Seeking Arrangements

[Kilkelly4u]

Been on SA with subscription for about a couple of weeks now, browsing through Shanghai SBs. Going on my first date tonight. Should be a M&G, could be more or I might get stood up. Wish me luck and I'll submit a report on both the date and the search experience later!

[Elvis 2008]

I paid the $100 to message women and have been writing and sending some text messages but nothing. I have found one really hot blonde and she wanted $500 and that is above what I want. I am in Colorado so maybe it is my state. I am not sure but right now I am just going back to CDMX for now and will spend the money there.

Maybe Mexico and Mde has broken me but I am will to spend $300 but it seems a few of these chicks want an allowance and that is not what I want. I have another 2 weeks or so before my renewal hits, so if anyone has any tips I am willing to listen, but I think the chicks in the US think their pussy are made of gold and charge that.

What I would do Jbj is just forget about the USA. I would head to Mexico City and focus on women who have visas to come to the USA. About one in 2 or one in 3 women I met there had them. Establish a relationship with them. Maybe fly to Cancun or Acapulco first and then meet them here. Make sure you have plenty of photos if you are single and claim that she is your GF when she comes here. Get a debit or gift card in her name and the first time have her pay her own ticket. If you are married, I would fly your gals to somewhere in Mexico like a border town like Tijuana or Juarez that you can easily get to and hang out with her on weekends. With those towns, you can just fly to El Paso or San Diego and walk across. Walking back in San Diego is a pain in the ass but Juarez is not as bad.

I had a woman I flew from Mexico to Texas three times, paid her $500 for 3 to 5 days and fucked the shit out of her those days. Just read the federal law the Mann Act and make sure that there is no way what you are doing could be described if trafficking. I would be weary of doing this if you were married, but do all you can to show she is your GF is you are single or get her a different excuse if she is coming to the USA. It is too bad she turned out to be mentally ill. The crazy ones usually are the best fucks though.

[MiamiBoy1]

SP, Pussycat gives decent advice with regards to using seeking in communication to a point. The problem is he openly admits that he is chasing barrio (ghetto) girls and acts like a john in soliciting them. He even gives out prices.

When I was in Bogota, I read the forum and no one gave any tips about how to use it. I think I was the first, and that was in 2019. What happened is that most of the women I met had never met any guy from the site. Time and again, I would meet the women, talk to them, they would get excited about being a sugar baby and fuck me without any mention of price. Soon after, I realized the times where no price was mentioned was way better than women who wanted a set price.

All in all, the better value for sex in Bogota were working girls. On average, these women were better in bed and better looking than the seeking girls. Pussycat says you cannot compare a 2 hour GFE versus a street walker but the SW will give you GFE and travel with you to your hotel if the money is right, and the money often would be the same or less as he was offering.

He even says the women he sought out were probably on other sites and that he pursued regular girls not models. Well, I wanted models, ones that were great in bed and would not dream of being on other sites.

Bogota has a numbering system of strata 1 to 6. The best neighborhoods are rated 6. See the link: https://www.colture.co/bogota/tips/t...m-in-colombia/.

Half the people are in strata 1 and 2. What does it mean if you get a girl from there? Think Harlem, Watts, or South side of Chicago. So would you expect a difference between a girl from the South side of Chicago in comparison to one on Michigan Avenue? That is the difference between 1 versus 6.

That James Bond thing he talked about was directed at me. Thing is I did not wine and dine women. I would meet them for a drink or snack at my hotel for a 30 to 60 minute interview and had on average 3 dates per day. I do not understand where he gets off saying he was fucking 5 X as many women as I did. Quite often, I was all fucked out. The point of my interviewing the women was to put them in the category of not interested, ho, or possible SB material. Thing is that I never would consider a SB if she was horrible in bed so they had to pass that part as well.

Point is that Pussycat has a great guide for getting the most women off seeking. I am not sure that is a great value though considering how cheap and easy you can find working girls, and he even alludes to that. I was interested in the best women though not the most women so use my methods if that is what you are interested in.

