Seeking Arrangements

[DramaFree11]

Thanks for the details DramaFree. Mexico City will be a future destination certainly, but I would like to test out an easier location when it comes to competition for attention. I've had some SA success in Tijuana, Ensenada, and Guadalajara so I'm working myself up to the big leagues.

I'll look into NH San Pedro, seems like the accommodation I am looking for. For the week my budget will be $5 k. Taking away flight and hotel expenses, my fun budget will be $4 k which roughly puts me at $500/ day. What would you do with that sort of budget to seal the deal with the best SA girls MTY has to offer, like where you would offer to take them for dinner etc. ? From some of the previous posts it seems I can get most girls for $150-300 an encounter.

1. Sonora Prime is great. Not the best food,(above average), but really fun and most of the time you get 2 for one drinks. The food in MTY is not as good as other cities you have visited in Mexico. Make sure you ask for a waiter that speaks English. Order there tacos way cheaper then the steaks and probably better.

I was there 4 nights last wee, with 4 different girls. I had an extended stay.

2. I would stick with $150-225, no need to go much higher then that.

I am little to busy at work, to be traveling to M. City at the moment, plus I want to see what happens with the economy. Unfortunately things are not looking good and I am afraid Biden is in way over his head. Mexico city I was spending $500-700 a day, but so much fun. I have more sex in MTY, but way more fun in M. City. Also, the girls are way more sophisticated and dates were way longer there.

[SamPeter71]

I concur on cdmx. I am going back on Thursday. I was staying at NH centro. Do you like NH reforma?

Both Mexico City and MTY are great. Honestly, Mexico City is better and there the sky is the limit there. Definitely more expensive, but so much fun.

MYY is easier and girls are total freaks. Another plus is you can easily call escorts, in MTY. Escorts are much more expensive in.

M. City.

I stay at the NH and love it. Great location. I work out a deal with the manager and they give me a suite now super cheap. Another great thing is there is a separate entrance at the restaurant, so you can take girls up that way and you do not have to pass the front desk. They just reopened this entrance, so good.

[KingOfPoverty]

Both Mexico City and MTY are great. Honestly, Mexico City is better and there the sky is the limit there. Definitely more expensive, but so much fun.

MYY is easier and girls are total freaks. Another plus is you can easily call escorts, in MTY. Escorts are much more expensive in.

M. City.

I stay at the NH and love it. Great location. I work out a deal with the manager and they give me a suite now super cheap. Another great thing is there is a separate entrance at the restaurant, so you can take girls up that way and you do not have to pass the front desk. They just reopened this entrance, so good.

Thanks for the details DramaFree. Mexico City will be a future destination certainly, but I would like to test out an easier location when it comes to competition for attention. I've had some SA success in Tijuana, Ensenada, and Guadalajara so I'm working myself up to the big leagues.

I'll look into NH San Pedro, seems like the accommodation I am looking for. For the week my budget will be $5 k. Taking away flight and hotel expenses, my fun budget will be $4 k which roughly puts me at $500/ day. What would you do with that sort of budget to seal the deal with the best SA girls MTY has to offer, like where you would offer to take them for dinner etc. ? From some of the previous posts it seems I can get most girls for $150-300 an encounter.

[DramaFree11]

What hotel is NH??

San Pedro, you want to stay in San Pedro.

[Maha Siddha]

Both Mexico City and MTY are great. Honestly, Mexico City is better and there the sky is the limit there. Definitely more expensive, but so much fun.

MYY is easier and girls are total freaks. Another plus is you can easily call escorts, in MTY. Escorts are much more expensive in.

M. City.

I stay at the NH and love it. Great location. I work out a deal with the manager and they give me a suite now super cheap. Another great thing is there is a separate entrance at the restaurant, so you can take girls up that way and you do not have to pass the front desk. They just reopened this entrance, so good.

What hotel is NH??

