Seeking Arrangements

[Steve 9696]

Had a great date with Uma earlier this week. Took her to an awesome speakeasy for some great food and drinks and then of course playtime. We spent the vast majority of our bedroom time doing what I am going to call the Steve 2. It is totally a fave but whenever I do it it seems like the girl has never done it before. So I am curious any of you tried / like this position:

You lay her on her back and kneel by her head. Turn her head towards your dick and have her suck your cock. Meanwhile reach down between her legs with your free hand and finger her. Optionally massage a breast with the other hand.

For me, fingering pussy while being blown is just a top notch thing. And there is no better position than this. It's dominant, she has amazing mouth access to both the boys and the shaft, and you don't have to contort to slips those fingers in her pussy. We musta done this for 20 minutes at least maybe more. The girls seem to love having a cock in their mouth and being fingered at same time.

Anyone else a fan of the Steve 2?

[Oneminuteboy]

Sorry to hear about your experience.

General rule is to never give money or gifts before meeting.

It works in Czech.

[Toto001]

I have been in contact with girls from Moldova and Russia recently.

Basically I lost a lot of money. It was during Corona lock down in spring and I wanted build up a connection for the time after corona.

The girl from Russia (21 year old medical student) needed money for medical school, then the car crashed and she needed money for that. Then we prepared for a trip to Dubai in summer. I paid her plane tickets. Money for her to get the passport faster. In the end she canceled 3 days ahead because she was ill. Total damage 4000.

The other girl from Moldova received monthly payments of about 200-300€. Also I had sent some clothes and received pictures of her wearing those in return.

I booked her a flight to visit me in Germany and waited three hours at the airport but she would never arrive. Total damage her 1500 or so over time.

Its a disaster and I am happy the German FKK clubs are open again.

I lost trust in SA and can not imagine this actually works in Germany and Czech / Moldova / Russia.

[WyattEarp]

So this has happened with two hookers I used to see in London. First was Melty with Diva. Total goddess. Next thing you know she is gone and posting pics of sports cars and boats from around the globe. Good for her.

Next down is Hannah. The spicy Thai wildcat. She's been posting for 6 months now from $2000/ night hotels and $500/ meal restaurants. I mean places I couldn't even afford the appetizers. And now she just posted a virtual rendering of a hair salon she hopes to open in Thailand. Wow. Landed the mega whale.

I am surprised more of these girls don't figure this out. If they are pretty and sexy they can land a guy with mega bucks and live on a yacht in the Mediterranean. Anyhow I am super happy for them and wish them the best!

It's not as easy a life as it might look for the sugar baby. I have a mega-rich friend who has a place in Malibu on the ocean. He always has what I call a Penthouse Pet quality woman living with him. They usually last about a year before he tires of them or the woman starts getting into the marriage, kids thing. Of course, he's cheating on them in the city or business trips. He always has new takers lined-up. In Los Angeles, there are always a bevy of hot women who just want to dress in nice clothes, eat at expensive restaurants and lay out at the pool.

While the girl lives with him, I get the impression she is never secure in the relationship. Duh, right. She kind of looks after him when he's home and doesn't ask too many questions about his comings and goings. Does he give them money? I presume so. I have no idea how much.

All I can say, it's always fun for me to stop over when in Los Angeles. I will likely see a 9+ knockout sunbathing topless on his deck. I will say these girls are poised, confident and generally intelligent. These women always attract a lot of attention when were out. The trick for them is landing the whale in marriage and kids. He's never married, but I think some of these women would simply be happy having a kid or two with him even if it shortly ended up in a divorce.

Steve, when you mention living on a yacht, I wonder how many hot women have been dropped off at a Mediterranean port with an envelope of cash and an abrupt goodbye.

[Midwestern]

To me, it is shocking how much more BJs that I am getting ever since I started shaving down there. I honestly think they want to do it, rather than feel like they have to do it.

My balls are kept in place and don't stick to my thighs because I wear boxer briefs. I am guessing your wear boxers.

Dood, I cannot use a blade. Itches like a mother fucker. Electrice razer is close enough for me.

So I know at least one person chimed in here and said "don't do it" and I have to admit I don't like my balls sticking to my thighs like they tend to do now. But I am thoroughly convinced my girls are giving me MUCH better ball licking and sucking action than before. As I posited I think a lot of these girls are bi and love eating pussy so a naked ball sack they can really get into. It's no longer "ah yeah some ball sucking" but really sloppy lavishing attention. The difference is noticeable.

So now to the recommendations. I tried Nair and ouch fuck. Even the gentle aloe stuff burned my balls bad. They were squeaky clean but not sure it was worth it. Always been afraid to go under the blade and nick myself but someone recommended Venus. Yes yes yes. This totally works! The big blade guards prevent angling improperly and catching a blade. Smooth sailing.

Highly recommend shaving. And with Venus. All geared up for some amazing BLS!

