast so as a numbers guy I'd say that wouldn't be my first choice. If it were me I'd pick a large wealthy city in a first world country for the best chance of getting what I want from my post a few back. We are on the SA board so if you want a legit SB that's the way AFAIK. If you just want to bang a hot young girl and forget her name walking back to your car, pick a place where prostitution is legal or tolerated e. G. Deutschland.
Originally Posted by ShadowJ [View Original Post]
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12-29-21 01:55 #2563
Posts: 1202Little desire these days
These days, I am just visiting MP gals (at their homes) before their shift starts. Otherwise, I have not been that active. It's cold where I live. Everyone is bundled up. Without seeing some flesh, I have lost my horniness. I need the skirts to come back. LOL.
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12-29-21 01:47 #2562
Posts: 1202Want a gem? Then you need to be a gem too.
For the USA market, I admit that it was tough finding gems. But to get one, you have to be a gem too. Luckily, it only requires three things IMHO.
First, you cannot be physically hideous.
Second, you cannot be an asshole (and on a related note, you do not want to do super bizarre weird sh! T in bed).
Third, you are in it for more than the sex. Like, you will actually hang out with her.
If you just want great sex with a hottie, then do not waste you time on SA in the USA. Instead, just go with a pro.
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12-29-21 01:37 #2561
Posts: 1202Originally Posted by ShadowJ [View Original Post]
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12-28-21 22:04 #2560
Posts: 113My SA experience
I've been on SA for about a year and I must say, it has changed my life. I'm banging higher quantity and quality than I have at any other point in my adult life. I've been doing almost monthly trips to Tijuana and to Bogota. In a workweek, I try to bang 2-3 chicks per day and I've been doing a healthy mix of new girls and repeats with favorites. I've got my script down so I am upfront that I'm looking for "friends with benefits" and that I expect our relations to be natural. That selects out a decent percentage of girls but I've built a pretty extensive database of girls who are down.
That said, I'd like to ask for some guidance. I'd like to try another city (within a reasonable flight from the east coast of the US). I LOVE skinny girls (under 100 lbs) under 25 years old. What is a good, fertile place for me to hit?