Seeking Arrangements

[CarloRogue]

Hi guys, coming late into your conversation. Some posts here pointed me to S. A. For making pre-travel appointments and on the ground connections. So I tried it out. And it seems like I am getting some leads with relative ease. I am surprised actually. But since I just sighed up, I have not yet paid for subscription. Now they really make you do it because you can't even see the replies of the messages you sent unless you pay. It's pretty steep price (given how folks on this site sometimes wind themselves for years before they pay their one-time activation fee for PM, haha), like they want USD 90 per freaking month! That sure is a rip-off, but I wonder if that also means the girls are mostly just in their to get a shot at a 500 USD per night date. I saw some mainstream news and blog articles which tout this as an option for women to make big bucks.

What I see is a mixed basket. I actually see girls saying the want long time relationships. More often than not even. But not sure if all of that cuteness and the attention you're apparently getting there is just a bait to make us guys pay through our nose for the membership fees to then end up with some entitled drama queen who demands a Gucci handbag on first date in a shopping mall?

The fact that this thread exists should be indication enough to you that at least some of us think it is worth it. You can find plenty of naysayers on other boards if you'd prefer to be convinced otherwise. The experience is what you make of it. My recommendation is that you spend a couple days reading the various boards like this one (and the Richmond VA thread) to get a feel for the scene, then jump in and invest some time with it. You can really only learn by doing, and tweaking your approach to improve results. And not being a the-bag helps. Regarding membership fees, you can occasionally find some discount offers (33% but their business model is based on what their clientele is willing to pay, so I don't understand the complainers (it's a free market. If you don't like it, start a competing business). If you're a penny pincher, then the sugar bowl isn't a good fit for you.

[WyattEarp]

I have heard that Canada, the UK, and even Australia have become variations of the USA sex prison. Can you confirm that?

I'm not sure on what qualifies a country as a sex prison like the USA. Canada has a very active, basically legal mongering scene. COVID has pushed prices up, but we'll see if that sticks long-term. Montreal has several large agencies and prices are generally a bit lower than Toronto.

Seeking Arrangements might be as much work in Canada as the USA It's never going to challenge Mexico and Colombia on that front.

My very generalized experience is wherever pay for play is legal the overall attitudes toward sex are more easy-going. The increased competition from pay for play kind of puts young women in a different frame of mind.

[Stinky Squid]

Hi guys, coming late into your conversation. Some posts here pointed me to S. A. For making pre-travel appointments and on the ground connections. So I tried it out. And it seems like I am getting some leads with relative ease. I am surprised actually. But since I just sighed up, I have not yet paid for subscription. Now they really make you do it because you can't even see the replies of the messages you sent unless you pay. It's pretty steep price (given how folks on this site sometimes wind themselves for years before they pay their one-time activation fee for PM, haha), like they want USD 90 per freaking month! That sure is a rip-off, but I wonder if that also means the girls are mostly just in their to get a shot at a 500 USD per night date. I saw some mainstream news and blog articles which tout this as an option for women to make big bucks.

What I see is a mixed basket. I actually see girls saying the want long time relationships. More often than not even. But not sure if all of that cuteness and the attention you're apparently getting there is just a bait to make us guys pay through our nose for the membership fees to then end up with some entitled drama queen who demands a Gucci handbag on first date in a shopping mall?

[Steve 9696]

I've seen SA likened to Uber or AirBnb in the way that SA opens up under-utlised pussy into the gig economy.

My local SA is littered with divorcees who were giving it out for free on Tinder and realise that they could be getting $$ for the same experience vis SA.

But I still think that for many females giving over their pussy without commitment is a step too far. They would be the ones asking crazy $$ on seeking or simply not even considering it. They are out of our decision pool.

The problem I see for SA is the number of male freeloaders and fuckwits that are fucking up the site.

I know different members have different experiences. But mine is that early twenties is where it's at. Since discovering SA in 2019 and being decimated by Covid my "wins" by age are as follows:

23 23 22 25 28 21 22 23 26 23 25 23 20 23 22 23 24 23 24 24 23 26 23 23 20

Other guys may play in the thirties divorcee bin but that just never seems to work for me. So hard to find an attractive gal and then some drama because she has kids or thinks she's all that. Early twenties is magic age. Free with their sexuality and few personal commitments. My filter is permanently set to 25 and under. I may troll high twenties if it's slim pickings. YMMV.