[Midwestern]

Some of these girls that do not hit the SD jackpot, or are not that pretty, can still do well in life. I became friends with a handful of WGs in Beijing. They are born poor, cannot get good education, are from very poor rural areas, no one gives them anything, and then later in life they may have the burden of taking care of their parents and maybe even a kid or two. And so they toil as a WG.

A typical case is a "friend" of mine, an outcall gal. For four years, she fucked about 40 guys per month, and made about $2,500 per month doing it. She eventually saved up over $100,000 and then "retired" and went back home and bought a nice condo.

I guess in some ways, I respect WGs more than SBs, on average.

So this has happened with two hookers I used to see in London. First was Melty with Diva. Total goddess. Next thing you know she is gone and posting pics of sports cars and boats from around the globe. Good for her.

Next down is Hannah. The spicy Thai wildcat. She's been posting for 6 months now from $2000/ night hotels and $500/ meal restaurants. I mean places I couldn't even afford the appetizers. And now she just posted a virtual rendering of a hair salon she hopes to open in Thailand. Wow. Landed the mega whale.

I am surprised more of these girls don't figure this out. If they are pretty and sexy they can land a guy with mega bucks and live on a yacht in the Mediterranean. Anyhow I am super happy for them and wish them the best!

[Akibono]

So this has happened with two hookers I used to see in London. First was Melty with Diva. Total goddess. Next thing you know she is gone and posting pics of sports cars and boats from around the globe. Good for her.

Next down is Hannah. The spicy Thai wildcat. She's been posting for 6 months now from $2000/ night hotels and $500/ meal restaurants. I mean places I couldn't even afford the appetizers. And now she just posted a virtual rendering of a hair salon she hopes to open in Thailand. Wow. Landed the mega whale.

I am surprised more of these girls don't figure this out. If they are pretty and sexy they can land a guy with mega bucks and live on a yacht in the Mediterranean. Anyhow I am super happy for them and wish them the best!

I think it is more about knowing how to do it and finding a target rich environment. You have to enjoy sex and being with someone older. Those gals have got game and they were motivated. Too many seem to think their looks alone is enough. The downside is these relationship do not last. Guys like variety and new. You have to be much better than average and be pleasant to be around. Divas need not apply unless your work in the agency. OTOH they have to navigate the pimp trap.

[Steve 9696]

So this has happened with two hookers I used to see in London. First was Melty with Diva. Total goddess. Next thing you know she is gone and posting pics of sports cars and boats from around the globe. Good for her.

Next down is Hannah. The spicy Thai wildcat. She's been posting for 6 months now from $2000/ night hotels and $500/ meal restaurants. I mean places I couldn't even afford the appetizers. And now she just posted a virtual rendering of a hair salon she hopes to open in Thailand. Wow. Landed the mega whale.

I am surprised more of these girls don't figure this out. If they are pretty and sexy they can land a guy with mega bucks and live on a yacht in the Mediterranean. Anyhow I am super happy for them and wish them the best!

[Steve 9696]

So I know at least one person chimed in here and said "don't do it" and I have to admit I don't like my balls sticking to my thighs like they tend to do now. But I am thoroughly convinced my girls are giving me MUCH better ball licking and sucking action than before. As I posited I think a lot of these girls are bi and love eating pussy so a naked ball sack they can really get into. It's no longer "ah yeah some ball sucking" but really sloppy lavishing attention. The difference is noticeable.

So now to the recommendations. I tried Nair and ouch fuck. Even the gentle aloe stuff burned my balls bad. They were squeaky clean but not sure it was worth it. Always been afraid to go under the blade and nick myself but someone recommended Venus. Yes yes yes. This totally works! The big blade guards prevent angling improperly and catching a blade. Smooth sailing.

Highly recommend — shaving. And with Venus. All geared up for some amazing BLS!

[DramaFree11]

Apparently, when you text "goodnight" to a gal, it means that you are tired of texting them and want to shut them down for the night, especially if it is before 11 pm. LOL.

One annoying thing that I have found with young people is that if I do not reply to their text right away, then they get mad at me or think I am ignoring them. I tell them that I do not look at my phone all the time, and they think that is totally a lie, when in fact it is the truth. And so when we get into a fight about it, I ask them if their parents look at their phones all the time, and they say of course not because their parents are old. And then I remind them that I am way closer to their parents' age than their age, and suddenly I can see the realization hit them. LOL, man.

Yes, you are correct the some are quick to get mad if you do not reply immediately, but most of the time those girls are going to be high maintenance. So it is probably for the best, just to move on.

[Midwestern]

Apparently, when you text "goodnight" to a gal, it means that you are tired of texting them and want to shut them down for the night, especially if it is before 11 pm. LOL.

