Seeking Arrangements

[HumbleHal]

Got banned on SA because some woman complained about my offer. Any advice? From time to time I might try it again. But they blocked my access and use of my credit card.

Probably would have been better not to be direct on the site, but wait until I got the phone number or met in person.

[DramaFree11]

Dude. You are seriously underestimating yourself. I am SIXTY (look younger) and ALL the girls I see are 22-24. I don't even see 20 year olds can't drink. And 25 is bordering into the more inhibited late twenties zone. So I have a near 40 year age gap and it doesn't matter. If anything it helps do you know what it's like to be with a hot 25 year old guy?

Boring. Self centered. Immature. Cums too fast. Has no money. The list goes on. These girls (the gems) are on seeking because they can't stand the immaturity of a guy their age. They like being with a charming older man who isn't half bad looking. Why the fuck would lovely 24 year old law student Sylvia spend 40 hours with me for 700 and want to repeat if she didn't actually enjoy being with me.

It took me a couple years to figure out that these 22-24 year olds actually like me for me and enjoy hanging out with me. It's quite a revelation and only makes it better as your confidence grows. Dude you totally can pull the 20-25 crowd overnight for no extra cash and no negotiation. Youre a catch! And the more u realize it the more attractive u become..

Exactly, I am 52, soon to be 53 and killing it. It takes time and work, but this is the best time in my life. I am meeting girls in the there early 20's and they love being around me and I feel the same.

I am in CDMX now and just an amazing place and yes, you should use SA in CDMX and all other On-line platforms. The guys that complain about this are either jealous or just do not get it. There is single girls every where in CDMX. Kind of starting over from my initial trips and I was not planning on the Model breaking up with me, but time to move on. I have a feeling I will see her again, no sense burning bridges, I have learned that lesson the hard way.

Unfortunately, I had another bad date last night. My flight was late, I agreed to meet a girl at the same Restaurant that I gave the last girl I gave the boot. She definitely was not my type, but it was Saturday and late, so I decided to make the best of it. We had nice conversation, but I did not want to have sex with her. I told her I had to work in the morning and that did not work, also she wanted to go dancing. I was done. I told I would be back in a week and we could do, whatever she wanted, "Lie". She then wanted to be paid for her time, I said, "Hell No" She kept talking and told her she had to go. Finally she left. Today is a new day and I have 2 new girls lined up.

[AmericanPi]

That's a interesting take. Thanks for sharing it.

When I'm in Latin America every girl I'm with talks about how fed up they are with machismo so I just play the opposite card: "oh, yeah. How great you went to that women's rights March.". And that always always gets them. How different from their machismo locals.

But separately, I can see that I am able to take these girls to nice dinners and keep a good conversation. I just wonder how much they see the age gap when we are undressed and my salt and pepper pubes are on display. I'm just being honest here. I look good for my age, but when it gets to naked the age difference becomes a lot clearer.

Good to hear your take.

Dude. You are seriously underestimating yourself. I am SIXTY (look younger) and ALL the girls I see are 22-24. I don't even see 20 year olds can't drink. And 25 is bordering into the more inhibited late twenties zone. So I have a near 40 year age gap and it doesn't matter. If anything it helps do you know what it's like to be with a hot 25 year old guy?

Boring. Self centered. Immature. Cums too fast. Has no money. The list goes on. These girls (the gems) are on seeking because they can't stand the immaturity of a guy their age. They like being with a charming older man who isn't half bad looking. Why the fuck would lovely 24 year old law student Sylvia spend 40 hours with me for 700 and want to repeat if she didn't actually enjoy being with me.

It took me a couple years to figure out that these 22-24 year olds actually like me for me and enjoy hanging out with me. It's quite a revelation and only makes it better as your confidence grows. Dude you totally can pull the 20-25 crowd overnight for no extra cash and no negotiation. Youre a catch! And the more u realize it the more attractive u become..

[Steve 9696]

Maybe. But let me tell you my situation. I'm actually a fairly attractive guy and quite a good conversationalist. But my weakness is I like 20-25 year old women, and I'm mid 40's. I have to be honest with myself. No matter how good I am, they would rather be banging a 25 year old dude. So I can't just rely on my wit and looks to get a girl to elect to stay the night for free. If that's what I want I feel I need to make it clear that's the exchange I'm looking for. It works for me but it's unique to my situation. If I'm.

