Seeking Arrangements

[LeyenLouvain]

There are no fake profiles on the site, they have a fairly large team that weeds them out. Every new member request is checked manually by a person

Thank you for posting. Do they do any verification on the man. Location / salary / age / photo / Facebook / Linkedin?

I might be tempted to use a lookalike photo, incorrect date of birth, incorrect location so wouldn't want them to check these things.

[Midwestern]

My 2 cents based on recent posts. Yes, prices on SA are high, but you're paying for a real part time GF, not a pro that offers GFE. A lot of SBs will actually be exclusive with you. If you're not into that, then SA is not for you. SD means you're someone who either has money or is willing to splurge, otherwise we are as guilty as the scammer SBs on SA. And I did once give someone 3 k per month. She was worth it for a variety of reasons, and one reason was that she lived alone and so we stayed at her place a lot, which saved me a lot of money. I'm not rich, but NSA boinking a hottie on a regular basis is important to me, so I was willing to give her a huge portion of my disposable income. One way that I can justify it is that I know arrangements don't last too long. Eventually, she broke our arrangement because a surgeon offered her 5 k per month. Finally, many of these gals just want to enjoy the finer things in life, like trips, wining and dining, etc. , and I ended up giving no cash to about half of the SBs that I had relationships with. That said, these "freebie" gals are very hard to find, and eventually they bring drama. Anyway, all of this searching on SA takes a LOT of time, It's almost like a full time job, so I eventually quit. In the states, I now just use rubmaps. Good intel on there for most locations. Is rubmaps still operating or did it get shut down? I haven't been to the states in a couple of years.

[DramaFree11]

There are quite a few thoughts in this post. First surely it is a questionable idea to visit ANYONE right now. But if doing so a true SB who is low volume would be your best bet.

You can't compare value in the US to elsewhere. Value in the US is HORRIBLE. Worst in the world in my experience. I can have a better looking high performing girl in Brazil for 1/4 (or less) US prices.

BUT if you are confined to the US then SA is your best bet. You will get a longer date with a prettier girl than for the same price to a hooker. $400 is pretty standard, tho in the South I have 3 girls I can see for $300. I was able to push the later ones down once I had the first at $300.

Yes the private jet and $3000/ mo is surely rare. But does happen. A friend knows a stripper in Detroit who scored a daddy who flew her everywhere. And Melty who was a great $200 girl in London is currently touring the world clearly as an SB. So some girls do score it but it's rare..

I gave Been using SA with mixed results. The rates quoted ares correct.

1. Austin / Houston $400-500.

2. San Antonio prices are more reasonable $300-350, now that I am Austin full time San Antonio is only 1:15 drive so I have been started meeting more girls. You would think Austin would be better, but I have had much better luck in San Antonio and the girls usually better looking, makes no sense, but true. I hate Houston so I just go there for work and do not mess with those girls anymore.

I was shocked, but there are multiple guys that pay the $300-500 for PPM and there is no sex involved, not for me. Many girls have confirmed this, but those arrangements just last for a few months, from what they say. Crazy!

There are a lot of girls getting more then $3000, I would say $3000 would be minimum for anything decent. I would pay note, but there would have to be zero drama involved and most of these girls are just not capable of this.

With all this downtime from the Flu I have had a lot of time to reflect on SA. I would say more good then bad, but there is a lot of BS and Scams, but when you find a good arrangement it can be real fun. Also, I have had an issue with a lot of girls being alcoholics or use drugs heavily. This cause a way too much drama. I will probably take a small hit on my income, from the economic downturn, but I will no longer pay more then $400 and probably will be closer to $300. My main issue is I just do not have to travel to Europe, so that is kind of not practical, I just miss too much work. So I will probably use SA to fill in the gaps and stick with Tijuana and MTY.

