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09-15-21 23:26 #2198
Posts: 729Originally Posted by Nounce [View Original Post]
I guess SA is not popular in both Rio and SP, because P4 P scene is well developed. On the other hand, in places like MDE or BOG, well known for p4 p scene, SA is highly utilized along with FB and Tinder.
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09-15-21 21:58 #2197
Posts: 2948Originally Posted by MiamiBoy1 [View Original Post]
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09-15-21 15:57 #2196
Posts: 729Originally Posted by Nounce [View Original Post]
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09-15-21 14:53 #2195
Posts: 2720SA Basics
My thoughts:
1. I'm concerned about my privacy. Do you post your photos on SA? And do you they include your face? Also, do you introduce yourself to girls with your real name? It sounds like some of these SA meets last several hours, so it would be nice to avoid awkward situations where it's obvious you're faking (like if you show your ID at a hotel or something) - but maybe it's normal to have an alias, and the girls aren't phased by it?
Steve — I do not have a photo and never felt it a hindrance. The girls will generally ask at some point. Newbies tend to ask early and pros not at all. Tho sometimes newbies don't even ask or ask late because they are awkward with the whole thing.
2. It sounds like SA girls really don't want to be seen as too transactional, so are there shortcuts to find ones that are more DTF than others? I'm filtering on 'friends with benefits' and 'no strings attached', but maybe there's a better way?
Steve — Def FWB is best indicator. You will find girls without that tag that will hook up first date. But FWB is a more sure screen.
3. I live in a city where it sounds like there are plenty of SBs to be found. But do you have girls over to your own place in your home city, or just get a hotel? I'd rather not be at home because I don't want the girl seeing my personal stuff that they can tie to my identity, or showing up at my place uninvited after we were supposed to part ways. But maybe I'm overthinking it?
Steve — Always hotel. Never let a girl in your personal space. Checkin by yourself (she can wait in lobby or show up later) because you don't want desk clerk saying your name out loud. Midwestern is right that longer term girls will prob figure out your name. But still take as many precautions as possible. (P.S. Hotel tv usually has your name on first screen).
4. I'm going to Vegas in a couple of weeks, and that seems like a great place to try SA since I can be anonymous and staying in a hotel. But I'll only have one free night, and it seems like a lot of the SA stories here have multiple encounters to get real payback. Is worth even trying if I only have one night in Vegas?
Steve — Hell yes you can have an amazing one night date in vegas. Best to say you are there a couple nights. But I have had two top 5 SA dates in Vegas. And one was Alexa that I flew to Miami. So our vegas connection was the key to something longer term.
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09-15-21 06:09 #2194
Posts: 1162Originally Posted by Steve9696 [View Original Post]
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09-15-21 05:00 #2193
Posts: 2948Originally Posted by MiamiBoy1 [View Original Post]
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09-15-21 00:15 #2192
Posts: 2720So Worth It
Originally Posted by Akibono [View Original Post]
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09-15-21 00:05 #2191
Posts: 2720SA and Argentina
Originally Posted by MiamiBoy1 [View Original Post]
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09-14-21 20:51 #2190
Posts: 729Originally Posted by Elvis2008 [View Original Post]
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09-14-21 12:12 #2189
Posts: 314Originally Posted by Midwestern [View Original Post]
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09-14-21 09:28 #2188
Posts: 3240Originally Posted by MiamiBoy1 [View Original Post]
My brother said it best, "You can find an 8 in Argentine on every street corner, but I have never seen a 10 there." And he owns property there. The P4P was very developed, and I think that a female president came into power and cracked down on the P4P scene. Now it has moved from the clubs to the escort and SB scene.
When the Peso crashed the first time in 2001 or so, (it was one to one back then and now it is 100 pesos or so to the dollar) prices were crazy cheap, but I am not seeing that now. It is cheap but not that cheap. Hotel prices are higher now than they were then by a factor of 2 or 3. The escort prices I do see are $50 to $200. It is probably closer to $50.
Thing about Argentines is they have a reputation for being snobby with other Latinos. I saw that with some women. They are the most educated in Latin America. Thing is if you want to converse, and you can get into a group, I am sure there would be some great conversations. As for sex, the locals to a man said the best performing women in Argentina were not Argentines but Paraguayans. Even back then, I could get laid at a casa in Paraguay with a hotter girl for $10 or $20 than in BA and I was paying $50 to $60 there.
BA is the only place with enough women on seeking to be interesting. Cordoba is the college town. Mendoza is California like, good wine country and nice mountains, but there were not many women on the site from there.