[BrizLad]

It will be interesting over time to see if Seeking Arrangement becomes a viable alternative to Scarlet Blue in Australia for wild-child local Australian ladies who provide real sex, including BBBJTCIM.

I've seen SA likened to Uber or AirBnb in the way that SA opens up under-utlised pussy into the gig economy.

My local SA is littered with divorcees who were giving it out for free on Tinder and realize that they could be getting $$ for the same experience vis SA.

But I still think that for many females giving over their pussy without commitment is a step too far. They would be the ones asking crazy $$ on seeking or simply not even considering it. They are out of our decision pool.

The problem I see for SA is the number of male freeloaders and fuckwits that are fucking up the site.

[Mongerer88]

Dudes UK is totally NOT sex prison ... Ps I was super unimpressed with the Sydney brothel scene when I was there pre-Covid. One good experience by hitting a hottie in an otherwise thin lineup and one very bad experience where no girl that looked above a 7 would BBBJ. Period. Boo u can keep Australia.

The fully legal, licensed brothels are rarely a good indicator of the quality of a nation's sex scene.

Any American John knows that independent escorts (albeit the expensive ones) give far better service (and actually at a lower price in the USA) than the worthless and clinical Nevada brothels.

For Australia, most of the good reviews, and certainly all of the liberal service offerings that most of us want, are from independent escorts who advertise on Scarlet Blue. Those expensive escorts are not mentioned favorably here on ISG by the local contributors, presumably because of the cost. The Canadian reviewer who saw several Scarlet Blue ladies was happy with them. Australia has a review board that cannot be linked to as a result of ISG rules.

I think your impression of Spain is based on your experiences with the fully legal, licensed places like Felinas. There are much better (and less expensive) alternatives in Spain such as Vecinitas and Teensbcn and the Eden places, which are independents who share an incall place. A person who doesn't read your great Diva contributions for the United Kingdom and uses a random agency might be left with a bad impression of the United Kingdom, and I feel that the same often happens for guys whose only experience in Spain is with Felinas, Top Damas, Maison Rouge, etc.

The fully legal and licensed places in any country seem to draw many CBJ-only ladies. Presumably because they can't be dismissed for that, and because the customers are often naive tourists (and even locals) who won't research on sites like ISG to find the better options.

It will be interesting over time to see if Seeking Arrangement becomes a viable alternative to Scarlet Blue in Australia for wild-child local Australian ladies who provide real sex, including BBBJTCIM.

[DramaFree11]

Dudes UK is totally NOT sex prison. The agency escort scene is alive and well and one of my worldwide faves. Diva (Ro-girls) and Olina (Thai) are still stocked with hotties. Just go read the reviews on Diva. There are five or six daily which is same pace as precovid. And many of my favorite girls are working Fortune. Mermaid. Cambria. At Diva and Anna at Olina. Absolutely dying to go.

Ps I was super unimpressed with the Sydney brothel scene when I was there pre-Covid. One good experience by hitting a hottie in an otherwise thin lineup and one very bad experience where no girl that looked above a 7 would BBBJ. Period. Boo u can keep Australia.

You are correct, but I was talking about the normal guys, with normal budgets. They have to deal with the UK witches and that can not be fun. Yes, that is definitely Sex Prison!

[DramaFree11]

Today was an exemplary day in the good and bad of seeking. I went on a second date with Mina (from a month ago). This time she made no effort to look hot. No makeup. No eyelashes. No sexy wig (she has that untamable black hair so she wears it short). And in the room she wants pay up front (no) and sticks to a covered BJ.

Boo. Ok that's our last date. I was nice about it but damn that's just a shame.

Then out of the blue M from Philly texts me happy Memorial Day pics like a real girlfriend would! She totally didn't have to do that. But she's a smart girl and playing the long game here. No hooker is texting u pics on Memorial Day cuz theyre thinking about u. LOL. Yeah I love seeking and my long distance girlfriends. Keep it coming babe!

