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03-06-21 00:41 #1555
Posts: 53Originally Posted by LivingFossil [View Original Post]
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03-05-21 20:26 #1554
Posts: 169How to pay for SA anonymously?
Mongers,
I have never used SA but would like to give it a chance, however I see a problem. I do not want to put my real name into this site to get premium and they only take CC it seems. Any suggestions?
AshleyMadison and other sites have been hacked and your information can be leaked. Yea I am the nervous type. Thanks.
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03-05-21 02:03 #1553
Posts: 42Originally Posted by TonyMontanaaO7 [View Original Post]
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03-03-21 18:21 #1552
Posts: 3234Originally Posted by DramaFree11 [View Original Post]
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03-03-21 15:55 #1551
Posts: 2712My Colombiana Bartender
Originally Posted by CarloRogue [View Original Post]
We are chatting nightly and she is plenty fiirty and open. She is clearly a bar tender at where she says she is because she knows things about that you wouldn't normally know. She's not a catfish for sure. Really open with dropping a current no makeup selfie if it's relevant to the chat. And fuck she looks great even no makeup.
She seems a bit too good to be true so keeping eyes and options open. But so far just a bundle of fun (very quick witted) and very optimistic. I've found some real gems so hoping she is one.
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03-03-21 13:01 #1550
Posts: 2794Originally Posted by Elvis2008 [View Original Post]
Elvis I hope your trip goes well.
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03-03-21 12:57 #1549
Posts: 2794Originally Posted by Elvis2008 [View Original Post]
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03-03-21 02:33 #1548
Posts: 53Originally Posted by Elvis2008 [View Original Post]
"Luv", "Hon": it's been observed many times that these terms are not typically used by your girl next door on the first message with a stranger.
Regular and / or advanced payments: yep, just don't do it, unless you like being taken for granted.
Bartenders: they're fun, they're social, everybody loves them, their cell phone is blowing up all day / all night. It's hard for them to keep up with all the attention, so don't take it personally when they don't get back to you right away. Or ever again.
Now of course, YMMV. But it probably won't.
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03-02-21 19:37 #1547
Posts: 3234Originally Posted by Steve9696 [View Original Post]
Every second after she got that money, she was angling for more. Halfway into the month, there was just a straw that broke the camel's back, and I was like "Fuck it, I am out. " She called me back a few years later, I saw her and fucked her at her place which was very nice. She claimed to have a job and then I realized she did not. She hooked up with a guy, sucked him dry, and he put up with her longer than I did. I think they lived together, and she bought him tons of things, and then when she turned him down, he lost it and hit her, and she got him kicked out of their place. Seeing what she did with him sealed it for me, and I never saw her again. The notion that she is a victim in today's society just makes me sick. She is and was a blood sucker.
So when I told women that is why I never paid monthly, they never pushed it. People have said that paying by the month makes women feel more like working girls, and my response to that is I do not care. I am not going to be suckered like that again. Paying in advance is almost always a bad idea.
As for her offering you a lower bargain rate, that goes against the natural order as well. For women, there is less fear factor with the known and so I saw they would take less as I got to know them better. Also, usually with men, the pleasure goes down after the first and second meeting with a woman so the value is less as well. I would usually start higher and then go lower especially if the women were not performing as well.
As for a bartender, I am assuming she works here and is from Colombia. Maybe there is a female bartender that is not a flake or drunk, but I cannot recall meeting and getting to know one that is not.
My last SB found herself in that field. She is stunning but more than that she is a health nut and gives off this healthy woman, therapist vibe. So we go out to eat at some sub shop like Subway, and she is asked by staff how she is doing and she says, "Fine, how are you?" Time and again, people would go over all their problems with her for like 15 minutes even if it meant holding up the line. It was bizarre.
The real irony and one of the reasons she liked me so much is that I knew she was bipolar and I really got what that entailed. So often after one of these therapy sessions, we would head back to my place, and she would say, "Elvis, I want to kill myself. I am thinking about slashing my wrists", and I would have to soothe her and talk her out of it.
I am not sure that is what a typical female bartender is. Great listening, problem solving, sweet, chaste woman at the bar and wrist slashing sugar baby in private, but I do not think that is really so much of an exception for bartenders.