[Steve 9696]

Been reading up on the public info on SA. I trust the info here. Either they are grossly wrong or they are distorting the numbers. I cannot believe the average SB allowance is 3 K. Plus, the amount ppm is ridiculous. If a SD can afford 3 K / month, that is 36000 a year after taxes. There just aren't that many guys who have that sort of disposable income. And if they did, they would certainly not be trolling on that site. Plus, stories of SB meeting SD who send limos and planes to pick them up are almost laughable. How many Dorian Grey's are out there? Perhaps, that creates an unrealistic expectation from the SBs. I can't imagine a person who is going to hand over 300 just to meet and talk. That does not even include the time and the expensive meals. I'm no cheap Charlie, but if you pay 400-500 per meet, that does not even include a minimum of 100 for a room and maybe another 100 for entertainment. At 700 per meet, that is not particularly good value. I can find some high end escorts in Europe for less with better attitude. I know the SBs say they are not escorts, but their emphasis on money says just the opposite. You can't have it both ways. I suspect there are a lot of desperate SBs out there at this time. Their regulars are not seeing them because they are at home with their wives and not travelling, everything is locked down, and there is no reason to put your health at risk. You have no idea if they have been isolating or seeing others. Simply not worth the risk.

There are quite a few thoughts in this post. First surely it is a questionable idea to visit ANYONE right now. But if doing so a true SB who is low volume would be your best bet.

You can't compare value in the US to elsewhere. Value in the US is HORRIBLE. Worst in the world in my experience. I can have a better looking high performing girl in Brazil for 1/4 (or less) US prices.

BUT if you are confined to the US then SA is your best bet. You will get a longer date with a prettier girl than for the same price to a hooker. $400 is pretty standard, tho in the South I have 3 girls I can see for $300. I was able to push the later ones down once I had the first at $300.

Yes the private jet and $3000/ mo is surely rare. But does happen. A friend knows a stripper in Detroit who scored a daddy who flew her everywhere. And Melty who was a great $200 girl in London is currently touring the world clearly as an SB. So some girls do score it but it's rare.

On the $300 for platonic yeah it seems a stretch but I know a girl who's been doing dinners and getting gifts all with no sex. This won't last I don't think. She also walks on a guy for $200. He drives 4 hours to see her. LOL. No sex. So some "odd" arrangements do exist. Tho clearly the exception.

[EmpireBurns]

It's a YMMV type of situation for sugar babies too. Some of these girls are worth the 3 K + but they prioritize instant gratification, so we do too. Some aren't but hey, they can all be princesses if they believe.

So I also don't believe in the average allowance stated, but there are still girls on another level who are smart enough to be patient and know how to make their way into a man's heart (read as bank account).

Been reading up on the public info on SA. I trust the info here. Either they are grossly wrong or they are distorting the numbers. I cannot believe the average SB allowance is 3 K. Plus, the amount ppm is ridiculous. If a SD can afford 3 K / month, that is 36000 a year after taxes. There just aren't that many guys who have that sort of disposable income. And if they did, they would certainly not be trolling on that site. Plus, stories of SB meeting SD who send limos and planes to pick them up are almost laughable. How many Dorian Grey's are out there? Perhaps, that creates an unrealistic expectation from the SBs. I can't imagine a person who is going to hand over 300 just to meet and talk. That does not even include the time and the expensive meals. I'm no cheap Charlie, but if you pay 400-500 per meet, that does not even include a minimum of 100 for a room and maybe another 100 for entertainment. At 700 per meet, that is not particularly good value. I can find some high end escorts in Europe for less with better attitude. I know the SBs say they are not escorts, but their emphasis on money says just the opposite. You can't have it both ways. I suspect there are a lot of desperate SBs out there at this time. Their regulars are not seeing them because they are at home with their wives and not travelling, everything is locked down, and there is no reason to put your health at risk. You have no idea if they have been isolating or seeing others. Simply not worth the risk.

[Akibono]

They are on SA, and they are the most hassle free. At least 5 of the two dozen gals that I had relations with on SA were in their 40's. They were all fantastic in the sack, 3 of them had great big fake boobs, and they were all also great fun to hang out with because they were closer to my age.

Been reading up on the public info on SA. I trust the info here. Either they are grossly wrong or they are distorting the numbers. I cannot believe the average SB allowance is 3 K. Plus, the amount ppm is ridiculous. If a SD can afford 3 K / month, that is 36000 a year after taxes. There just aren't that many guys who have that sort of disposable income. And if they did, they would certainly not be trolling on that site. Plus, stories of SB meeting SD who send limos and planes to pick them up are almost laughable. How many Dorian Grey's are out there? Perhaps, that creates an unrealistic expectation from the SBs. I can't imagine a person who is going to hand over 300 just to meet and talk. That does not even include the time and the expensive meals. I'm no cheap Charlie, but if you pay 400-500 per meet, that does not even include a minimum of 100 for a room and maybe another 100 for entertainment. At 700 per meet, that is not particularly good value. I can find some high end escorts in Europe for less with better attitude. I know the SBs say they are not escorts, but their emphasis on money says just the opposite. You can't have it both ways. I suspect there are a lot of desperate SBs out there at this time. Their regulars are not seeing them because they are at home with their wives and not travelling, everything is locked down, and there is no reason to put your health at risk. You have no idea if they have been isolating or seeing others. Simply not worth the risk.