[DramaFree11]

I'm going to venture into Monterrey Mexico based on all the hype from the posters here. I'll plan for a week long trip the first week of July. I'm more of quality over quantity so a new girl every 1-2 days is good enough for me. When I solidify plans, my MO is dinner, drinks, and overnights. For those of you guys who have had experience, where is good upper end hotel to stay in that is girl friendly? I'm more fond of business type hotels (think NH Hotels) since it's easier to close the deal if I am staying at nice place.

Both Mexico City and MTY are great. Honestly, Mexico City is better and there the sky is the limit there. Definitely more expensive, but so much fun.

MYY is easier and girls are total freaks. Another plus is you can easily call escorts, in MTY. Escorts are much more expensive in.

M. City.

I stay at the NH and love it. Great location. I work out a deal with the manager and they give me a suite now super cheap. Another great thing is there is a separate entrance at the restaurant, so you can take girls up that way and you do not have to pass the front desk. They just reopened this entrance, so good.

[KingOfPoverty]

I'm going to venture into Monterrey Mexico based on all the hype from the posters here. I'll plan for a week long trip the first week of July. I'm more of quality over quantity so a new girl every 1-2 days is good enough for me. When I solidify plans, my MO is dinner, drinks, and overnights. For those of you guys who have had experience, where is good upper end hotel to stay in that is girl friendly? I'm more fond of business type hotels (think NH Hotels) since it's easier to close the deal if I am staying at nice place.

[Blood Red]

At least she had the "decency" to actually show up, unlike most scammers. But, I simply cannot believe you gave her the money. That's the kind of thing that makes it worth it for these crooks to do it again. Headache or not, I would have told her time to leave! Have a headache? That's your problem. Now get out! Unbelievable. The level of fraud on Seeking is just out of control, and definitely turned me off to the whole thing. When it's all said and done, I'm definitely not a convert Steve. It started out great in the first couple of weeks, but all downhill from there. Final thoughts to come later.

You are correct Sir, I was a fucking retard that night. Lesson learned the hard way. Regarding her showing up, she showed up to get the money. No show, no money.

[The Cane]

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...5-51c9b6fe511e

So, I checked out the link that Blood Red shared with us and? This scam artist "favorited" me and then introduced herself as a French woman living in Dubai LOLOLOL! I blocked her ass hahaha! Well, at least she isn't lying about where she lives, like so many of these women do. But, she's been "outed", at least here on this site. Wish it happened more often and in wider circles to where these scam artists get exposed and their trade ruined.

[The Cane]

Here's my story and I can totally relate to what you just posted above, with the annoying, fake caring like questions:

Here's the SA profile of the fraudster, con artist that scammed me, she changes it every month or so after scamming a bunch of people, BEWARE.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...5-51c9b6fe511e

At least she had the "decency" to actually show up, unlike most scammers. But, I simply cannot believe you gave her the money. That's the kind of thing that makes it worth it for these crooks to do it again. Headache or not, I would have told her time to leave! Have a headache? That's your problem. Now get out! Unbelievable. The level of fraud on Seeking is just out of control, and definitely turned me off to the whole thing. When it's all said and done, I'm definitely not a convert Steve. It started out great in the first couple of weeks, but all downhill from there. Final thoughts to come later.

[Blood Red]

I am sharing some of the red flags that I had encountered in SA and transition to WhatsApp.

- Pay special attention to initiation of contact from the girl who would then want to transition to WhatsApp, and then finding that message thread disappear from your message list the next day.

- On WhatsApp, she would appear to so caring to be the point of being annoying, questions like "How's your day? Did you have a good rest? Have you eaten yet? Etc etc. " Maybe if she claimed to be an Asian, that could fit into the profile, but to say that she is an European who happened to be living in the US, yeah right. Anyway, even for Asian girl, I would still look at it with suspicion.

