Seeking Arrangements

[The Cane]

I guess my point is that SA is not scam-free.

That's got to be the biggest understatement ever written in this thread. SA is infested with fakes, flakes, fraudsters, and scammers. That's what ultimately drove me away from it.

[Midwestern]

I agree and you're right. I'm just pretty shook by it and worried it will happen again. Maybe it's a sign to get off seeking. I'd just be paranoid the next time I went to a hotel with a girl, even if we'd met before.

Her running off with your money, while you were in the bathroom, is quite brazen. I remember one guy that got ripped off on SA, he was so mad at her that he made sure everyone knew she was a scammer. He created a new profile as an SB, but the entire profile was him warning all the SDs to stay away from the scammer's profile. You could also report her profile to the SA admiinstrators.

My buddy got scammed by a craigslist gal many years ago. She came to his room, asked for money up front, and then said that her friend was downstairs and would love to do a threesome, no extra charge. And so my dumb friend said okay, and let the gal go get her friend. It took over an hour before he realized that he was never seeing that gal ever again. I guess my point is that SA is not scam-free, just lilke nothing in this hobby is scam-free. For SA, I primarily just used it for GFE, so that helped minimize getting scammed. If there were times when I just wanted a pro, I would not use SA.

[AmericanPi]

Don't blame the victim. We've all fallen prey to someone, somewhere. It happens.

The best thing to do is not let it over influence your experience in life. It happens. You sleep with dogs you sometimes get fleas.

Just move on. It's just money and a bad experience. There are so many good experiences that make it all worthwhile.

There is always risk meeting a WG. Just like there is risk for the girl. You should at best pay 1/2 or walk when they ask to be paid in advance. You can show the money and agree on the amount, but there is no reason to hand it over. Chasing after the girl is really stupid. Are you going to assault her to get it back? At best it is a he said, she said. The police will side with the girl since that is the easiest thing for them to do--particularly for a foreigner. On the other hand, she could have planned this scam with others and they will be there to beat you up. Your radar should have warned you when you first met.

[Akibono]

Finally got scammed. Girl asked for the money when we got in the room, I obliged and she ran when I was in the bathroom. I felt it was coming so I tried to chase after her but she started yelling so I stopped. She was the only girl who asked for money before anything happened and I should've known better. We had met in public first for coffee so wasn't straight to the hotel. When I said I wanted to do apple pay she said she wanted cash so I went to an ATM. Should I have called the police? I saw the car she left in and followed for a little but figured it wasn't worth it. She could've taken phone wallet and keys but just took the cash so I'm lucky.

There is always risk meeting a WG. Just like there is risk for the girl. You should at best pay 1/2 or walk when they ask to be paid in advance. You can show the money and agree on the amount, but there is no reason to hand it over. Chasing after the girl is really stupid. Are you going to assault her to get it back? At best it is a he said, she said. The police will side with the girl since that is the easiest thing for them to do--particularly for a foreigner. On the other hand, she could have planned this scam with others and they will be there to beat you up. Your radar should have warned you when you first met.

[Ggekko2009]

Howdy folks,

I'm having a ball in Colombia with SA. It seems to work better here than any developed country I've tried. In that there's a big pool of attractive, college aged girls looking for financial support. I'm picking up Spanish quickly which helps.

Agree with your assessment. I had a blast with the Colombian girls on SA the last time and there are a big pool of college girls. Heading to Colombia again next month with a fresh list of college girls to call up when I am there. With each visit, my Spanish improves ever slightly more.

[Steve 9696]

OMG. I'm supposed to be relaxing with a sea of girls to choose from but I'm stressing out juggling them. Kinda my own fault I suppose. I've kinda fallen in love (long distance) with this one girl and we vibes so well. But she's been hard to get ahold of of late and sometimes I'm double texting. She's been kinda non commital so really I should just move on. But I don't want to. So I set up some side pieces. Now we are literally 4 hours from her coming over and I'm not 100% sure we are on. I've got 2-3 other girls ready to meetup and kind stringing along and it's stressing me out!

I know I got to just fish or cut bait but I'm caught in limbo. Pretty soon I got to pull the trigger or I'm going to end up with Mr Hand as my date! I feel like one of those guys on reality TV who put eggs in several baskets and fuck them all up. Hahaha. Focus Steve Focus.

