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10-28-23 03:56 #5154
Posts: 21Originally Posted by Steve9696 [View Original Post]
So meet new Girl 2 in the early afternoon. If she is really amazing, ditch girl 1. But only if she is really an upgrade to girl 1.
I've juggled seeing 2 girls in the same day separately, and while stressful it can work well. Always have the more secure girl later in the day, and the less secure girl earlier. Atleast that's how I did it.
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10-28-23 03:00 #5153
Posts: 2709Move Forward only
Originally Posted by Gfefan [View Original Post]
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10-28-23 02:35 #5152
Posts: 241Tips on how to bring up?
Visiting Europe soon. Chatted up a few girls. One seems very interesting and my type. Lets say Girl 2.
While engaging with girl 2, up until we discussing my travel plans (exact dates), none from girl 1 - who is my long term SB with whom I am on no money required stage. Its more like GF / BF.
But, now Girl 1 wants to drive to me. Last time I was there, I couldn't meet her. So, need a meeting to keep things alive. Smitten by the new one I am yet to meet.
Will be there for just 1 night. I am sensing an opportunity for threesome but not sure how to bring it up.
Risk: The new one might backoff and never see me at all. If I meet new one only, skip the old one, I have a feeling old will lose interest.
If I meet the old one only, I am not sure if I can keep the new one engaged online until next trip.
Caught from all corners.
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10-28-23 00:20 #5151
Posts: 2709My Dick has Recovered!
Originally Posted by Midwestern [View Original Post]
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10-27-23 07:06 #5150
Posts: 1202Wow that is messed up
Sorry to hear about the sex fail. Yeah, they need to know this is not a real relationship. When an SB and I start to know each other well, I find that we eventually become like an old married couple. With my curent SB, she knows almost nothing about me. So she knows what our "relationship" is really all about.
Originally Posted by Steve9696 [View Original Post]
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10-27-23 04:15 #5149
Posts: 1385Originally Posted by Nachoy [View Original Post]
Especially if you want to stay disciplined on how much you want to pay and who you are seeking. If it is a shapely young white girl that's educated and well mannered, you will generally pay up. More so in the US and more so in the coastal places. Along with inflation, seeking prices too have gone up. Way different seeking than it was in 2016 and 2017.
Replies to messages, convos. Percentages are higher.
You will know these percentages after a few months and after you hit up a sufficient number of girls. Initial impressions can be misleading so don't get carried away.
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10-26-23 21:14 #5148
Posts: 241Pleasant experience
Much has been told about South America by seniors here. While I haven't had a chance to visit there, there was this girl traveling to US for some event.
We chatted a bit and moved to whatsapp. Free flowing convo.
Early on, I dropped a few hints about my expectations but she seemd to ignore those. I let it go thinking perhaps she is not comfortable conversing.
We decide to meet.
A nice little meet and greet. Food and drinks. We chat. She goes "I must admit. I was brought on this site by a friend of mine and she had painted a certain picture. What I'm seeing in reality is different. Men are almost always expecting sex. But that is not what I signed up for".
The simplicity of that truth and the innocence with which she spoke made me feel for her (hard to convey the facial expressions, eye contact, genuine body language when I write this).
She made it clear that she is not expecting me to compensate her for time (note, platinum pussies in the US) and that she in fact wanted to treat me for a good lunch because she felt she wasted my time. I laughed at it, took the whole bill myself and gave a ride back to her hotel, dropped her safe, gave a nice warm hug and left.
We spoke a lot. For hours. About our cultures, she explaining how things work in South America. In fact, she said "you have a friend in xyz city whe you visit. Ring me up, I will take you places and be your wing woman. Worst case, some friends of mine would love to have a guy like you".
I walked in hoping to have a Latin SB. I walked out with a genuinely good hearted Latin friend. Such a pleasant experience.
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10-26-23 20:55 #5147
Posts: 241Pps
This is what I call PPS. Platinum Pussy Syndrome.
I have had at least 4/5 girls in the US tell me they need $1000 ppm. And, thy want to define how may times we would meet and convert that to monthly allowance. I say F. Off *****.
Originally Posted by JonnySutton [View Original Post]
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10-26-23 10:10 #5146
Posts: 24And today I had a reply from a girl in BKK. She's pretty hot, nothing more than I've expereinced in Europe though, but she wanted $650 for an evening and $950 for overnight. Basically a freelance escort charging European prices in a city that's 2-3 x cheaper than most European cities and where wages are 3-4 x less. Oh and I agreed $200 last time I was in BKK (with a European girl, via Seeking). Maybe Seeking isn't the best approach in SE Asia? But I'm not interested in bar girls or freelancers at Thermae etc, I'm looking for at least some connection. My experience in Europe has been excellent and had great chemistry with the girls I've met, almost lke a real GF / BF relationship.
Originally Posted by DramaFree11 [View Original Post]
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10-26-23 02:57 #5145
Posts: 347My 2 cents
I don't block them when I get ridiculous requests. It just teaches them that it's a ridiculous request and move on to some other way to scam guys. I just ignore them and don't reply. Let them figure out how stupid they are in their own.
Originally Posted by DramaFree11 [View Original Post]
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10-25-23 15:30 #5144
Posts: 2794Originally Posted by JonnySutton [View Original Post]
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10-25-23 15:23 #5143
Posts: 59Originally Posted by Nachoy [View Original Post]
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10-25-23 12:59 #5142
Posts: 24You cannot be serious
So I recently sent a message to a girl in HCMC, Vietnam on Seeking and her reply was; I charge $250 to meet and have dinner and IF we vibe we can move on the ppm!! I mean that's insane. I don't even get that in London or Europe. I've had arrangements with 20 something hotties and no money was even asked for. And I never pay for a paltonic first meet diner / lunch / coffee either. What has got into some of these girls? I blocked her immediately but I should have reported her and got her banned on Seeking! The crap you have to wade through.
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10-25-23 12:22 #5141
Posts: 24You cannot be serious
So I recently sent a message to a girl in HCMC, Vietnam on Seeking and her reply was; I charge $250 to meet and have dinner and IF we vibe we can move on the ppm!! I mean that's insane. I don't even get that in London or Europe. I've had arrangements with 20 something hotties and no money was even asked for. And I never pay for a paltonic first meet diner / lunch / coffee either. What has got into some of these girls? I blocked her immediately but I should have reported her and got her banned on Seeking! The crap you have to wade through.
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10-25-23 07:43 #5140
Posts: 125Originally Posted by GoingDumb [View Original Post]
It's more of a shame because I'm not sure I'the want to see her for the cost again knowing the risk. I like spending time with her and we have a similar interest but I feel like I'the just be paranoid after seeing her.