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04-23-22 23:06 #3227
Posts: 111Originally Posted by JJanni [View Original Post]
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04-23-22 20:38 #3226
Posts: 236Same feeling
I agree. SBs spoil us so much that normal sex with regular partners, particularly wife, is ruined.
Originally Posted by JJanni [View Original Post]
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04-23-22 13:35 #3225
Posts: 260Exhausted.
Just had the SB I posted about earlier over for what turned out to be 43 hours (Thursday afternoon to Saturday morning) of utter debauchery (some, but not enough sleep).
In what world is it possible for me to spend that amount of time with a fit, athletic, beautiful, clever, enthralling combination of innocence and sluttiness, submissive and kinky as fuck 19 year old girl?
She's ruined normal sex for me. And presented me with a problem. I really want to spend the rest of my leave just seeing how far I can push her. And we've gone plenty fat already!
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04-23-22 02:21 #3224
Posts: 533Flagged Words
Originally Posted by TheCane [View Original Post]
She wrote back a whole bunch of text, and then finally mentioned 0 drama, 500 ppm and so on all in one sentence.
I thought for a while this could be a flagged because of the keyword. Not sure if the whole bunch of text that she wrote earlier masked the conversation that the bot had failed to pick that up. I decided to risk it and gave her my number and told her to connect. Anyway, so far so good.
I wonder if both parties could be flagged even though if I never mention anything about a ppm or a figure? I hope the word "arrangement" is not a problematic keyword, otherwise it will be so idiotic. In most cases, I would try to get our conversation off-site as soon as I can by either asking for her number or just giving her mine. My number is a disposable google number anyway.
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04-22-22 20:08 #3223
Posts: 1385Originally Posted by TheCane [View Original Post]
Definitely not advisable to use PPM in site messages or even offsite.
SA itself has changed. They used to have FWB as one of the "seeking" metrics. They removed it now and replaced with luxury, etc. 4 to 5 years ago, they even had dollar numbers attached to the brackets, such as "less than $2,000 a month, between 2 K to 5 K, more than 10 K etc."
They have become a lot more circumspect now. When they have a golden goose producing so much cashflow, they'd be stupid to jeopardize and risking a shutdown ala backpage etc.
And of course, FwB was synonymous with sex but they removed that also from their tags. You used to be search through girls lists with "white, slim, less than 25, tall, seeking FWB and at $2 K month"; those days are gone.
I was foolish enough to use FWB a few times early on. Then quickly I cut it out. Now I always say "let us meet and get to know each other and spend some no drama stress free time." Eventually they understand my intent. When and if any girl explicitly mentions sex in a message, on SA or off site texting, I normally block her or delete the message and cool it with her for a few weeks.
As for PPM, I get around it by saying "I give weekly allowance and prefer to meet once a week." Of course, if the first meet doesn't go well, there are no follow up meets. They understand that too.
Honestly, I was never concerned about SA kicking me out. Perhaps I was there for so long and became complacent. I am much more careful about LE. No point in saying things in writing that would not look good in a court. Keep it bland, and say whatever you have to say in person, one to one.
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04-22-22 13:13 #3222
Posts: 122Originally Posted by MahaSiddha [View Original Post]
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04-22-22 11:56 #3221
Posts: 6400Pay-Per-Meet
Originally Posted by GoingDumb [View Original Post]
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04-22-22 06:21 #3220
Posts: 64Help on how to NOT get flagged and suspended?
I paid my premium two weeks ago and yesterday got permanently suspended. The only trigger l can recall is A girl says 5000 peso per appointment and l say something back. So you guys just block that girl in this scenario? Do you guys get the girl WhatsApp or telegram right off the bat and not even small chitchat? I created two unpaid account using random outlook account and both of them got banned within 3 minutes.
Any SA alternative recommend for country like Mexico, Colombia?
Thanks for the help.
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04-22-22 05:45 #3219
Posts: 462Originally Posted by Midwestern [View Original Post]
FYI on my profile I say that I will host but I never do (I can't). I find that this offer is enough to pass a girls 'sniff' test as to why I would be reluctant to host. So my ostensible offer to host unlocks hosting opportunities.
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04-22-22 05:10 #3218
Posts: 1202SA in your hometown
Originally Posted by Ggekko2009 [View Original Post]
I would never let an SB know where I live. So I would never host.
At first, I traveled to neighboring cities a lot to meet SBs, and that was hit or miss, but mostly miss, and a lot of time wasted.
Eventually, my main criteria for SBs in my hometown was if she could host. If not, then I passed. At first, it was a little scary to enter a stranger's home (what if she had guys there to beat me up and steal my money and take and post pictures of me? And so I would text someone her address just before I entered her place. I would always tell them straight up that I was doing this for my protection, and they all thought this was sensible. But one gal said that I should not worry becuase why would she let anything bad happen since I knew where she lived, and I thought that was a good point. But to be honest, it is rare to find an SB that can host or is willing to host.
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04-22-22 03:38 #3217
Posts: 1385Originally Posted by AmericanPi [View Original Post]
I'd say, 3 variables matter. Location, individual chemistry, luck. Like real estate, price / quality / quantity are considerably dependent on location. Individual chemistry is important. A girl might give something to a guy at some price that might not give another guy at the same or even higher price. SA is not prostitution with standardized rates. Finally, luck. Can never underestimate this. I have gotten lucky on SA sometimes, I also was unlucky, and sometimes I knew it while happening and other times, I realized it was luck or misfortune only in hindsight.
But I am quite with you. Especially in the poorer, E EU / see EU locations, I am quite convinced you can get good sex at low prices. SA might or might not be the best site. Language is an issue but there may be other sites through which one could find better deals. A gentleman called Bfsie, posting from Germany 3 years ago said he used a different site as far as I remember. He had been a long time user of sugarbabes and seemed to be having a ball and his prices were really on par with FKK at that time (100 EUro per hour) with quite a few goodies occasionally for free (BBFS, CIM, anal, etc). That was in Germany, so it may be even cheaper in E EU. But one has to know the local sites for that to happen.
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04-22-22 02:55 #3216
Posts: 123Originally Posted by Pk099 [View Original Post]
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04-22-22 00:35 #3215
Posts: 1385Originally Posted by Pk099 [View Original Post]
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04-21-22 22:24 #3214
Posts: 3160Originally Posted by Pk099 [View Original Post]
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04-21-22 22:22 #3213
Posts: 3160Originally Posted by Pessimist [View Original Post]
Originally Posted by Pessimist [View Original Post]
The best excuse I ever heard was going to the gym and leaving your phone in a locker and going with your burner after that. You can even take a shower after the deed.
But I think wives still know. I came home one time after showering and got all the glitter off. ("Honey, I was not a strip club. I tried making you a card with all that glitter but with that attitude, I am not giving it to you. ") and the ex-wife said you went to a strip club. I asked why she thought that, and she told me it was the only time I was happy.
Maybe some guys can pull it off, but apparently I could not with mine. I think most wives know but will themselves to believe it is not true.
If your wife is making it and bringing an equal or significant amount to the marriage, Pessimist, IMO she is the rare wife who is not a ho. A ho takes money for sex. A pro takes money for sex from many men. There are a lot of wives who are glorified hos, and a lot of SBs who are pros.