Seeking Arrangements

[AmericanPi]

Old Ben was wise. I have 3 friends. The kind you can ask for a 100 k loan knowing it'll be there within an hour. Everyone else in my life is an acquaintance and I wouldn't trust them as far as I could throw them (and I'm a reasonably small dude). I'm worried about employees, family members, etc. Who know me but don't know this side of me. Last thing I need is for them to piece together all my posts against my vacation calendar and I've got lots of splaining to do Lucy. Fortunately I don't have wife problems anymore but family would be very embarrassing and uncomfortable without all the crying and throwing shit.

Sent you dm.

[RockyX]

I heard somewhere that webcams are increasingly being used for various activities these days, so for my next autumn visit, I am looking for a female webcam host as the protagonist. Though none of the dating sites I've joined so far will discuss takeout as an option.

[FilthyBeaver]

Old Ben was wise. I have 3 friends. The kind you can ask for a 100 k loan knowing it'll be there within an hour. Everyone else in my life is an acquaintance and I wouldn't trust them as far as I could throw them (and I'm a reasonably small dude). I'm worried about employees, family members, etc. Who know me but don't know this side of me. Last thing I need is for them to piece together all my posts against my vacation calendar and I've got lots of splaining to do Lucy. Fortunately I don't have wife problems anymore but family would be very embarrassing and uncomfortable without all the crying and throwing shit.

Even my closest friends don't get the scoop.

As Benjamin Franklin said, two people can keep it secret as long as one of them is dead.

[AmericanPi]

My friends know who, what, where, when, and how much. And pics if I have them. It's acquaintances and family outing me that I'm worried about. I will post here but don't hold your breath, it's going to be a while.

Even my closest friends don't get the scoop.

As Benjamin Franklin said, two people can keep it secret as long as one of them is dead.

[FilthyBeaver]

My friends know who, what, where, when, and how much. And pics if I have them. It's acquaintances and family outing me that I'm worried about. I will post here but don't hold your breath, it's going to be a while.

This is so me. I also found some local variants in Europe but didn't post when I was there because some of my friends knew my itinerary.

But I still want to read your story!

[AmericanPi]

I fully intend to post my experience and results but long after my trip as I don't want anybody to know see a bunch of posts from this account that happen to correspond with dates they know I'm there. Not sure kt will be here though probably needs a new thread as it's not seeking.

This is so me. I also found some local variants in Europe but didn't post when I was there because some of my friends knew my itinerary.

But I still want to read your story!

[Steve 9696]

I fully intend to post my experience and results but long after my trip as I don't want anybody to know see a bunch of posts from this account that happen to correspond with dates they know I'm there. Not sure kt will be here though probably needs a new thread as it's not seeking.

Please post here when you are ready. This is the place with the most like minded guys. We talk about Secret Benefits and other sites that suck money for nothing. So if you found something good please share here. We are def all interested.

[FilthyBeaver]

I fully intend to post my experience and results but long after my trip as I don't want anybody to know see a bunch of posts from this account that happen to correspond with dates they know I'm there. Not sure kt will be here though probably needs a new thread as it's not seeking.

Which site if I may ask?

[AmericanPi]

I've had at least a half dozen squirters, and it's different and fun, and squirters are even proud of their squirting. But in my entire life, I also had two gushers. It just gushes out and it feels amazing. One time, I was DATYing one of them while she was sitting on my face, and when she came it felt like someone splashed a bucket of warm water all over my face. I actually choked from all that water (or whatever that is). Same thing when they rode me CG, when they came, it was like a bucket of warm water was dumped onto my cock. The sheets were totally soaked. One time, I was doing one of them while I was standing up, and it just felt like and endless amount of water was going down my legs. Afterwards, in the middle of the night, I went to pee and slipped on the water. The floor was covered with water. That was a thing with these two gushers, it's that they came so much and so often. But LOL, they both told me that BFs eventually get annoyed with their gushing. I can totally see that happening. But I had a great time with these two gushers. They both felt any gal can be a gusher as long as she can feel comfortable with doing it. Here's a weird coincidence: they were both potheads.

So interesting how much there are different strokes for different folks. Squirting totally grossed me out. It looks like a huge mucus dump to me. Not knocking anyone's preferences. I'm actually glad there are people who like this so there is someone for everyone.

