Seeking Arrangements

[DonCarlos1234]

IMO guys in LA should flog the log during the week, hop on the train to Tijuana on the weekends, and have a ball there. $500 can score you 5 (or more) different women on the weekend.

You could not pay me $500 to have sex in California with a woman there. No fucking way!

In the 60"s there was "free love" ? Today If that other Elvis was alive, imagine the lawsuits. Probably over 1,000. And Frank Sinatra LOL Yes Tijuana is a bargain. So crowded last few days, like wild animals let out of their cages. (sex prison).

[Midwestern]

Midwestern, I believe you have been in China for awhile. I don't think I would recommend going to the apartment of a Latin American girl you barely know with cash. Even if you throw out the concern of theft, there are jealous boyfriends or the frumpy roommate in the next room.

Now I have been to the apartments of Brazilian escorts. However, they have been well-reviewed and live in nice neighborhoods.

Hiya Wyatt:

Actually, I was referring the United States. When I was active on SA, I ended up going to over a dozen girls' homes. And I will tell you something, it was scary as shit, LOL. Of course, I wouldn't just go to their homes the first time straightaway. We would meet in a bar or restaurant, and then later we would go back to her place. However, every time that I did this, before I entered her apartment, I would jot down her apartment number and address and text it to someone (or pretend to text it to someone). I would tell the girl that I am doing this in case I disappear, and she would either chuckle, or say that she understood and that it was a good idea.

This reminds me of one time when the girl invited me over to her place on our 2nd date. She actually had a nice home, which was something that she got in a divorce. Anyway, that night, it was snowing. As I walked up to her front door, I noticed huge boot prints that were very fresh. I panicked, because maybe there was a huge guy waiting to rob me. But this girl had such great big tits, that I decided it was worth the risk. How stupid was that? But I got rewarded for my risk taking.

But I agree with you that it is risky and that everyone needs to exercise caution. As for Latin Americans, I don't have a thing for them. Every person that I dated on SA were white Americans. I have boring tastes.

[WyattEarp]

Other than chemistry and physical appearance, probably my next most important criteria for an SB is if she can host. I often brought this up at the meet and greet. But eventually, it was one of the first questions that I asked when we started texting. Man, when an SB cannot host, it racks up the costs and the inconvenience.

I was thinking about this today when I visited my favorite pro at her apartment. As an aside, she has a new roommate, and so we had her join the fun. Just nice being able to show up and then leave.

Midwestern, I believe you have been in China for awhile. I don't think I would recommend going to the apartment of a Latin American girl you barely know with cash. Even if you throw out the concern of theft, there are jealous boyfriends or the frumpy roommate in the next room.

Now I have been to the apartments of Brazilian escorts. However, they have been well-reviewed and live in nice neighborhoods.

[Midwestern]

Most of your questions have been answered in depth and in detail in this thread. You might start from the very beginning to get some basic answers, and then look for Steve's excellent guide for noobs. After that, you should skim the rest of the thread, as lots of posters from all over the world have provided excellent suggestions. Lots of Europeans on here too. Spending a few hours reading this thread will definitely pay off. Good luck!

I'm thinking of entering the seeking.com scene. Some of my questions below are therefore novice. Please bear with me.

1. How is the scene in Europe? I live in Luxembourg. So, neighboring border areas of Germany, France, Belgium, Netherlands are easy.

2. What are some tips you pros would recommend?

3. Are there any specific pitfalls I should be aware of? Particularly, how do you spot time wasters / baiters?

4. Lastly, if I do find a good fit (let's say a Girl next door type who is not a WG), what are your thoughts on considering engaging without protection?

Many thanks for your guidance / help.

[Gfefan]

I'm thinking of entering the seeking.com scene. Some of my questions below are therefore novice. Please bear with me.

1. How is the scene in Europe? I live in Luxembourg. So, neighboring border areas of Germany, France, Belgium, Netherlands are easy.

2. What are some tips you pros would recommend?

3. Are there any specific pitfalls I should be aware of? Particularly, how do you spot time wasters / baiters?

4. Lastly, if I do find a good fit (let's say a Girl next door type who is not a WG), what are your thoughts on considering engaging without protection?

Many thanks for your guidance / help.

[Midwestern]

Other than chemistry and physical appearance, probably my next most important criteria for an SB is if she can host. I often brought this up at the meet and greet. But eventually, it was one of the first questions that I asked when we started texting. Man, when an SB cannot host, it racks up the costs and the inconvenience.