Been there and done that. It always ends badly, with black chicks. They can look hot for one night, but when they're in a bad mood watch out. Also, they're just so much drama and they so much chaos in their lives, Best thing is just to avoid them.

[Steve 9696]

Today was an exemplary day in the good and bad of seeking. I went on a second date with Mina (from a month ago). This time she made no effort to look hot. No makeup. No eyelashes. No sexy wig (she has that untamable black hair so she wears it short). And in the room she wants pay up front (no) and sticks to a covered BJ.

Boo. Ok that's our last date. I was nice about it but damn that's just a shame.

Then out of the blue M from Philly texts me happy Memorial Day pics like a real girlfriend would! She totally didn't have to do that. But she's a smart girl and playing the long game here. No hooker is texting u pics on Memorial Day cuz they’re thinking about u. LOL. Yeah I love seeking and my long distance girlfriends. Keep it coming babe!

[Steve 9696]

I can only imagine how bad it is in the UK. It must real suck to be a dude their. I am in MTY for the weekend. Things are returning to normal here, minus the mask. Clubs are open and they are talking about students returning to campus, so some good news.

Dudes UK is totally NOT sex prison. The agency escort scene is alive and well and one of my worldwide faves. Diva (Ro-girls) and Olina (Thai) are still stocked with hotties. Just go read the reviews on Diva. There are five or six daily which is same pace as precovid. And many of my favorite girls are working Fortune. Mermaid. Cambria. At Diva and Anna at Olina. Absolutely dying to go.

Ps I was super unimpressed with the Sydney brothel scene when I was there pre-Covid. One good experience by hitting a hottie in an otherwise thin lineup and one very bad experience where no girl that looked above a 7 would BBBJ. Period. Boo u can keep Australia.

[AmorPorFavor]

Seeking Arrangements has a 33% discount for premium membership until midnight May 31.

They are only offering me a 25% discount. Maybe because I had previously had a premium account but let it lapse because covid. I'm going to take it for 3 months and see how it goes now that I am vaxxed.

[BrizLad]

Thanks for the Australia update. It is very interesting and good to know SA works there.

I have heard that Canada, the UK, and even Australia have become variations of the USA sex prison. Can you confirm that? What stunned me in Colombia was how many Australians seemed to be headed there to hunt the chicas. I have heard Aussie men love Thailand, but was the Aussie mongering community talking about Colombia pre-Covid?

I can only speak for myself. Colombia is on my radar 'one day'.

For me Asia is a direct flight from here to happiness. An 8 hour single leg flight gets me from Brisbane to Manila and the Filipina happiness. I was spending 2-3 months per year in Asia so our travel policy changes has had a dramatic impact on my mongering. I was happy for a time in the last 6 months with the local AMP scene but I then started to ask myself just how many cocks these girls were sucking.

My current solution is to finalize a list of SA girls. I have a story that will put 80% of the list on backburner and let me call them off as best I can.

As many people know, SA girls know that there is a reason that we don't meet them immediately. It's the same for us. If a girl delays us for a few days or weeks, we know they are in another arrangement or trading us off on another monger.

[DramaFree11]

Are you guys getting requests to use Telegram? I just started telling girls no, it is for scammers. I tried it a few times, with zero success. Whatsapp is great love it, I with we used more in the states.

[DramaFree11]

Thanks for the Australia update. It is very interesting and good to know SA works there.

I have heard that Canada, the UK, and even Australia have become variations of the USA sex prison. Can you confirm that? What stunned me in Colombia was how many Australians seemed to be headed there to hunt the chicas. I have heard Aussie men love Thailand, but was the Aussie mongering community talking about Colombia pre-Covid?

I can only imagine how bad it is in the UK. It must real suck to be a dude their. I am in MTY for the weekend. Things are returning to normal here, minus the mask. Clubs are open and they are talking about students returning to campus, so some good news.

[DramaFree11]

Seeking Arrangements has a 33% discount for premium membership until midnight May 31.

I do not see it. Is this for only new memberships?