One annoying thing that I have found with young people is that if I do not reply to their text right away, then they get mad at me or think I am ignoring them. I tell them that I do not look at my phone all the time, and they think that is totally a lie, when in fact it is the truth. And so when we get into a fight about it, I ask them if their parents look at their phones all the time, and they say of course not because their parents are old. And then I remind them that I am way closer to their parents' age than their age, and suddenly I can see the realization hit them. LOL, man.

I am forever learning the lingo and trappings of the 23 year old female. I came to love Doja Cat thru my girls and I'm always learning a thing or two. The other day Kayla said she had to get "snatched". Wtf? Kidnapped? Get her snatch waxed? What?

No it just means to get fixed up and look extra fine. Kids. Go figure. So another one is don't ever reply with "K". I do this all the time when I text with people my age. So the other day Kayla tells me please don't K her. That K is when you are mad at someone kinda like "whatever". When she said his I thought oh right she's said that before. But nope. I happened on a text from Sarah since she has come back into my life and we are rekindling. I was reviewing old texts and found she said the same thing!

Don't K your girl! It's disrespectful. I am sure I will learn something new tomorrow. They keep me young!

[Steve 9696]

I am forever learning the lingo and trappings of the 23 year old female. I came to love Doja Cat thru my girls and I'm always learning a thing or two. The other day Kayla said she had to get "snatched". Wtf? Kidnapped? Get her snatch waxed? What?

No it just means to get fixed up and look extra fine. Kids. Go figure. So another one is don't ever reply with "K". I do this all the time when I text with people my age. So the other day Kayla tells me please don't K her. That K is when you are mad at someone — kinda like "whatever". When she said his I thought — oh right she's said that before. But nope. I happened on a text from Sarah since she has come back into my life and we are rekindling. I was reviewing old texts and found she said the same thing!

Don't K your girl! It's disrespectful. I am sure I will learn something new tomorrow. They keep me young!

[Elvis 2008]

Sign up and at then I go to pay for premium and I am instantly banned, I read there support that if you bank shows something like 8 watch or other things then that is why you were banned, but that is not showing in my accounts. I've tried multiple cards, emails and devices with the same results. Any insights? Thank you!

ML, I think you need to understand what SA is fighting and what American law is. Prostitution is the exchange of anything of value for sex or the expectation of sex. The goal then should be to offer up money but not directly doing so and try to morph your exchange into something that a potential boyfriend may do with a potential girlfriend. Also, do not offer to fly a woman or pay for travel on the first meet as that could be seen as trafficking.

From what I have found SA gives you more latitude in other countries where prostitution is legal, but even then I have not come out and said $200 for sex. What I have said is that I do not pay for sex, but if I have enjoyed the company of a woman from this site, and I have given them gifts. Usually the women get it but you do have the morons who say, "You mean you are not going to pay me?" and then I give up on them. I don't want to meet someone so stupid. Occasionally, I will define what prostitution actually is. At times, the women will ask how much in gifts and if I am really interested in the girl, I may offer up how much previous gifts have been but whenever you hear the question "how much?" the woman is a pure ho and I usually am not interested. The key is not to offer anything but hint at what they will get.

Of course, the women are interested in money and we are interested in sex, but I have found if it is 100% transactional, the sex is not as good. Using SA to find pros is usually disappointing, and the lower the percentage that is transactional IMO the better. The best dates I have had have been when a price has not been discussed.

The easiest way to get attention is to throw out a $ figure, but it is likely to get you banned. To me, if you show understanding of American prostitution and trafficking laws, and you type them up in your responses to women, your chances of getting banned IMO go way down.

I could be wrong, and what I am saying may have just been a lucky coincidence, but that has been what has worked for me.

[ManchesterLad1]

Sign up and at then I go to pay for premium and I am instantly banned, I read there support that if you bank shows something like 8 watch or other things then that is why you were banned, but that is not showing in my accounts. I've tried multiple cards, emails and devices with the same results. Any insights? Thank you!

[Akibono]

Yep, I totally agree. Before I was on SA, I did not have a high opinion of our company's secretaries. But after I was on SA and met all those fuckups on there, I then totally respected our company's secretaries. Unlike the gals on SA, the secretaries showed up to work on time every day, they got their work done, they did not do drugs, they raised their kids pretty well, they had some savings, they paid their bills on time, they went on vacations, they were responsible, etc.

I dated on SB for over a month, and I thought, wow, this person is totally normal. But then we went on a trip together and I realized what a huge disaster she was. I tried to get to know other SBs too, but eventually, I decided that getting to them that well was going down the wrong path.

If I could find an SB that I could get drunk with and fuck, that was perfect. Nothing more.

You are quite correct. Sex work comes with a lot of stigma in this country. The girls who are willing to take that risk do not think long term. They either cannot get their act together (I. E. Show up at a job on time on a regular basis or have emotional disciple) or want the benefits of wealth without being willing to work for it. If they are attractive, they can manipulate to get what they want. People who are successful either have a laser focus and / or have the tolerance to put up with shit until they are successful.