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Here's my story and I can totally relate to what you just posted above, with the annoying, fake caring like questions:

Here's the SA profile of the fraudster, con artist that scammed me, she changes it every month or so after scamming a bunch of people, BEWARE.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...5-51c9b6fe511e

So I met this lady from Seeking Arrangement Dubai last night, my first SA Dxb experience, and it was a fucking nightmare. I'll keep it brief and will then throw in a question for you guys in order to get some sage advice:

So met the lady, a pushy, middle aged French Woman, decent looking at best. Met her for dinner, she asked for 1500 'allowance' and claims to have a regular job and not to be an escort (yeah right). She was much less attractive in person compared to her pics, but still fuckable, although not by much. So we had dinner, she was decent company. We had agreed that if we like each other somewhat, we'd proceed after dinner to my apartment for some 'intimate time' (got to love the SA euphemisms). So off we went to my apartment, and she quickly changed to get into bed. This is where it gets fucked up.

So once in bed and when I proceeded to join her, she gets hit by a headache and has low energy and isn't feeling well. She says she wants to take a nap for 15 to 30 minutes, sets her alarm clock to 15 min intervals to wake herself up. This goes on for about an hour and she is asleep, saying she doesn't feel well. Then she wakes up and asks for her 'allowance', which I like a dumb retard proceed to give her and she goes for another nap. At this time I can tell something is wrong and I am not going to see any action. I didn't want drama with her or a confrontation, although should have held my ground and decided to tell her that let's call it a night and she can go home as she does not well. So I lost 1500, an expensive dinner and didn't see any action. It was so fucking frustrating. I don't know if it was a scam and it could be entirely possible that she wasn't feeling well, but what pisses me off is that she still had the nerve to ask for her allowance when she knew she was not feeling well or whatever. So that was that. She never contacted me after that and neither did I, I knew I had scammed but rather than lash out at her, I decided to let karma sort her out.

[Dickus Maximus]

To add legitimacy they will be using legitimate pics and stories from real girls so they a have a daily feed of new pics.

Although I love Chinese girls, I won't even talk to them now on these apps. All are BS, not willing to wade through the amount of BS to find one that might be real.

[Maha Siddha]

How far advanced I should get the pay membership and having line up?

I plan a trip to Mexico City and Panama city in Late April / Early May.

It seems promising using SA to get bbfscip with semi-pro or civi girl while having overseas trip.

So I should say upfront what I want so no confusion correct?

Thanks for the help.

[AsianPursuits]

I had her top off when she asked me about money. This girl was expecting me to give her $1000 wtf. She said her last arrangement was giving her 1500 per meet. Who is out here paying girls 1500 for sex? She left after I offered her a few hundred and sounded insulted saying crap like a guy who makes X could afford it..

There is some history in this forum of wanting to address the money issue well before the bedroom scene. Males are terrible at negotiating when they have a raging hard cock. It's a fine line though between discussing too early and sounding like a punter.

[GoingDumb]

Finally had a solid SA experience. Had a first date with a girl last week. Cute, early 20's with a nice behind. Had met for coffee the previous week and had gone fine. A few hours before she texts to confirm ppm and asks if I'the been tested. Said I had in Feb, she had as well. When clothes started coming off she said she was ok with bb and said she was on the pill so I cip. I was a little surprised at how comfortable she was with it. Afterwards I asked her if she was seeing anyone else and she said not at the moment, same for me. Told her I didn't mind if she did but I'the want to know and use protection if she was. I'm still a little worried she could be lying about the pill so pull out next time. Planning on seeing her next weekend, hoping it could be regular.

I know initial coffee platonic date isn't recommended but it makes planning much easier for me. Got a reservation at a nice place, hotel 5 minutes away. The ambiguity and logistics stress me out on first meets when I'm not sure what they're down for.

This was also the first time I took v. It definitely helped but I'm a little sad I needed it even with bb barely over 30. Does it affect your sensation at all? I wasn't really sure. Are you guys able to have sex without it? I don't want it to be a crutch either.