Seeking Arrangements

[Elvis 2008]

In hindsight, I have to laugh at the difference between Maria Cruz and Nancy. Nancy would wear tight pants, walk in heels, and give off the stripper vibe. When I was out with her, men would leer and give off this "I would fuck the shit out of you if I got a chance" vibe. She would turn men into savage beasts.

Both Maria Cruz and Nancy suck cock like their getting a scuba license. Their goal in life is to fuck so hard they break a bed frame and create a hole to China but of the bed room, they are so different. Men do not leer at Maria Cruz. She reminds of my ex-wife in the sense that men come up to her like dogs, panting, and asking for a pat on the head with the question, "Am I good boy?" Men are turned into boys at Sunday school class and if Maria Cruz gives them a pat on the head and says, "You are a good boy" they would smile and run away with glee.

Maybe it is because I have seen the devil in my ex this kind of response bugs me. When men do this with Maria Cruz, I so want to say, "I just paid this 'angel' for sex, and that means you are stupid, and you are NOT a good boy" but I do not think that would even work. They would still want her approval. Maria Cruz, angel during the day and devil at night, if the men only knew.

I am glad I met these women on seeking because had I not, I am not sure I would not be intimidated. It is amazing the power they have over men and then there is Elma.

Elma was my afternoon date. She is a personal trainer and looks the part. She is like the fitness chick at your local gym: powerful, confident, feminine, and seemingly unobtainable.

I had seen Elma before and have not put her in my 3 keeper category. One could make a case she had the best body of anyone. She was not as slim as Maria Cruz but even more muscular but still in a feminine way. Unlike Maria, she had great fashion sense. She dressed to the nines and elicited her fair share of stares when walking through the hotel lobby.

We caught up on things, and we started kissing. Now I was questioning why I had not elevated her to keeper status. Eventually we went to the bed, and her BJ was just not as good as the other women: a little too much teeth. I probably should have said something but I was afraid it would dampen the mood. For sex, she insisted on a condom again. Sigh. The sex was good not great. She got on top, got off. We then did doggie, and I got off in missionary.

We played the part of SB SD and did the I missed you Te extrano part, but the truth is when I was done with her, I was ready for her to go. I think she would have gone another round. It speaks volumes to me about how great Monterrey is in that that this woman would probably be a top 100 escort in the USA and I was less than thrilled with her because my three keepers are that much better.

The other turnoff with her was that she set a price, and it was higher than the gifts I gave the other women. I felt like she was not a gift but a wage. With the other women, it was sex and with her it was just sex.

I think she was a little upset I did not see her again. I was there two more days and did not text her and she checked out my profile again.

Thing is she really got into the sex. There was passion there that does not exist in a pure P4 P situation, and I could and probably should have corrected the BJ thing.

But the SB thing is something else. Every time I have tried to correct that and say, "I feel like we have more of a hooker relationship than a SD SB one", the women react the same way: they want more money. In this case, I am sure she could find a guy who would give her more. A lot of men would die to have her on her arm. I am just not one of them.

Later that night, I got to meet Dramafree. We met at the Sonora Grill, and he was well known there. I cannot believe anyone would turn down a chance to meet him there. The waiters gave him and us VIP treatment. We compared notes, women, places, and had a great time.

Of my three keepers, the only one available was Nancy, and it turned out DF knew her. First, DF's date came and she was very pretty and classy. Nancy was supposed to arrive at 7 PM, and she got there at around 8:15 which is early by Mexican standards.

Nancy dominated my attention and soon we were swaying to the tunes that Sonora had going. I had the excellent beef tacos as did DF but Nancy had whiskey and then Tequila, a liquid dinner. It was time to go and Nancy patted her tequila glass and said to me, "One more time". So yes, she had one more shot.

My phone was dead, and Nancy got the Uber, and it was a good thing. A few minutes into the ride, she started playing with junior and then unzipped him to let him breathe. I swear she would have been given me head had I let her.

My third keeper is Florence, and she was due at 10 PM so Nancy and I went at it. She was even more wild and even more orgasmic when she was drunk which I did not think was possible.

So Florence is now in the lobby. Nancy was game to meet her and down for a threesome. I had showed Florence Nancy's picture and she liked her, but I did not know how she would react as I had not told her we would be meeting. Florence actually jumped and clapped when I mentioned a threesome or trio in espanol.