To me, if I was going for a harem, I would choose Paraguay. Everyone says it is boring in Asuncion, and it is, but I think if you got in a routine and saw a bunch of different woman, it would be a ball. Hell, if I could be Mr. Excitement in a boring town, that is all the better. Asuncion is really fucking hard to get to and I think they have a visa requirement which keeps out the competition. You will actually find more 10's there than Argentina.
I think on average Colombia had less attractive women than Argentina but the best of Colombia beat the best of Argentina. Also, Colombian women are much sweeter. As for the best place in South America for women, it is Sao Paulo hands down. I thought the women in Rio were way, way over rated.
I was in SP in 2005 and hotel prices now are in line with what they were then. The real was at 1. 5 to the dollar and now it is 5. 2. I never had the time to make it down there last year because of work but I actually corresponded with two women from seeking there that I thought were 10's. Maybe as a group the Brazilians do not match the Argentines in intellect, but when it comes to the best of Brazil versus Argentina with regards to sex and looks, it is no contest. SP has more 10's than anywhere else in the world IMO.
A lot of Germans did settle in Southern Brazil, and I have heard the city of Curitiba is well run due to the Germanic management style they have in place unlike the rest of Brazilian government which seems to be chaotic and inefficient. Every time I talked to a cab driver about Porto Allegra, Floripa, and Curitiba, they would say "many blondes down there. ".
Don't get me wrong. Argentina is a cool place. There is a lot to see and do. It is one of the few places other than the USA I would consider living, but for women, Brazil, Paraguay, and even Colombia IMO have it beat.
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09-14-21 05:38 #2187
Posts: 1162Factors to improve success on SA
First, I would log on at different times and days. I find that the SA algorithms is not very good finding girls that are not recent. There are times where the prospects are slim with mainly ugly girls. Other times, it's like hitting the jackpot. Different places have different times. Students and working people will log on the site at different times. Second, that initial conversation is critical. If you catch them online with a message, they are far more likely to respond. That gives you a chance to make a good impression and to stand out. If you are one of 100 message when they login, you will be treated as just another prospect unless something in your profit (I. E. Photo) sticks out. Plus, they may give up after the first 50 messages since they are mainly boring and canned messages. Having a good idea what the girl is looking for is a big help. If a girls profile is very thin, your chances of failure are high. She is either not treating this seriously or putting much effort into it, perhaps she thinks she can get by on her looks alone.
My 2 cents. There is no perfect approach.
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09-14-21 05:24 #2186
Posts: 1162Ouch
Originally Posted by Midwestern [View Original Post]
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09-14-21 02:59 #2185
Posts: 1202These kinds of dates can happen occasionally, especially with SA gals in the states. I met one gal for drinks and we hit if off. She says let's go to a hotel, and so I book one on my app. As we head there, she sees a strip club and wants to go in and I said sure. At first, we are having a blast in the strip club, and then I notice that she is getting very drunk and she starts flirting with a dancer. At this point, I am being left out and so I am bored. I tell her let's go and she says no. I am getting pretty mad, and eventually a bouncer escorts me out of the club. So then I call and text her, but she does not reply. I tell the bouncer that my GF is still in the club. So he goes to find her. She appears at the door and says that she is staying. I'm out over $500 for the night for drinks, food, cover charges, dancer tips, hotel, Ubers. Maybe it was even almost $1000.
Originally Posted by DramaFree11 [View Original Post]
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09-14-21 02:41 #2184
Posts: 1202I did not post a pic on my profile. I was always worried that a female colleague would see me on there. But if I was chatting with someone and I was sure she was not someone that I knew, then I would privately show her my pic. But I preferred a quick meet and greet if she insisted on seeing what I look like, and I always made it convenient for them, like near where they work or live.
You can use an alias, but use a nickname so that when they discover your real identity, then you can just say you were not really lying. And eventually, they will discover your real identify. I tried being super careful hiding my identify, but eventually almost everyone discovered my real identity, especially if they want to find your identity. I met one gal for drinks, and the next day I saw that she viewed my LinkedIn profile. On our next date, I asked her how she discovered my real identity and she laughed and said it was so easy. I do not want to list the many, many ways they can discover who you really are, because the list is super long, but just know that being anonymous forever is futile.
Do not meet at your place. Eventually, every SD SB relationship will end. Sometimes they end badly, especially if you lied a lot during the relationship. And so why would you want them to know where you live?
I used SA successfully in Vegas, but if you are there for just one night, then it may not be worth the time and effort. You can still try it, but have a backup plan, like a FS MP. Almost every AMP in Vegas offers FS, but I have not been to Vegas in the past three years, so maybe things have changed.
Originally Posted by NF4591 [View Original Post]