Your approach is way more complicated and would not work for the majority of mongers who got limited time. I doubt somebody would ever go your route setting up 2-3 meet and greets per day while on vacation or business trip, it is just not feasible. But it might work for someone who is looking for a SB in his local area, makes much more sense to invest some time in order to find a long-term arrangement.

Obviously, SW will go to your hotel / apartment, but will they provide GFE? Highly doubt it, even if the money is right. Pussycat is right, you can't compare good GFE which most Seeking girls provide vs some lousy service SW provide, it is day and night.

[Steve 9696]

I paid the $100 to message women and have been writing and sending some text messages but nothing. I have found one really hot blonde and she wanted $500 and that is above what I want. I am in Colorado so maybe it is my state. I am not sure but right now I am just going back to CDMX for now and will spend the money there.

Maybe Mexico and Mde has broken me but I am will to spend $300 but it seems a few of these chicks want an allowance and that is not what I want. I have another 2 weeks or so before my renewal hits, so if anyone has any tips I am willing to listen, but I think the chicks in the US think their pussy are made of gold and charge that.

No doubt if you get with girls outside the US, especially where prostitution is legal, you are going to get amazing girls and amazing price points. You honestly cannot compare the two. If you want an 8 for under $200 you can get that a lot of places. But not here. So you have to ask urself this. Can I do without pussy while at home stateside? Because if not you have to compromise in some way:

You can get a heavier or less attractive girl prob for that $300. But I don't know any top shelf girl in the US going for 300 these days. Maybe can get some for 4 (this seems to be the new floor) and 500 is prob more like it and you will have to work for that.

If u have been international u have been ruined for life. Unless you have the budget. Then the US door is wide open. you just can't compare the two at all. In the US $300 is unlikely to get what you are looking for in my experience.

[The Cane]

I paid the $100 to message women and have been writing and sending some text messages but nothing. I have found one really hot blonde and she wanted $500 and that is above what I want. I am in Colorado so maybe it is my state. I am not sure but right now I am just going back to CDMX for now and will spend the money there.

Maybe Mexico and Mde has broken me but I am will to spend $300 but it seems a few of these chicks want an allowance and that is not what I want. I have another 2 weeks or so before my renewal hits, so if anyone has any tips I am willing to listen, but I think the chicks in the US think their pussy are made of gold and charge that.

I don't know how it's all going to turn out, but in about a week and a half on the site, I have set up three meets and greets (2 blondes and 1 Latina). Except for in one case, there has been no explicit discussion of money, but it's implied (I figure I will wait until after the meets and greets because it all may be moot after those LOL). In the one case where money has been discussed, she (the hottest one) asked for $1,000 PPM. I have no plans to do that. If the meet and greet happens as planned and goes well, then I will make a counteroffer that works better for me. We shall see. We shall see!

[Jbj64]

I paid the $100 to message women and have been writing and sending some text messages but nothing. I have found one really hot blonde and she wanted $500 and that is above what I want. I am in Colorado so maybe it is my state. I am not sure but right now I am just going back to CDMX for now and will spend the money there.

Maybe Mexico and Mde has broken me but I am will to spend $300 but it seems a few of these chicks want an allowance and that is not what I want. I have another 2 weeks or so before my renewal hits, so if anyone has any tips I am willing to listen, but I think the chicks in the US think their pussy are made of gold and charge that.

[Elvis 2008]

I wish I know this before last trip. Will use it for my next trip.

SP, Pussycat gives decent advice with regards to using seeking in communication to a point. The problem is he openly admits that he is chasing barrio (ghetto) girls and acts like a john in soliciting them. He even gives out prices.

When I was in Bogota, I read the forum and no one gave any tips about how to use it. I think I was the first, and that was in 2019. What happened is that most of the women I met had never met any guy from the site. Time and again, I would meet the women, talk to them, they would get excited about being a sugar baby and fuck me without any mention of price. Soon after, I realized the times where no price was mentioned was way better than women who wanted a set price.