I have had awkward threesomes before but this was not like that. Hell, Nancy got me hard with a super BJ and told Florence it was her turn to take a ride. Flo got off on top and then we moved to missionary with Nancy pushing on my ass so I could go deeper into Flo with more force. I had never seen that before, and Flo was moaning with delight. I then went back to Nancy and held my cum again. I had a lot more fucking to do that night.

I mentioned to both of them going to Cancun. I asked about a time, and they were both excited to go. So I went online and booked tickets. Eventually, it came to the part where we had to put in their names. It was funny. I told Nancy to put in her name and then I went and fucked Flo. Then they switched places.

Dramafree mentioned that he could only take Nancy in doses and I knew what he meant. Thing is that I learned how to give the shiny women their objects. I put in filters for our Airbnb in Cancun and told the women to pick their place. I was surprised but they did it in less than an hour.

There was more fucking and then we did the other shiny object game of letting Flo pick out her bikini and lingerie. BTW, guys, you may want to check out shein.com. One of my SBs showed it to me, and you can get high quality goods for $10 to $20 an item.

Flo is 32, and Nancy is 20 but she looks younger, so we decided to go with the notion that Flo is my date and Nancy is my step daughter. The girls took their parts very well. It will be interesting to see how it goes.

So we are in bed, and one girl is on one arm, and one girl is on the other. I just was thinking to myself, "How many guys ever get this in their life?" I was truly living the dream.

Still, I was not satisfied that I got enough Flo. Flo speaks okay English, and I start kissing her. I ask, "Did you think about how I fucked you last time?" She giggled and said yes. Now I start stroking her breasts. "Did you get wet thinking about meeting this time?" She said yes. I told her that I had a fantasy about her working for me in a short skirt and my flirting with her all day and then asking her to come into my office close the door, and give me dictation. She started stroking my cock. She then says in Spanish "Muy duro (very hard)". I tell her I want to fuck her again. She says "but Nancy will wake up. " I somehow wiggle my arm and chest away from Nancy and get on time of Flo. Maybe it is the forbidden nature of fucking with someone supposedly asleep but the fucking was amazing. Flo let it flow and I could hear her go off time and again.

I then look up and see Nancy playing with her pussy, and of course, she says to me, "One more time", and I lift myself off of Flo and onto Nancy. I pound away at Nancy and then we switch to Cowgirl. Nancy is riding me so hard and fast and I lose it, barely pulling out in time.

I then go back to my position of both girls with one hand on my chest and head on shoulder, and this time I go to sleep. For once, I have had enough fucking for one day.

Now you may say, "Well, Elvis, I have had a threesome before. What was so great about this?" I guess it would say it was because it was a threesome among friends. Before I went to bed with either woman, I had talked to them over coffee about their life, dreams, and values.

Sexually, that trust made it so I could go bare from one to the other which enhanced the experience. I also saw how these women respected my money and opted for an Airbnb that was not too expensive. Neither woman ever set a price or asked for money but I have been generous with my gifts. Still, Flo left that morning without asking for a dime.

So, yeah, I think it is that trust that made all the difference, and the other was the fun. That is the other part. I talked about our fun trip to Cancun, and all we were going to do and the women were so excited.

It is hard finding a good looking woman on seeking that is pleasant and great in the sack. I found two women like that, who were both bi, who both liked each other, and who both trusted me. That is a very rare occurrence. And the end result was the best night of sex I ever had in my life.

Thanks Dramafree! And thanks Seeking!

The picture below is of Elma.

[CarloRogue]

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[Midwestern]

SA has gotten to where the women think they can get money (compensated for their time) at the initial meeting.

Totally agree with Steve. Just avoid them. They will also say it's partly a test to see if we are really rich. After all, if we really are rich, then giving them a hundred bucks should be no big deal. But rich people don't just give out $100 bucks for a first date.

[Elvis 2008]

I have given up trying to explain the appeal of SA to what seems like the majority of guys on this site. I have swapped tales and been told time and again the women only want you for one thing, money. And the women have been told we want one thing, sex. Going on SA means you are getting sex AND. For women, you are getting money AND. It is that part that makes SA or SB SD relationships so much better than just paying a working girl for a fuck.

I remember my ex fiance lecturing me on the subject. Why don't you not give a woman any money and see if she really likes you, she asked. I responded, Why don't you gain 50 pounds and see if a man really likes you? So I am tired of explaining why the SB SD / SA route works to people, because anyone who tries it knows the best experiences happen when it is not JUST money for sex.

On Dramafree's advice, I went to Monterrey, Mexico two weeks ago. This time was a repeat, and there was one woman named Nancy who just made my dick hard thinking about her. She is 20, thin, a former stripper, and has porn start talent and loves sex. When I saw her last time, she did not even ask for money. I just gave her a gift.