[Midwestern]

You left out one group. That would be the 40+ women. Ready to drop them panties and throw them legs wide open again! Hahaha! Don't know how many 40+ women are on SA. But, I'm just saying in general LOL! Plenty of 40+ women trying to make up for "lost time" and ready to be more sexually liberated.

They are on SA, and they are the most hassle free. At least 5 of the two dozen gals that I had relations with on SA were in their 40's. They were all fantastic in the sack, 3 of them had great big fake boobs, and they were all also great fun to hang out with because they were closer to my age.

[The Cane]

While YMMV and you can surely find a gem in most age groups if you look hard enough, the following is conventional wisdom followed by my experience.

Flow of girl to woman -.

Early 20's. Very open. Experimental. Trying new things.

Late twenties. Prepping for marriage. Maybe regret? More careful.

Early thirties. Totally not open for anything. Ready to settle.

Late thirties. May open back up but with possible mommy baggage.

You left out one group. That would be the 40+ women. Ready to drop them panties and throw them legs wide open again! Hahaha! Don't know how many 40+ women are on SA. But, I'm just saying in general LOL! Plenty of 40+ women trying to make up for "lost time" and ready to be more sexually liberated.

[Steve 9696]

While YMMV and you can surely find a gem in most age groups if you look hard enough, the following is conventional wisdom followed by my experience.

Flow of girl to woman -.

Early 20's. Very open. Experimental. Trying new things.

Late twenties. Prepping for marriage. Maybe regret? More careful.

Early thirties. Totally not open for anything. Ready to settle.

Late thirties. May open back up but with possible mommy baggage.

This has been spot on with my experience:

22-24 is the sweet spot. Had more 23 and 24 year olds than all other ages combined.

19-21 is open to the idea but too flaky. Last minute cancellation and flake outs.

Only had 2 over 24 success. All others were fails.

Oh and fail means no SNL (single night lay). My exact results since June are:

Success: 23, 23, 26, 21, 23, 24, 23, 23, 24, 27, 24, 23, 21, 24, 23, 23
Fail: 26, 32, 34

Anyhow hope this helps someone!

[Midwestern]

How often does the person not match their photos? Any other things to worry about?

I was actively on SA for about 18 months. Met almost 100 gals. No one used a fake pic, but almost everyone used their best pic that was often photoshopped, and so prepare to be a little disappointed when you meet them in person.

[Akibono]

How often does the person not match their photos? Any other things to worry about?

[SavePros321]

Almost all of my SA dates later told me that they had a friend who had their back during our date (for example, their friend was close by, to make sure she was safe).

Oh, you mean Jaquan and his goon squad, LOL?

Guys, all I am asking is for dudes to not be so desperate for female companionship that you bury your head in the sand and toss aside all sensibilities. Remember, when Backpage and Craigslist shut down, pimps didn't all of a sudden decide they no longer need to eat. Seeking Arrangement is very much a Pay for Play website that managed to dodge getting shut down by the Feds. Why would they not take advantage of this and flood the zone with the girls they control?

An added bonus? Men are all posting their net worth on the website for everyone to see. Even more? The John has multiple photos of his silly grinning face posted as well!

Said the Cop to the Robber: "Why did you rob the bank?

Robber: "Because that's where the money is!

[Midwestern]

At SavePros321,

In addition to what Steve said, it's possible the gal was texting a friend who was worried about her meeting a stranger. Almost all of my SA dates later told me that they had a friend who had their back during our date (for example, their friend was close by, to make sure she was safe). I kinda did the same. When I went to a gal's place, I took a picture of the address and sent it to a friend, in case I disappeared without checking back in. And my first dates were always in a crowded place on purpose. Anyway, your post is also valuable, as it's a fair warning. We all should be on guard, that's for sure. To any noob to SA, definitely read this entire thread. It won't take longer than 30 minutes to obtain the experience of our collective years on SA.

[Steve 9696]

See the attached photo where I got myself into a situation that I had no idea of how to escape.

More on that in just a minute.