Hopefully doing this when I'm 65 I will probably need to up the ante even more.

Dude. You are seriously underestimating yourself. I am SIXTY (look younger) and ALL the girls I see are 22-24. I don't even see 20 year olds can't drink. And 25 is bordering into the more inhibited late twenties zone. So I have a near 40 year age gap and it doesn't matter. If anything it helps do you know what it's like to be with a hot 25 year old guy?

Boring. Self centered. Immature. Cums too fast. Has no money. The list goes on. These girls (the gems) are on seeking because they can't stand the immaturity of a guy their age. They like being with a charming older man who isn't half bad looking. Why the fuck would lovely 24 year old law student Sylvia spend 40 hours with me for 700 and want to repeat if she didn't actually enjoy being with me.

It took me a couple years to figure out that these 22-24 year olds actually like me for me and enjoy hanging out with me. It's quite a revelation and only makes it better as your confidence grows. Dude you totally can pull the 20-25 crowd overnight for no extra cash and no negotiation. Youre a catch! And the more u realize it the more attractive u become.

PS. Ive also realized that just as I crave affection (not just sex) so do these girls. Not only do they want to cuddle and spoon and be held by a man. They often text me for weeks or months or even years afterwards just sweet nothings and pics of them or their lives here or there. They like feeling like someone out there cares about them for more than their looks. As I get up this morning I am looking forward to a sweet good morning text from Sylvia and maybe one from my home girl too. It always makes me smile.

[AsianPursuits]

Is there any concrete theory on which attributes seeking uses when to disconitnue access.

In January I had a seeking account which was banned due to the generic solicitation reason.

Fast forward to now and I want to find a new set of SB as I've exhausted by previous list garnered in January.

Last week I set up a new account, perfected my profile and had a browse at some likely candidates.

Thursday I submitted credit card details for a monthly subscription. Immediately I am logged out. I try to login again and it just says account is suspended. I also received an email saying it's suspended.

Unique.

A) Email address is new and not used previously.

B) Profile Picture is unique and not the same me.

C) Credit card new digits, card never used online before.

Same.

D) Card holder details, real name and address, same.

E) Browser & IP address the same as previous access.

Now I'm wondering will I try again with a new email and new card digits, or will I also need a VPN.

Any experience shares?

[AmericanPi]

Maybe. But let me tell you my situation. I'm actually a fairly attractive guy and quite a good conversationalist. But my weakness is I like 20-25 year old women, and I'm mid 40's. I have to be honest with myself. No matter how good I am, they would rather be banging a 25 year old dude. So I can't just rely on my wit and looks to get a girl to elect to stay the night for free. If that's what I want I feel I need to make it clear that's the exchange I'm looking for. It works for me but it's unique to my situation. If I'm.

Hopefully doing this when I'm 65 I will probably need to up the ante even more.

Yeah I guess it works either way but for me half the fun is the ego boost of knowing she chose to stay for not a dime more. It's kinda part of the thrill of the chase. I would think a pre negotiated overnight would lead to higher prices as well but to be fair I have no experience to base that on.

To each his own on this one I guess!

[Steve 9696]

I actually do this a little bit differently. I set clear expectations before the date. Like I will explicitly say this date is until 1 am, or you will spend the night. I have never once had someone say they object to my being so clear. That doesn't mean they always agree. Often we will have a brief exchange on how long the girl is committed to stay. But I never assume we will just figure it out. I always lay out the expected time commitment.

Yeah I guess it works either way but for me half the fun is the ego boost of knowing she chose to stay for not a dime more. It's kinda part of the thrill of the chase. I would think a pre negotiated overnight would lead to higher prices as well but to be fair I have no experience to base that on.

To each his own on this one I guess!

[AmericanPi]

I actually do this a little bit differently. I set clear expectations before the date. Like I will explicitly say this date is until 1 am, or you will spend the night. I have never once had someone say they object to my being so clear. That doesn't mean they always agree. Often we will have a brief exchange on how long the girl is committed to stay. But I never assume we will just figure it out. I always lay out the expected time commitment.

This is seeking mate! It's up to you both, mostly her, how long she stays. It's considered fine if U don't vibe that you part after dinner for no cash. Hasn't happened to me often but does happen occasionally, esp if she is over 25. But if she likes you she will keep on and just let it flow. Sometimes that means go back to the room and fuck and she heads home. Maybe a 3-4 hour date. Sometimes u hit another bar or go out dancing. Sometimes she'll sleep over. There is no extra charge for this. She will only do it if she wants to. I'd say a bit over 50% of my girls do.