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03-02-21 18:19 #1546
Posts: 2712Yeah Yup Yes
Originally Posted by Elvis2008 [View Original Post]
I'm kinda fixated on one girl now who is super hot Colombiana bar tender and super sweet as well. For allowance she just said "we can start with something small and increase as our relationship grows. Whatever you are comfortable with I wouldn't want to impose".
Is that cool? Or is there a hammer about to fall on me? Most girls just state their price. Two have given me that sort of line. Any advice. Push on it or just deal in person after sex?
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03-02-21 03:27 #1545
Posts: 3234Originally Posted by Steve9696 [View Original Post]
That breaks my heart. You have to come meet me and Dramafree in Monterrey and I will introduce you to women who will blow your socks off for 20% of that amount. I have two very nice women I can hand off to you, and Steve, they are beautiful and they are not your typical American screwups. Monterrey is an hour and a half flight from Dallas or Houston, so I think you can hit it in almost four hours from anywhere in the USA.
I have guys I am going to meet going to Colombia in a few weeks and others wanting to go to Brazil in the summer. I hope you consider saving up and going with us.
I have a trip planned with Flo and Nancy for four days, and it is going to cost a little above that $700 to $1000 mark, and it is with two women for four days. $1000 for a meet? Fuck that place, dude.
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03-01-21 18:18 #1544
Posts: 2712Musings and Advice
So I am hopefully traveling soon and have embarked on a search. A few thoughts and or advice as I start here on a new city.
Hun and Love. I've noticed a few girls I am in contact with calling me hun or hunny or love. In the past I've associated those terms with hookers. Just based on prior experience. And maybe it doesn't even matter. But what's your experience there. Are these code words for I am a pro? Or am I reading too much into it.
Directness. Recently when I was engaging with girls and getting offers of $700 and $1000 - not kidding — I was pretty bummed. I just started casting a wider net with a pre canned message of "I'm coming to xxx on yyy and going to have dinner and drinks and more, depending on chemistry with some awesome girl. Maybe that's you? Let's chat" And got a lot of responses from very good prospects. It cut thru a bunch of the BS back and forth. I was surprised at how easy that was for an opener.
Directness 2. I had recently analyzed what my favorite SBs all have in common. So once I started texting a girl I just said it outright. That the girls I really like are all Xxx yyy zzz and love to kiss. That last one rather sexualizes the interaction and frankly it's true — if she doesn't love to kiss then she's not for me. And again surprised at how this directness works. Like pretty much everyone I had engaged to that level was like "yep that's me".
So I am continually learning!
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02-22-21 14:27 #1543
Posts: 3234Originally Posted by HelloIm [View Original Post]
In Monterrey, Mexico, I used SA and got six women, five were BBFS. In Colombia, there was one hooker that allowed semi bare back. She would dip it in and then out, but I could not tip enough to get hookers to do BBFS. With SA in Colombia, I eventually went bare with all the women.
The Colombian government scares the women not going bare. By the way, the plan be birth control, one pill after sex is better protection against pregnancy than condoms, is over the counter and cheap in Colombia. It is a good place to load up. That drug is levonorgestrel and you give the woman 1500 MG one time after sex. It officially lasts 3 days but unofficially lasts 5 days.
Originally Posted by HelloIm [View Original Post]
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02-22-21 08:55 #1542
Posts: 218Originally Posted by GuyBrusg1957 [View Original Post]
Seekingarrangement.
Seekingarrangements.
With dot com ending, all takes me to seeking dot com, which is the site discussed as SA.
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02-22-21 04:09 #1541
Posts: 2712Yes and Alcohol!
Originally Posted by Midwestern [View Original Post]
And alcohol is KEY with newbies. I guarantee several of the deals I closed were socially lubricated. No regrets either way we both knew what we were doing but it all flows so much easier just like in real life. Actually my most recent date we had good text but mostly she's beautiful so we met up. In person she was really shy and awkward looking away, not knowing how to act. But after a good solid drink (followed by more) she lost her guard and we really had a blast. By the end she was feeding me from her plate off her fork and ended up putting her foot up on my knee to massage her calf. Clearly if we had more time this woulda been a done deal (long story) but we parted with a kiss (which she later apologized for being awkward and lame) and will hopefully seal the deal later this week.