I was thinking about this today when I visited my favorite pro at her apartment. As an aside, she has a new roommate, and so we had her join the fun. Just nice being able to show up and then leave.

[DramaFree11]

Hey gents,

What city or cities are the best in terms of SA girls quality and selection and affordability / price? Top-3 based on your experience.

In Central and Latin America only.

Thanks!

1. MTY 2. Mexico City 3. GDL 4. If you can get a cheap flight Colombia, (Some likeit there others do not).

[TonyMontanaaO7]

Same here, I call them sugar girlfriends. I've had a few where it was boyfriend / girlfriend type of stuff.

Getting Catfished is really very common in SA.

[SeekingHead]

Over the past few months, I had to shift from SBs / regulars to WGs. I will say, I have saved a lot of time and money. However, I miss the text messages. My SBs / regulars used to text me about a dozen times a day, and now I miss it. These SBs / regulars really make me feel like that I am their BF, while the WGs just make me feel like a customer, even though their service may be great. At some point, I will start looking for new SBs / regulars soon. Especially as the weather gets better. I love having a GF when the weather is nice. Or maybe I just get hornier when girls start showing more skin when they start wearing their shorts and summer dresses.

Same here, I call them sugar girlfriends. I've had a few where it was boyfriend / girlfriend type of stuff.

[MiamiBoy1]

Hey gents,

What city or cities are the best in terms of SA girls quality and selection and affordability / price? Top-3 based on your experience.

In Central and Latin America only.

Thanks!

[Midwestern]

Over the past few months, I had to shift from SBs / regulars to WGs. I will say, I have saved a lot of time and money. However, I miss the text messages. My SBs / regulars used to text me about a dozen times a day, and now I miss it. These SBs / regulars really make me feel like that I am their BF, while the WGs just make me feel like a customer, even though their service may be great. At some point, I will start looking for new SBs / regulars soon. Especially as the weather gets better. I love having a GF when the weather is nice. Or maybe I just get hornier when girls start showing more skin when they start wearing their shorts and summer dresses.

Agree, Regulars are great. They text every couple days, some give me rides home from restaurants instead of taking cabs, it is the little things that makes arrangements better then straight up Escorts. Some guys get upset at what we pay girls, not me as I have said many times I get way back in return. Well worth the investment.

Another example that you can not put a value on. In the last 2 weeks, 3 girls have agreed to meet me in Laredo. They ride the bus for 3 hours to meet, 3 hour drive for me, plus the border, usually not an issue in the evenings, so it does not add significant time. What more can I ask for, we spend the night together and fun. Back to work the next day. You will never find and escort that will do that, without major compensation. The haters can keep complaining, while I and others perfect the game. Life is good! Off to my favorite restaurant in MTY to meet a stunning and exotic girl. 4th meeting of the day.

[DramaFree11]

So generally my SB relationships have been in passing. Not because I love it that way but because if I see a girl in a city when I travel it's only a night or two. And I hope to see them next visit, but who knows when that is. It's only with Covid I've really developed long term SB on the home front. With Layla.

For a variety of reasons we couldn't meet up for six weeks. And so when we did finally meet up it was great to see her. I guess we've been seeing each other off and on for 7 months now so we are really comfortable. She has sort of a boyfriend now but we are comfortable enough that's not a problem for either of us (or him actually). We had a nice lunch because I wanted to enjoy her beyond the room. And I went out of my way to bring a special drink for her.

After settling in and drinking some more I am sitting on the edge of the bed naked and she is on her knees blowing me. She's settled in as well and at some point announces "I thought we'the just do this for maybe an hour" WTF? Have I died and gone to heaven? Sure enough we do almost an hour of relaxed BJ. I'the done this with Alexa also recently and it's soo fun. I meant just casual. We're chatting and she's blowing me. We might take a break and drink some more wine and take a pee and then settle in again and get me worked up from scratch again. OMG it was great.

Agree, Regulars are great. They text every couple days, some give me rides home from restaurants instead of taking cabs, it is the little things that makes arrangements better then straight up Escorts. Some guys get upset at what we pay girls, not me as I have said many times I get way back in return. Well worth the investment.

Another example that you can not put a value on. In the last 2 weeks, 3 girls have agreed to meet me in Laredo. They ride the bus for 3 hours to meet, 3 hour drive for me, plus the border, usually not an issue in the evenings, so it does not add significant time. What more can I ask for, we spend the night together and fun. Back to work the next day. You will never find and escort that will do that, without major compensation. The haters can keep complaining, while I and others perfect the game. Life is good! Off to my favorite restaurant in MTY to meet a stunning and exotic girl. 4th meeting of the day.