All in all, the better value for sex in Bogota were working girls. On average, these women were better in bed and better looking than the seeking girls. Pussycat says you cannot compare a 2 hour GFE versus a street walker but the SW will give you GFE and travel with you to your hotel if the money is right, and the money often would be the same or less as he was offering.

He even says the women he sought out were probably on other sites and that he pursued regular girls not models. Well, I wanted models, ones that were great in bed and would not dream of being on other sites.

Bogota has a numbering system of strata 1 to 6. The best neighborhoods are rated 6. See the link: https://www.colture.co/bogota/tips/t...m-in-colombia/.

Half the people are in strata 1 and 2. What does it mean if you get a girl from there? Think Harlem, Watts, or South side of Chicago. So would you expect a difference between a girl from the South side of Chicago in comparison to one on Michigan Avenue? That is the difference between 1 versus 6.

That James Bond thing he talked about was directed at me. Thing is I did not wine and dine women. I would meet them for a drink or snack at my hotel for a 30 to 60 minute interview and had on average 3 dates per day. I do not understand where he gets off saying he was fucking 5 X as many women as I did. Quite often, I was all fucked out. The point of my interviewing the women was to put them in the category of not interested, ho, or possible SB material. Thing is that I never would consider a SB if she was horrible in bed so they had to pass that part as well.

Point is that Pussycat has a great guide for getting the most women off seeking. I am not sure that is a great value though considering how cheap and easy you can find working girls, and he even alludes to that. I was interested in the best women though not the most women so use my methods if that is what you are interested in.

[Steve 9696]

I am so glad I kicked Sarah to the curb because next night another Cambodian hottie crossed my path and this girl is soooo my type. Prob not the 9 that Sarah is. But an 8 with a 9 personality will win any day. And damn she slays me. She's like textbook less pretty but actually more attractive to me, if that makes sense. Here's the full debrief!

And I violated a ton of my Seeking rules with this girl. And yet it's on. And it's magic! So happy.

She showed up on SA a couple days ago and looked super cute and sassy. A Cambodian pocket rocket and right up my alley. And of all things 23 with a nose ring which has proven the largest tell of great things to come (go figure!

Our first date was early evening and some nice Thai food. For some reason going in I was pretty sure I shouldn't push for first date sex so I didn't. But when I arrived I was done for. Such a cute face. Totally my type. And bubbly and chatty and pretty much my dream girl. So I am definitely more in my head about not fucking it up than usual.

We vibe super well and have a really great time. Dinner is winding down but I don't want it to end and apparently neither does she. So we bounce to another bar and have more fun. Pretty much a great date. Other than no sex. But the vibe is clearly there.

So we meetup again the next night and I am def going to try to take it to the bedroom. Bear in mind that I have not used my usual patter to establish sex. And we have not discussed any figures. So going in blind here. Plus she doesn't drink sooooo really in new territory here.

We have a nice dinner and she brings up prior arrangements towards the end and we talk about the good and bad but never broach specifics. I am just getting so into this girl, eventually I ask if she wants to spend some private time together and she says sure. She says yes but maybe not tonight I came straight from work. No makeup. My hairs a wreck. Fortunately my charm kicks in hard and I say babe you look amazing. Don't worry about it.

She says OK if she can shower first and fix her hair. Of course I am down and moments later we are in the room together. (I had not booked ahead) She heads into the shower and I take off my shirt. After she's in for a bit I notice the door is open. I want to wash my hands anyhow since I'm planning to have my fingers inside her shortly. LOL. So when I step in I say "want some company?" and she says sure. What a great girl.

In the shower it's a great start. Hugging under the water and kissing. First quite tentative but then the tongues come out and it's full on DFK. She's not just sensual but a fun kisser. We will suck on tongues or lips or bite playfully and we establish a very sexy kissing vibe that continues throughout the date.