I know this is an international site, but most guys forget the distinction. What happens in Europe on SA will not work the same in the US. Prostitution is 100% illegal in the US, and most of the scammers and robbing crews on these SB websites are banking on the fact that you will not go to the authorities should they catch you slipping and set you up. I mean, it's illegal right? How much sympathy would you expect the cops to have for you?

Another thing guys fail to realize about SB websites is that you and the female are diametrically opposed:

-Her goal is to get as much out of you as possible without having to do anything for it. Let alone have sex! Most of them would love for you to Cash App them money without them ever having to meet you in person.

-Your goal is to get sex from her without shelling out a bunch of money on gifts and useless dinner dates just to finally get to bang her. Kinda sounds exactly like regular dating, right?

For the REAL SBs on those websites, they basically want a guy that would be someone they would see being someone they would actually be in a boyfriend / girlfriend relationship with, with the added benefit of this person giving them money. Think the Billionaire character in the 50 Shades of Gray movie who has the three 6's all women want: 6-pack, 6-feet tall, 6-figures.

A fat slob that wants to give her money for her honey? "I'm not a pr0 stitut3!

Back to my story.

My main protocol on SA is to never ever agree to meet with any female on SA without FIRST video chatting with her either via FaceTime, Google Hangouts, or Duo because I do not post any photos that show my face (I am also not going to send Snaps via Snapchat back and forth, the conversation has to be in real-time). This cuts down significantly on scammers who are using fake profiles and pretending to be the females in the photos to dupe suckers into sending photos of themselves (yes, there are gangs on those sites profiling "Whales". More on that later).

I only discuss monetary "help" and potential meeting dates / times / locations via video chat, and this has always been fool-proof. Until it isn't.

The broad in the text messaging screenshot attached: We video chat and she seems to be at home alone at the time. Works a normal job and we schedule a time to meet around her work schedule.

(Also key: always try to do these meetings during the early daylight hours, as you will see why in a minute).

We agree to meet at a Starbucks in my area (a very nice part of town).

I get there early and pick a spot in the back of the place near the restrooms. Closer to the meeting time for her to arrive, I look towards the front of the store and there are a handful of Latino males and females pacing out front. They caught my attention so quickly because the looked very much out of place there. One of the younger guys is looking into the store from outside and we lock eyes. They eventually come into the store and go to the counter. The males are paired up with the females and it is made to look like they are all on a date. They sit at a long table not too far from where I was positioned.

I then get a text from the girl I am supposed to be meeting and she says "I'm here". I then reply "I'm inside".

She then texts back the following:

"he said he's inside".

"Wrong person".

"Sorry I didn't mean to send that".

I then freeze the fuck up. "Damn, what's my next move?

100% sure at this point that the Latino crew is with the chick I am supposed to meet (she was a latina). I then get on my cell phone and pretend to be talking to someone. The girl I am meeting finally comes in and walks over to me and sits, looking hella embarrassed by the fact that she's given up the game.

"Who were you talking to?" I say. She replies "I didn't mean to send that. " And that's it. Since again I am certain she is with the young Latino crew, something in my mind tells me to remove this chick from the situation. I immediately get up and say "there's too many people in here. LE't go for a walk" and start to head for the door. She follows promptly behind me.

To shorten this story up a bit, we walk on the strip of this Starbucks and I talk to her as if we are still trying to determine when would be good day and time for her to come over and how much she wanted for it. But I knew I was going to block this scamming h03's number as soon as I could get clear of her. Good thing working in my favor was that she nor they had any idea what I drove there in since I arrived super early (and she was late).

We come back from a bit down the sidewalk of the main street and I stop in front of a BBQ joint that is also on the same strip but a but further down. I tell her "cool, I'll hit you up and we can talk more as we get closer to the date of us meeting. " I give her a hug and then tell her "I'm going to get some lunch!" And then I disappear into the BBQ joint.

Now at this point I am still trying to plot my escape. I had no idea if the Latinos where watching from Starbucks or not. From the restaurant I stand inside and look at my phone like I am waiting on a friend to arrive. I see the scammer girl get into her car and leave, and I keep my eyes on the Starbucks from the restaurant. A little bit later I see the young Latino group all leave out of Starbucks and start to head in the direction of the restaurant. They pause about halfway, linger for a bit, and then go back into the Starbucks. At this point I haul ass to my car, jump in, put it in gear, roll quickly out of the parking lot and blow through the red light.

