Seeking Arrangements

[Steve 9696]

I realize that when I have regulars I miss all the searching and seduction. Worth it of course but I do miss it. Well luck would have it that Uma is moving back to the Midwest after her semester here in town and I am on the prowl.

Reengaged with Sarah. She's from nearly a year back — long story we had a great date but no time for hotel due to drama with her Ex. And have stayed in touch on and off but no second meetup. Now trying to figure it out But she works full time and has a two year old and lives 45 minutes away. These factors make it a super long shot. Normally I'the rock on but she is a legit 9+ Cambodian mix. OMG she slays me.

My new excitement is Mattie. Wow this girl is so cute and so hot and genuinely engaging and interesting. We've been chatting a few days. Her Platonic tag was obviously a big red flag but she read my profile which said pretty clearly what I want. Anyhow been having great light chat and got down to meetup chat and we got pretty serious. She s had sexual trauma in the past and not sure she can go there. But I like the challenge of the seduction and showing her that not all men are pigs. So we had a very honest conversation and agreed we will meet up. And it could fizzle or it could sizzle but we are going in eyes wide open having talked it thru. I give it a 100% chance of being fun and being friends and 20% chance of seduction. But I've had a handful of first timers and made magic from it — so let's roll the dice and let it happen. I'll keep you posted.

[Steve 9696]

Will try it. But I wonder if it will beat my current favorite way of getting a BBBJ, which is sitting on the bed with my back against the headboard or wall, and letting them suck me while I am drinking a beer with my left hand and caressing their hair with my right hand. Sometimes I will watch TV too.

Haha love it. Will call that one the Midwestern. I do think I will have to try it! It should be noted however that since the Steve 2 is an upright position it should be very possible to have two fingers in her pussy and two fingers of whiskey in a glass in your other hand! The Midwestern Steve 2? I might have to try that too!

Oh wait I kinda did the Midwestern with Alexa. Sat in a chair on the balcony and had my drink while she blew me. This was one of the most amazing experiences ever. Cuz she just wanted to chat while she blew me. How did I lose my virginity. Favorite blowjob technique. First kiss. It was amazing to just chat while she blew me and we kept on drinking. This was literally a 30 minute BJ. Will remember that a long time!

[Midwestern]

Will try it. But I wonder if it will beat my current favorite way of getting a BBBJ, which is sitting on the bed with my back against the headboard or wall, and letting them suck me while I am drinking a beer with my left hand and caressing their hair with my right hand. Sometimes I will watch TV too.

[Midwestern]

I am not aware of anyone who thinks they need to pay 1500 in Canada. The Canadian mongers that I know, know the Canadian rates very well. Even the novice mongers. This is because the mongering scene in Canada is pretty well known and established. I used SA in Canada with pretty good success. I hate to generalize, but I think using SA in Canada is easier than using SA in the states. And yes, 300 CAD was a typical rate, but it could get up to 400 or 500 CAD.

Have you guys seen the rates for seeking arrangement?

http://www.internationalsexguide.nl/...037&viewfull=1#post2512037.

It says 300 CAD for a date on seeking arrangement.

It actually could be 300-400 CAD.

On a standard seeking arrangement date you may meet the girl in your apartment get to know each other for 30 minutes then possibly have sex if both parties agree and then talk again for another 30 minutes. So you could expect 2 to 3 hours.

I'm just trying to slowly demonstrate to you guys that it's not always necessary to pay 1500 for 4 hours.

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[Nounce]

This belongs here. LOL.

My wife and side girl Pt 1

[Steve 9696]

Just tried it and it worked well. LOL But by any chance that you practice yoga?

Isn't fingering pussy while being blown just magical?

Yoga? No I benefit more simply from the flexibility that fucking young hotties in creative positions provides. I study at the Church of the Hot Twenty-something. Namaste!

PS I strongly recommend the Steve 1 as well. Has so many nice benefits:

Fuck forever and never tire
Watch the in and out action
Great leverage when grabbing legs
Highly dominant
Make out when u want to
Girls seem to absolutely adore it (heavy gspot banging if u have an upswing)

[NapataJohn]

You're not doing it right. Sending a woman money before you've met her is not a good idea. Paying for an expensive, nonrefundable plane ticket before you meet is not a good idea.

I saw a SB in another city a few times, we clicked really well, so I paid for a ticket for her to a destination in the Caribbean. She ghosted, and I would have been out the price of the ticket if her flight hadn't been delayed, which allowed me to cancel with no penalty. That's not going to happen to me again.

Better to go to her home town and then fly with her from there.

[Nounce]

...just spread those legs wide and you are all set.

Just tried it and it worked well. LOL But by any chance that you practice yoga?