Back in the bed we start a bit slow but I like it. Lots of sexy kissing. Eventually I push her on her back and start sucking her nice bee cup tits and heavily sucking her nipples. Oooooh she loves this! Cooing and moaning and starting to squirm. I wonder if it's a bit fake or a put on. But when I reach down between her legs no lie the wettest girl I've even been with. She is completely soaked inside and outside I am slathering pussy juice everywhere as I start to finger her.

There is no fake with this girl. She loves a finger fucking and gspot work. She works her own clit while I finger fuck with the two middle fingers. She is gettting very loud in that very Asian way with squeals and squeeks and damn it makes me horny.

I maneuver into Steve 2 position, continuing to finger but putting my dick in her mouth. OMG I love that. She does a nice BJ. Mostly In and out but takes it deep and some shaft licking. No BLS but we can do that next time. Honestly I almost cum because her sloppy wet pussy is just killing me. But I suggest we suit up.

She was cold after the shower so I tell her to start on top to get warm. And boy does she. She fucks the hell out of her boy-toy and has two apparent orgasms. One in regular Cowgirl and then one in Asian Cowgirl. She's very vocal and appreciative! Again you can't fake that wetness so pretty sure this was the real deal. She's just a mess.

I think about having her finish me by mouth but we will save that for another day I want to make out in Mish. So we flip over to mish and I start a good rhythm. We fuck for a while and she starts building again and that is getting me going and eventually we have a joint shaking shattering O. Wow. Super nice.

Lots of cuddling and just a mutual admiration afterglow. We def awesome together.

A day later we started the "hey we should figure out the arrangement" discussion. Hopefully she won't hurt me too bad because I've been super transparent about how much I dig her. I'll let you know how it goes.

One more 23 year old nose ringed SB for me. Its a thing. I swear!

[The Cane]

Keep going mate I've been on SA now 5 years and it's absolutely crazy, I've fucked some of the finest and tightest pussy around. All I do is respect the girl, treat her like a princess and she becomes the ***** in the bed. It's rocking on SA my friend.

You got that right! If you're a man and you want to be fucking the finest pussy around, then money talks and bullshit walks! I wish I had learned this lesson much, much younger in life, but I didn't have any experienced and knowledgeable male mentors. Fuck girls being "sugar and spice and everything nice"! That's some bullshit, and that walks (except the sugar part haha). Money is the world's greatest aphrodisiac! I have a second meet and greet planned for next week. A Latina! So, one white girl and one Hispanic girl. Yay-uh!

[Alex7J]

Damn. I have been blessed with so many 23 year old hotties my world view has changed.

Went to dinner with my wife. But couldn't help notice the gorgeous couple a table away. He's a built guy with a the'Artagnan mustache and beard and amazing flowing hair. Super handsome dude. And his date is a gorgeous brunette spinner wearing a mini dress with neglige top and thigh high boots. Both 22-23 I'the say. The perfect couple.

A few years ago I would have thought oh what a perfect couple. Ah, the splendors of youth!

Instead I'm thinking why are you there with this loser. He's only going to fuck you for 20 seconds and then cum and get a beer from the fridge. You should be riding me till the cows come home!

Hahaha I have a whole new perspective since SA!

True and agree my friend, SA has changed the perspective of life.

Life is so simple and different now we are banging hot 20-25 year old chicas.

It's absolutely amazing.

[Alex7J]

After being on SA for just a short while, I have a few observations to make. First of all, I don't know about anywhere else, but in my town, there are some damn fine ass black girls on that site! I'm talking smoking! And I'm not even into black girls that much. Brother Steve, if this is what you been fucking, then man I can see why you are one happy man. I got to take my hat off to you. Just damn! Second, there is a plenty of what I like the most too. And that would be young, blonde, white, and tight! I haven't had a full membership for even a whole week yet, and already I have my first meet and greet set up with a real cutie! Wow! We've already exchanged photos, been on the phone, and everything! And she knows I'm not looking for just "platonic".