Just in case I was being tailed, I went out of my way to make wild, sudden turns onto new streets, bust you-turns, and take a much longer route back to my place.

Parting advice for newbs:

Never EVER show your face on those SB websites. All of my photos on Seeking Arrangements have my face blurred or blacked out. Some of those SB websites will not let you hide your face; I would not use those sites at all. You are setting yourself up to be robbed once the robbing crews know what "Big Bank Hank" looks like. Remember how escorts used to hide their faces on Backpage or Craigslist? YOU are the prize on the SB sites. You need to do the same.

Also, never EVER agree to meet a female in person unless you video chat via FaceTime or Google Hangouts or Duo FIRST. Obviously it does not save you from scammers 100% of the time as I have demonstrated in the above story, but my experience has been that it filters out a lot of chaff. Any chick that runs away when you tell them to video chat with you first is 100% a scam chick or not the chick in the photos.

If they ask me to send a photo, I tell them video chat only. Do not send a photo of yourself! I would say at least 85% of the younger female profiles who are less than 25 yrs old are probably Pookie's or Paco's trying to see if you are stupid enough to give away as much personal details about yourself as possible in order for them to figure out where you live and what you drive.

And don't be so much of a chump that you would send money to a chick you've never met in person! I have had females on SA tell me that they need to be compensated to talk to me via video chat or for meeting me in person. If a chick tells you she needs to be compensated for meeting you or talking with you via video chat to determine if the two of you could potentially help one another out, tell that h0 e to get lost!

Hope someone out there gets value from this post and use it to avoid getting got.

Look I am sorry you had a scary experience. But using that one experience to paint all of SA is just wrong. The one good piece of advice in the above is never send money. Any girl who asks for money upfront instant block. The rest of it will assure you a horrible SA experience. You do not need to video chat. You don't need to meet in a Starbucks, unless you want to guarantee you won't be laid that day.

I've done 17 US based SA since June and none have been anything other than nice girls, except for one that I knew was a straight up hooker from our interactions. And her only problem was she was late and lazy. Of course I had screened out any scammers and cash girls. I don't doubt that it CAN happen; but I think the chances are very very low.

I am sure others here who have been using it successfully will agree.

Oh and I do agree with u though that real SA girls are not willing to fuck a fat slob for money. In fact the moment it smells vaguely like sex for money u are done. You have to have at least decent looks and some game if u wanna close the hotties and they wont meet u without a pic. I would never post on SA but will text an unsearchable pic after we are comfy.

[SavePros321]

What do you think are some risks I am not aware of? I am single so I am not worried about them knowing my name, but I am a bit concerned about my car since plates can easily be traced. Don't want strangers showing up at my place. Not cool.

See the attached photo where I got myself into a situation that I had no idea of how to escape.

More on that in just a minute.

I know this is an international site, but most guys forget the distinction. What happens in Europe on SA will not work the same in the US. Prostitution is 100% illegal in the US, and most of the scammers and robbing crews on these SB websites are banking on the fact that you will not go to the authorities should they catch you slipping and set you up. I mean, it's illegal right? How much sympathy would you expect the cops to have for you?

Another thing guys fail to realize about SB websites is that you and the female are diametrically opposed:

-Her goal is to get as much out of you as possible without having to do anything for it. Let alone have sex! Most of them would love for you to Cash App them money without them ever having to meet you in person.

-Your goal is to get sex from her without shelling out a bunch of money on gifts and useless dinner dates just to finally get to bang her. Kinda sounds exactly like regular dating, right?

For the REAL SBs on those websites, they basically want a guy that would be someone they would see being someone they would actually be in a boyfriend / girlfriend relationship with, with the added benefit of this person giving them money. Think the Billionaire character in the 50 Shades of Gray movie who has the three 6's all women want: 6-pack, 6-feet tall, 6-figures.

A fat slob that wants to give her money for her honey? "I'm not a pr0 stitut3!

Back to my story.

My main protocol on SA is to never ever agree to meet with any female on SA without FIRST video chatting with her either via FaceTime, Google Hangouts, or Duo because I do not post any photos that show my face (I am also not going to send Snaps via Snapchat back and forth, the conversation has to be in real-time). This cuts down significantly on scammers who are using fake profiles and pretending to be the females in the photos to dupe suckers into sending photos of themselves (yes, there are gangs on those sites profiling "Whales". More on that later).