[Tiny 12]

I have been in contact with girls from Moldova and Russia recently.

Basically I lost a lot of money. It was during Corona lock down in spring and I wanted build up a connection for the time after corona.

The girl from Russia (21 year old medical student) needed money for medical school, then the car crashed and she needed money for that. Then we prepared for a trip to Dubai in summer. I paid her plane tickets. Money for her to get the passport faster. In the end she canceled 3 days ahead because she was ill. Total damage 4000.

The other girl from Moldova received monthly payments of about 200-300. Also I had sent some clothes and received pictures of her wearing those in return.

I booked her a flight to visit me in Germany and waited three hours at the airport but she would never arrive. Total damage her 1500 or so over time.

Its a disaster and I am happy the German FKK clubs are open again.

I lost trust in SA and can not imagine this actually works in Germany and Czech / Moldova / Russia.

You're not doing it right. Sending a woman money before you've met her is not a good idea. Paying for an expensive, nonrefundable plane ticket before you meet is not a good idea.

I saw a SB in another city a few times, we clicked really well, so I paid for a ticket for her to a destination in the Caribbean. She ghosted, and I would have been out the price of the ticket if her flight hadn't been delayed, which allowed me to cancel with no penalty. That's not going to happen to me again.

[SamPeter71]

I am at Bogota for a week and want to find good SA contacts. Thanks in advance.

I could share a few SA contacts with you to get you started, but you need to upgrade your membership in order to receive or send PMs here.

SA in MDE is very though, you can read my recent posts in which I complain a lot LOL.

[Steve 9696]

So here locally the Hyatt has become my go to and I've taken a handful of girls there, several on a regular basis. Probably been there 20+ times over the past year or so. The desk clerks rotate a lot and I've probably only had the same one twice.

Checking in (with Uma nearby) earlier this week the new clerk is looking at the screen and says "oh I'm just reading the notes here. I guess you know how all this works since you stay with us often. ".

I can only imagine what the notes say:

Comes in often with no luggage and a bottle of wine.

Seems to have a different girl every time.

Never stays overnight.

Bedding is never turned down but the bed spread is quite wrinkled.

Usually leaves alcohol and wet towels behind.

Only the occasional condom wrapper.

Great guy and clearly doing us a favor paying overnight rates for 3 hours of room time. Treat him well!

[JohnIsFun]

Had a great date with Uma earlier this week. Took her to an awesome speakeasy for some great food and drinks and then of course playtime. We spent the vast majority of our bedroom time doing what I am going to call the Steve 2. It is totally a fave but whenever I do it it seems like the girl has never done it before. So I am curious any of you tried / like this position:

You lay her on her back and kneel by her head. Turn her head towards your dick and have her suck your cock. Meanwhile reach down between her legs with your free hand and finger her. Optionally massage a breast with the other hand.

For me, fingering pussy while being blown is just a top notch thing. And there is no better position than this. It's dominant, she has amazing mouth access to both the boys and the shaft, and you don't have to contort to slips those fingers in her pussy. We musta done this for 20 minutes at least maybe more. The girls seem to love having a cock in their mouth and being fingered at same time.

Haha I have never tried the Steve 2 position. But I enjoy fingering while being blown. My go to position is me lying down on my back on a pillow. The girl lays sideways and takes the dick with the hand and mouth. She slides her bottom closet to me towards the pillow so I can reach her pussy. From my experience must girls love their clit and pussy touched and fingered while the tongue is all over my dick. But it's been a long time between drinks because of covid. I have also tried with the girl lying down on her back and me more like kneeling position with knees either side of her face. But this position is not so comfortable to finger as you have to twist to reach the pussy.

[Nounce]

... Just spread those legs wide and you are all set.

Thanks, I may have another opportunity to try it tonight. Had a date with the same girl tonight but her unattractive friend interfered and wanted to tag alone so not sure what is going to happen yet.

[Steve 9696]

I tried it yesterday. This is my observation. I was on her right hand side. I had to put two pillows under her head to adjust the height. She used her left hand while sucking which made touching her breast difficult. What improvement should I make to make this work better?

Dude you totally made my day trying this out! Key is you have to spread your legs wide. You are on your knees yes but legs spread wide. So your dick is only 6" off the mattress. That should do the trick. Wouldn't worry the breast too much. That's just a bonus and frankly only just discovered it myself. Key is you can finger her while being blown. That's the magic imo. Love that you gave it a go. Just spread those legs wide and you are all set.

[Nounce]

...Anyone else a fan of the Steve 2?

I tried it yesterday. This is my observation. I was on her right hand side. I had to put two pillows under her head to adjust the height. She used her left hand while sucking which made touching her breast difficult. What improvement should I make to make this work better?