Seeking Arrangements

[Simplii]

Yeah, definitely annoyed by these people who think they don't need to do the ground week and think they can expect others to pass the contacts of these girls around.

Ask your sugar babies. They have more that one SD for sure.

[Simplii]

Yeah no one who really does Seeking is sharing any names. These girls are not hookers we pass about. OP def in wrong newsgroup.

What if girls would like a referral to another SD? How you ever wonder what is that that girls want?

Would you be her SD forever? C'Mon., one night stand is what most of the guys are looking for here. How many SBs do you see regularly more than one time?

[Ggekko2009]

Yeah no one who really does Seeking is sharing any names. These girls are not hookers we pass about. OP def in wrong newsgroup.

Yeah, definitely annoyed by these people who think they don't need to do the ground week and think they can expect others to pass the contacts of these girls around.

[DramaFree11]

Yeah no one who really does Seeking is sharing any names. These girls are not hookers we pass about. OP def in wrong newsgroup.

Yep, it is not going to happen. I work too hard for my contacts, unlike others, I do not want to sell or benefit from there contact information. I had one guy ask for my login and password, Hell no! You have to come to CDMX. Heading to my 4th meeting of the day. It has been an epic Monday.

[Steve 9696]

Sorry, that is not my thing. Happy to help any other way.

Yeah no one who really does Seeking is sharing any names. These girls are not hookers we pass about. OP def in wrong newsgroup.

[DramaFree11]

You are not sharing SA contacts don't be like them!!

Sorry, that is not my thing. Happy to help any other way.

[Simplii]

I would not listen to most of the guys on the Colombian page, most are very cheap and just angry dudes, in fact I would probably do the opposite. Same with some of the guys on CDMX, they are just jealous because you are not using there girls, and having more fun, but they claim they get no compensation. Do what makes you happy, do not listen to the haters.

You are not sharing SA contacts don't be like them!!

[DramaFree11]

In both cities, the guys promoting the women are hanging in the slums and paying small $ for women, and they are convinced no one is doing better than them and are threatened if anyone suggests they are.

CDMX has Bogota beat when it comes to fun, food, and climate. The reason to go to Bogota is the average woman is better looking than CDMX but there are hotties in CDMX. The reason I focused on Colombia was the response rate to PMs was so much higher. I had 3 X the responses, and it did not hurt that the women were happy with less. If you are a working guy though, it is much harder time commitment wise.

As I have gotten to know my gal, I fell first for the looks, then the sex, then the personality, and finally the character. She got pregnant in her early 20's, turns out the father was a complete violent druggie, and she got a restraining order on him. She tried dating and thinks all Colombian men are the same macho pigs she first dealt with. Her father cheated on her mother, and her brother has children by two different women.

Her mother tried to take her kid so she cut herself off from her family and paid for everything herself. She told me her day consisted of exercising in the morning, dropping her kid off at school, going to work, and then exercising at night. This was her life for 12 years. We joke about some women being super women but she really was. And you saw what she looked like, DF, if she wanted to sell herself she could get top $. I asked her what she did for sex because she likes it so much and she said that she had her toys

Funny, how you were talking about, meeting hot girls during Covid. I was with the best looking girls in my life at the beginning of Covid in MTY, but then I was topping out at 6-7's. Nothing wrong with that. I think the economy is going to change things dramatically and a lot of rich guys are in big trouble if they have not prepared themselves or diversified. I just hope my money holds out, but I have no bills, all my business are paid for, so I will be ok. We are small lien, efficient and diversified. I am not rooting for the economy to collapse, but it is not looking good. I think the rich guys were a major issue in MTY, but not as much in CDMX. There really is not a lot of competition here, and I imagine there will be even fewer guys here in the next couple of years. Yes, CDMX is expensive, but it is really cheap to fly here and I will probably get an apartment here, so that will also cut down on expenses.

I am having so much fun in CDMX I will worry about a relationship, later or if it happens naturally. You are correct there is no middle ground here, either 7's and above, or bust. Unlike, the MTY girls, that I was pretty much just attracted to them physically, most the girls I meet in CDMX have goals and are really trying to better themselves, I find that super attractive.