Sylvia and I agreed we'd do her 400 night 1 and my 300 night two if we repeated. Now that I know her I woulda easily done 400-500 both nights. So that meant it was 700 for our FORTY hours together. We were inseparable. But just like she likes me I like her. So we only stayed together for a quick overnight later in the week cuz of my plane but I gave her 400. Didnt have to. But Better she have that extra hundred than me.

[Steve 9696]

Thanks for this, it's helpful. But for how long or often? Is this for one meeting / outing? That seems too good to be true for a long date or overnight. And especially for something like the 2-day date you described. I get that sometimes it might just be a quick meeting, so maybe it evens out. But does a girl expect you to keep paying more, if your time lasts longer? Or is this a one-time thing each time you meet, and the date just goes for as long as you both like?

This is seeking mate! It's up to you both, mostly her, how long she stays. It's considered fine if U don't vibe that you part after dinner for no cash. Hasn't happened to me often but does happen occasionally, esp if she is over 25. But if she likes you she will keep on and just let it flow. Sometimes that means go back to the room and fuck and she heads home. Maybe a 3-4 hour date. Sometimes u hit another bar or go out dancing. Sometimes she'll sleep over. There is no extra charge for this. She will only do it if she wants to. I'd say a bit over 50% of my girls do.

Sylvia and I agreed we'd do her 400 night 1 and my 300 night two if we repeated. Now that I know her I woulda easily done 400-500 both nights. So that meant it was 700 for our FORTY hours together. We were inseparable. But just like she likes me I like her. So we only stayed together for a quick overnight later in the week cuz of my plane but I gave her 400. Didn’t have to. But Better she have that extra hundred than me.

Treat it like a real date. Treat her with respect. Drink and make her laugh and you are good for an overnight if you have some game. Good luck!

[NF4591]

I didn't get too many girls down to specifics but 400 seems like what they are asking. Might be able to get 300 but "our type" girls aren't going below that.

Thanks for this, it's helpful. But for how long or often? Is this for one meeting / outing? That seems too good to be true for a long date or overnight. And especially for something like the 2-day date you described. I get that sometimes it might just be a quick meeting, so maybe it evens out. But does a girl expect you to keep paying more, if your time lasts longer? Or is this a one-time thing each time you meet, and the date just goes for as long as you both like?

[AmericanPi]

I didn't get too many girls down to specifics but 400 seems like what they are asking. Might be able to get 300 but "our type" girls aren't going below that.

That sounds about right. It's like $200 normal in third world (I usually go higher) so 450-500 dollars usd is about right for first world.

[Steve 9696]

What a whirlwind. That's a great story. And why SA is so amazing.

Can I ask, what's a good gift size in UK? I've only done this in Latin America and I've always wondered how much more it is in first world countries.

I didn't get too many girls down to specifics but 400 £ seems like what they are asking. Might be able to get 300 £ but "our type" girls aren't going below that.

[DramaFree11]

Man these things happen. You didn't get nothing. You got a great story you can tell for years.

Exactly! I am definitely Video Chatting now.

[ManWithMotive]

Guys,

Just got my account blocked and banned.

Tried to open new account using different name and that too was deleted by SA.

Any advise please.

Manwithmotive.

[AmericanPi]

Man these things happen. You didn't get nothing. You got a great story you can tell for years.

So I had 2 meetings early in the day, just amazing, these girls I had met in the past. I had a dinner meeting, I was really excited about. I get text she will be arriving late, no problem, I think nothing about it. I am getting ready and I get a message that she arriving early at the restaurant, not normal, but ok. I catch my Didi, it was not the best experience, the driver was jerk. So I arrive she is cute, but does not stand up. Dinner is going will, but she will not stand up or go to the bathroom. She is drinking like a fish and eating more then me, very odd for CDMX, most of the girls eat small portions. She is all over me, that was cool. I finally have to go to the bathroom. She will not go and starts telling me needs to go, obviously she is hiding something. I probably would not have cared, but she wanted to stay at the restaurant and eat more. Finally she gets up, wow, huge ass and short. Then I get pissed. She comes back from the bathroom and said your pictures are not even close. Basically she says nothing..