I only discuss monetary "help" and potential meeting dates / times / locations via video chat, and this has always been fool-proof. Until it isn't.

The broad in the text messaging screenshot attached: We video chat and she seems to be at home alone at the time. Works a normal job and we schedule a time to meet around her work schedule.

(Also key: always try to do these meetings during the early daylight hours, as you will see why in a minute).

We agree to meet at a Starbucks in my area (a very nice part of town).

I get there early and pick a spot in the back of the place near the restrooms. Closer to the meeting time for her to arrive, I look towards the front of the store and there are a handful of Latino males and females pacing out front. They caught my attention so quickly because the looked very much out of place there. One of the younger guys is looking into the store from outside and we lock eyes. They eventually come into the store and go to the counter. The males are paired up with the females and it is made to look like they are all on a date. They sit at a long table not too far from where I was positioned.

I then get a text from the girl I am supposed to be meeting and she says "I'm here". I then reply "I'm inside".

She then texts back the following:

"he said he's inside".

"Wrong person".

"Sorry I didn't mean to send that".

I then freeze the fuck up. "Damn, what's my next move?

100% sure at this point that the Latino crew is with the chick I am supposed to meet (she was a latina). I then get on my cell phone and pretend to be talking to someone. The girl I am meeting finally comes in and walks over to me and sits, looking hella embarrassed by the fact that she's given up the game.

"Who were you talking to?" I say. She replies "I didn't mean to send that. " And that's it. Since again I am certain she is with the young Latino crew, something in my mind tells me to remove this chick from the situation. I immediately get up and say "there's too many people in here. LE't go for a walk" and start to head for the door. She follows promptly behind me.

To shorten this story up a bit, we walk on the strip of this Starbucks and I talk to her as if we are still trying to determine when would be good day and time for her to come over and how much she wanted for it. But I knew I was going to block this scamming h03's number as soon as I could get clear of her. Good thing working in my favor was that she nor they had any idea what I drove there in since I arrived super early (and she was late).

We come back from a bit down the sidewalk of the main street and I stop in front of a BBQ joint that is also on the same strip but a but further down. I tell her "cool, I'll hit you up and we can talk more as we get closer to the date of us meeting. " I give her a hug and then tell her "I'm going to get some lunch!" And then I disappear into the BBQ joint.

Now at this point I am still trying to plot my escape. I had no idea if the Latinos where watching from Starbucks or not. From the restaurant I stand inside and look at my phone like I am waiting on a friend to arrive. I see the scammer girl get into her car and leave, and I keep my eyes on the Starbucks from the restaurant. A little bit later I see the young Latino group all leave out of Starbucks and start to head in the direction of the restaurant. They pause about halfway, linger for a bit, and then go back into the Starbucks. At this point I haul ass to my car, jump in, put it in gear, roll quickly out of the parking lot and blow through the red light.

Just in case I was being tailed, I went out of my way to make wild, sudden turns onto new streets, bust you-turns, and take a much longer route back to my place.

Parting advice for newbs:

Never EVER show your face on those SB websites. All of my photos on Seeking Arrangements have my face blurred or blacked out. Some of those SB websites will not let you hide your face; I would not use those sites at all. You are setting yourself up to be robbed once the robbing crews know what "Big Bank Hank" looks like. Remember how escorts used to hide their faces on Backpage or Craigslist? YOU are the prize on the SB sites. You need to do the same.

Also, never EVER agree to meet a female in person unless you video chat via FaceTime or Google Hangouts or Duo FIRST. Obviously it does not save you from scammers 100% of the time as I have demonstrated in the above story, but my experience has been that it filters out a lot of chaff. Any chick that runs away when you tell them to video chat with you first is 100% a scam chick or not the chick in the photos.

If they ask me to send a photo, I tell them video chat only. Do not send a photo of yourself! I would say at least 85% of the younger female profiles who are less than 25 yrs old are probably Pookie's or Paco's trying to see if you are stupid enough to give away as much personal details about yourself as possible in order for them to figure out where you live and what you drive.

And don't be so much of a chump that you would send money to a chick you've never met in person! I have had females on SA tell me that they need to be compensated to talk to me via video chat or for meeting me in person. If a chick tells you she needs to be compensated for meeting you or talking with you via video chat to determine if the two of you could potentially help one another out, tell that h0 e to get lost!

Hope someone out there gets value from this post and use it to avoid getting got.