I mean, am I in a dream? I thought I could have some success with this thing, but not like this so fast! I mean, she's almost too good to be true! And you know what they say about that. I'm trying not to look a gift horse in the mouth here! And third, it seems that no matter how successful a woman becomes, she still holds onto that innate need to be taken care of by a man. Women's lib, the Equal Rights Amendment, Me Too, and all of it. And yet. They still want a guy who pays for everything! At some point, I will provide a full accounting of my SA experience. But for right now, there hasn't been enough that has transpired yet. I've been giving Steve a full blow-by-blow, and he has provided me with some valuable tips behind the scenes to help my cause. Let's see where this goes.

Keep going mate I've been on SA now 5 years and it's absolutely crazy, I've fucked some of the finest and tightest pussy around.

All I do is respect the girl, treat her like a princess and she becomes the ***** in the bed.

It's rocking on SA my friend.

[Alex7J]

SA is great, but as all of us of said it takes a lot of Hard work and time. SA works great in Latin America and Europe, not so well in the states. Still good, but you need to be very careful, there are a lot of scams.

For Latin America there is nothing like SA, I've fucked in Mexico, Cancun and CDMX, Honduras, Nicaragua, Panama and even in SA Venezuala and the pussy was top notch everywhere. Even in Venezuala the SA pussy was crazy, I must have fucked 4 or 5 girls and even my host was surprised how come it's my first time in Venezuala and I have these hot, super hot women with me.

Then in Nicaragua this girl took me deep inside the jungle by a boat to do a Shaman, no phone no internet and 3 days only in the jungle with meditation, pure food and this magic potion by the priest and pure raw sex with my girl, my dick was up every 2 hours and we made love in the jungle huts and on a full moon night. Gosh it's crazy and absolutely amazing my life has changed completely.

No more Viagra, CIALIS original or Generic, no headache no loose motions to enjoy sex.

It's an absolute game changer, just it's no taste, I don't know how to express myself but it's 100 % natural and gives me energy and keeps my little fella Strong and Hard and even has made it thicker.

Never knew how life changes in these unusual places.

But it's all due to SA and I must thank the guy who made it.

Cheers.

Peace.

Ciao.

[Alex7J]

That was the best decision. Guys like us have had so much pussy that we're far beyond fucking just for the sake of fucking. She's fine. And still by her damn self. Now you know why.

I agree 1000 % on this. SA is the best fit I feel to men like us.

[Blue Swede]

Please tell me how you keep any kind of communication line open for an entire year before you finally get them out of the bag? They blow me off once or twice I'm done with them. One or two unreturned voice-mails or texts and I'm done.

I got in contact with a girl in Berlin prior to a trip there (I live in Sweden). It was about two years ago and before Corona happended.

As you might guess, corona happened and all travel was cancelled. I told her and we kept messaging, exchanging Christmas greetings and so on.

Then it was a period of no contact up to this autumn.

I contacted here and told her I am finally coming to Berlin!. The reply was: "Funny you contacted me now, I haven't met anyone from SA in more than a year! I have a new job now, as a CFO" After some discussion, she texted, "but maybe you can convince me?" .

Long story short, we met in Berlin, and had a great time! We will met again for sure.

[Steve 9696]

Please tell me how you keep any kind of communication line open for an entire year before you finally get them out of the bag? They blow me off once or twice I'm done with them. One or two unreturned voice-mails or texts and I'm done.

To be clear this was a girl I met up. Not someone that was just a prospect. It's def not unusual to have a one night sex girl and then chat for a year and see her again. I've done that several times. What was unusual here was just a date and no sex.

The reason I kept it going is because it seemed promising. We had talked very openly about our favorite sex positions, clit or gspot, and other things I don't usually do. We were super comfortable over text she even sent me a video of her with her vibrator. And because she's a legit 9 and those are like unicorns where I live.

So it made sense. I'm really surprised the in-person didn't go so well (from my perspective) but I since had a date with my dream girl (again violating my must-have-sex on first date rule so maybe I fucked it up) so right now I'm all about her.