[Elvis 2008]

Howdy folks,

I'm having a ball in Colombia with SA. It seems to work better here than any developed country I've tried. In that there's a big pool of attractive, college aged girls looking for financial support. I'm picking up Spanish quickly which helps.

The challenge is that I can't be here all year. I can safely spend 3 months max per country. I like what I'm seeing on SA in Brazil and Argentina. Question is what should country #4 be?

Easy answer would be Mexico but I have a hard time finding attractive girls there. Same with Costa Rica, the Dominican Republic, Peru and Ecuador.

I saw a few good options in Santiago, Chile. Uruguay and Paraguay also have the slim European types I like, but not too many of them seem to be on SA. What would you do?

Chile has ugly women. Uruguay is very close to Buenos Aires and the women in BA blow away what you see in Montevideo.

Most Argentina vets actually say the women in Paraguay are better than Argentines. One guy here said you fuck a Paraguayan and she then would clean your house. That rings true as so many maids for Argentines come from Paraguay and when I was there, they were paid $200 a month to be live in servants.

If you look at GDP per capita in South America, you see Paraguay is #3. Bolivia is #2 but again the women are not attractive there. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_o...ntries_by_GDP_(nominal) _per_capita.

So the women of Paraguay are often attractive, good in bed, and hard workers. The downside of going there is Asuncion and Paraguay are kind of boring.

As far as the numbers on seeking go, I would not let that slow you down. I would be surprised if there were much resistance to any working girl wanting to hang out with you. And there are so many young people there and so few elderly that I would go up to virtually any young girl and proposition her. In the grocery store, they used hot women as billboards as these hotties would be in the aisles on roller skates wearing t-shirts hawking things like Frosted Flakes. Of course, said women were bored out of their mind.

And it would be nothing for there to be 50 hot Heineken girls strolling into a bar promoting that brand.

Performance wise, the only women better than Paraguayans were Brazilians.

Honestly, a lot of people hawk Venezuela as a land of beauties but I did not see that much when I was there. Paraguay was much, much better.

[Elvis 2008]

CDMX.

A bilingual flight attendant I've been seeing likes the idea of a nice cabin in Colombia together. In July. THEN I read about CDMX and thinking should I consider bringing sand to the beach? And skip the cabin. Flights are easy. And I would like to see the city, museums etc.

DramaFree11 & JuanCarter seem to suggest there is a surplus of top girls available in CDMX. Mine would love the trip. And we like each other already. A lot, it's scary. We are so lucky to have these choices. Suggestions guys? Bring extra sand or no?

Don, CDMX before Covid was just okay. After Covid hit and all these hotties lost their jobs, it was unreal and if DF says it is still great, you can take that to the bank.

That said, I would do both. The Mexican women want more than their Colombian counterparts, and CDMX has a vibrant escort scene with Twitter, street walkers, and I have used la boutique VIP with success too: https://www.laboutique.vip/calendario.php.

From a bang for the buck value, the escorts actually beat seeking. Post Covid though I was able to find the 10 types but only had as high as an 8 before. It was when I got a roster of hot SBs in Mexico that seeking ruled.

And you definitely want to go see the museums and the castle. They are unfuckingbelievable.

So my suggestion is you play the field the first part of your trip and then have your honey come in. An established SB is almost always going to be better than playing the field but I get that the lust for new pussy is so strong.

[DramaFree11]

CDMX.

A bilingual flight attendant I've been seeing likes the idea of a nice cabin in Colombia together. In July. THEN I read about CDMX and thinking should I consider bringing sand to the beach? And skip the cabin. Flights are easy. And I would like to see the city, museums etc.

DramaFree11 & JuanCarter seem to suggest there is a surplus of top girls available in CDMX. Mine would love the trip. And we like each other already. A lot, it's scary. We are so lucky to have these choices. Suggestions guys? Bring extra sand or no?

You will love CDMX. By far my favorite destination.

[GoingDumb]

Strong advice here. Do nothing. Walk away. Let it go.

Do you think if you got the police involved she'the say she stole your money and ran? There's a real risk here that she says you assaulted her, that she was running away from you for her safety. You're not dealing with a saint, clearly. You don't need this headache. Walk away and never look back. So far this has only cost you money.