[Steve 9696]

So generally my SB relationships have been in passing. Not because I love it that way but because if I see a girl in a city when I travel it's only a night or two. And I hope to see them next visit, but who knows when that is. It's only with Covid I've really developed long term SB on the home front. With Layla.

For a variety of reasons we couldn't meet up for six weeks. And so when we did finally meet up it was great to see her. I guess we've been seeing each other off and on for 7 months now so we are really comfortable. She has sort of a boyfriend now but we are comfortable enough that's not a problem for either of us (or him actually). We had a nice lunch because I wanted to enjoy her beyond the room. And I went out of my way to bring a special drink for her.

After settling in and drinking some more I am sitting on the edge of the bed naked and she is on her knees blowing me. She's settled in as well and at some point announces "I thought we'the just do this for maybe an hour" WTF? Have I died and gone to heaven? Sure enough we do almost an hour of relaxed BJ. I'the done this with Alexa also recently and it's soo fun. I meant just casual. We're chatting and she's blowing me. We might take a break and drink some more wine and take a pee and then settle in again and get me worked up from scratch again. OMG it was great.

And so much laughter. Like she goes to spit on my dick and misses and hits me on the stomach. We both busted a gut. And later she goes to drool some spit in her cleavage as we tittie fuck some (nice!) and she misses and drools it on her tummy. LOL. She's pretty drunk but we both love her that way.

When we finally do fuck we use this new position that we discovered and we both love. Her on her back pussy at edge of bed legs in air. Me standing and spread my legs enough to get a nice line up with her pussy and wow. It's great. I can fuck forever like this because it's not tiring. And for her since I am an upcurve it really strokes her gspot. After a TON of fucking I let er rip in that position. Nice!

Later she's texts that she adores me. Like that too. Regulars are different than new girls but in a nice way.

[CenTexCrash]

Had a beachy outing to PVallarta via Monterrey. Just wanted to do something different for a change of scenery. And as a revenge trip from that time I went to MTY for 4 days and everything was closed.

Initially put out feelers to MTY, GDL, and CDMX to see if any SBs wanted to tag along to a beach outing. One curvy girl from CDMX seemed pretty serious about tagging on board but I got distracted by other DMs and should probably dig to find her she seems promising.

Prior to trip had two promising SBs in PVR and several more in MTY. One of 2 PVR nominees once I touched down in PVR finally said "well I'm on my period" but I got her WhatsApp info for future trips. Other PVR girl I forgot about didn't resurface until after my flight leaving PVR had a connection in GDL.

Flight was delayed, arrived in MTY, no SBs answering DMs. Went straight to bed. Next day, with trip cut short, one promising girl I had been chatting for 2 weeks "woke up with the flu" and couldn't meet, other just went AWOL until after I already boarded a Monday night bus back to Laredo.

That was almost 10 days ago and I haven't bothered logging into SA since. Maybe should give it another try.

[AsianMarkCuban]

Since we have new folks joining the group here, thought my newbie guide might help. This is primarily in the USA, though I did Argentina and UK with similar approach. And this was written for fly-in and may need adjustment for hometown game. Others who have done more pro / liberal destinations like MDE or MTY may want to augment.

So how do you do it properly? I suppose this could vary widely depending on what you are after. But I am after a girl who FEELS like a girlfriend. She's affectionate, appreciates an evening above her usual stature in life, and is able to actually enjoy herself with you. She views the allowance / gift (I. E. Money!) as a bonus. Not the only thing she is after. Any girl where I feel money is the primary motivation and she will go with anyone for a high enough price, gets kicked straight to the curb. She's got to be a girlfriend first, and benefit second.

Knowing that this is the kind of girl I want to attract (and other guys I have talked to also find this persona the most attractive) there is a set of rules you chave to play by. Understand that SA is NOT AT ALL like picking up hookers. It is much more like meeting a girl into a bar and seducing her to leave with you. It's just an online bar. Sure you need money, but you also need some distance game and you need to treat her with respect. If you do, you have a chance of closing the deal. However, the moment you disrespect her, she will be gone.

Most importantly, never discuss sex or money. These things will be implied and they will be done offline. Never discuss sex or money on SA and really never discuss sex at all. As soon as you are that explicit, the kind of girl you are after will feel disrespected and ghost you in no time flat.

Love the fact that you are sharing # $$$ here. I would use this as a reference in Dubai as well. Talked to a MILF and she is like pay me 400 bucks for a lunch meet. I'm like. I'm famous too! Haha JK.

Thanks buddy!