[Steve 9696]

Remember a few weeks back I said how even with a girl in every port I am looking for something new? I've swayed back the other direction after a long weekend with Shayla.

We rented a cabin on a lake in the mountains and fuck we had fun just total BFGF in all senses. I taught her to kayak and how to swim (with life jacket) and she taught me all the fine points of cannibalizing cigar wrappers and rolling blunts! And we def smoked a few.

The first night just smoking and drinking and watching the stars which are amazing with no light pollution. And after a couple hours she comes and gets on my lap straddling me facing me and we make out like demons. I LOVE to kiss her. So passionate and tongues everywhere. Sucking licking just full on. Then the grinding starts because her tongue is connected to her pussy like no other. I pull her shirt up and spend time on the most amazing nipples on the planet no lie and we both can't hold it any longer.

Pants and panties come off and she mounts up Asian cowgirl in the chair. Never done this before require a petite girl with stamina (we bought her some booty shorts later and found she is a size 0.) OMG her pussy was amazing and she just rode and rode while we made out. Some of the best sex I've ever had.

Had equally good more traditional sex in the bed the next couple nights, including some epic BJ in Steve 2 position (fingering her pussy is to die for). Also had a nice tub soak that led to conjoined grinding and making out. With the bedroom not far behind. She's literally become my favorite girl in the bedroom and we've been together about six months.

There was just something special about a few days of uninterrupted time. No work. No family. No distractions. Just do whatever the fuck we want and fuck like bunnies every night. Damn I dig her and thank SA for bringing us together.

However don’t mistake this for monogamy. I’m gonna see Sylvia for a few nights straight in a couple weeks. LOL.

[Ggekko2009]

I was busted but not in a way that you would think. In fact, I was busted by my girl who is accompanying me to this CTG trip. I had a tendency to write up my report while the memories are still fresh. I was writing this Cartagena report on the sofa while she was sitting next to me. Even though she does not speak English but she was actually able to read them. One smart cookie and I believe she was also aware of this platform. I was careless and overlooked this aspects of things and now all my anonymity is lost, at least to her. Here is the report.

http://www.internationalsexguide.nl/...03#post2712803

Anyway, she was cool with the whole thing and told me that she was only interested in what I wrote. No judgement there. She did ask if I had ever written anything about her and I told her I did once when we were in Bogota. This was the report.

http://www.internationalsexguide.nl/...=1#post2636103

It was funny that I was trying to think on my feet if I had written anything bad. I am pretty sure she is going to read this part of the report as well. Anyway, I did show her the Bogota's report and it was funny how close the events were, and she laughed when she came to the part where she lit up like a kid in a candy store when she was in Fiebre, a rather popular strip club in Santa Fe Bogota. This girl was really cool.

Anyway, I have always tried to maintain the anonymity of me and all the girls that I had ever interacted with. So at least, I am out of the wood on this front. There are a few more things that I could write but now I think I need to think a bit harder before putting this down here on the board.

Here is to posterity. Cheers.

[Ggekko2009]

Don't want to digress into STD discusd again but closing the loop. I did self test thru Mail at Let's Get Checked. The process was easy tho gathering a full vial of blood from your ring finger is a pain. Anyhow. Tested negative for the big 5. So that's just a nice reassurance.

Same here. Clean bill of health. Except that I did it in one of the lab in Bogota. I am doing it to reassure the girls that I am clean.

Their process are more thorough though and actually will not release the result until you get a Teleconsultation with one of their medical professional online. May have to do with their stricter privacy law perhaps. They even provided an English speaking medical professional to talk to you for the consultation.

[Steve 9696]

Don't want to digress into STD discusd again but closing the loop. I did self test thru Mail at Let's Get Checked. The process was easy tho gathering a full vial of blood from your ring finger is a pain. Anyhow. Tested negative for the big 5. So that's just a nice reassurance.

[Elvis 2008]

Great post, as I said, I usually do the opposite of most of the guys on the MDE or CDMX page. Especially the guys on MDE page, they are just completely wrong. Along with your list, they brush over the drug issues and violence, like it is not an problem.