I agree and you're right. I'm just pretty shook by it and worried it will happen again. Maybe it's a sign to get off seeking. I'd just be paranoid the next time I went to a hotel with a girl, even if we'd met before.

[TedFerguson]

Howdy folks,

I'm having a ball in Colombia with SA. It seems to work better here than any developed country I've tried. In that there's a big pool of attractive, college aged girls looking for financial support. I'm picking up Spanish quickly which helps.

The challenge is that I can't be here all year. I can safely spend 3 months max per country. I like what I'm seeing on SA in Brazil and Argentina. Question is what should country #4 be?

Easy answer would be Mexico but I have a hard time finding attractive girls there. Same with Costa Rica, the Dominican Republic, Peru and Ecuador.

I saw a few good options in Santiago, Chile. Uruguay and Paraguay also have the slim European types I like, but not too many of them seem to be on SA. What would you do?

[Alex7J]

CDMX.

A bilingual flight attendant I've been seeing likes the idea of a nice cabin in Colombia together. In July. THEN I read about CDMX and thinking should I consider bringing sand to the beach? And skip the cabin. Flights are easy. And I would like to see the city, museums etc.

DramaFree11 & JuanCarter seem to suggest there is a surplus of top girls available in CDMX. Mine would love the trip. And we like each other already. A lot, it's scary. We are so lucky to have these choices. Suggestions guys? Bring extra sand or no?

CDMX is a heaven for pussy mate: just need to be active on SA a week - 10 days prior as many girls have jobs, students, live on the outskirts of the city but the variety is immense and crazy.

I miss my covid lockdown in CDMX it was crazy.

Cheers.

[AmericanPi]

Strong advice here. Do nothing. Walk away. Let it go.

Do you think if you got the police involved she'the say she stole your money and ran? There's a real risk here that she says you assaulted her, that she was running away from you for her safety. You're not dealing with a saint, clearly. You don't need this headache. Walk away and never look back. So far this has only cost you money.

Finally got scammed. Girl asked for the money when we got in the room, I obliged and she ran when I was in the bathroom. I felt it was coming so I tried to chase after her but she started yelling so I stopped. She was the only girl who asked for money before anything happened and I should've known better. We had met in public first for coffee so wasn't straight to the hotel. When I said I wanted to do apple pay she said she wanted cash so I went to an ATM. Should I have called the police? I saw the car she left in and followed for a little but figured it wasn't worth it. She could've taken phone wallet and keys but just took the cash so I'm lucky.

[GoingDumb]

Finally got scammed. Girl asked for the money when we got in the room, I obliged and she ran when I was in the bathroom. I felt it was coming so I tried to chase after her but she started yelling so I stopped. She was the only girl who asked for money before anything happened and I should've known better. We had met in public first for coffee so wasn't straight to the hotel. When I said I wanted to do apple pay she said she wanted cash so I went to an ATM. Should I have called the police? I saw the car she left in and followed for a little but figured it wasn't worth it. She could've taken phone wallet and keys but just took the cash so I'm lucky.

[DonCarlos1234]

After 2 years of so much fun,(Minus her Crazy Ass Mom), and probably my best friend, the model is AWOL. I get the occasional text, but not looking good at all. I thought we would remain friends, but who knows. Life goes on, that is why I always kept meeting other girls, I knew this would happen some day.

MTY is still great and having amazing sex with different girl every weekend, but I would have married her this one.

I met one of my regular girl last night and meeting another tonight. Also, the Venz, Doctor is coming to visit me in San Antonio next weekend. Life is good.

Looks like it is time to head back to CDMX, that is where I was so Happy. The girls on SA are just incredible in Mexico City.

Work had definitely slowed down, with the economy in the tank, so I am having to work a little harder, but no complaints, we are still killing it.

CDMX.

A bilingual flight attendant I've been seeing likes the idea of a nice cabin in Colombia together. In July. THEN I read about CDMX and thinking should I consider bringing sand to the beach? And skip the cabin. Flights are easy. And I would like to see the city, museums etc.

DramaFree11 & JuanCarter seem to suggest there is a surplus of top girls available in CDMX. Mine would love the trip. And we like each other already. A lot, it's scary. We are so lucky to have these choices. Suggestions guys? Bring extra sand or no?