I started off seeing her first. She came around 11 AM. At 11:05 my cock was in her mouth. She was deep throating me, giving me the eye contact, and showing me her porno like BJ skills. She then started riding me. She is tight, perfect skin, incredible speed in the cowgirl position and then one orgasm and then another. I go into missionary with her. She is screaming, nails into my back, smacking my ass "mas rapido" she says, and we finish at the same time. After the post coital cuddle, I need some caffeine, and we head to Starbucks.

We talk some more and she shows me a video of the cartoon cat Garfield set to a James Brown song, and Nancy says with the song, "So good, so good", and it turns out that is her second favorite song.

We return to the hotel. Now I do not think I have ever met a woman hornier than me. I really do not. I was content to watch Netflix, recover, cuddle. Maybe we have sex you know another time before she goes at 5 or so.

As soon as we get back, she starts kissing me and I now learn the part of her favorite song. She looks at me, smiles, and then asks, "One more time?" Thank God to Eli Lilly for discovering Cialis because I still was all I could be. We start making out, and I get more aggressive playing with the hole other than her vagina. She moans and yells, "so good, so good". Multiple positions, multiple orgasms for her, but I hold my cum. It is now 2 PM.

I suggest we watch the Neflix show Big Mouth, highly recommended for intercoital relaxation BTW. I set the audio on English and put on Spanish subtitles. She watches. Big laughs. This is the funniest show ever per her. We get halfway through the second show and she grabs my cock and gives me this sheepish grin and asks, "One more time?

We do the "one more time", "so good so good", Netflix routine twice more. She says that she has to go and orders an Uber. I give her the money gift (she never asked for anything). She looks down at her Uber which is 15 minutes away and says, "One more time?" I use the Spanish phrase for my poor heart, tell her I am only one man, but we go at it again, and I lose it this time and cum.

And that was just the first half of my day.

I think Mary Cruz is my favorite looks wise of my three Monterrey keepers. She is a family doctor and very reserved. She has a great smile, flawless skin, and like a perfect body. When I first saw her, she had on a blazer, tube top, and gym shorts, and I proclaimed her a 10. This is the third time I see her, and the second time she is wearing a dress, and I cannot believe it. Somehow her dress shows her to have a big ass and a gut. I do not get it. Here is the rare woman who looks better out of clothes than in them.

So I try to get Mary to open up. Instead she opens up my pants. She is horny as fuck and wastes no time going down on me and dragging me to bed. Nancy is lithe, ballerina like, strong but in a slim girl kind of way. Mary is solid everywhere. She is slim but not skinny like Nancy and has obvious muscles in her back, arms, and legs. Everything about her strong: the force of her blowjob, the way she gets on top of me, even the way she orgasms, but it is a quiet strength. This is work out type fucking, and I love it. I get on top of her, and she grabs my ass and forces me in deeper with greater force, and we cum together.

She then goes from animal Mary to cute, quiet happy little Dr. Cruz. A sweet smile, head on my pecs, stroking my chest hairs. I try talking to her more. Ask questions, get one word answers and am content to leave her and me in the oxytocin fog. Ms. Mary Cruz woman of mystery.

Now I have had sex seven times?, shot my load three times, and I think there is no way I can get hard again, but Mary looks so cute and I start kissing her and Mary grabs junior and then "Boing! WTF? And Mary Cruz shows she does not want to let a load of good wood go to waste.

When Mary leaves, I am beat but smile and think to myself this is the best day of sex I have EVER had. That record lasts one day. Stay tuned for part 2.

[Steve 9696]

SA has gotten to where the women think they can get money (compensated for their time) at the initial meeting.

There are surely some. Clear sign they are not going to fuck you for a couple hundred. They are doing you a favor of self opt out!

[Blue Swede]

Blue, I am not sure how good your English is or if it translates easily but Carlo was being sarcastic.

Oopps, missed that! Didn't read carefully enough! Sorry for that!

[NeilGeorge]

I have noticed the price per month has increased, was $89 and is now $99. However if you do not auto-renew, you can get a cheaper rate of $69 if you register a new, with a different email account and use up your free messages. A pop up will then appear with the cheaper price after a couple of days of a new registration.

[NeilGeorge]

SA has gotten to where the women think they can get money (compensated for their time) at the initial meeting.

[DramaFree11]

Too funny. I am making up my stories as well. I love SA, more stories to come. Some of these guys are same guys that go to HK with $50 and complain that they did not have a good time. SA takes hard work, money, a little luck and some game, but as I have said and many others much tougher in the states.