In both cities, the guys promoting the women are hanging in the slums and paying small $ for women, and they are convinced no one is doing better than them and are threatened if anyone suggests they are.

I would never go back to MDE the place is horrible, but I do believe you and couple of guys that I respect that Bogota is a much better option. I am having so much fun in CDMX and meeting quality / beautiful girls, no reason to change. I am heading back tomorrow. At the end I was basically meeting 6/7's in MTY. At the beginning of Covid I had met sone 8-9's, but that was not the case at the end.

CDMX has Bogota beat when it comes to fun, food, and climate. The reason to go to Bogota is the average woman is better looking than CDMX but there are hotties in CDMX. The reason I focused on Colombia was the response rate to PMs was so much higher. I had 3 X the responses, and it did not hurt that the women were happy with less. If you are a working guy though, it is much harder time commitment wise.

As I have gotten to know my gal, I fell first for the looks, then the sex, then the personality, and finally the character. She got pregnant in her early 20's, turns out the father was a complete violent druggie, and she got a restraining order on him. She tried dating and thinks all Colombian men are the same macho pigs she first dealt with. Her father cheated on her mother, and her brother has children by two different women.

Her mother tried to take her kid so she cut herself off from her family and paid for everything herself. She told me her day consisted of exercising in the morning, dropping her kid off at school, going to work, and then exercising at night. This was her life for 12 years. We joke about some women being super women but she really was. And you saw what she looked like, DF, if she wanted to sell herself she could get top $. I asked her what she did for sex because she likes it so much and she said that she had her toys.

Thing is Covid happens, and her kid no longer is in school. She cannot work out at the gym, and she has paid leave from work. So she is lonely and rethinks having a man in her life. One of her friends went on seeking and married a Spaniard, so she was hopeful that she would get a guy she could date, have as a BF, and marry from seeking. She was never about the money and has only asked me twice for money in a year and a half.

Fortunately for me, I met her right after the travel ban and stupid me never even thought it was possible that a girl that hot could be on seeking would want a BF and not money. It took me a while to accept that this woman really liked me for me. But once I had reeled her in, I knew she would be loyal. It turns out she never really had a BF outside of the violent baby daddy, and she had never been in love.

So there are women out there on seeking who are looking for more than money, but the asshole "experts" on forums like Medellin do not get that. They call all the seeking women hos. Now I know that is just because they do not want anyone to be doing better than them, but it is important that guys here disregard them.

I recall seeing two other 10 types like my gal when I was in South America. I met a Bolivian banker who was stunning, smart, and sweet but taken and a Colombian financial secretary who was Victoria Secret dimensions and who could not have been nicer, so they are there. When my female friend said my gal is too good for me, she had a point, but what I would tell her is that I did the work to find somebody like my gal. I went on 100's of dates, and I was also kind of tired of the chase.

The chase was not paying off. When you get a big rolodex, it is hard to beat what you have in hand already. The other part was the chase was lonely. There were too many times when I had great sex and the girl then slumped off like a stranger. I hated that. On the other hand, I have learned to love the times when my gal texts me Hello, or good morning or is waiting for me in the airport and gives me that huge hug and kiss and special smile when she sees me. I have been asking myself which feels better, that hug and kiss or sex with a new stranger? I think that look, hug, and kiss are way under rated.

And I guess if I am being honest, I can say that I knew for certain that it was not possible that I was not going to do better than her.

So I think my gal is the top 1% of the top 1%, and I think DF you want that too. The problem with Mexico is that the top, top end is ruled by Mexicans, and the rich Mexicans have a ton of money. I went to a high end strip club in Monterrey and there were oil guys just forking out the dough, and the women, who were as hot as they come, would not even look at me. My point is if you are just wanting to meet women and have fun then for sure CDMX has got it going on, but if you want to meet the top, top women, I don't think you are going to find it there. Colombia, Argentina, and Brazil by and large have men with less money and poor attitudes and IMO you have a chance at the top, top women there. Of course, you have to got to do the work and go out on a lot of dates to find that unicorn. I know you will spend the money and do the work, but it is not easy finding a gal like I have, and luck is involved too. Hell without Covid, we never would have met.