I also don't get eating ass. Or meat muffin vaginas. Or fake tits. Or the porn star look. But there's an ass for every seat and that's why the world works!

[FilthyBeaver]

On the site I'm on now, I can't get the time of day from my most desirable category (legit students or young professionals) they probaby get stood up and wanked around as much as us if you think about it. There is no shortage of messages on an announcement board saying meet in xyz on ABC date. But nothing more than a few days out. I suspect though that these are pros and I'm trying to stay away from pros.

Every time I take a trip I learn girls don't like it when you try to make plans more than a few weeks out. (These aren't girls with corporate style outlook calendars).

Every time I find that all my commitments come a week or less before.

Every time I tell myself next time I'll wait till closer to the date so I don't burn out with the ones I want most by coming in too early.

Every time I break that commitment and do it too early anyways.

It's a bad habit.

[NoBuglyFitches]

I've got a paid account on another sugar site appropriate to my destination

Which site if I may ask?

[NoBuglyFitches]

I have had some amazing dates with the "I'm going to a nice dinner tonight. Join me?" Opener and been fucking just a few hours later.

I had similar last-minute experiences, minus the dinner. Just "hey, are you free tonight? Let's meet up? Can I get you an Uber?" Not with escorts, just busy girls who need money and don't have much time. It's almost like a vanilla tinder-style hookup. They are young, broke, and free and horny at the moment, so they're game. Depends on the region too: this works better in LatAm. And to be honest, the hottest girls are not that easy, so it's a sacrifice of looks for immediacy.

Reaching out 4-6 weeks out helps to get numbers for girls who just made their Seeking profile and may not use it again. But if you got their wa / tg and she likes you, she might still meet and fuck when you show up in town. Also, some girls only check their seeking account once every 2 weeks, so there's all kinds, in my experience.

[NoBuglyFitches]

Sorry to be the party pooper, but:

Conclusions: The present data based on ultrasonographic bladder monitoring and biochemical analyses indicate that squirting is essentially the involuntary emission of urine during sexual activity, although a marginal contribution of prostatic secretions to the emitted fluid often exists.

Nature and origin of "squirting" in female sexuality. PubMed.

National Institutes of Health (. Gov).

[Midwestern]

My regular couldn't make it. Went with a new one that I had been chatting up.

Gosh. This one squirts. Every 10/15 strokes she squirtred.

A new experience for me.

I've had at least a half dozen squirters, and it's different and fun, and squirters are even proud of their squirting. But in my entire life, I also had two gushers. It just gushes out and it feels amazing. One time, I was DATYing one of them while she was sitting on my face, and when she came it felt like someone splashed a bucket of warm water all over my face. I actually choked from all that water (or whatever that is). Same thing when they rode me CG, when they came, it was like a bucket of warm water was dumped onto my cock. The sheets were totally soaked. One time, I was doing one of them while I was standing up, and it just felt like and endless amount of water was going down my legs. Afterwards, in the middle of the night, I went to pee and slipped on the water. The floor was covered with water. That was a thing with these two gushers, it's that they came so much and so often. But LOL, they both told me that BFs eventually get annoyed with their gushing. I can totally see that happening. But I had a great time with these two gushers. They both felt any gal can be a gusher as long as she can feel comfortable with doing it. Here's a weird coincidence: they were both potheads.

[AmericanPi]

Valid reasoning and advice. I will try the last minute dinner thing. I've met plenty of girls who just like to have nice dinners and have gone so far as to say guys their age can't afford it. Thanks to all the young broke guys paving the way for us! .

This is a data point and probably a fluke and I don't remember posting this before, but I may have. I met a legit psychiatrist in another city with her own practice about 6 weeks prior, we hit it off so well we chatted for several hours almost daily until we met. First date was amazing, we picked up like old friends. Don't expect anything like that again but it keeps me going back.

Every time I take a trip I learn girls don't like it when you try to make plans more than a few weeks out. (These aren't girls with corporate style outlook calendars).

Every time I find that all my commitments come a week or less before.

Every time I tell myself next time I'll wait till closer to the date so I don't burn out with the ones I want most by coming in too early.

Every time I break that commitment and do it too early anyways.

It's a bad habit.