The other funny part is many of these guys claim we are making up our stories. If they really knew how good it is, and many times in real life the experience is much better then we could ever explain on a post. Life is good.

[Vedrtu]

I am trying to upgrade my subscription on SA. Butt every time I try to pay, they suspend my acct. Tried it with multiple IDs.

Geographically I'm in India and trying to pay with US card, which works internationally. Hope that should not be the problem as I checked with the bank.

Any one faced this issue? Any suggestions / workaround.

Thanks in advance.

Cheers.

[DramaFree11]

Excellent post, you're so right. SA is a complete wasteland. No one should be on there. None of the women are real. I mean exactly zero. I'm having such a horrible time on SA that I have to make up success stories and post them here to feel better about myself. That cute Viet coed I went out with two nights ago was a complete fabrication. Just a figment of my lurid imagination. All these SB's I'm texting all day long are hackers from Serbia wanting my bank account info, but I'm still happy for the attention because I'm that lonely and it beats talking to my pet parakeet. It's a scam. Stay off the site and leave it to deluded dreamers like me. And just like Yogi said: no one goes there anymore, it's too crowded.

Too funny. I am making up my stories as well. I love SA, more stories to come. Some of these guys are same guys that go to HK with $50 and complain that they did not have a good time. SA takes hard work, money, a little luck and some game, but as I have said and many others much tougher in the states.

[Elvis 2008]

I beg to differ!.

Blue, I am not sure how good your English is or if it translates easily but Carlo was being sarcastic.

[Blue Swede]

Excellent post, you're so right. SA is a complete wasteland. No one should be on there. None of the women are real. I mean exactly zero. I'm having such a horrible time on SA that I have to make up success stories and post them here to feel better about myself. That cute Viet coed I went out with two nights ago was a complete fabrication. Just a figment of my lurid imagination. All these SB's I'm texting all day long are hackers from Serbia wanting my bank account info, but I'm still happy for the attention because I'm that lonely and it beats talking to my pet parakeet. It's a scam. Stay off the site and leave it to deluded dreamers like me. And just like Yogi said: no one goes there anymore, it's too crowded.

I beg to differ! .

Of course YMMV and it depends on where you are, who you are and what you are looking for.

I am 60+ and have during the last 6 years found more lovely SBs than I have time to handle. There is, as discussed here, an effort to weed out the "trash" for sure. I can admit there is a lot of non interesting girls, but to say there is nothing to find on the site, is in my opinion not true.

I live in Sweden, where legislation forbids paying for sex. Sugardating is a way passing under the LE radar mostly, maybe making it more interesting for me compared to persons living in other countries?

I have also used SA in Norway, Spain, Germany (God know why?) and Greece and always found pretty, entertaining (in all different ways) and very nice girls. Backside is the general cost, which is a lot hisgher compared to regular escorts.

[CarloRogue]

Seeking Arrangements advertising is false. Seeking Arrangements claim a ratio of 5 to 1 in favor of sugar daddies. A female college of mine researched this and found that in fact men's profiles on Seeking Arrangements actually outnumbered women by about 1.5 to 2.5 times depending on which country she looked at. These businesses work by advertising a few success stories while the majority of people who join waste their time and money.

Excellent post, you're so right. SA is a complete wasteland. No one should be on there. None of the women are real. I mean exactly zero. I'm having such a horrible time on SA that I have to make up success stories and post them here to feel better about myself. That cute Viet coed I went out with two nights ago was a complete fabrication. Just a figment of my lurid imagination. All these SB's I'm texting all day long are hackers from Serbia wanting my bank account info, but I'm still happy for the attention because I'm that lonely and it beats talking to my pet parakeet. It's a scam. Stay off the site and leave it to deluded dreamers like me. And just like Yogi said: no one goes there anymore, it's too crowded.

[Elvis 2008]

Seeking Arrangements advertising is false. Seeking Arrangements claim a ratio of 5 to 1 in favor of sugar daddies. A female college of mine researched this and found that in fact men's profiles on Seeking Arrangements actually outnumbered women by about 1.5 to 2.5 times depending on which country she looked at. These businesses work by advertising a few success stories while the majority of people who join waste their time and money.

It depends on where TM. I agree that around me SA is a waste of time and money. However in Mexico and Colombia the story is much different though I suspect some day it will turn like it did in the USA. The days of finding an American super model type as a SB on SA like I did in 2009 are IMO over.