[Akibono]

So true. These guys get upset if you do choose there girls or do not listen to their ridiculous advise. Also, they are the first to ask for your girls contact information, why would I do this for someone I have never met. I work hard at building rapport with these girls and many I would consider are close friends. This is the last thing I would do. Also, the minute you disagree or call them out, they cry foul and complain.

Additionally, Some of these guys get off posting pictures of girls, again I would never do this. At a minimum they should black out there faces, but they are trying to look cool to there friends that do the same dumb thing. I would never ask any of these guys for help or advice.

I call those folks Cheap Charlies. They exist in most forums. Mongering is not cheap, but if you are successful, you can afford it. It may cost you plenty if you get caught. The cheap folks settle for what they can get. Free is always good for them. They waste days thinking their guile gets them the girl. I find that quality costs, but it is worth it. The question is if you can afford it. If you are a rich guy, wouldn't you want the girl to have a good time? She will surely show her appreciation. It is the working girl that worries about being paid. However, there is no need to pay stupid prices. A certain percentage will be duds, but the magical encounters are worth it. I always remember the ones I wish I had one more time with.

[DramaFree11]

The CDMX and Medellin forums are probably the worst. I like to keep abreast of what is going on in Colombia so I read them, but at one point, I got frustrated and made this post.

There is a culture on the Medellin forum, and you are asking for consistency in the results. And here is what the rules are:

1. All women are working girls.

2. The only thing women want us for is money.

3. Anyone sending any money to a Colombian woman for any reason is a sucker.

4. They want to spend time with their novios (boyfriends) not you.

5. The women in centro are as fine as anywhere else.

6. All Colombian women are scammers. A Colombian lawyer or doctor is just as likely to use scopolamine on you as a street girl.

7. Because the women really want to be with their novios, dress like a Colombian. You get better prices that way.

8. Anything over $15 or 60,000 COP and you massively overpaid.

9. All women are in equal demand.

10. All women in Medellin are equally beautiful and good in bed so paying more for one makes no sense.

One thing I can assure you of is that if you follow these rules you will be hugely disappointed and be fucking fat and ugly women which I guess is the point. The guys who cement this culture do not want anyone doing better than them.

Maybe it is because of the drug trade in the past, but Medellin certainly has more of a ho culture than other Colombian cities. That said, I met women there who knew about the ho culture and went out of their way to prove they were not part of it.

But anyone who wants a great time and to fuck truly beautiful and great performing women, you had best throw those 10 rules in the trash.

End.

Funny thing is this is from one one of the guys I was talking about.

This is typical writing on the Medellin forum. A guy trashes me and then agrees with much of what I wrote. LOL.

One weird / nice thing about Colombia is that the cities are rated on their wealth, and the rich ones pay higher taxes. And if you are looking for an arrangement, IMO it makes sense to focus on the women from nicer neighborhoods where long term means years not tomorrow.

All the "experts" on the Medellin forum are chasing women from an American neighborhood like Watts, Harlem, or the South side of Chicago. Not only do the guys on the forum not believe such women are available from the nicer places in Colombia, they call anyone a liar who believes they exist. Admitting that would knock them from their pedestal of being Colombia experts. That is why it is best to just shrug them off and ignore them if you are using seeking.

Great post, as I said, I usually do the opposite of most of the guys on the MDE or CDMX page. Especially the guys on MDE page, they are just completely wrong. Along with your list, they brush over the drug issues and violence, like it is not an problem.

I would never go back to MDE the place is horrible, but I do believe you and couple of guys that I respect that Bogota is a much better option. I am having so much fun in CDMX and meeting quality / beautiful girls, no reason to change. I am heading back tomorrow. At the end I was basically meeting 6/7's in MTY. At the beginning of Covid I had met sone 8-9's, but that was not the case at the end.

CDMX has so many opportunities and so much fun. Also, where I stay I can walk almost everywhere, another plus. Most of the girls I meet are college educated and can speak basic English. I guarantee you will not get this with street girls.